Ruining chances for lasting relationships

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

RE: Ruining chances for lasting relationships

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Marky Mark wrote:

Since we've totally gone off topic, I would like to mention that 'Asian' is too broad a term as well.

-- Edited by Marky Mark at 17:02, 2007-04-04

I agree - TOTALLY!

They should use the word "Oriental" instead!

Marky Mark · Foro Master

Since we've totally gone off topic, I would like to mention that 'Asian' is too broad a term as well. blankstare

-- Edited by Marky Mark at 17:02, 2007-04-04

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Gringa Lahtina wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???Nah... I think it's white people freaking out and making a huge deal out of it.Whatever you say! Exactly! What else should they be called? African-American? I hadn't even thought about the term "African-American" until it was brought up in my Linguistics class when we were talking about meaning. It was actually a black guy who dislikes that expression, he said it's not only a stupid white-man invention it's also restrictive. How do you refer to a black person living outside of both Africa and America? How do you refer to a white person from Africa? My classmate was fine with being called "black".

So why not say black instead of pinpointing a certain country? Hell half of Trinidad is black and the other half is of Indian descent.

Anyway, I agree with your classmate about the "African-American" term. Never made sense to me.

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Gringa Lahtina wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???Nah... I think it's white people freaking out and making a huge deal out of it.Whatever you say!

Exactly! What else should they be called? African-American? I hadn't even thought about the term "African-American" until it was brought up in my Linguistics class when we were talking about meaning. It was actually a black guy who dislikes that expression, he said it's not only a stupid white-man invention it's also restrictive. How do you refer to a black person living outside of both Africa and America? How do you refer to a white person from Africa?

My classmate was fine with being called "black".

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

luna chiquitita wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Gringa Lahtina wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: Guadalupana wrote: GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo! Well..........that was a nice slap in the face. I think she meant negros. Are you a negra? No. How come in Spanish negro doesn't sound so bad but in English it does and I can't help but to feel a tiiiiiiiny bit racist with what I wrote. Maybe cuz I am a tiiiiiiiiny bit racist? No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???everything isn't always about you MJ

I know.

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Gringa Lahtina wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: Guadalupana wrote: GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo! Well..........that was a nice slap in the face. I think she meant negros. Are you a negra? No. How come in Spanish negro doesn't sound so bad but in English it does and I can't help but to feel a tiiiiiiiny bit racist with what I wrote. Maybe cuz I am a tiiiiiiiiny bit racist? No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.

Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???

everything isn't always about you MJ

X4v13r · Comandante

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???Nah... I think it's white people freaking out and making a huge deal out of it.

nothing new, them white people do it all the time

~X

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

I M A brownie!

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???Nah... I think it's white people freaking out and making a huge deal out of it.

Whatever you say!

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:
No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.

Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???

Nah... I think it's white people freaking out and making a huge deal out of it.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Guadalupana wrote: GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo! Well..........that was a nice slap in the face. I think she meant negros.

Are you a negra? No.

How come in Spanish negro doesn't sound so bad but in English it does and I can't help but to feel a tiiiiiiiny bit racist with what I wrote. Maybe cuz I am a tiiiiiiiiny bit racist?

No, I'm not "negra" but I was raised by a Trini.

Maybe this was a case of not choosing the right words, perhaps???

God · Foro Master

luna chiquitita wrote:

i think Chinese ppl have the WORSE table manners

Just table ? Holy they are very ver mmmmmm WILD

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Guadalupana wrote: GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo! Well..........that was a nice slap in the face.

I think she meant negros.

Are you a negra? No.

How come in Spanish negro doesn't sound so bad but in English it does and I can't help but to feel a tiiiiiiiny bit racist with what I wrote.

Maybe cuz I am a tiiiiiiiiny bit racist?

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

luna chiquitita wrote:

i think Chinese ppl have the WORSE table manners

No faking kidding, man! Ho-lee crap!

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.

Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo!

Well..........that was a nice slap in the face.

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

GUADA: bring HuelePanty to your job... he would love to work there!

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:
Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo!

TOO MUCH INFOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO doh

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.

Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo!

that is the single worst smell ever in life. OMG makes me wanna gag.

Not to be rude or anything Guada, but is that lady on the bigger scale of life?
b/c I used to work for this larger lady and you could smell that **** coming a mile away, it used to disgust me so much.

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Guadalupana wrote:

GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.

Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo!

gracias por la informacion!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

GL--We latinos probably have that distinct smell too, but we just don't know it.

Oh and you forgot los morenos, as in los de jamaica o trinidad, well at least the lady here. Cuando anda con la regla, help me god! que tufo!

