To stay or to leave.................

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

RE: To stay or to leave.................

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Uh-oh... MJ has been posting for 5 minutes.

That's where knowing what others are doing comes in handy...

X4v13r · Comandante

Chale Tanga wrote:

(I still havent read it all... its way too long... I refuse)

Anywhore, what i gather from the skimming that I did.. is the following:

1. Facebook is the DEVIL
2. Thats why you leave things that are in the past, in the past
3. I dont know how it is that trouble always seems to find you MJ... its like youre a magnet for it. Destress your life by not even getting involved in this... its really not worth it.
4. How does El Pibe really feel about this? Like how does he REALLY feel? (I know that this wouldve caused major drama and tension had this been Mr. Tanga)

I'm sure he doesn't like it thats y he told her to remove her self from it before......
If it was Princessa in this we be having problems long time ago, I would have never let it get this bad/far.

~X

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

(I still havent read it all... its way too long... I refuse)

Anywhore, what i gather from the skimming that I did.. is the following:

1. Facebook is the DEVIL

2. Thats why you leave things that are in the past, in the past
3. I dont know how it is that trouble always seems to find you MJ... its like youre a magnet for it. Destress your life by not even getting involved in this... its really not worth it.
4. How does El Pibe really feel about this? Like how does he REALLY feel? (I know that this wouldve caused major drama and tension had this been Mr. Tanga)

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

TV Buff wrote: yeah, I read the whole thing too and I agree with GL. I think he cheated just by telling you what Lahtina highlighted. And I think you're wrong to be getting involved in this. It's not your place. He's not your friend, you don't know if the wife cheated, and even if she did, it's up to them both to deal with that issue. He shouldn't be looking outside of the marriage to fix it. And he's not looking for advise from you, that's fo' sho. And you should not be playing with fire. You should be nowhere near this couple, or sending messages, or visiting his siter or any of that.Just my Yes, he's my friend. And yes I do know that his wife cheated. How was he looking outside of his marriage to fix it? He wasn't coming to me for some luvin' that's for sure.

NOW, I know not even to say hi but I just figured, time has past, we've all grown up, where's the harm in saying hello?! I didn't realize I would get slaughtered for it.

As for visiting his sister, she's ALWAYS been my friend and his mother has always stayed in touch. So I'm not going to cut them off based on all this nonsense.

This got blown WAY out of proportion but yes, I will admit that I'm pretty damn naive and retarded.

@X: I hear ya.

Yeah, maybe you are naive and that's probably why Pibe didn't let you know of all the red flags ("contact me when my wife's not here, let's pick up where we left off," etc). Instead of telling you of all his problems and whatever, he should've been talking to the wife about it. Like Dr. Phil says, if you have nothing to hide, then you hide nothing. You should be transparent, and he wasn't. That's why the wife freaked out. Regardless of whether she cheated or not, that's something for them to deal with and solve. Obviously the past is not in the past and there's some unfinished business here, and the wife sees it that way too. Whether that's not the case for you, she doesn't know. Sometimes is better to leave friendships and the like in the past. Remember them for what they were and move on. Now if you're going to visit the sister and mother and keep in touch with them, just don't mention anything about the couple because, like I said, it's not your place to get involved.

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

MJ, you haven't spoken to him in, what, 10 years? that doesn't make him your friend, sweetie, that makes him your acquaintance. Someone you knew YEARS ago (yes slept with) but you've both grown up and are different ppl now.

He was looking outside the marriage to fix his problems by simply TELLING you his problems and then asking you for advice about what to do. He also threw the "WHAT IF WE GOT BACK 2GETHER" into the cosmos and that in itself, is him looking outside of his relationship for a "fixing". You didn't give him "luvin'" as you say, but you gave him false hope and you didn't even realize it.

It's best you just remove yourself from this equation all together before it starts seeping into your relationship with El Pibe. El has been very supportive of you up to this point but there MAY come a time when he MAY say WTF already.... I don't know El Pibe so I can't say he WILL but it MAY happen and you need to be aware of that.

The only way to fix this now is to do what Yesi said. Block them all from your Facebook, MSN, phone or whatever and move on. Let them deal with their drama and you move on with your life.

-- Edited by luna chiquitita at 11:22, 2007-04-04

don_plyero · Guru

wow MJ good luck with that

well i grew up with just my mom so i know how Fed up it is for someone growing up

and let me just say that any guy who decides to stay around just for their kids is a real man

just tell the guy to do whats in his heart, if he wants to leave then just leave, but remeber that its not about the wife, its about his kids

thats sum plyero ent advise biggrin

X4v13r · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

TV Buff wrote: yeah, I read the whole thing too and I agree with GL. I think he cheated just by telling you what Lahtina highlighted. And I think you're wrong to be getting involved in this. It's not your place. He's not your friend, you don't know if the wife cheated, and even if she did, it's up to them both to deal with that issue. He shouldn't be looking outside of the marriage to fix it. And he's not looking for advise from you, that's fo' sho. And you should not be playing with fire. You should be nowhere near this couple, or sending messages, or visiting his siter or any of that.Just my Yes, he's my friend. And yes I do know that his wife cheated. How was he looking outside of his marriage to fix it? He wasn't coming to me for some luvin' that's for sure.

