Ruining chances for lasting relationships

Jaime Cruz · Foro Master

RE: Ruining chances for lasting relationships

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Chale--well why didn't she tell him how she wanted it? That guy was wack! Why didn't she voice it?!!!
I know it's besides the point now since she has moved on, and thank god for that. That man needs to be neutered for not using as it's supposed to be.

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:
P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept.

P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly?

LMAO LMAO LMAO

Oh lord you made me laugh out out for real.

As for the comparing thing.... let me put it to you this way. I know some people that have married the first person they have slept with. Initially I thought 'oh how sweet', it must be nice to experience things for the first time with that person that you marry.... HOWEVER, after speaking with her (and a few other women) she told me that he's just very much to the point, he goes in there to do something and when he's done, he's out. THere is no foreplay, there is nothing geared towards her pleasure, sex for them is all about him and getting her pregnant. To tell you that he's convinced her that oral sex is not all its cracked up to be.... so she doesnt get any.

Now... had she been with another man or even just educated herself on what a fulfilled sexual relationship is, then she would know that this man is selfish... and essentially a bad sexual partner.

Im not saying that sex is what makes a great marriage or relationship, but trust me, its a HUGE factor. You dont want to be with someone that doesnt rock your world everynight... you dont want to be with someone thats going to make you think that sex is a chore instead of something amazing and fun.

That being said... Im glad that Ive experienced the bad so that now I can truely and definately appreciate the very very good jungle sex

@ X: thats so sweet

And its true... once you find diamonds, you'll never go back to fooogaysees again (lol)

Guadalupana · Foro Master

God wrote:

Guadalupana wrote:Chale Tanga wrote:(Punto # 1:) I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters. (Punto # 2:) I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept. P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly? I wonder how you found that out ?

Well, if you must know. I figured since they all look the same de feos, they serve the same purpose (miar y dar plaser), it's only an educated guess, that they smell alike. chu know?
I'm not saying i dislike Mr.P, porque i'm it's #1 fan.

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

I don't know what kind of penises Guada has been in contact with but ewwwww.

X4v13r · Comandante

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Guadalupana wrote: P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept.P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly? I don't agree with "comparing" either. When you want something, reaaaaaally want something, nothing else will do. If you feel the need to compare, you either don't know what you want or it's not satisfying you. Plus, this is people we're talking about... do you compare your family or friends and just go and exchange them when you don't like something? I hope not.

true that, plus if u r not compatible in bed/sexually thats just problems in my opinion, Yes i do feel that sex is very important in a relationship.

~X

God · Foro Master

Guadalupana wrote:

Chale Tanga wrote:(Punto # 1:) I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters. (Punto # 2:) I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept.

P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly?

I wonder how you found that out ?

Guadalupana · Foro Master

GL: i'm merely sayingwhat the paper wrote, and i didn't agree with all of it. If there is one thing i hate, is double standards. Of any kind.

God: yeah yeah, then buy the whole cattle ranch. You'll have plenty of milk for ever. Then plant some soya and some rice just in case.

MJ: two males eh...hmmm. smile

i can always fantasize right?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

Chale Tanga wrote: I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters. I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.

midat thats y u and i work, we are so diff yet we think a like, I have to agree, once u find ur midat (like i have ) things change.

if this experience thing is true, man, I must be awesome!!!!!

~X

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:
P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept.

P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly?

I don't agree with "comparing" either. When you want something, reaaaaaally want something, nothing else will do. If you feel the need to compare, you either don't know what you want or it's not satisfying you. Plus, this is people we're talking about... do you compare your family or friends and just go and exchange them when you don't like something? I hope not.

X4v13r · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:

I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters.

I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.

midat thats y u and i work, we are so diff yet we think a like, I have to agree, once u find ur midat (like i have

) things change.

if this experience thing is true, man, I must be awesome!!!!!

~X

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

Chale Tanga wrote: (Punto # 1:) I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters. (Punto # 2:) I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept.