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

Pajaro_Loco wrote:

Nothing wrong waiting for marriage first!

Then, just to do it to procreate - NOT for entertainment or ungodly purposes!

So its YOU!!! Youre my friends husband! Why I oughtta kick you in your non existant bird pipi!!

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

i think Chinese ppl have the WORSE table manners

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

Oh yes, such as overly sulfur-ified pedos. eww.

And overly onionized armpit smell, feet au fromage, I-need-a-shower scalp, someone- crapped-in-my-mouth-breath.

Is it me and my imagination... or do obese people smell? Chinese people also have a weird smell. I used to go to the movies in a Chinese-predominant area because they are the quietest bunch but man, oh man! Stiiiiiinky!!! Indian people too... I mean... What. The. Fck.?!!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Guadalupana wrote: oh, well lookey here, i just saw this.Well, i don't know about you, but i don't care who you are and/or if you have a vagi or a peni...but las dos cosas, no matter how clean the person is, still has the certain 'sex' smell oh no? And that is the smell i'm talking about. Sex smell is not bad, healthy sex smell, that is. I can think of a whole bunch of other bodily odours that are far worse than that "sex smell".

Oh yes, such as overly sulfur-ified pedos. eww.

X4v13r · Comandante

Guadalupana wrote:

Gringa Lahtina wrote:I don't know what kind of penises Guada has been in contact with but ewwwww.
oh, well lookey here, i just saw this. Well, i don't know about you, but i don't care who you are and/or if you have a vagi or a peni...but las dos cosas, no matter how clean the person is, still has the certain 'sex' smell oh no? And that is the smell i'm talking about.

i love sex smell

~X

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

oh, well lookey here, i just saw this.Well, i don't know about you, but i don't care who you are and/or if you have a vagi or a peni...but las dos cosas, no matter how clean the person is, still has the certain 'sex' smell oh no? And that is the smell i'm talking about.

Sex smell is not bad, healthy sex smell, that is. I can think of a whole bunch of other bodily odours that are far worse than that "sex smell".

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

poor little birdie with no pipi

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

Nothing wrong waiting for marriage first!

Then, just to do it to procreate - NOT for entertainment or ungodly purposes!

X4v13r · Comandante

Pajaro_Loco wrote:

the ones on foro!

SEX IS EVIL!
I am saving it for marriage!

well now that we know ur little problem.....i guess u have to

~X

-- Edited by X4v13r at 12:36, 2007-04-04

Guadalupana · Foro Master

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

I don't know what kind of penises Guada has been in contact with but ewwwww.

oh, well lookey here, i just saw this.
Well, i don't know about you, but i don't care who you are and/or if you have a vagi or a peni...but las dos cosas, no matter how clean the person is, still has the certain 'sex' smell oh no? And that is the smell i'm talking about.

Pajaro_Loco · Guru

the ones on foro!

SEX IS EVIL!
I am saving it for marriage!

McOSIRIS · Comandante

X4v13r wrote:
i think u should finish with the ones on foro first........

~X

X4v13r · Comandante

McOSIRIS wrote:

Gringa Lahtina wrote: So you bring back the Spanish Inquisition? Man! So much for "honesty" Meh... siempre hay un roto para un descosido. BTW... I commend you for your views on sexuality. But actually, I commend anyone who does with their body what he/she wants and not what someone else wants. join my quest to eliminate all the dumb biatches from the face of Earth...

i think u should finish with the ones on foro first........

~X

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

McOSIRIS wrote:

join my quest to eliminate all the dumb biatches from the face of Earth...

thats gonna be hard hmm

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

McOSIRIS wrote:
join my quest to eliminate all the dumb biatches from the face of Earth...

Why stop at biatches?

God · Foro Master

McOSIRIS wrote:

Gringa Lahtina wrote: So you bring back the Spanish Inquisition? Man! So much for "honesty" Meh... siempre hay un roto para un descosido. BTW... I commend you for your views on sexuality. But actually, I commend anyone who does with their body what he/she wants and not what someone else wants. join my quest to eliminate all the dumb biatches from the face of Earth...

Good luck !

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Gringa Lahtina wrote:
So you bring back the Spanish Inquisition? Man! So much for "honesty" Meh... siempre hay un roto para un descosido.

BTW... I commend you for your views on sexuality. But actually, I commend anyone who does with their body what he/she wants and not what someone else wants.

join my quest to eliminate all the dumb biatches from the face of Earth...

