GIGI IS RIGHT...AND I HAD TO THINK ABOUT IT TOO FOR A MINUTE!!!

@PRI

IT IS NICE I JUST DONT EXPECT IT.....IT JUST HAPPENS.......

PRINCESSA wrote:

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@ Confu - ya vez!!! Nice right?

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I don't think it matters to Confu as much as it matters to you   I mean, she had to read this thread to even REALIZE the chivarlry of her bf and the way he treats her.   Then, again - we're talking Confu here

@PRINCESA


YOU KNOW WAT I JSUT REALIZED.....MY BF THOSE ALL THOSE THINGS......

I shower everyday for her.



Well....except on weekends.

LGigolo wrote:

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Yesi wrote:

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I am sorry but I agree with princesa, he doesn't have to open the door all the time but there are certain things he needs to do if he wants to be with me....

Being in a relationship is team work and as much as I hate cooking I do it for him all the time, he hates doing other stuff and he does it for me all the time, is all about balance and keeping your partner happy....

But lets face it guys, we all talk about equality but you know, you expect your woman to do most of the house chores.... laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and on and on....

So you talk about equality and wants us to open our own doors but are you willing to iron your own shirts and doing you own laundry and preparing your meals and lunches?????? NOTTTTTTTTTTTT

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If opening the car door, going out in the cold to warm up the car etc, gets my clothes washed, ironed and food on my talbe, it sounds like a good deal!

It makes sense what you are saying - sometimes (often?) women do make sacrifices at home as well, and sometimes (traditionally?) there are certain expectations of a wifey at home... so, doing things for the wifey as well, is only fair... Me scratch your back, you scratch mine!

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If you want marriage to work... this is the only way.....  o and lots, and lots, of love and patience hahahahahahahahaha

I am sorry but I agree with princesa, he doesn't have to open the door all the time but there are certain things he needs to do if he wants to be with me....

Being in a relationship is team work and as much as I hate cooking I do it for him all the time, he hates doing other stuff and he does it for me all the time, is all about balance and keeping your partner happy....

But lets face it guys, we all talk about equality but you know, you expect your woman to do most of the house chores.... laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning, and on and on....

So you talk about equality and wants us to open our own doors but are you willing to iron your own shirts and doing you own laundry and preparing your meals and lunches?????? NOTTTTTTTTTTTT

So, as you can see we don't ask for much.... compared to everything we do for you guys......  

-- Edited by Yesi at 10:21, 2008-01-21

aren't women complaining about women right well it there right to do the thing man used to do for them.. how about they open the door for us, start the car for us, pay for dinner, pay the hotel room..

GITANA wrote:

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LGigolo wrote:

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I don't think we're in disagreement... Once in a while, works. It just should not be automatically expected in this day and age that HE (the man) has to do things that the woman could easily do it herslef all the time.

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I agree!

Now go clean my car!!!!

 

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Otay...

 

PRINCESSA wrote:

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I guess we won't all agree, but I know things I like & expect, but I see & understand ur comments, but that wouldn't be cool with me.

Like I said most of my buddy's are the same & they would be soo nice to me & I'm just a friend, so it's be polite & really a gentlemen, so when it come to my partner I expect nothing less.

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You just happen to be a "princessa"   Nothing wrong if people are willing to do it for you - smile and be thankful.  The only thing I am saying is, it shouldn't be EXPECTED.  Or just because one doesn't do those things for you regularly wouldn't mean one is not a gentleman.

 

I guess we won't all agree, but I know things I like & expect, but I see & understand ur comments, but that wouldn't be cool with me.

Like I said most of my buddy's are the same & they would be soo nice to me & I'm just a friend, so it's be polite & really a gentlemen, so when it come to my partner I expect nothing less.

LGigolo wrote:

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A woman can go clean the snow of the car and warm it up on a cold winter day, just as well as a man can... why not her? why not take turns?
You're absolutely right! A woman can do it! But if she's the one driving the car, Why can't HE get off his ASS and clean the car or pump gas???

Pump gas for her? Is she paralized or does she not know how to? What's so hard about it doing it herself, if its say - her own car?
It could be HER car, but if she's driving him around then he should put part and pump gas once in a while, Don't you think??

Don't get me wrong, I like being a gentleman and treating a woman like a lady and get her door and stuff... but does one really need to treat her like a child? HOW MUCH is TOO MUCH?

You don't have to hand everything to her in order to be a gentleman! Just appreciate her once in a while!!

Dogo wrote:

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I guess it is the 'gentelman' thing to do, at the same time I don't think it's something to get upset over (even mildly) but that's just me
Anyway, dump her

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Dogo: I would bro, but she's refreshing like "mint".

Confu: we weren't on a date, we were walking out of her office.

Princessa: i can understand the coming to dinner bring something and the offer to pay, but as far as pumping gas, warm up the car, clean the snow, i dont mind doing those things, if IM driving.

what ever happend to the feminist movement and their fight for equality?? no que, if a man can do it, why cant a woman do it too?  wat a crapout from the feminist mind.

Just to play devil's advocate...

A woman can go clean the snow of the car and warm it up on a cold winter day, just as well as a man can... why not her? why not take turns?

Pump gas for her? Is she paralized or does she not know how to? What's so hard about it doing it herself, if its say - her own car?

No que las mujeres hablan de Women's Equality :blah: and all that?

Don't get me wrong, I like being a gentleman and treating a woman like a lady and get her door and stuff... but does one really need to treat her like a child? HOW MUCH is TOO MUCH?

Sorry I was working

So I don't see the huge deal.  What is this 1940? Are her hands broken?  If they are then yes you are rude.

well i would... if Nena knew how to start a car

@Pri

u don't want a man u want is a slave. jeez who does all that stuff

@princesa


just like ur dad does!!!

Chale Tanga wrote:

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Guadalupana wrote:

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Then chale, next time i see you i EXPECT you to do all that fancy gentlemanly stuff.

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pfft... you dont put out woman!

 

 

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Esta oxidada!

 

Guadalupana wrote:

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Then chale, next time i see you i EXPECT you to do all that fancy gentlemanly stuff.

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pfft... you dont put out woman!

 

LGigolo wrote:

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I am not ALWAYS  a man...

 

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Pfft, you got that right.  

Chale Tanga wrote:

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LGigolo wrote:

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Was she on that time of the month? JERKWAD!

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Gentleman like behaviour is ALWAYS welcomed... shows that you have some sort of manners.

 

 

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I am not ALWAYS so gentle of a man... I sometimes am a lil rough, bad, naughty!

-- Edited by LGigolo at 14:19, 2008-01-18

LGigolo wrote:

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Was she on that time of the month?  JERKWAD!

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Gentleman like behaviour is ALWAYS welcomed... shows that you have some sort of manners. 

 

LG: shes 26, she didn't get over the top upset, she just gave me that "oh no u didnt" look [moves head in zig zags]

i was jus askin, simply cuz like u said, if she got bothered over a simple missed gesture, i wonder how she'll be when i really f@ck up..

caliche wrote:

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LG: lol.. no it's not "that" time of month yet

I understand that traditionally as a man im required to open doors, pull out/ push in chairs, fork the bill, get roses, etc.

BUT

im not always on "lovey dovey" mode. I do got other things on mind that don't particularly concern my gf, so considering she also has 2 hands, why can't she just open the door for herself?

Chile, help me out on this, woman!!

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I say it's not reason enough to GET UPSET... Pfffttt.  If she gets this upset for you simply not opening the door for her... how upset will she get when you REALLY **** up?