Well I only have one, and I always been saying that no more for me, and that is it, NO MORE even though a lot of people says to me "no digas de esa agua no bebere" but nope, I feel bad for my son that he is going to be the only child, at least on my side, maybe his dad decides to have another kid, but not me, is hard for a single mom like me, to bring them up so I AM VERY HAPPY WITH HIM
Don't overestimate the "power" of having siblings. Many peolpe have siblings that they end up not even talking to That's what friends are for Also, an only child will also have a better living once you pass on (inheritance) Another way to look at it, I guess
I always find that so strange. When siblings dont talk. I can't imagine for one minute not having my brother in my life. We have always been VERY close.
I guess the inheritance thing is a positive thing.
What about then my husband and I die. What if she decides not to marry .....she won't have any family. :(
I get what ur saying, but believe me girl, there are times that family can hurt you so much. Although they shouldnt because they ARE family but it happens.
Amen to that. I have great and genuine admiration for some of my siblings, but I'm a 100% sure that if we were not related, there's very little chance we'd even be friends. I still love big families, though.
As for kids, I'd love to have a big family or at least a girl, but that didn't happen and doubt that it will. I'm glad the boys have each other, though, 'cause they get along so well.
@Chile: I thought you had it all figured out. Did you change your mind?
I thought so too but it turns out I have NOTHING in my life figured out
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Buffy, that is a very good point of view. Now that you mention it, i don't think i would be friends with my siblings if we weren't related. I mean if we don't by freak chance share the same friends, i don't see how i would ever meet them. We have such different lifestyles and interests. And of course, age. That's interesting.
Aww, i hate that thought, i feel like i lose them. Go away stupid thought!!! it makes me miss them.
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Don't overestimate the "power" of having siblings. Many peolpe have siblings that they end up not even talking to That's what friends are for Also, an only child will also have a better living once you pass on (inheritance) Another way to look at it, I guess
I always find that so strange. When siblings dont talk. I can't imagine for one minute not having my brother in my life. We have always been VERY close.
I guess the inheritance thing is a positive thing.
What about then my husband and I die. What if she decides not to marry .....she won't have any family. :(
I get what ur saying, but believe me girl, there are times that family can hurt you so much. Although they shouldnt because they ARE family but it happens.
Amen to that. I have great and genuine admiration for some of my siblings, but I'm a 100% sure that if we were not related, there's very little chance we'd even be friends. I still love big families, though.
As for kids, I'd love to have a big family or at least a girl, but that didn't happen and doubt that it will. I'm glad the boys have each other, though, 'cause they get along so well.
@Chile: I thought you had it all figured out. Did you change your mind?
Don't overestimate the "power" of having siblings. Many peolpe have siblings that they end up not even talking to That's what friends are for Also, an only child will also have a better living once you pass on (inheritance) Another way to look at it, I guess
I always find that so strange. When siblings dont talk. I can't imagine for one minute not having my brother in my life. We have always been VERY close.
I guess the inheritance thing is a positive thing.
What about then my husband and I die. What if she decides not to marry .....she won't have any family. :(
I get what ur saying, but believe me girl, there are times that family can hurt you so much. Although they shouldnt because they ARE family but it happens.
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If siblings get along well... they can be a helping hand in times of need. I mean, that's what familia is all about... or at least, that's what it's supposed to be about... but yeah, if there is conflicts among 'em; it would suck ass.
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Don't overestimate the "power" of having siblings. Many peolpe have siblings that they end up not even talking to That's what friends are for Also, an only child will also have a better living once you pass on (inheritance) Another way to look at it, I guess
I always find that so strange. When siblings dont talk. I can't imagine for one minute not having my brother in my life. We have always been VERY close.
I guess the inheritance thing is a positive thing.
What about then my husband and I die. What if she decides not to marry .....she won't have any family. :(
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Don't overestimate the "power" of having siblings. Many peolpe have siblings that they end up not even talking to That's what friends are for Also, an only child will also have a better living once you pass on (inheritance) Another way to look at it, I guess
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Big families are nice. I'd like to have more than one child, but who knows. Maybe circumstances will only allow me to have one. Siblings are the best to have.
See that is the thing. That is why I feel guilty. I love my brother to death and I am so glad he is around. Chile Jr will be all alone forever if i don't at least have one more.
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Big families are nice. I'd like to have more than one child, but who knows. Maybe circumstances will only allow me to have one. Siblings are the best to have.
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Danny, yeah you'll be that 40 year old viejo who's trying to pick up lil 20 year olds and still not gettin any action..jaja
i have 4 godsons and 2 goddaughters, and they're enough for me. but im with danny on this one, im not really looking forward to having kids b/c i know how expensive and energy draining they can be. but hey, if for some chance i do become a father, then let the lil rugrats come.. 2 or 4 at the most...im an only child so i think that if imma have a child they should have a brother or sister.
