TV Buff wrote:

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Yesi wrote:

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Hi everyone, I definatelly agree with most of you.  I mean white = purity righ? Anyway if you are marrying the person you lost your virginity too, is it ok to wear white?? Or no one that has had *** should?

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In that case, 99.9999% of women should wear red for their weddings. I'd say, if Paris Hilton can marry in white, then I don't see why all women shouldn't.

And why is tje word s e x censored?

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Dogo wrote:

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Guadalupana wrote:

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Yesi wrote:

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Hi everyone, I definatelly agree with most of you. I mean white = purity righ? Anyway if you are marrying the person you lost your virginity too, is it ok to wear white?? Or no one that has had *** should?

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A white dress is just for show. What counts is the pureness of your heart.

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:gag:

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 pfft, why am i not surprised.

Guadalupana wrote:

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Yesi wrote:

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Hi everyone, I definatelly agree with most of you. I mean white = purity righ? Anyway if you are marrying the person you lost your virginity too, is it ok to wear white?? Or no one that has had *** should?

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A white dress is just for show. What counts is the pureness of your heart.  

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Yesi wrote:

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Hi everyone, I definatelly agree with most of you.  I mean white = purity righ? Anyway if you are marrying the person you lost your virginity too, is it ok to wear white?? Or no one that has had *** should?

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Dogo, did i directly ask you? NO!

Y como el muchacho no puede leer, dije que el craze del BIG white dress began with diana. I don't know when the white, or how the white got started.  

TV Buff wrote:

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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Dogo wrote:

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I guess the same people that said we're supposed to have cake, etc at Bday parties... or in my case, every friggin weekend!

Simply tradition

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LOL......Yep....tradition is right.....

Another question: Is tradition related to culture?

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I think it's not so much tradition as it is a case of "Donde va Vicente va la gente". People like to imitate what other people do in their vicinity. I never saw this type of wedding craze back in Nicaragua, and then all Latinos do it this way now that we live in Canada. I don't know, I guess people just go with the flow. Those shows on the Life Network don't help either.

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Are you kidding?! i love the show 'i do, let's eat!' When they aired the indian wedding all i wanted to do was eat all that food they had there!  

LaDyBuG wrote:

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Dogo wrote:

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I guess the same people that said we're supposed to have cake, etc at Bday parties... or in my case, every friggin weekend!

Simply tradition

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LOL......Yep....tradition is right.....

Another question: Is tradition related to culture?

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Not in this case, at least no lo creo. Didn't the craze for the white (and huge) wedding dress begin right after Pricess Diana got married? Then everyone wanted a big fancy dress  like her's. 

Motown Junkie wrote:

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Dogo wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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I don't think it's a "kid" thing.  Like Julie said, it's tradition that only "virgins" can wear white.

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Tradition OR religion? 

And if a non virgin wears white....isn't she being a hypocrate? 

Discuss.

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It's tradition but I think white has become just the "custom" colour to wear now at weddings regardless of whether they're a virgin or not.  Plus who the hell is a virgin still anways??!!  Times are changing!!!  Hell, I'll wear bright a$$ white and well..........yeah.................

Actually, on Spadina, I saw these GORGEOUS wedding dresses and I saw this incredible RED one!!!  I absolutely loved it!!!  The sales rep told me that RED is custom in Chinese weddings!!

I SO want that dress  but I think my mother and El Pibe's mother will faint right then and there!!! 

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Yes, but they look nothing like a western wedding dress
I think she was just trying to get rid of a dress that she, likely, will never sell

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Yes it did, you jerk!!!! 

Well, the dress that I saw did!!!

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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So who exactly invented or established all these rules and regulations....about how a wedding should run?  I'm just curious.....

For example:

- typical hall rental with food
- dj rental, lights
- head table set up
- ring boy, flower girl
- bouquet toss
- white dress
- etc etc etc

(I can't think of more conventional things to list)

I mean what would happen if a wedding didn't run on such a disciplined schedule and tight budgeting?

Organizing a wedding is worse than organizing a concert.....

WHO INVENTED ALL THESE RULES AND WAYS OF DOING THINGS??

OR WAS IT JUST A "FOLLOW THE LEADER" KINDA THING?

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Bridezilla

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10VmJ-8XGA4

LOL 

Motown Junkie wrote:

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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Remember when Miranda was looking for a wedding dress and she asked the sales help to not bring a white dress and the lady came back with a white dress and Miranda said, "Uh hello.......I said no white..........I have a child.............the jig is up!!!!"

I miss "Sex and the City".

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So should women with kids wear white? or no? why?

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I don't think it's a "kid" thing. Like Julie said, it's tradition that only "virgins" can wear white.

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HA!

That's funny!

I mean, mine was off white.  

