Oh yeah??!!!  You and your hubby wanna pay me for a little sumptin' sumptin'??!!!! 

@Daeveed: 

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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Yep M.J is a snob

 

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BEE-OTCH!!! 

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Okay so I am kidding I actually though you were really nice right off the bat!!  If you are a little snobbish it's only cuz you are good looking and you know it...nothing wrong with that.

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I never understood that logic. 

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Oh yes you do.

Give me a break!!

Anyway like I said I liked you right away...then again my friends are a bunch of snobby ****ES

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You..........like.........me?????????!!!!!!!! 

CHILENITA LIKES ME !!!!!!!!!  HEY EVERYBODY!!!!!!!!  CHILENITA LIKES ME!!!!!!!!!!!! 

I'm her friend too cause I'm a snobby bee-otch!!!!!!!!!!!!!    I'm so happy!!!!!!!!

Chilenita wrote:

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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Yep M.J is a snob

 

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BEE-OTCH!!! 

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Okay so I am kidding I actually though you were really nice right off the bat!!  If you are a little snobbish it's only cuz you are good looking and you know it...nothing wrong with that.

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Chilenita wrote:

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Yep M.J is a snob

 

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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I don't think I'm THAT bad with "dirty laundry".  So everyone knows about me and Prieto!  Big deal!!!    Some people here knew the deal WAY before I came on foro (ie. Genie, Gamboa, LaDyBuG).  So all of you know my dad died, all of you know I suck at interviews.  Really and truly, I don't find that incredibly personal but maybe that's just me.  If I were to be incredibly open as to what goes on behind closed doors between El Pibe and I, then absolutely tell me that I'm airing my dirty laundry!!!  Once again, I just don't understand.  I think I'm Confu's protegee.

IF SOME OF US KNEW ABOUT PRIETO & YOU...IT'S BECAUSE WE KNOW YOU....(i think) THERE REALLY WASN'T A NEED FOR OTHER FORO MEMBER'S TO KNOW....BUT I'M NOBODY TO JUDGE YOUR DECISIONS RIGHT?.....IF YOU WANTED TO SHARE YOUR DAD'S DEATH (MAY HE REST IN PEACE)....THAT'S ALSO YOUR CALL.......IF YOU SUCK AT INTERVIEWS AND NEED ADVISE....GOOD FOR YOU FOR ASKING OTHERS.......BUT JUST KNOW THAT "airing out dirty laundry" DOES NOT ALWAYS HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR LOVE RELATIONSHIP.....IT'S ABOUT WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO SHARE ABOUT YOUR LIFE AND WITH WHO, WHERE AND WHY......YOU ARE NOT CONFUSED.....WHAT'S HAPPENING IS THAT YOU ARE NOT A "SECRETIVE" PERSON FOR EXAMPLE LIKE I AM.....(I'm a good example) LOL......LIKE SOME THINGS ARE BETTER LEFT UN-SAID.....YOU ARE MORE OPEN AND DON'T CARE IF PEOPLE KNOW YOUR BUSINESS.....AND AGAIN, WE ARE NO ONE TO JUDGE......(I PERSONALLY THINK) THAT PEOPLE WHO ARE SO OPEN, ENJOY ATTENTION FROM EVEN COMPLETE STRANGERS....AND SOME DRAMA TOO.....NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT......IF THAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD....GO FOR IT......TO EACH HIS OWN....BUT THEN YOU MUST EXPECT THIS KINDA REACTION ALSO......

I have a horrible habit of not being able to look at people in the eye.  Also, I hate interrupting people when they're in conversation thus my reason for not running to you at Don Chelos.  You were in the middle of a conversation and although I know I could've said hi, I can't tell you how incredibly rude I feel interrupting.  Now I know! 

I AGREE WITH LAHTINA AND WHAT SHE REPLIED TO THIS.....THE ONE WHO COMES IN LAST, MUST SAY HELLO TO EVERYONE THERE.....A WAVE IS JUST NOT "RESPECTFUL" ENOUGH (at least not for me)....IT'S NOT PERSONAL ENOUGH AND IT'S "CULTURALLY" rude.....(for me)......your Colombian blood should make you wanna run and hug all of us.....no?  hahaha....just kidding...but you know what I mean....and I know that YOU know what you should do sometimes....regardless of your "mood"....and your "insecurity".......I know you have the guts.....so show it! ....that's where your confidence test comes into play......A CONFIDENT PERSON WOULD NOT DO WHAT YOU DO......and you need start looking people in the eye....or they will NOT take you seriously.....and for sure think you are not trust-worthy.....I mean, would YOU trust someone who doesn't look at you? Then again how would you know if you're not even looking at them....lol

What I gathered from this thread is this.......whether I meet a man or a woman, I'm the same way.  Men find me cool and women find me a snob so it's a win-lose situation! 

