I was having a discussion with my cousins and we were talking about qualities that we possess that at the same time can be a bad thing.
For example, I think one of my biggest ones is that I like to give people the "benefit of the doubt" too much. I guess I like to think that people learn their lessons, or will just not be certain ways just for the sake of not hurting others. I dont find this happens with everyone, I have people surrounding me that have proven themselves very trustworthy. But I find that with the ones that I give the most benefit of the doubt to, those are the ones that somehow are a letdown.
You forgot to mention your A.D.D.
Thanks girl, I forgot about my ADD lapses, but that`s only when there is something "interesting" to distract me. LOL.
@LG - I share your sentiments.
@LB - we`ve had this discussion before sis, and like you, I think and I have been told that I am a good judge of character. When I usually get an "odd vibe" from someone or something Im usually right. But like I said before, I guess I always wait for the "one fine day" when that person will come to a realization and things will change. I am a very tolerant person and I put up with a lot of crap from a lot of people, but trust me, once alguien "se me sale" or they`re cut off, there is no turning back for me. And if for some odd reason there is, it will NEVER be the same way it was before.
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I was having a discussion with my cousins and we were talking about qualities that we possess that at the same time can be a bad thing.
For example, I think one of my biggest ones is that I like to give people the "benefit of the doubt" too much. I guess I like to think that people learn their lessons, or will just not be certain ways just for the sake of not hurting others. I dont find this happens with everyone, I have people surrounding me that have proven themselves very trustworthy. But I find that with the ones that I give the most benefit of the doubt to, those are the ones that somehow are a letdown.
You forgot to mention your A.D.D.
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Knock people down at their own expense, they'll take it as a compliment!!!!
LaDyBuG wrote: ...I don't need to think things through, because in 2 seconds I will know who I want to have around me and who I want to have FAR from me....
I’m sure if LunaChiquita took showers with fresh clean water more often, she could stay a lil closer!
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Not everything I post or say on foro are necesarily true facts. <- THAT is a fact! :blankstare:
I think I'm a good judge of character and can tell right away if I can put my trust in a person and if a person is "worthy"....BUT this is also a bad thing....as I don't trust many people OR it takes me forever to trust them.....(tienen que pasar 10000000 pruebas)....lol.....which is why I tend to be so "secretive" as others say......
And as friendly as I am....I will know right away who stays and who goes.....I'm not an analytical person...I don't need to think things through, because in 2 seconds I will know who I want to have around me and who I want to have FAR from me....
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@Colo: I have the same/similar problem… have faith/trust/give the benefit of doubt even to people I barely know. I figure if I have no reason to NOT trust them, they deserve a chance to be trusted. (I.E.: among a bunch of gambling buds me a new dude (I was new to the group myself – it was either the first or second day that I had met him and he asked to borrow $ for gambling and that he would pay “the next day”… lend it to him… wasn’t much – only $ 80 – but EVERYONE apparently knew that this guy owed money to every second person at that place. He didn’t have a job, etc… He eventually paid back; Occasionally, I buy him a beer, but I never lent him a cent again)
And the the rest of you: No, don't come asking to borrow money!
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Not everything I post or say on foro are necesarily true facts. <- THAT is a fact! :blankstare:
I was having a discussion with my cousins and we were talking about qualities that we possess that at the same time can be a bad thing.
For example, I think one of my biggest ones is that I like to give people the "benefit of the doubt" too much. I guess I like to think that people learn their lessons, or will just not be certain ways just for the sake of not hurting others. I dont find this happens with everyone, I have people surrounding me that have proven themselves very trustworthy. But I find that with the ones that I give the most benefit of the doubt to, those are the ones that somehow are a letdown.
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because I wanted girls to like me 