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Answer: [bold]WOMEN[/bold]

Most women want to have a wedding to be remember!!!

on the other hand, some men Don't want to remember that day

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hahahaha......no te hagas....que bien te gusta vestirte como Pinguino in a tuxedo....lol

LaDyBuG wrote:

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So who exactly invented or established all these rules and regulations....about how a wedding should run?  I'm just curious.....

For example:

- typical hall rental with food
- dj rental, lights
- head table set up
- ring boy, flower girl
- bouquet toss
- white dress
- etc etc etc

(I can't think of more conventional things to list)

I mean what would happen if a wedding didn't run on such a disciplined schedule and tight budgeting?

Organizing a wedding is worse than organizing a concert.....

WHO INVENTED ALL THESE RULES AND WAYS OF DOING THINGS??

OR WAS IT JUST A "FOLLOW THE LEADER" KINDA THING?

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confundida wrote:

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THIS IS TRUE BUT DO U HAVE TO LET THE WORLD KNOW?????

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I think you're just Confused and live in denile bc everyone else knows !

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Julie wrote:

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confundida wrote:

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HOW BOUT GREEN??? ARE U NUTS ME IN PINK!! ILL DROWN MYSELF!!!! PLUS SINCE IM DA MAID OF HONOR I GET OT CHOOSE DA COLOR SO FORGET CHU!!!

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Remember, you'll be doing what you've been told to do ! Since when do we ask your opion on matters than concern you ?

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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I don't think it's a "kid" thing.  Like Julie said, it's tradition that only "virgins" can wear white.

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Tradition OR religion? 

And if a non virgin wears white....isn't she being a hypocrate? 

Discuss.

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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@ Confu & Genie

What are your reasons for not wearing white? 
Religious or vanity?

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            1. I CAN ALMOST ASSURE U IF I WEAR WHITE IT WILL HAVE  A SPOT BEFORE I LEAVE THE CHANGE ROOM!
              2. ORIGINALITY I DONT WANT ANY TRADITION AT MY SECOND WEDDING!
            
 @CONFU - OH YEAH OH YEAH U WILL WEAR WHITE AND LIKE IT OR I WILL STUFF U IN A PINK FLUFFY DRESS SO U PICK!!

  @ GOD - I THINK THAT WAS THE MOTIVE BEHIND THE TRIP TO MEXICO WAS TO SHOW AND ARRANGE THINGS AND SHOW ME GREAT IDEAS!! SO IT WILL BE CLOSE BUT NOT FOR ANOTHER YEAR OR SO.....

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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Remember when Miranda was looking for a wedding dress and she asked the sales help to not bring a white dress and the lady came back with a white dress and Miranda said, "Uh hello.......I said no white..........I have a child.............the jig is up!!!!" 

I miss "Sex and the City". 

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So should women with kids wear white?  or no?  why?

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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@ Confu & Genie

What are your reasons for not wearing white? 
Religious or vanity?

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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@ Confu & Genie

What are your reasons for not wearing white? 
Religious or vanity?

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            1. I CAN ALMOST ASSURE U IF I WEAR WHITE IT WILL HAVE  A SPOT BEFORE I LEAVE THE CHANGE ROOM!
              2. ORIGINALITY I DONT WANT ANY TRADITION AT MY SECOND WEDDING!
            
 @CONFU - OH YEAH OH YEAH U WILL WEAR WHITE AND LIKE IT OR I WILL STUFF U IN A PINK FLUFFY DRESS SO U PICK!!

  @ GOD - I THINK THAT WAS THE MOTIVE BEHIND THE TRIP TO MEXICO WAS TO SHOW AND ARRANGE THINGS AND SHOW ME GREAT IDEAS!! SO IT WILL BE CLOSE BUT NOT FOR ANOTHER YEAR OR SO.....

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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confundida wrote:

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U FORGOT PHOTOGRAPHER!!!

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That's a must at any event...so is a videographer....

Here's an idea....

Why don't couples place cameras all around the venue and transmit the wedding LIVE on the internet for the world to see......

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hey thats a good idea for my tropical wedding so everyone can see!! lol lol
I had semi traditional and wasnt worth it! honestly ppl had fun we out drank the bar and stuff but nope not doing it again thank you very much!

i want my wedding simple all white and casual meaning everyone will wear something white and ill wear a tourquoise blue dress or pink or red or someother color but not WHITE

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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confundida wrote:

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U FORGOT PHOTOGRAPHER!!!

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That's a must at any event...so is a videographer....

Here's an idea....

Why don't couples place cameras all around the venue and transmit the wedding LIVE on the internet for the world to see......

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LaDyBuG wrote:

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confundida wrote:

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U FORGOT PHOTOGRAPHER!!!

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That's a must at any event...so is a videographer....

Here's an idea....

Why don't couples place cameras all around the venue and transmit the wedding LIVE on the internet for the world to see......

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confundida wrote:

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U FORGOT PHOTOGRAPHER!!!

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 No chet !