For every woman who wants to know what her man is thinking.
Internationally syndicated radio superhost and columnist, controversial psychotherapist, and author of the breakout New York Times bestsellers How Could You Do That?! and Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives, Dr. Laura Schlessinger is back with Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives.
In ten vital, compelling chapters, Dr. Laura speaks her mind on:
Stupid Chivalry By getting involved with the wrong woman (weak, flaky, damaged, needy, desperate, stupid, untrustworthy, immature, etc.) you think that your love will save/transform her.
Stupid Independence Unwilling to admit need for bonding and intimacy, you hide in excesses of work, play, drink, drugs, porn, and meaningless sex.
Stupid Ambition Unable to comfortably and proudly accept your inherent importance to society and family as husband and father, you bow to the false idols of money, toys, power, and status.
Stupid Strength Uncomfortable with feeling weak, vulnerable, useless, powerless, or rejected, you use intimidation, force, or passiveaggressiveness to regain control.
Stupid Sex Taking an attraction, opportunity, or erection as a sign, you measure your masculinity and power by sexual conquests, infidelities, and orgasms.
Stupid Matrimony Lacking a mature sense of the purpose, meaning, or value of marriage, you realize too late youve gone down the aisle with the wrong woman for the wrong reasons and feel helpless to fix it.
Stupid Husbanding Thinking that marriage is the honorable discharge from loving courtship, you continue to live as though you were single and your mommywife will take care of everything else.
Stupid Parenting Believing that only women/mothers nurture children, you withdraw from handson parenting to assert your masculine importance, missing out on the true soul food of a childs hug.
Stupid Boyishness Having not yet worked out a comfortable emotional and social understanding with your mother, you form relationships with women that become geared to avenge, resolve, or protect you from your ties to Mommy.
Stupid Machismo Understanding the true and meaningful difference between being male and a man, you can become a man.
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Not everything I post or say on foro are necesarily true facts. <- THAT is a fact! :blankstare:
after posting that I didn't read the thread right, I need coffee