NOW, I know not even to say hi but I just figured, time has past, we've all grown up, where's the harm in saying hello?! I didn't realize I would get slaughtered for it.

As for visiting his sister, she's ALWAYS been my friend and his mother has always stayed in touch. So I'm not going to cut them off based on all this nonsense.

This got blown WAY out of proportion but yes, I will admit that I'm pretty damn naive and retarded.

@X: I hear ya.

Like i said nothing wrong with u saying hi but you when wrong by letting the guy get to comfortable with u.

~X

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

Yeah, you're right. I did notice those red flags but I set him straight from day one and said, "It's a friendship or nothing!" which I thought worked out well because he never said anything like that after.ugh I'm so naive. @Yesi: No one can possibly think I want him!!!!! Can they???

It's not that at all. I just read what you proceeded to do after that... I shall make no further comment about any of this because I don't want to start another little war between you and I but... *aaaaaargh* I'll just bite me tongue.

-- Edited by Gringa Lahtina at 11:17, 2007-04-04

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

TV Buff wrote:

yeah, I read the whole thing too and I agree with GL. I think he cheated just by telling you what Lahtina highlighted. And I think you're wrong to be getting involved in this. It's not your place. He's not your friend, you don't know if the wife cheated, and even if she did, it's up to them both to deal with that issue. He shouldn't be looking outside of the marriage to fix it. And he's not looking for advise from you, that's fo' sho. And you should not be playing with fire. You should be nowhere near this couple, or sending messages, or visiting his siter or any of that.

Just my

Yes, he's my friend.

And yes I do know that his wife cheated.

How was he looking outside of his marriage to fix it? He wasn't coming to me for some luvin' that's for sure.

NOW, I know not even to say hi but I just figured, time has past, we've all grown up, where's the harm in saying hello?! I didn't realize I would get slaughtered for it.

As for visiting his sister, she's ALWAYS been my friend and his mother has always stayed in touch. So I'm not going to cut them off based on all this nonsense.

This got blown WAY out of proportion but yes, I will admit that I'm pretty damn naive and retarded.

@X: I hear ya.

X4v13r · Comandante

What everyone is trying to say is that, MJ ur at fault here and u need to get out as soon as u can before it gets any worst.

He wasn't ur friend for so long so what is the problem now to let go?

~X

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

what Boof and GLaht said

@ Chale.. u lazy arse.. NO! I will NOT summarize NUFFIN'!

-- Edited by luna chiquitita at 11:09, 2007-04-04

TV Buff · TOP Guru

yeah, I read the whole thing too and I agree with GL. I think he cheated just by telling you what Lahtina highlighted. And I think you're wrong to be getting involved in this. It's not your place. He's not your friend, you don't know if the wife cheated, and even if she did, it's up to them both to deal with that issue. He shouldn't be looking outside of the marriage to fix it. And he's not looking for advise from you, that's fo' sho. And you should not be playing with fire. You should be nowhere near this couple, or sending messages, or visiting his siter or any of that.

Just my

Chale Tanga · TOP Guru

I'll give my opinion in a second... just waiting for luna to summarize the entire contents of this entire (and might I add, long) thread into a neat little coles note package.

