SHE wears the pants...

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

SHE wears the pants...

Miel · Guru

I think being or trying to be dominant reflects insecurity,. it s a need to feel superior,....A 50/50 relationship would be ideal but it s very rare ,. almost imposible,. tolerance and love plays a huge part in a harmonious relationship,.

Salsera de Corazon · TOP Guru

well I guess I have to say that since I am single I wear the pants

, but I think it should be 50/50

X4v13r · Comandante

luna chiquitita wrote:

T.M.I.

sorry

~X

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

T.M.I.

X4v13r · Comandante

Princessa wears my pants sometimes and even my undies.......shhhhhhhh....don't tell her i told u

~X

Yesi · Guru

He never comes to Foro, so I can say this...... I wear the pants in my relationship

Pelon` · Guru

It's gotta be 50/50 in things like that no other way to keep things peaceful.

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Chale Tanga wrote:

all of you that answered 50/50 are a bunch of wussies!

I wear the pants in my relationship and I am proud and loud and gay... ummm, no scratch out the last part. But still... I WEAR THE PANTS!

Spoiler
When the king of my castle isnt home

-- Edited by Chale Tanga at 12:32, 2007-04-05

There is no king in my household...

We're both serfs!

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

all of you that answered 50/50 are a bunch of wussies!

I wear the pants in my relationship and I am proud and loud and gay... ummm, no scratch out the last part. But still... I WEAR THE PANTS!

Spoiler: When the king of my castle isnt home

-- Edited by Chale Tanga at 12:32, 2007-04-05

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

GENIE wrote:

OH MY MOM WEARS THE PANTS IN HER NEW MARRIAGE AND POOR MAN!!! CUZ SHE CONTROLS EVERYTHING EVEN WHEN HE GETS A HAIR CUT AND WHAT TO WEAR!!

That's a little extreme for my liking - but as long as THEY are happy. Some men DO like to be the submissive ones.

GENIE · Foro Master

OH MY MOM WEARS THE PANTS IN HER NEW MARRIAGE AND POOR MAN!!! CUZ SHE CONTROLS EVERYTHING EVEN WHEN HE GETS A HAIR CUT AND WHAT TO WEAR!!

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

El Pibe wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~XPL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!sure sure and PJ is logged in under just one user pfffft!! ~XYou'd think you'd know that I can't stand spelling/grammar mistakes. El Pibe couldn't care less.@El Pibe: Mi vida, you're rather snippy today though. I can understand why people think you're me or I'm you, whatever.@PL: Go AWAY!!!!! This is true. As for being snippy, I guess I'm just tired. I should go lay down DON'T FORGET TO FEED LOQUITO!!!!

He has a thing for killing birds.

I like flying over cars and CATS and sending bomb droppings on them! biggrin

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

El Pibe wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~XPL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!sure sure and PJ is logged in under just one user pfffft!! ~XYou'd think you'd know that I can't stand spelling/grammar mistakes. El Pibe couldn't care less.@El Pibe: Mi vida, you're rather snippy today though. I can understand why people think you're me or I'm you, whatever.@PL: Go AWAY!!!!! This is true. As for being snippy, I guess I'm just tired. I should go lay down

DON'T FORGET TO FEED LOQUITO!!!!

He has a thing for killing birds.

El Pibe · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~XPL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!sure sure and PJ is logged in under just one user pfffft!! ~XYou'd think you'd know that I can't stand spelling/grammar mistakes. El Pibe couldn't care less.

@El Pibe: Mi vida, you're rather snippy today though. I can understand why people think you're me or I'm you, whatever.

@PL: Go AWAY!!!!!

This is true. As for being snippy, I guess I'm just tired. I should go lay down

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

We're 50/50 too, right babe? Babe?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

El Pibe wrote: X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~XPL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!

sure sure and PJ is logged in under just one user pfffft!!

~X

You'd think you'd know that I can't stand spelling/grammar mistakes. El Pibe couldn't care less.

@El Pibe: Mi vida, you're rather snippy today though. I can understand why people think you're me or I'm you, whatever.

@PL: Go AWAY!!!!!

El Pibe · Guru

X4v13r wrote:

MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying

~X

PL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home.

MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

El Pibe wrote:

X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~X
PL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!

I better play Super 7 tonite then... winning that will taste much better than your spagetti, Pibe!

No lo tomes tan a serio, again - estoy de joda! But if you change your mind, I DO love spagetti! + If I win the lottery tonite, I will pay for it! biggrin

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

El Pibe wrote:

X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~X
PL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!

But............

........are there any leftovers???

-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 11:59, 2007-04-05

X4v13r · Comandante

El Pibe wrote:

X4v13r wrote: MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying ~X
PL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home. MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!

sure sure and PJ is logged in under just one user pfffft!!

~X

El Pibe · Guru

X4v13r wrote:

MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying

~X

PL & X - She is not responding for me, she's at work and I'm at home.

MJ - NO SPAGHETTI for you tonight!!!! since you don't cook, that is why I made dinner last night. As for inviting everyone over for dinner ... chances are better of winning the lottery!!!

LGigolo · Comandante

In my case I will ALWAYS wear the pants... pero a veces sera ELLA la que pegue con la correa!

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

X4v13r wrote:

MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying

~X

biggrin I better bite my tongue, but I was thinking of saying something similar.

