I am sorry but I agree with princesa, he doesn't have to open the door all the time but there are certain things he needs to do if he wants to be with me....
Being in a relationship is team work and as much as I hate cooking I do it for him all the time, he hates doing other stuff and he does it for me all the time, is all about balance and keeping your partner happy....
But lets face it guys, we all talk about equality but you know, you expect your woman to do most of the house chores.... laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and on and on....
So you talk about equality and wants us to open our own doors but are you willing to iron your own shirts and doing you own laundry and preparing your meals and lunches?????? NOTTTTTTTTTTTT
If opening the car door, going out in the cold to warm up the car etc, gets my clothes washed, ironed and food on my talbe, it sounds like a good deal!
It makes sense what you are saying - sometimes (often?) women do make sacrifices at home as well, and sometimes (traditionally?) there are certain expectations of a wifey at home... so, doing things for the wifey as well, is only fair... Me scratch your back, you scratch mine!
If you want marriage to work... this is the only way..... o and lots, and lots, of love and patience hahahahahahahahaha
*standin ovation*!!!!!!!!
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I don't think it matters to Confu as much as it matters to you I mean, she had to read this thread to even REALIZE the chivarlry of her bf and the way he treats her. Then, again - we're talking Confu here
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aren't women complaining about women right well it there right to do the thing man used to do for them.. how about they open the door for us, start the car for us, pay for dinner, pay the hotel room..
Finally somebody makes sense on this Thread.
By the way you ladies shoudn't be making breakfast for us ?
I am sorry but I agree with princesa, he doesn't have to open the door all the time but there are certain things he needs to do if he wants to be with me....
Being in a relationship is team work and as much as I hate cooking I do it for him all the time, he hates doing other stuff and he does it for me all the time, is all about balance and keeping your partner happy....
But lets face it guys, we all talk about equality but you know, you expect your woman to do most of the house chores.... laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and on and on....
So you talk about equality and wants us to open our own doors but are you willing to iron your own shirts and doing you own laundry and preparing your meals and lunches?????? NOTTTTTTTTTTTT
If opening the car door, going out in the cold to warm up the car etc, gets my clothes washed, ironed and food on my talbe, it sounds like a good deal!
It makes sense what you are saying - sometimes (often?) women do make sacrifices at home as well, and sometimes (traditionally?) there are certain expectations of a wifey at home... so, doing things for the wifey as well, is only fair... Me scratch your back, you scratch mine!
If you want marriage to work... this is the only way..... o and lots, and lots, of love and patience hahahahahahahahaha
I am sorry but I agree with princesa, he doesn't have to open the door all the time but there are certain things he needs to do if he wants to be with me....
Being in a relationship is team work and as much as I hate cooking I do it for him all the time, he hates doing other stuff and he does it for me all the time, is all about balance and keeping your partner happy....
But lets face it guys, we all talk about equality but you know, you expect your woman to do most of the house chores.... laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and on and on....
So you talk about equality and wants us to open our own doors but are you willing to iron your own shirts and doing you own laundry and preparing your meals and lunches?????? NOTTTTTTTTTTTT
If opening the car door, going out in the cold to warm up the car etc, gets my clothes washed, ironed and food on my talbe, it sounds like a good deal!
It makes sense what you are saying - sometimes (often?) women do make sacrifices at home as well, and sometimes (traditionally?) there are certain expectations of a wifey at home... so, doing things for the wifey as well, is only fair... Me scratch your back, you scratch mine!
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I am sorry but I agree with princesa, he doesn't have to open the door all the time but there are certain things he needs to do if he wants to be with me....
Being in a relationship is team work and as much as I hate cooking I do it for him all the time, he hates doing other stuff and he does it for me all the time, is all about balance and keeping your partner happy....
But lets face it guys, we all talk about equality but you know, you expect your woman to do most of the house chores.... laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and on and on....
So you talk about equality and wants us to open our own doors but are you willing to iron your own shirts and doing you own laundry and preparing your meals and lunches?????? NOTTTTTTTTTTTT
So, as you can see we don't ask for much.... compared to everything we do for you guys......
aren't women complaining about women right well it there right to do the thing man used to do for them.. how about they open the door for us, start the car for us, pay for dinner, pay the hotel room..
Yeah, just picture Prinny doing all that for X... Good Luck!
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aren't women complaining about women right well it there right to do the thing man used to do for them.. how about they open the door for us, start the car for us, pay for dinner, pay the hotel room..
i officially luv princessa's mind!!! FInally, w woman who knows some things are meant for females and some for males!..ther arent too many of u, nowadays its pure :blah: i am woman hear me roar!
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I don't think we're in disagreement... Once in a while, works. It just should not be automatically expected in this day and age that HE (the man) has to do things that the woman could easily do it herslef all the time.
I agree!
Now go clean my car!!!!
Otay...
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I don't think we're in disagreement... Once in a while, works. It just should not be automatically expected in this day and age that HE (the man) has to do things that the woman could easily do it herslef all the time.
I agree!
Now go clean my car!!!!
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I guess we won't all agree, but I know things I like & expect, but I see & understand ur comments, but that wouldn't be cool with me.
Like I said most of my buddy's are the same & they would be soo nice to me & I'm just a friend, so it's be polite & really a gentlemen, so when it come to my partner I expect nothing less.
You just happen to be a "princessa" Nothing wrong if people are willing to do it for you - smile and be thankful. The only thing I am saying is, it shouldn't be EXPECTED. Or just because one doesn't do those things for you regularly wouldn't mean one is not a gentleman.
