I am, and Im not. Im a jealous and nosey person by nature, so I do wanna know who you've been with and what you've done etc etc... but at the same time I dont wanna know cuz like I said, im jealous. So as you can see, Im in a bit of a weird place. The best thing is, to not know. Ignorance is bliss.
I'm inquisitive by nature too and then I get pi$$ed when I get an honest response... Ah! The beauty of being a woman...
well not much people know that i was almost married ... one of da most special women in my life proposed to me while she was on leave from her work in NYC
but im single again and wont even think about marriage till i got 20G's
1st> i really dont care about my girls past or how many guys shes been with or where they were from.....all that is old news and if we loved eachother then that wouldnt matter
RULE #1 dont get married young ...except if they girls family has $$$$
Are you interested in how many ppl your partner has been with, what stuff they've done, what they've done for a living before, what kind of ppl they hung out with?
Discuss.
I was having this discussion with some friends.
As for me, as long as there isnt a bunch of hijos regados por ahi or that you are on America's Most Wanted, im not really concerned about other stuff.
-- Edited by Colombiana4Life at 12:04, 2008-03-14
Well my mom always taught me that el pasado pasado es, so nope I wouldn't want to know about his past, he is starting a relationship with me so I'll be his present and hopefully his future, now if as time goes by and he wants to tell me me about his past, I guess I will be ok with it.
Are you interested in how many ppl your partner has been with, what stuff they've done, what they've done for a living before, what kind of ppl they hung out with?
Discuss.
I was having this discussion with some friends.
As for me, as long as there isnt a bunch of hijos regados por ahi or that you are on America's Most Wanted, im not really concerned about other stuff.
-- Edited by Colombiana4Life at 12:04, 2008-03-14
Yes, I think it is important to know as much as possible. It is in your best interest to know what you are to expect.
For me, a woman with a significant number of ex-boyfriends and/or ex-husbands is a red flag and a turn off. It makes me wonder about their taste in partners, poor decision making and what they contributed to the failed relationships.
As for past history relating to career, social life and the like, yes this is good to know as well. Ideally your partner should be concerned about their career and has been dedicated in pursuing it. The friends of the past aren't too much of a concern unless they are a bad influence in the present.
The past is a good indicator of what the future will be like. It is difficult for us to change our personalities, habits and feelings without considerable effort and time.
Are you interested in how many ppl your partner has been with, what stuff they've done, what they've done for a living before, what kind of ppl they hung out with?
Discuss.
I was having this discussion with some friends.
As for me, as long as there isnt a bunch of hijos regados por ahi or that you are on America's Most Wanted, im not really concerned about other stuff.
-- Edited by Colombiana4Life at 12:04, 2008-03-14
Mas vale ser feliz que Investigar.
A Credit Report, Background Check and HIV test from her would make life easier.
with all honestly if its a girl im just interested in screwing only i can care less if shes been with more then 4 or 5 guys ....off course there r limits sometimes i think twice before a chic that flat out puts herself on full availability ..chances r shes been around like jenny from the block ;p....
now if its someone who has the potential to be a wifey ..then hell yeah! id like a nice history on her.....cant have been slutty nor sleezy...if shes been with more then 5 guys sorry thats a big nono
as for me wellllllllll im a guy and i live up to that macho way of thinking that we can f*** sleep mess around with whoever!......its normal for us to get away with it
I would wanna know whatever she's willing to offer in information about her past - I don't care to know everything, but important details or things that may affect my life / or our life together as a couple.
I would expect, however, that as time goes on and certain topics may arise about each other's past, that there is honesty and that there is no hidding/lying about the past either. Just be an open book and hope that it's accepted with the new partner in your life.
Ok, but would it be important to know how many ppl she's been with in the past? What race were they?
Would you respect it if she told you she didnt see the relevance of it to the present, to YOUR relationship now?
How many or what race? Yes, if the conversation comes up, be honest and tell me the truth... Regardless of how colourful (both in numbers and race) her past is, it is the past. Although I'd preffer it not to be so colourful, I'd rather know the truth; but I would think that it shouldn't affect our present.
If she wants to keep her past to herlsef - I would probably be ok with that too. But then, I would likely be suspicious that it's more on the colourful side and it would appear that she wants to hide it or that she's not very open and honest with me.
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Hmmm... good question Most times, I feel it's none of my bussiness (as long as it doesn't affect the relationship now) I guess some important things I'd LIKE to know. Like if she used to be a man. You know... stuff like that
LMFAO. Exactly. As long as it doesent affect the relationship NOW, it dont see why it should matter.
I wonder if some of the men that feel the contrary is because they know how they've been in the past, they think everyone else has been the same and that's why they need to know?
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Hmmm... good question Most times, I feel it's none of my bussiness (as long as it doesn't affect the relationship now) I guess some important things I'd LIKE to know. Like if she used to be a man. You know... stuff like that
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I would wanna know whatever she's willing to offer in information about her past - I don't care to know everything, but important details or things that may affect my life / or our life together as a couple.
I would expect, however, that as time goes on and certain topics may arise about each other's past, that there is honesty and that there is no hidding/lying about the past either. Just be an open book and hope that it's accepted with the new partner in your life.
Ok, but would it be important to know how many ppl she's been with in the past? What race were they?
Would you respect it if she told you she didnt see the relevance of it to the present, to YOUR relationship now?
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I would wanna know whatever she's willing to offer in information about her past - I don't care to know everything, but important details or things that may affect my life / or our life together as a couple.
I would expect, however, that as time goes on and certain topics may arise about each other's past, that there is honesty and that there is no hidding/lying about the past either. Just be an open book and hope that it's accepted with the new partner in your life.
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Not everything I post or say on foro are necesarily true facts. <- THAT is a fact! :blankstare:
I am, and Im not. Im a jealous and nosey person by nature, so I do wanna know who you've been with and what you've done etc etc... but at the same time I dont wanna know cuz like I said, im jealous. So as you can see, Im in a bit of a weird place. The best thing is, to not know. Ignorance is bliss.
Not that important, but it's nice to know that you've been the only one.
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Are you interested in how many ppl your partner has been with, what stuff they've done, what they've done for a living before, what kind of ppl they hung out with?
Discuss.
I was having this discussion with some friends.
As for me, as long as there isnt a bunch of hijos regados por ahi or that you are on America's Most Wanted, im not really concerned about other stuff.
-- Edited by Colombiana4Life at 12:04, 2008-03-14
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Ah! The beauty of being a woman...
and wont even think about marriage till i got 20G's