P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly?

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

not if its an animal penis

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Chale Tanga wrote:

(Punto # 1:) I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters.

(Punto # 2:) I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.

P1: true and i don't care if my friends go through many partners to find the right one. If they ever really want to settle down anyway. I don't judge, i accept.

P2: I don't agree here, i'm a perfect example. Plus, how sad is it that you need to compare past lovers with current lovers? Plus, isn't a penis by any other name still as smelly?

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

MJ, i agree with your 'if men do it, why can't girls'...but the last thing i want is to have 100 types of saliva in my system, probably mostly out of spite.

Totally agree!!! 2 males in my bed every night for me and that's it!!!

El Pibe and Loquito!!!!!!!!

@GL: Neither am I.

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

I'm in the middle on this topic. I was never a promiscuous person but I didn't want to marry the first person I was with either. I agree with Chale, when you find the right person or mate nothing else matters.

God · Foro Master

Guadalupana wrote:

That's what an article in the paper said when it came to young women practicing sexual freedom.

According to them, women are hooking up just for sex and nothing more. Preventing them from finding something meaningful for when they are ready.
They also claim that experience is essential for self-knowledge, self-awareness and growth.
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For me (in my opinion), if you want to test the waters and try the fish, by all means, it's up to you. If practice makes perfect, hey! please do it.

But it's something i never believed in. It's different for everyone i know.

What do you think?

Nahhhh I rather to try the milk before buying the cow....

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

That's what an article in the paper said when it came to young women practicing sexual freedom.

According to them, women are hooking up just for sex and nothing more. Preventing them from finding something meaningful for when they are ready.
They also claim that experience is essential for self-knowledge, self-awareness and growth.
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For me (in my opinion), if you want to test the waters and try the fish, by all means, it's up to you. If practice makes perfect, hey! please do it.

But it's something i never believed in. It's different for everyone i know.

What do you think?

Hmmmm... how so? Because you would just be jumping from one meaningless relationship to another? Because you would always be looking for a new thrill? Because you could potentially think of love as a product which you could replace?

I don't think this is exclusive of women though. I think it's just a product of the consumerist society we live in. The fact that they only put the focus on young women is kinda... what's the word I'm looking for... biased? Double standard-ish? Men can- women can't? Bah! Forget it. I agree to some extent?

As for the experience thing... uh, yeah! Duh. Experience is knowledge and I don't just mean sexuality-related knowledge.

P.S. I'm not bothering with proofreading (MJ

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Guadalupana · Foro Master

MJ, i agree with your 'if men do it, why can't girls'...but the last thing i want is to have 100 types of saliva in my system, probably mostly out of spite.

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

I dont think that how many people you sleep with affects you finding your 'perfect mate'. When you find the one youre looking for, nothing else matters.

I really dont agree with marrying the first person you sleep with either.... how do you know what you have unless you have something to compare it to.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

That's what an article in the paper said when it came to young women practicing sexual freedom.

According to them, women are hooking up just for sex and nothing more. Preventing them from finding something meaningful for when they are ready.
They also claim that experience is essential for self-knowledge, self-awareness and growth.
-------

For me (in my opinion), if you want to test the waters and try the fish, by all means, it's up to you. If practice makes perfect, hey! please do it.

But it's something i never believed in. It's different for everyone i know.

What do you think?

I'm all for testing the waters! If I want to sleep with a hundred men, so be it. As long as we're both on the same page and protection is used, it's all good!!! Men can do it, so why can't women???

Guadalupana · Foro Master

That's what an article in the paper said when it came to young women practicing sexual freedom.

According to them, women are hooking up just for sex and nothing more. Preventing them from finding something meaningful for when they are ready.
They also claim that experience is essential for self-knowledge, self-awareness and growth.
-------

For me (in my opinion), if you want to test the waters and try the fish, by all means, it's up to you. If practice makes perfect, hey! please do it.

But it's something i never believed in. It's different for everyone i know.

What do you think?