thank you.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: So here's the e-mail I sent to my girlfriend yesterday about this whole crazy mess I got myself into!!! Names have been changed to protect identities (and fulfill fantasies).Hey girl!!! Ready for this one?Ok, ready? And go. Girl, grab a drink before you read all this!!! LOL Ok, now I'm ready. When I was 16, I met my first love. Yes, he was my first, we were madly in love and we were hunky dory!!! In March or May of 98, I broke up with him because.... well, who wants to be in a serious relationship at that age??!! So he started dating someone right after that which I knew was a rebound but I didnt care. We remained friends until I met his girlfriend, pleasantly said, "Nice to meet you!" and after that, she banned him from talking to me. He's always been INCREDIBLY loyal (that he wont even stick up for himself) so that was the end of our friendship. A year later they got married (she was prego). The first three months of his marriage, we still kept seeing each other but in the end, I snapped out of it and said, "You blew it! We would've been together had you given me time but you ran off and got married because you knocked someone up. I cant be with a married man and a FATHER!" So that was that. Ok doooooooon't snap but... this should have been your first red flag. You should definitely (and you can't really) be friends with someone with whom you ended on such terms but... to eaches own. Fast forward to 2007!!! Who do I find on Facebook??? Yes yes yes, my first love himself, Mr. Johnny Depp!!! Feel free to search!!! lol Much to my delight, I noticed he was still married to the same girl and had not one, but two beautiful girls. I sent him a message, "Hey how are you stranger? Good to see you're still happily married and with two beautiful little girls! Congrats!!! Take care!" which SOMEHOW began WWIII. Looking for trouble much? I'll post an article I read in the paper yesterday regarding Facebook... very interesting. It's at home though and I'm at school. The wifey IMMEDIATELY spotted that and called him at work screaming that I had tried to add him as a friend and that he will not and shall not respond. He responded anyway, like so, "Hey, theres a face I havent seen in awhile. Do you have an e-mail address so that we can talk on MSN? By the way, don't respond to this just wait until Wednesday night and Thursday night when my wife is at work. " At this point, Im just thinking in my head, WTF? I just said HI! So whatever, we began talking and he kept rambling on and on about how he often wondered what would have happened with us if he had not gotten married. He told me how his wife cheated on him in '05 and how we was looking for me, that they had gotten back together after LOTS of begging on her part and for the sake of the children. However, since then, he hasnt been able to trust her, understandably so. He asked me, "If we separated and I told you I wanted to continue from where we left off, what would you say?" I snapped him back to reality and said, "Uhhhh hello??!!! I have El Pibe!!!" He then said, "I know that silly, I meant if you werent in a relationship?" Anyway, we talked via webcam and I often had El Pibe sitting right beside me and El Pibe was cool with who I was talking with. We were enjoying our newfound friendship!And here you should have said your goodbyes. I don't need to read the rest now. Play with fire, you're gonna get burned. It might have actually been a good idea to stop all contact after he said "wait till my wife is gone to reply (or something along those lines) but I probably would have continued the contact out of sheer curiosity... nothing wrong with some good ol' curiosity but yeah.... then you wonder how you started WWIII. Again, don't snap, just giving you my point of view... *heading for cover*So last week, I went onto my very good friends profile, and noticed Johnny Depp's wife on his profile. I immediately asked, "Hey, how do you know Medusa?" to which he replied, I went to high school with her and she f@cked Fat Albert! (I happen to know Fat Albert as he wanted my arse!! Lol) My spidey senses started tingling so I asked, "Before or AFTER she was married?" and he said, "BOTH!!!!!" At the same time, wifey noticed on his profile that I was there and immediately started questioning him. Doing her job to make me look like a home wrecker/mistress, she said that Johnny Depp and I were together when they had first gotten married. Ugh! Fortunately, my friend knows me well enough to know the truth. ANYWAY, Johnny Depp and I decided to finally meet up after so long! We met up this past Saturday and pretty much reminisced about everything and anything. It was nice, fun, and great to catch up on all these years that have passed. YESTERDAY, I get a text message from him saying, "Medusa found your e-mail address and your number." I replied, "You're screwed! Screw this. This is looking to be an affair. I dont want to deal with this anymore." And he said, "Thats fine! I understand." So I went on my Facebook and you know where it says MJ is home or MJ is tired or whatever? Well, I put, MJ is wondering why some women are such b*tche$? GET OVER IT!!! and went away to do my thing. When I came home later that evening, I had realized that I was going to be in the old area and that I should ask a friend (who happens to be Johnny Depp's sister) if she wanted to meet up. What do I see on her profile?? Medusa posting, "WHY ARE WOMEN SUCH B*TCHE$??? Hahahahaha!!!!" GIRL!!!! I cant tell you how PISSED I was when I saw that. To know that she was snooping on MY profile???? One word: WHACK!!!!! So being the natural bee-otch that I am, I changed the status and put, MJ is asking, "Have you seen a white Saturn lately? cause I have!!! ;)" Thus describing Johnny Depp's vehicle and letting her know that we've seen each other. Immature? Perhaps. Vengeful? Yup! Do I care? Nope. So THEN Johnny Depp's sister responds on Medusa's profile, "That was so random! What was that all about?" obviously unaware of the situation. So I took it upon myself to write to the sister and explain my side of the story. I'm not expecting her to pick sides but I wanted to let her know the deal. At one point I said, "I don't respect a woman who cheats on her husband who happens to be a very special friend to me." And blah blah blah. This was all last night. TODAY, I get a text message from Johnny Depp himself saying, "Sorry to bother you but what did you tell my sister? "FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUDDDDDDDDDGGGGGGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE So something tells me that I exposed something that SHOULDNT have been exposed. Anyway, thats the story SO FAR!!!! I am seriously hating Facebook right now.Help me.-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 10:42, 2007-04-04

Yeah, you're right. I did notice those red flags but I set him straight from day one and said, "It's a friendship or nothing!" which I thought worked out well because he never said anything like that after.

ugh I'm so naive.

@Yesi: No one can possibly think I want him!!!!! Can they???

X4v13r · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: luna chiquitita wrote: oh mji have to agree with u Luna, MJ u put urself in this live with it now, if i was EL Pibe i be very ~XHey, I never hid anything from El Pibe. He knows everything.is not about hidding things.......is about not bringing unwanted problems into a relationship.~XThere aren't any problems with my relationship. Are you referring to Medusa and Johnny Depp's relationship?

You know X.......I figured AFTER 10 years she would've gotten over it and been civilized about it all. I also figured that she would see that I'm with El Pibe which is clearly stated on my profile. I had NO idea it would get to this point. Trust me, if I had known, I would have NEVER even said hello.

