SWINGERS CONVENTION

LGigolo · Comandante

RE: SWINGERS CONVENTION

Guadalupana · Foro Master

I like her shoes

Dogo · Comandante

X4v13r wrote:

LGigolo wrote:

I like where can i get one

~X

@ "Aren't we naughty" Hwy 7, between Pine Valley and Weston. $59.99
I saw the ad in the paper

LGigolo · Comandante

look for 'em at the sex shops... or ask Jinx... or even Chilenita!

X4v13r · Comandante

LGigolo wrote:

I like where can i get one

~X

LGigolo · Comandante

I know what you meant, Chi... I know I am very angelical, but not quite THAT naive!

Chilenita · Comandante

LGigolo wrote:

Oh sush I meant even if you aren't going to radomly screw other couples hmm

LGigolo · Comandante

Chilenita · Comandante

If it was a bunch of hot, STD free people it might be fun to go even if you don't actually "swing"......

LGigolo · Comandante

God wrote:

X4v13r wrote:

Chale Tanga wrote:

Funny thing about these swinger clubs... most if not all, of the people that are involved, are not the most attractive looking people. They tend to be on the heavier side, on the 'whiter' side, and definately on the not so attractive side

and don't forget they are old!!!

No way...go to Wicked....and you'll see

What do you see... what do you see? Took pics? LOL

X4v13r · Comandante

God wrote:

X4v13r wrote:

Chale Tanga wrote:

Funny thing about these swinger clubs... most if not all, of the people that are involved, are not the most attractive looking people. They tend to be on the heavier side, on the 'whiter' side, and definately on the not so attractive side

and don't forget they are old!!!

No way...go to Wicked....and you'll see

no need, i been to one before and not all of them are old i know that but most of them are.

~X

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

God wrote:

No way...go to Wicked....and you'll see

no thanks... dont wanna be seeing wrinkly bums and sagging balls..

God · Foro Master

X4v13r wrote:

Chale Tanga wrote:

Funny thing about these swinger clubs... most if not all, of the people that are involved, are not the most attractive looking people. They tend to be on the heavier side, on the 'whiter' side, and definately on the not so attractive side

and don't forget they are old!!!

No way...go to Wicked....and you'll see

LGigolo · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:

eww no thanks.... i just happen to watch a lot of tv

Reminds me - They had somthing similar - a documentary on playboy channel about a similar convention in the States... the hubby/wife organizers were an ugly older couple... there were a couple of OK looking girls; but MOST people in there did not look attractive.

X4v13r · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:

Funny thing about these swinger clubs... most if not all, of the people that are involved, are not the most attractive looking people. They tend to be on the heavier side, on the 'whiter' side, and definately on the not so attractive side

and don't forget they are old!!!

well at least we have something to look forward to for when we get old

~X

-- Edited by X4v13r at 13:57, 2008-02-14

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

eww no thanks.... i just happen to watch a lot of tv

LGigolo · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:

Funny thing about these swinger clubs... most if not all, of the people that are involved, are not the most attractive looking people. They tend to be on the heavier side, on the 'whiter' side, and definately on the not so attractive side

AHHHH HA, You've attended!!! biggrin

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

Funny thing about these swinger clubs... most if not all, of the people that are involved, are not the most attractive looking people. They tend to be on the heavier side, on the 'whiter' side, and definately on the not so attractive side hmm

LGigolo · Comandante

The Sault Star adds:

SO WHY DOES someone swing, you ask?

The risk? The pleasure? The naughtiness of it all?

It goes deeper than that, says Sexyboots.

Some couples wish to explore one or both partners' bisexuality. They could be acting out fantasies of threesomes (or more). They could be seeking more to lovemaking than traditional marriage permits.

In her case, it was a lack of sex before marriage. Her husband was her first lover and he felt "horribly guilty" that she missed out on sexual freedom.

"How was I to know what I truly liked or disliked, if he was any good, etc. without anything to use as a comparison?," she explains.