IT'S NOT THAT MEN FIND YOU COOL......THEY ARE MEN...THEY ARE NOT ANALYTICAL CREATURES.....THEY ONLY THINK OF WHAT THEY SEE....NOT WHAT THEY DON'T SEE......YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR CURVY BODY SO MUCH.....WELL DO YOU THINK MEN ARE SAYING "OHHH MJ, SHE'S SO SMART AND CONFIDENT"......LOL.....c'mon girl!

I KNOW it's not me because in the past 2 weeks, I've met 3 women and RIGHT AWAY we just bonded.  They didn't see me as a snob, immature, or vain, they saw me as the "TRUE" person that I am and I saw them as the good natured person that they are.  I think it all depends on the woman.  Meeting these 3 women made me see that, as this thread made me believe that I'm a total b*tch where in all actuality, it was the other way around.

RIGHT HERE YOU CONTRADICTED YOURSELF......SO PLEASE REFER TO LAHTINA'S REPLY......BECAUSE YOUR ENTIRE POINT OF ALL WOMEN BEING BEE-OTCHES AND ALL THAT...JUST LOST CREDIBILITY......AND ALTHOUGHT IT MIGHT NOT BE ALL WOMEN....I STILL THINK THAT "YOU" NEED TO DO SOMETHING ON YOUR END AS WELL......

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@ MJ..............

I'LL GIVE YOU THE BAD BEFORE I GO ON WITH THE GOOD....

WHAT YOU LACK IS HUMILITY AND SELF ESTEEM OR CONFIDENCE (or both)

And I say humility because in some posts it comes across as you talking about yourself so much......I know you're just sharing an experience but somehow you always end up saying "me this...me that"......(inevitably)......Sorry, I'm not sure if the term would be Modesty or Humility.....prolly modesty.....

As far as Self-Esteem and all that.....I can't really blame you for this......it has a lot to do with your past, up-bringing, high-school, bad choices in relationships & friendships...etc.....this is something that you will have to work on with the help of good people around you (Ex. PIBE)....also in the hopes that you could "differentiate" between good and bad people....and not be so eager to make ties with anyone and everyone.....GOOD PEOPLE RECOGNIZE GOOD PEOPLE.....CLASSY PEOPLE RECOGNIZE CLASSY PEOPLE......BAD PEOPLE RECOGNIZE BAD PEOPLE...CONFIDENT PEOPLE RECOGNIZE CONFIDENT PEOPLE....and so on......If you're such a good person and everything you said in past posts.....you will always be surrounded by good people no? ....and immediately recognize the rotten apple......and when you are surrounded by good people, you will learn good things.....and if I use the word good one more time I will PUKE.....lol...but you get my point.....Think about this: WHY WOULD ANY CONFIDENT PERSON WANNA APPROACH SOMEONE WHO CAN'T EVEN LOOK AT THEM IN THE EYE......

anyway.....

Now for the good stuff........

You're smart enough to realize what's good for you.....and who's good for you....eventhough "drama" attracts you....You can be a good judge of character but you get intimidated easily and it doesn't help that you are insecure.......you're one to make smart choices....and have a lot going for you because you're independant and go for what you need and want (you march to the beat of your own drum so in a sense you are a leader) ......you've been through a lot and accept all the changes you have to make and have already made to become a better individual.....LIKE ALL OF US....and I mean ALL OF US.....you have flaws, and with age, maturity and all of that you start to see things AND people in a different light....especially if you have been bitten in the AZZ too many times....there are many things you still need to learn about people but this comes with experience and (again) carefully choosing your friends.....I hope more than anything that this thread helps you and makes you think and re-think certain things......it's not that some people are better than others....althought it comes across that way....but ALL of us have had different pasts and experiences....that make us who we are today.....so your character will clash with others who cannot relate to you or your experiences....or simply see them as too silly/immature for their taste......

TAKE THIS THREAD AS SOMETHING REALLY POSITIVE....READ IT OVER 10 TIMES IF YOU WANT.....YOU MIGHT OR MIGHT NOT LEARN SOMETHING......EVEN HEARING WHAT YOU DON'T WANNA HEAR CAN SOMETIMES TRIGGER A THOUGHT  AND IF I SPENT ENOUGH TIME WRITING ALL THIS.....IT'S BECAUSE I'M SINCERE AND DON'T BS.....(and I think you know that).......so Good Luck!