I'm not saying u r looking for them but like i said before they have a funny way of finding u.
I guess is just me but once I'm done with some1 is done......if I see them i say hello maybe a little talk here and there but NEVER give them enough for them to feel comfortable, for reasons just like the one u r going thru at the moment.........If i was u, I would have told "my friend" to F@ck off and not even look at me.

i just hate **** like this.

~X

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

So here's the e-mail I sent to my girlfriend yesterday about this whole crazy mess I got myself into!!! Names have been changed to protect identities (and fulfill fantasies).

Hey girl!!! Ready for this one?

Ok, ready? And go. Girl, grab a drink before you read all this!!! LOL Ok, now I'm ready.

When I was 16, I met my first love. Yes, he was my first, we were madly in love and we were hunky dory!!! In March or May of 98, I broke up with him because.... well, who wants to be in a serious relationship at that age??!! So he started dating someone right after that which I knew was a rebound but I didnt care. We remained friends until I met his girlfriend, pleasantly said, "Nice to meet you!" and after that, she banned him from talking to me. He's always been INCREDIBLY loyal (that he wont even stick up for himself) so that was the end of our friendship. A year later they got married (she was prego). The first three months of his marriage, we still kept seeing each other but in the end, I snapped out of it and said, "You blew it! We would've been together had you given me time but you ran off and got married because you knocked someone up. I cant be with a married man and a FATHER!" So that was that.

Ok doooooooon't snap but... this should have been your first red flag. You should definitely (and you can't really) be friends with someone with whom you ended on such terms but... to eaches own.

Fast forward to 2007!!!

Who do I find on Facebook??? Yes yes yes, my first love himself, Mr. Johnny Depp!!! Feel free to search!!! lol Much to my delight, I noticed he was still married to the same girl and had not one, but two beautiful girls. I sent him a message, "Hey how are you stranger? Good to see you're still happily married and with two beautiful little girls! Congrats!!! Take care!" which SOMEHOW began WWIII.

Looking for trouble much? I'll post an article I read in the paper yesterday regarding Facebook... very interesting. It's at home though and I'm at school.

The wifey IMMEDIATELY spotted that and called him at work screaming that I had tried to add him as a friend and that he will not and shall not respond. He responded anyway, like so, "Hey, theres a face I havent seen in awhile. Do you have an e-mail address so that we can talk on MSN? By the way, don't respond to this just wait until Wednesday night and Thursday night when my wife is at work. " At this point, Im just thinking in my head, WTF? I just said HI!

So whatever, we began talking and he kept rambling on and on about how he often wondered what would have happened with us if he had not gotten married. He told me how his wife cheated on him in '05 and how we was looking for me, that they had gotten back together after LOTS of begging on her part and for the sake of the children. However, since then, he hasnt been able to trust her, understandably so. He asked me, "If we separated and I told you I wanted to continue from where we left off, what would you say?" I snapped him back to reality and said, "Uhhhh hello??!!!  I have El Pibe!!!" He then said, "I know that silly, I meant if you werent in a relationship?"  Anyway, we talked via webcam and I often had El Pibe sitting right beside me and El Pibe was cool with who I was talking with. We were enjoying our newfound friendship!

And here you should have said your goodbyes. I don't need to read the rest now. Play with fire, you're gonna get burned. It might have actually been a good idea to stop all contact after he said "wait till my wife is gone to reply (or something along those lines) but I probably would have continued the contact out of sheer curiosity... nothing wrong with some good ol' curiosity but yeah.... then you wonder how you started WWIII. Again, don't snap, just giving you my point of view... *heading for cover*

So last week, I went onto my very good friends profile, and noticed Johnny Depp's wife on his profile. I immediately asked, "Hey, how do you know Medusa?" to which he replied, I went to high school with her and she f@cked Fat Albert! (I happen to know Fat Albert as he wanted my arse!! Lol) My spidey senses started tingling so I asked, "Before or AFTER she was married?" and he said, "BOTH!!!!!" At the same time, wifey noticed on his profile that I was there and immediately started questioning him. Doing her job to make me look like a home wrecker/mistress, she said that Johnny Depp and I were together when they had first gotten married. Ugh! Fortunately, my friend knows me well enough to know the truth.

ANYWAY, Johnny Depp and I decided to finally meet up after so long! We met up this past Saturday and pretty much reminisced about everything and anything. It was nice, fun, and great to catch up on all these years that have passed.

YESTERDAY, I get a text message from him saying, "Medusa found your e-mail address and your number." I replied, "You're screwed! Screw this. This is looking to be an affair. I dont want to deal with this anymore." And he said, "Thats fine! I understand." So I went on my Facebook and you know where it says MJ is home or MJ is tired or whatever? Well, I put, MJ is wondering why some women are such b*tche$? GET OVER IT!!! and went away to do my thing.

When I came home later that evening, I had realized that I was going to be in the old area and that I should ask a friend (who happens to be Johnny Depp's sister) if she wanted to meet up. What do I see on her profile??  Medusa posting, "WHY ARE WOMEN SUCH B*TCHE$??? Hahahahaha!!!!"