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I am content with my two baby girls right now. But I wouldnt mind two more, especially if they were fraternal twins, boy and girl. Obviously, when the time and person are right. Oh, that would be dreamy
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I used to want 2 or 3. Now, one is definitely enough. Very expensive, and very draining in the early years You have very little freedom, until they become independant. Might sound selfish, but hey... there's got to be a balance for everyone Having a lot of kids limits things for the whole family as well (unless ur rich) Imagine trying to pay for a vacation for 5 people. I say quality over quantity Besides, my son already has a stepbrother, and might end up with a second one. So all that work is cut out for me :)
I would've reconsidered if I had a ton of money though
That's the thing I feel kind of selfish. I love having my own time every now and then. That becomes so hard if you have more than one. It's hard now. Plus we love to travel!!!!
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I used to want 2 or 3. Now, one is definitely enough. Very expensive, and very draining in the early years You have very little freedom, until they become independant. Might sound selfish, but hey... there's got to be a balance for everyone Having a lot of kids limits things for the whole family as well (unless ur rich) Imagine trying to pay for a vacation for 5 people. I say quality over quantity Besides, my son already has a stepbrother, and might end up with a second one. So all that work is cut out for me :)
I would've reconsidered if I had a ton of money though
That's only because you're "viejo"
I agree with what you say, though! I will continue playing the lottery until I hit it big, and then I'll have as many as I can afford!
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I used to want 2 or 3. Now, one is definitely enough. Very expensive, and very draining in the early years You have very little freedom, until they become independant. Might sound selfish, but hey... there's got to be a balance for everyone Having a lot of kids limits things for the whole family as well (unless ur rich) Imagine trying to pay for a vacation for 5 people. I say quality over quantity Besides, my son already has a stepbrother, and might end up with a second one. So all that work is cut out for me :)
I would've reconsidered if I had a ton of money though
yup money is a big factor, and i would do the same.
I used to want 2 or 3. Now, one is definitely enough. Very expensive, and very draining in the early years You have very little freedom, until they become independant. Might sound selfish, but hey... there's got to be a balance for everyone Having a lot of kids limits things for the whole family as well (unless ur rich) Imagine trying to pay for a vacation for 5 people. I say quality over quantity Besides, my son already has a stepbrother, and might end up with a second one. So all that work is cut out for me :)
I would've reconsidered if I had a ton of money though
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Chile Jr is only 1 yr and 8 months and everyone is already asking when I'll have another. WTF????? Sometimes when I say I think I don't want anymore people look at me like I am an alien and say "you can't do that to her".....WTF????? Having kids is crazy expensive do people not realize that??
so yeah how many do you want?
I think I am good with one.
Los que dios mande don't be a chicken.
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OH come on God!! Don't get me wrong...CHILE JR is the best thing in this world that could have ever happened to me!! I love her to death and she makes me soooooooo happy. The thing is I start thinking long term....school...university....etc. It's gets very expensive. Daycare is frigging $1,000.00 a month!!!!! We also still have a social life..she comes with us or if we need it my mom will watch her. I think two changes that ....it gets even harder for "us" time. No? YEs? Am I being selfish?
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Chile Jr is only 1 yr and 8 months and everyone is already asking when I'll have another. WTF????? Sometimes when I say I think I don't want anymore people look at me like I am an alien and say "you can't do that to her".....WTF????? Having kids is crazy expensive do people not realize that??
I think I am good with the one that I have for now.... yeap, it's not easy raising kiddos... though being a parent is one of the best things in the world... I wouldn't trade it for the world, but I don't want another one, at least not for a little while.
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Not everything I post or say on foro are necesarily true facts. <- THAT is a fact! :blankstare:
Chile Jr is only 1 yr and 8 months and everyone is already asking when I'll have another. WTF????? Sometimes when I say I think I don't want anymore people look at me like I am an alien and say "you can't do that to her".....WTF????? Having kids is crazy expensive do people not realize that??
so yeah how many do you want?
I think I am good with one.
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for my son that he is going to be the only child, at least on my side, maybe his dad decides to have another kid, but not me, is hard for a single mom like me, to bring them up so I AM VERY HAPPY WITH HIM 
I have great and genuine admiration for some of my siblings, but I'm a 100% sure that if we were not related, there's very little chance we'd even be friends. 
I still love big families, though.
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it makes me miss them. 
i luv to play with them and take them out but not to raise them
I will continue playing the lottery until I hit it big, and then I'll have as many as I can afford! 
don't be a chicken.