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

McOSIRIS wrote:

Gringa Lahtina wrote: I just found that incredibly funny. Question... what if you didn't know? Let's say she was a tramp and everyone knew about it but you. Let's say you were completely happy in the relationship and so was she... and THEN you found out. Would things change? Aaaaah, ignorance is bliss! that's where inteligence comes to play... you can tell right away by picking up certain messages that perhaps not many people pay attention to.

So you bring back the Spanish Inquisition? Man! So much for "honesty" Meh... siempre hay un roto para un descosido.

BTW... I commend you for your views on sexuality.

But actually, I commend anyone who does with their body what he/she wants and not what someone else wants.

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:
wowzers... sounds like a job interview

Pero todo es al gusto del cliente dicen... so if thats what works for you hun, then go for it.

I know it sounds very harsh...but I've had may bad experiences, so now I need to make sure who am I really with...

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

McOSIRIS wrote:
like many things... body language, the things she says, stories she tell, the way she refers to men and/or women, etc... kindda difficult to explain thru words, but It's like a psychological assessment right on the spot...

wowzers... sounds like a job interview weirdface

Pero todo es al gusto del cliente dicen... so if thats what works for you hun, then go for it.

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:
like what?

like many things... body language, the things she says, stories she tell, the way she refers to men and/or women, etc... kindda difficult to explain thru words, but It's like a psychological assessment right on the spot...

X4v13r · Comandante

Yesi wrote:

I definaly agree with a lot of you on this...But still I am marrying my first.

Love came to me to early in life and that is why I never tried anything else... Of course I think about it.... If it is the same with other man and staff but to be honest with you I am truly happy in ben and outside of bed... So as long as there is communication between partners it does not really matter if you married your firt or your 100.... right?

I have only been with one man, but what a man baby... I am so happy.....

Like JC said, thats what counts the most, that u guys are happy.

~X

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

McOSIRIS wrote:

that's where inteligence comes to play... you can tell right away by picking up certain messages that perhaps not many people pay attention to.

like what?

Yesi · Guru

I definaly agree with a lot of you on this...But still I am marrying my first.

Love came to me to early in life and that is why I never tried anything else... Of course I think about it.... If it is the same with other man and staff but to be honest with you I am truly happy in ben and outside of bed... So as long as there is communication between partners it does not really matter if you married your firt or your 100.... right?

I have only been with one man, but what a man baby... I am so happy.....

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Gringa Lahtina wrote:
I just found that incredibly funny. Question... what if you didn't know? Let's say she was a tramp and everyone knew about it but you. Let's say you were completely happy in the relationship and so was she... and THEN you found out. Would things change? Aaaaah, ignorance is bliss!

that's where inteligence comes to play... you can tell right away by picking up certain messages that perhaps not many people pay attention to.

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

McOSIRIS wrote:

I wouldn't want to take a woman to my bed knowing that she's been inseminated numerous times...For me (and I've said several times in this foro) my body is sacred and sex is the maximum expression of my feelings. I understand some of my male counterparts would think this is gay or whatevah but that's what works for me...

I just found that incredibly funny. Question... what if you didn't know? Let's say she was a tramp and everyone knew about it but you. Let's say you were completely happy in the relationship and so was she... and THEN you found out. Would things change? Aaaaah, ignorance is bliss!

X4v13r · Comandante

McOSIRIS wrote:

I wouldn't want to take a woman to my bed knowing that she's been inseminated numerous times...For me (and I've said several times in this foro) my body is sacred and sex is the maximum expression of my feelings. I understand some of my male counterparts would think this is gay or whatevah but that's what works for me...

I guess danny416 was right about u

j/k

I have to agree...........I don't even want to know anything about the people she has been with or anything her pass is the pass and keep it there thats what i say.

~X

McOSIRIS · Comandante

I wouldn't want to take a woman to my bed knowing that she's been inseminated numerous times...For me (and I've said several times in this foro) my body is sacred and sex is the maximum expression of my feelings. I understand some of my male counterparts would think this is gay or whatevah but that's what works for me...

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

Chale--well why didn't she tell him how she wanted it? That guy was wack! Why didn't she voice it?!!!
I know it's besides the point now since she has moved on, and thank god for that. That man needs to be neutered for not using as it's supposed to be.

oh no girl... she's STILL with him... they have a baby together... she's not leaving that marriage ANYTIME soon. I feel for her.

As for the prick.... yah... whatever... Im past the point of caring now.

If she wanted a change, she'd do somethign about it. Everyone is in the relationship that they want to be in. If you dont like it, change... if you dont change, its cuz you like it the way it is.