GIRL!!!! I cant tell you how PISSED I was when I saw that. To know that she was snooping on MY profile???? One word: WHACK!!!!! So being the natural bee-otch that I am, I changed the status and put, MJ is asking, "Have you seen a white Saturn lately? cause I have!!! ;)" Thus describing Johnny Depp's vehicle and letting her know that we've seen each other.

Immature? Perhaps. Vengeful? Yup! Do I care? Nope.

So THEN Johnny Depp's sister responds on Medusa's profile, "That was so random! What was that all about?" obviously unaware of the situation. So I took it upon myself to write to the sister and explain my side of the story. I'm not expecting her to pick sides but I wanted to let her know the deal. At one point I said, "I don't respect a woman who cheats on her husband who happens to be a very special friend to me." And blah blah blah. This was all last night. TODAY, I get a text message from Johnny Depp himself saying, "Sorry to bother you but what did you tell my sister? "

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUDDDDDDDDDGGGGGGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

So something tells me that I exposed something that SHOULDNT have been exposed. Anyway, thats the story SO FAR!!!!

I am seriously hating Facebook right now.

Help me.

-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 10:42, 2007-04-04

Yesi · Guru

Wow MJ this is worst than a Mexican Soap opera....

I say just get as far as possible from this people.... Block them from Facebook and that is it.....

There is nothing you can do now... everyone is going to think you are after him..Sorry....

Just stop talking to all of them all together.....

Just my two cents

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: luna chiquitita wrote: oh mji have to agree with u Luna, MJ u put urself in this live with it now, if i was EL Pibe i be very ~XHey, I never hid anything from El Pibe. He knows everything.
is not about hidding things.......is about not bringing unwanted problems into a relationship.

~X

There aren't any problems with my relationship. Are you referring to Medusa and Johnny Depp's relationship?

You know X.......I figured AFTER 10 years she would've gotten over it and been civilized about it all. I also figured that she would see that I'm with El Pibe which is clearly stated on my profile. I had NO idea it would get to this point. Trust me, if I had known, I would have NEVER even said hello.

X4v13r · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

X4v13r wrote: luna chiquitita wrote: oh mji have to agree with u Luna, MJ u put urself in this live with it now, if i was EL Pibe i be very ~XHey, I never hid anything from El Pibe. He knows everything.

is not about hidding things.......is about not bringing unwanted problems into a relationship.

~X

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Okay, so 80% of your e-mail to your GF is what we already know 'cause it's in this thread. So just give us the gist of the new development. We don't have all day, chu no? We're working here.

Sheesh! I thought gossiping was simple.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

luna chiquitita wrote: oh mj

i have to agree with u Luna, MJ u put urself in this live with it now, if i was EL Pibe i be very

~X

Hey, I never hid anything from El Pibe.

He knows everything.

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Guadalupana wrote:

You are all a bunch of lazy cu los. if you can read a 5000 page book, sans nag, you can certainly read these few 'sentences'

PFFT!

I'm not lazy... I just wanna know what the hell it is I'm gonna read.

ETA: Fine, I'll read it regardless of not knowing (or caring) WTF is going on. I just wanna know why Luna is disapproving.

-- Edited by Gringa Lahtina at 10:49, 2007-04-04

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

That was my intro. I had sent that e-mail to a female friend of mine.

What? There's another person involved in your buddy's mess too now? Not to mention us...

Holy gossip city, Batman!

I'm still confused.

X4v13r · Comandante

luna chiquitita wrote:

oh mj

i have to agree with u Luna, MJ u put urself in this live with it now, if i was EL Pibe i be very

~X

Guadalupana · Foro Master

You are all a bunch of lazy cu los. if you can read a 5000 page book, sans nag, you can certainly read these few 'sentences'

PFFT!

luna chiquitita · TOP Guru

oh mj

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

TV Buff wrote:

X4v13r wrote: WTF!!!!can some pls summarize this.thnk u,~XI know!!!

Too long. I need a summary.

I volunteer to summarize but first I need a clearer upper.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

Gringa Lahtina wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: So here's the e-mail I sent to my girlfriend yesterday about this whole crazy mess I got myself into!!! Names have been changed to protect identities (and fulfill fantasies).Girlfriend? I thought this whole thread was about a guy friend? So who is "I" and who is "girlfriend" now? I refuse to read the email until this matter has been cleared.

That was my intro. I had sent that e-mail to a female friend of mine.

TV Buff · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

WTF!!!!

can some pls summarize this.

thnk u,

~X

I know!!!

Too long. I need a summary.

Gringa Lahtina · Guru

Motown Junkie wrote:

So here's the e-mail I sent to my girlfriend yesterday about this whole crazy mess I got myself into!!! Names have been changed to protect identities (and fulfill fantasies).

Girlfriend? I thought this whole thread was about a guy friend? So who is "I" and who is "girlfriend" now? I refuse to read the email until this matter has been cleared.

Guadalupana · Foro Master

ese lodo si que esta hondo.