"My belief monogamy is not necessarily a natural state for humans, but rather a social state. Many societies exist quite happily in polygamous and polyandrous relationships."

But even in the carefree world of swingers, there are stern rules to follow:

no means nO.

Both husband and wife must agree on what they want, and the wife has ultimate veto over everything.

Protection is mandatory.

Testing for sexually transmitted diseases is done yearly.

The women always make the first move.

no one judges anyone else's rules or kinks.

'Hard swap' couples (the more adventurous) must respect the wishes of a 'soft swap' couple (less bold) if they decide to play.

According to Brock University psychology professor Tony Bogaert, rules like these are crucial for swingers to avoid hard feelings.

"People in that field argue it can work for couples ä if the two partners are in agreement and have specific rules and regulations about what will or will not occur, and with whom," he says.

"If one of the partners does not agree, or is hesitant about one or more of the rules even though they may say they're OK with it this often leads to a lot of conflict and problems."

Ultimately, it comes down to each couple's definition of marriage.

It may be a mockery in the eyes of the church, but less inhibited couples see swinging as an outlet that actually brings them closer.

For others, it's simply a chance to be bad.

"In some sense, it would be less exciting and less interesting for some swingers if everybody was doing it," says Bogaert. "It probably has an excitement value associated with it, simply because it is flaunting conventions.

"It actually brings on an extra titillation value for people engaging in it."

For Mr. and Mrs. Sexyboots, this weekend in niagara Falls will only strengthen their vows.

"One thing most swingers would never be accused of is being neglectful of their spouses or being unromantic," she says.

"My husband and I make time every day to be alone together. We touch each other and reconnect constantly, and we also surprise each other on a regular basis with little gifts and tokens of affection.

"How could the romance capital of Canada not be an appropriate setting?"

LGigolo · Comandante

Swingers converging on Niagara Falls, Ont., for weekend convention

By John Law, SUN MEDIA

NIAGARA FALLS, Ont. Sexyboots, as she prefers to be called, admits shell be committing adultery in Niagara Falls this weekend.

But she wont be cheating. In fact, her husband will likely be in the same room nodding with approval.

This is how they keep their marriage strong, she insists. And their swinger friends, who they know very well, tend to agree.

Most of our friends have been married between 22 and 12 years, and have been in the lifestyle for at least five, she said from her home in Toronto.

People naturally lust after more than their spouse. Some act on it without consent and have affairs, some repress it, some acknowledge but dont act on it.

Im not advocating this for everyone you have to be able to trust your spouse implicitly.

Sexyboots, 37, and her husband will be among the hundreds of couples expected to attend this weekends Valentines in Niagara erotic convention and expo.

Organized by the swinger-friendly website OntarioCouples.com, it will be held in an undisclosed hotel to protect privacy and keep undesirables away.

Privacy is key to an event like this because some couples are still experimenting and dont need the added scrutiny, Sexyboots said.

Others simply dont know what theyd tell their friends and family if their secret was revealed.

My family would not be shocked, partially because they know we have a good sex life (and) they are so liberal and open-minded, she said. His family would be appalled.

Several seminars are scheduled for the expo, including pole-dancing classes and a tantric sex workshop. The entire three-day event costs $598 per couple.

While Sexyboots said sex is definitely in the air this weekend, its also a chance to do the regular couple thing and visit Niagara Falls.

Its a mini vacation for many of the couples. No job, kids, parents, in-laws, housework, errands just you and your honey and whatever you want to do.

That suits Niagara Falls Tourism just fine.

After an initial chuckle, executive director Anna Pierce pointed out swingers are tourists just like everyone else.

We definitely welcome all visitors to Niagara Falls, and wed like to feel that were open to any groups wanting to come and enjoy our city, she said.

As long as it stays in the comfort of their own suites, were fine. Its a good, strong group of people, and we can definitely use the business.
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Coincidentally this falls on Valentine's weekend. hmm