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A woman can go clean the snow of the car and warm it up on a cold winter day, just as well as a man can... why not her? why not take turns? You're absolutely right! A woman can do it! But if she's the one driving the car, Why can't HE get off his ASS and clean the car or pump gas??? First: Of course I am right, ALWAYS LOL He could - but so could SHE! It just shouldn't be EXPECTED that HE should do it all the time. That's all. Besides if pumping the gas in the car wins points for further, more fun kindda pumping even better!
Pump gas for her? Is she paralized or does she not know how to? What's so hard about it doing it herself, if its say - her own car? It could be HER car, but if she's driving him around then he should put part and pump gas once in a while, Don't you think?? Underline once in a while! AGREED.
Don't get me wrong, I like being a gentleman and treating a woman like a lady and get her door and stuff... but does one really need to treat her like a child? HOW MUCH is TOO MUCH?
You don't have to hand everything to her in order to be a gentleman! Just appreciate her once in a while!! I don't think we're in disagreement... Once in a while, works. It just should not be automatically expected in this day and age that HE (the man) has to do things that the woman could easily do it herslef all the time.
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I guess we won't all agree, but I know things I like & expect, but I see & understand ur comments, but that wouldn't be cool with me.
Like I said most of my buddy's are the same & they would be soo nice to me & I'm just a friend, so it's be polite & really a gentlemen, so when it come to my partner I expect nothing less.
LGigolo wrote:A woman can go clean the snow of the car and warm it up on a cold winter day, just as well as a man can... why not her? why not take turns? You're absolutely right! A woman can do it! But if she's the one driving the car, Why can't HE get off his ASS and clean the car or pump gas???
Pump gas for her? Is she paralized or does she not know how to? What's so hard about it doing it herself, if its say - her own car? It could be HER car, but if she's driving him around then he should put part and pump gas once in a while, Don't you think??
Don't get me wrong, I like being a gentleman and treating a woman like a lady and get her door and stuff... but does one really need to treat her like a child? HOW MUCH is TOO MUCH?
You don't have to hand everything to her in order to be a gentleman! Just appreciate her once in a while!!
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@ LG - well as a women I would never want to do guys jobs or anything close to it, so the whole thingy of women being equal with men, is not for me.
Now i think some took it way out of content & I'm not sayin for caliche to be a slave, but if he's with her, he can very well do these little details & be nice. It's normal & plus I do all of the above when I'm alone.
I guess it is the 'gentelman' thing to do, at the same time I don't think it's something to get upset over (even mildly) but that's just me Anyway, dump her
Dogo: I would bro, but she's refreshing like "mint".
Confu: we weren't on a date, we were walking out of her office.
Princessa: i can understand the coming to dinner bring something and the offer to pay, but as far as pumping gas, warm up the car, clean the snow, i dont mind doing those things, if IM driving.
what ever happend to the feminist movement and their fight for equality?? no que, if a man can do it, why cant a woman do it too? wat a crapout from the feminist mind.
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A woman can go clean the snow of the car and warm it up on a cold winter day, just as well as a man can... why not her? why not take turns?
Pump gas for her? Is she paralized or does she not know how to? What's so hard about it doing it herself, if its say - her own car?
No que las mujeres hablan de Women's Equality :blah: and all that?
Don't get me wrong, I like being a gentleman and treating a woman like a lady and get her door and stuff... but does one really need to treat her like a child? HOW MUCH is TOO MUCH?
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@ Duro- I know my brothers will never say to their wifes, babe go clean the car & warm it up while my warm ass & balls stay warm in the house. Pleaseesss
I know TONS, but TONS of guys like this. I've never dated one that doesnt. So this back-up my point.
@ Confu - yeas, my dad knows well. Plus my dad is worth gold, he's awesome, he even leaves my lunch bag in my passenger seat every morning. Now that I'm in a health freak stage, he does healthy lunches for me. I LUV him, he's awesome.
Oh Another thing else u could bring for dinner are flowers for say my mom or myself & her. U'll win for sure brownie points, it's a very nice detalle.
I don't expect X to go run open my side of teh car door, but if were walking to a mall, restuarant, I think it would be nie for him to hold the door for me. I mean those doors are heavey. It's the thought that makes it even better.
No wat else makes a gentlemen in my books:
Cleans snow off my car Warms up my car for me Pumps gas for me Know well to come to my house for dinner & MUST bring a wine bottle, out of respect to my house & family or dessert, doesn't matter. Offers to pay. (MUST in the FIRST few dates) If not not working off the bat.
Ok these are few for now, I'll come bak with more.
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Then chale, next time i see you i EXPECT you to do all that fancy gentlemanly stuff.
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I guess it is the 'gentelman' thing to do, at the same time I don't think it's something to get upset over (even mildly) but that's just me Anyway, dump her
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I understand that traditionally as a man im required to open doors, pull out/ push in chairs, fork the bill, get roses, etc.
BUT
im not always on "lovey dovey" mode. I do got other things on mind that don't particularly concern my gf, so considering she also has 2 hands, why can't she just open the door for herself?
Chile, help me out on this, woman!!
I say it's not reason enough to GET UPSET... Pfffttt. If she gets this upset for you simply not opening the door for her... how upset will she get when you REALLY **** up?
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Are these the mayor dilemmas the world suffers from nowadays? wow.
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