X4v13r · Comandante

WTF!!!!

can some pls summarize this.

thnk u,

~X

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

So here's the e-mail I sent to my girlfriend yesterday about this whole crazy mess I got myself into!!! Names have been changed to protect identities (and fulfill fantasies).

Hey girl!!! Ready for this one?

Ok, ready? And go. Girl, grab a drink before you read all this!!! LOL Ok, now I'm ready.

When I was 16, I met my first love. Yes, he was my first, we were madly in love and we were hunky dory!!! In March or May of 98, I broke up with him because.... well, who wants to be in a serious relationship at that age??!! So he started dating someone right after that which I knew was a rebound but I didnt care. We remained friends until I met his girlfriend, pleasantly said, "Nice to meet you!" and after that, she banned him from talking to me. He's always been INCREDIBLY loyal (that he wont even stick up for himself) so that was the end of our friendship. A year later they got married (she was prego). The first three months of his marriage, we still kept seeing each other but in the end, I snapped out of it and said, "You blew it! We would've been together had you given me time but you ran off and got married because you knocked someone up. I cant be with a married man and a FATHER!" So that was that.

Fast forward to 2007!!!

Who do I find on Facebook??? Yes yes yes, my first love himself, Mr. Johnny Depp!!! Feel free to search!!! lol Much to my delight, I noticed he was still married to the same girl and had not one, but two beautiful girls. I sent him a message, "Hey how are you stranger? Good to see you're still happily married and with two beautiful little girls! Congrats!!! Take care!" which SOMEHOW began WWIII.

The wifey IMMEDIATELY spotted that and called him at work screaming that I had tried to add him as a friend and that he will not and shall not respond. He responded anyway, like so, "Hey, theres a face I havent seen in awhile. Do you have an e-mail address so that we can talk on MSN? By the way, don't respond to this just wait until Wednesday night and Thursday night when my wife is at work. " At this point, Im just thinking in my head, WTF? I just said HI!

So whatever, we began talking and he kept rambling on and on about how he often wondered what would have happened with us if he had not gotten married. He told me how his wife cheated on him in '05 and how we was looking for me, that they had gotten back together after LOTS of begging on her part and for the sake of the children. However, since then, he hasnt been able to trust her, understandably so. He asked me, "If we separated and I told you I wanted to continue from where we left off, what would you say?" I snapped him back to reality and said, "Uhhhh hello??!!! I have El Pibe!!!" He then said, "I know that silly, I meant if you werent in a relationship?" Anyway, we talked via webcam and I often had El Pibe sitting right beside me and El Pibe was cool with who I was talking with. We were enjoying our newfound friendship!

So last week, I went onto my very good friends profile, and noticed Johnny Depp's wife on his profile. I immediately asked, "Hey, how do you know Medusa?" to which he replied, I went to high school with her and she f@cked Fat Albert! (I happen to know Fat Albert as he wanted my arse!! Lol) My spidey senses started tingling so I asked, "Before or AFTER she was married?" and he said, "BOTH!!!!!" At the same time, wifey noticed on his profile that I was there and immediately started questioning him. Doing her job to make me look like a home wrecker/mistress, she said that Johnny Depp and I were together when they had first gotten married. Ugh! Fortunately, my friend knows me well enough to know the truth.

ANYWAY, Johnny Depp and I decided to finally meet up after so long! We met up this past Saturday and pretty much reminisced about everything and anything. It was nice, fun, and great to catch up on all these years that have passed.

YESTERDAY, I get a text message from him saying, "Medusa found your e-mail address and your number." I replied, "You're screwed! Screw this. This is looking to be an affair. I dont want to deal with this anymore." And he said, "Thats fine! I understand." So I went on my Facebook and you know where it says MJ is home or MJ is tired or whatever? Well, I put, MJ is wondering why some women are such b*tche$? GET OVER IT!!! and went away to do my thing.

When I came home later that evening, I had realized that I was going to be in the old area and that I should ask a friend (who happens to be Johnny Depp's sister) if she wanted to meet up. What do I see on her profile?? Medusa posting, "WHY ARE WOMEN SUCH B*TCHE$??? Hahahahaha!!!!"

GIRL!!!! I cant tell you how PISSED I was when I saw that. To know that she was snooping on MY profile???? One word: WHACK!!!!! So being the natural bee-otch that I am, I changed the status and put, MJ is asking, "Have you seen a white Saturn lately? cause I have!!! ;)" Thus describing Johnny Depp's vehicle and letting her know that we've seen each other.

Immature? Perhaps. Vengeful? Yup! Do I care? Nope.

So THEN Johnny Depp's sister responds on Medusa's profile, "That was so random! What was that all about?" obviously unaware of the situation. So I took it upon myself to write to the sister and explain my side of the story. I'm not expecting her to pick sides but I wanted to let her know the deal. At one point I said, "I don't respect a woman who cheats on her husband who happens to be a very special friend to me." And blah blah blah. This was all last night. TODAY, I get a text message from Johnny Depp himself saying, "Sorry to bother you but what did you tell my sister? "

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUDDDDDDDDDGGGGGGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

So something tells me that I exposed something that SHOULDNT have been exposed. Anyway, thats the story SO FAR!!!!