X4v13r · Comandante

MJ let El Pibe reply on his own, we know is u replying

~X

don_plyero · Guru

see i just split from my ex novia due to the fact she was da one who wanted 2 wear the pants

and HELL NOOO that wont happen with me evileye

this girl tried to control me in every little thing i did

i couldnt go out with friends, and what pissed me off was she even said my mom furious

but ya pajaro is right > being single is better biggrin

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

El Pibe wrote:

@ Luna & GL - what ever helps you sleep at night. If thinking you have full control helps you, then by all means go right ahead.

Pajaro Loco - I'm not finding anything funny about the uncle comment.

Tomalo por el lado amable, man... all jokes. But I shall stop now - don't want to bother n e 1.

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Pajaro_Loco wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: I know of one woman who bans her hubby from talking to anyone of the opposite sex!!! Thanks to you, now WE know about her too... any new developments in that novela?
Nope!! I said, "Later gator!!!" @El Pibe: My poor baby...........you know what would make you feel better? Making a nice big BUCKET of spaghetti and meatballs!WITH LOTS OF CHEESE!!!!!!!!!!

@EL Pibe:

Ya te dijeron - get to work, bud!

@MJ: Should he make enough for everyone from Foro and you invite us ALL over? biggrin

El Pibe · Guru

@ Luna & GL - what ever helps you sleep at night. If thinking you have full control helps you, then by all means go right ahead.

Pajaro Loco - I'm not finding anything funny about the uncle comment.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Pajaro_Loco wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: I know of one woman who bans her hubby from talking to anyone of the opposite sex!!!
Thanks to you, now WE know about her too... any new developments in that novela?

Nope!! I said, "Later gator!!!"

@El Pibe: My poor baby...........you know what would make you feel better? Making a nice big BUCKET of spaghetti and meatballs!

WITH LOTS OF CHEESE!!!!!!!!!!

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:
I know of one woman who bans her hubby from talking to anyone of the opposite sex!!!

Thanks to you, now WE know about her too... any new developments in that novela? confused biggrin

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

luna chiquitita wrote:

hmmm.. interesting but how does everyone feel about the dominant woman? do you know anyone of your buddies or family members that have a dominant significant other?

Like I mentioned before, my uncle's wife is very bossy and he just takes it... i dont quite understand why...

I know of one woman who bans her hubby from talking to anyone of the opposite sex!!!

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

hahaa.. no El Pibe is not my uncle

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

luna chiquitita wrote:

hmmm.. interesting but how does everyone feel about the dominant woman? do you know anyone of your buddies or family members that have a dominant significant other?

Like I mentioned before, my uncle's wife is very bossy and he just takes it... i dont quite understand why...

Because SHE MAKES HIM (take it)

IS El Pibe your uncle by any chance?

@X: and now with this

(my) last comment, thunder is approaching very rapidly... head for cover!

X4v13r · Comandante

luna chiquitita wrote:

hmmm.. interesting but how does everyone feel about the dominant woman? do you know anyone of your buddies or family members that have a dominant significant other?

Like I mentioned before, my uncle's wife is very bossy and he just takes it... i dont quite understand why...

yes i do, I have a friend that is like that

but i say nada because he loves her so nothing anyone can do or say.......in things like this the best thing is to look the other way.

~X

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

El Pibe wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: I WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!
Thats what I want you to think!!!!

Oh, please! Who are you trying to kid?

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

El Pibe wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: I WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!
Thats what I want you to think!!!!

no sweetie... that's what we know

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

We're 50/50 too, right babe? Babe?

El Pibe · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

I WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!

Thats what I want you to think!!!!

X4v13r · Comandante

Pajaro_Loco wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote:I WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!
REALLLYYY????? NO ONE ON FORO WOULD HAVE EVER GUESSED!

You were the pants even in the Forum... Even I am semi-affraid of you!

thats what i was going to say but u know how she takes things........so I'm just going to sit aside and wait for the thunder

~X

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

hmmm.. interesting but how does everyone feel about the dominant woman? do you know anyone of your buddies or family members that have a dominant significant other?

Like I mentioned before, my uncle's wife is very bossy and he just takes it... i dont quite understand why...

Guadalupana · Foro Master

50/50

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

I WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!

REALLLYYY????? NO ONE ON FORO WOULD HAVE EVER GUESSED! biggrin

You were the pants even in the Forum... Even I am semi-affraid of you! aww

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

I WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!

GENIE · Foro Master

I think with me and Orale its the same thing too we have a 50/50 say in everything but he is more "house trained" then i am! Im more the Financial and expenses type of person but other then that we make equal decisions and equal points of view are expressed! But i think that once we have a kid it will be different or some aspect will obviously change

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Now that I decided to answer the question: I am not in a relationship - therefore, I wear the pants and I decide exactly what I do, when, where, EVERYTHING. Single life rocks!

X4v13r · Comandante

Just like u and ur hubby, Princessa and I are the same, but i don't think is about being dominant I think is more about realizing that ur partner is better at somethings, if she is better than me at something than I let her do it, if is something I'm better at, I'll do it.

~X

-- Edited by X4v13r at 11:18, 2007-04-05

-- Edited by X4v13r at 11:18, 2007-04-05

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

Good question

I think my wife and I have a pretty balanced relationship. We tend to make mutual decisions, but I do tend to have certain standards for keeping the house clean. Sometimes I may seem a bit too demanding in that sense, but overall I think it's well balanced.

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

luna chiquitita wrote:

STOP BEING A BIRD HEAD AND ANSWER THE DAMN QUESTION...

NO! Now I am NOT answering!

biggrin

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

STOP BEING A BIRD HEAD AND ANSWER THE DAMN QUESTION...