I am seriously hating Facebook right now.

Help me.

-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 10:42, 2007-04-04

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

GENIE wrote:

MJ - i hate to say it but the boys are right here! You were going to get put in an awkard situation not by your friend but by his wife and then if the marriage did or does fall apart she will hold it over his head that you were the reason regadless if she cheated and did what she wanted in her eyes and in the little girls eyes (when they are old enough to understand) MJ will be the evil one in this game! and that i know will bother you even though u had nothing to do with it! But thats how stupid some women are! its for your own good and like Xavi said in the long run u will suffer!

Yeah.

You're right.

For once I paid attention to El Pibe and X@vier.

Going outside to see if pigs are flying.

GENIE · Foro Master

MJ - i hate to say it but the boys are right here! You were going to get put in an awkard situation not by your friend but by his wife and then if the marriage did or does fall apart she will hold it over his head that you were the reason regadless if she cheated and did what she wanted in her eyes and in the little girls eyes (when they are old enough to understand) MJ will be the evil one in this game! and that i know will bother you even though u had nothing to do with it! But thats how stupid some women are! its for your own good and like Xavi said in the long run u will suffer!

X4v13r · Comandante

bigbrother wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Can you not say BRO???!!!! I always thought that sounded stupid!!!!He meant that if the "wife" was having problems with Princessa (just for being a friend) he, as Princessa's boyfriend, would have problems with the situation itself.Anyway, whatever. I just told him that I can't keep in touch anymore. Ain't nut'n wrong with saying bro, sistah.

And did you really tell him you "couldn't" keep in touch anymore? How old are you? 9? I hope you worded it differently.

If you want my opinion (good) and if you don't want it (tough). Your duty as a friend should have been to just lend an ear to your buddy, not to try and "save him". This was a pretty delicate matter. Nobody stays in a situation they don't want to stay in. He had it coming with you in the picture or not. I think it's pretty clear who wears the pants in that family.

reason to let it go and move on, and she was being an ear for him and she was not trying to save him but just give her opinion, nothing wrong with what she did.

~X

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

bigbrother wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: Can you not say BRO???!!!! I always thought that sounded stupid!!!!He meant that if the "wife" was having problems with Princessa (just for being a friend) he, as Princessa's boyfriend, would have problems with the situation itself.Anyway, whatever. I just told him that I can't keep in touch anymore. Ain't nut'n wrong with saying bro, sistah.

And did you really tell him you "couldn't" keep in touch anymore? How old are you? 9? I hope you worded it differently.

If you want my opinion (good) and if you don't want it (tough). Your duty as a friend should have been to just lend an ear to your buddy, not to try and "save him". This was a pretty delicate matter. Nobody stays in a situation they don't want to stay in. He had it coming with you in the picture or not. I think it's pretty clear who wears the pants in that family.

a) Don't call me sistah cause I ain't your "sistah" nor am I your sister.
b) What difference does it make, HOW I WORDED my conversation? Who cares if I said, "F@ck off!" or "I don't think it's right that we continue talking out of respect for your marriage." Eitherway, it's none of your business.
c) Who says I was trying to "save him"??? I was doing exactly what you said and just lending an ear!
d) And yes, I knew he had it coming. My only concern was that I did not want to be a "pawn" in some stupid little game.

bigbrother · Regular Plus

Motown Junkie wrote:
Can you not say BRO???!!!!

I always thought that sounded stupid!!!!

He meant that if the "wife" was having problems with Princessa (just for being a friend) he, as Princessa's boyfriend, would have problems with the situation itself.

Anyway, whatever. I just told him that I can't keep in touch anymore.

Ain't nut'n wrong with saying bro, sistah.

And did you really tell him you "couldn't" keep in touch anymore? How old are you? 9? I hope you worded it differently.

If you want my opinion (good) and if you don't want it (tough). Your duty as a friend should have been to just lend an ear to your buddy, not to try and "save him". This was a pretty delicate matter. Nobody stays in a situation they don't want to stay in. He had it coming with you in the picture or not. I think it's pretty clear who wears the pants in that family.

El Pibe · Guru

X4v13r wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: El Pibe wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again. is the best for u and ur man.~XFor me and El Pibe? Well yeah, I see it this way......if this other "lady" is having problems with my significant other it would bother me specially because of the reason.......you never know how people can react to situations like this......like u said she could try to use u as a way to put it on him.......now sh! t like that would really bother me because my significant othere has let herself get put on that situation and bring problems to us.....the way i see it is y bring problems into our life when we don't need them.I know u r not looking for them and u where just trying to help but they have a funny way of finding u.....if u can avoid them DO IT so get out of it early and fast. say: sorry friend but ~XI'm not quite sure what you mean hear (HERE) bro Can you not say BRO???!!!! I always thought that sounded stupid!!!!He meant that if the "wife" was having problems with Princessa (just for being a friend) he, as Princessa's boyfriend, would have problems with the situation itself.Anyway, whatever. I just told him that I can't keep in touch anymore.

good for u

~X

Ok, no more saying "bro"

@X - thank you for clearing that up.

@MJ - good decision. I know losing your friendship sucks, but think of it this way, that you could potentially be saving a marriage.

X4v13r · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

El Pibe wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again. is the best for u and ur man.~XFor me and El Pibe? Well yeah, I see it this way......if this other "lady" is having problems with my significant other it would bother me specially because of the reason.......you never know how people can react to situations like this......like u said she could try to use u as a way to put it on him.......now sh! t like that would really bother me because my significant othere has let herself get put on that situation and bring problems to us.....the way i see it is y bring problems into our life when we don't need them.I know u r not looking for them and u where just trying to help but they have a funny way of finding u.....if u can avoid them DO IT so get out of it early and fast. say: sorry friend but ~XI'm not quite sure what you mean hear (HERE) bro Can you not say BRO???!!!!

I always thought that sounded stupid!!!!

He meant that if the "wife" was having problems with Princessa (just for being a friend) he, as Princessa's boyfriend, would have problems with the situation itself.

Anyway, whatever. I just told him that I can't keep in touch anymore.

good for u

~X

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

El Pibe wrote:

X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again. is the best for u and ur man.~XFor me and El Pibe? Well yeah, I see it this way......if this other "lady" is having problems with my significant other it would bother me specially because of the reason.......you never know how people can react to situations like this......like u said she could try to use u as a way to put it on him.......now sh! t like that would really bother me because my significant othere has let herself get put on that situation and bring problems to us.....the way i see it is y bring problems into our life when we don't need them.I know u r not looking for them and u where just trying to help but they have a funny way of finding u.....if u can avoid them DO IT so get out of it early and fast. say: sorry friend but ~XI'm not quite sure what you mean hear (HERE) bro

Can you not say BRO???!!!!

I always thought that sounded stupid!!!!

He meant that if the "wife" was having problems with Princessa (just for being a friend) he, as Princessa's boyfriend, would have problems with the situation itself.

Anyway, whatever. I just told him that I can't keep in touch anymore.

X4v13r · Comandante

El Pibe wrote:

X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again. is the best for u and ur man.~XFor me and El Pibe? Well yeah, I see it this way......if this other "lady" is having problems with my significant other it would bother me specially because of the reason.......you never know how people can react to situations like this......like u said she could try to use u as a way to put it on him.......now sh! t like that would really bother me because my significant othere has let herself get put on that situation and bring problems to us.....the way i see it is y bring problems into our life when we don't need them.I know u r not looking for them and u where just trying to help but they have a funny way of finding u.....if u can avoid them DO IT so get out of it early and fast. say: sorry friend but ~XI'm not quite sure what you mean hear bro

what i was trying to say is that the lady is blaming my significant other for the problems or trying to use her to get back at the person.

~X

El Pibe · Guru

X4v13r wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again. is the best for u and ur man.~XFor me and El Pibe?

Well yeah, I see it this way......if this other "lady" is having problems with my significant other it would bother me specially because of the reason.......you never know how people can react to situations like this......like u said she could try to use u as a way to put it on him.......now sh! t like that would really bother me because my significant othere has let herself get put on that situation and bring problems to us.....the way i see it is y bring problems into our life when we don't need them.

I know u r not looking for them and u where just trying to help but they have a funny way of finding u.....if u can avoid them DO IT so get out of it early and fast.

say: sorry friend but

~X

I'm not quite sure what you mean hear bro

X4v13r · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

X4v13r wrote: Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again. is the best for u and ur man.~XFor me and El Pibe?

Well yeah, I see it this way......if this other "lady" is having problems with my significant other it would bother me specially because of the reason.......you never know how people can react to situations like this......like u said she could try to use u as a way to put it on him.......now sh! t like that would really bother me because my significant othere has let herself get put on that situation and bring problems to us.....the way i see it is y bring problems into our life when we don't need them.

I know u r not looking for them and u where just trying to help but they have a funny way of finding u.....if u can avoid them DO IT so get out of it early and fast.

say: sorry friend but

~X

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

Motown Junkie wrote: X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.I feel like I've lost my friend again.

is the best for u and ur man.

~X

For me and El Pibe?

X4v13r · Comandante

Motown Junkie wrote:

X4v13r wrote: El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.~XOk fine. 2 against 1.

I feel like I've lost my friend again.

is the best for u and ur man.

~X

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

X4v13r wrote:

El Pibe wrote: take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.

I have to agree with el pibe here, God knows how much i hate when my significant other is part of some1 elses problems..........MJ don't bother, u did ur part as a friend, but if its bringing more problems for them, is ur time to leave the building if u know what i mean.

~X

Ok fine.

2 against 1.

I feel like I've lost my friend again.

Motown Junkie · TOP Guru

El Pibe wrote:

take yourself out of that equation, and tell him that until they settle their problems you shouldn't be communicating. Don't add fuel to the fire.

But he's my friend and you know that.

I shouldn't have even been IN the equation in the first place.

UNLESS she's going to use ME as a reason to make everything FAIR since she cheated on him.