 

Motown Junkie wrote:

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I don't think I'm THAT bad with "dirty laundry".  So everyone knows about me and Prieto!  Big deal!!!    Some people here knew the deal WAY before I came on foro (ie. Genie, Gamboa, LaDyBuG).  So all of you know my dad died, all of you know I suck at interviews.  Really and truly, I don't find that incredibly personal but maybe that's just me.  If I were to be incredibly open as to what goes on behind closed doors between El Pibe and I, then absolutely tell me that I'm airing my dirty laundry!!!  Once again, I just don't understand.  I think I'm Confu's protegee.

I meant, you haven't told me anything that I didn't know already from foro.

For you to say that I don't really TRUST you if whatever I say I post on foro, is somewhat hurtful.  I don't talk to you the way I talk to others, ya know?  And YES, I will fully admit that I'm the worst person when it comes to foro gatherings.  I am ALWAYS late, , and I have a horrible habit of not being able to look at people in the eye. 

Bingo! That is a reason not to trust people. Body language says a lot. 

Also, I hate interrupting people when they're in conversation thus my reason for not running to you at Don Chelos. 

 You were in the middle of a conversation and although I know I could've said hi, I can't tell you how incredibly rude I feel interrupting.  Now I know! 

I really don't see this as being a valid excuse. First of all, it's highly unlikely that people at an outing are discussing very important issues. Second of all, you normally go, stand next to them, and they usually acknowledge your presence too and then you can get with the greetings. That's what I do anyway. Trust me, I hate interrupting people too but if you approach them, they'll can see that you want to talk to them and the rest is up to them.

What I gathered from this thread is this.......whether I meet a man or a woman, I'm the same way.  Men find me cool and women find me a snob so it's a win-lose situation! 

I KNOW it's not me because in the past 2 weeks, I've met 3 women and RIGHT AWAY we just bonded.  They didn't see me as a snob, immature, or vain, they saw me as the "TRUE" person that I am and I saw them as the good natured person that they are.  I think it all depends on the woman.  Meeting these 3 women made me see that, as this thread made me believe that I'm a total b*tch where in all actuality, it was the other way around.

So, what you're saying is that they are the b*tches? If you label them as b*tches right of the bat, how does that make you any different from them? Isn't that the same thing you're complaining about?

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Ok whoa there. There is only so much water that can trickle off the rock before it starts breaking it. Yes, that was a metaphor of myself.

 

The biggest problem I have with being called a b*tch, is being called one when I wasn’t purposely being one. Maybe it’s not that you ALL misinterpreted my words, it’s that I didn’t express myself correctly.

 

My biggest mistake on this thread was putting labels. I know that you know we are multidimensional beings who can be many things at one point or another, I just thought that you knew that I knew. (Lo qué) In an effort to spare you guys the read, I went straight to the point and made no attempt to employ euphemisms.   

 

On another thread MJ expressed that women don’t get her, that they assume she’s a b*tch but that she doesn’t think she is. However, a person's self concept does not necessarily reflect reality - a person can be highly successful and respected yet view him/herself as a failure.  A well-adjusted person's self concept, on the other hand,  is consistent with his thought, experience and behavior.

 

I was trying to relate my experience with her, TO her (not for your amusement) so that she could get a different perspective on the way she comes across. It was an invitation only to women and only to those who have actually met her in person; or maybe even those who have gotten a chance to chat with her one on one. If we’re all going to start judging each other based on our posts,  insert whatever you believe in here, help us!

 

So again… we had our reasons to “mistrust” each other on foro- she lashing out, I correcting her spelling… constantly, I might add. When we chatted on msn, things were different. Dare I say that we even liked each other? In person, though, things were different. I have always been taught that the person who arrives last is the one to greet the people who are already there. If my eyes were “piercing” it was probably because I was ignored. Hello? Didn’t we have some kind of bond? Without putting any labels, let’s just say that the rapport we were building was gone again. A little more chatting, again a little rapport; another personal encounter,  another failed acknowledgement of my presence: bye bye rapport.

 

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@ MJ, maybe you should work on your punctuality, just a thought. Anyway, I finally took it upon myself to be the one who greeted you at Don Chelo’s.

 

I apologized yesterday for the thread. You asked me why I had to go and do it. Well, simply because it wasn’t my intention to be mean. Another one of my problems is that I assume that my listener is already on the same page as I am; but maybe that’s a human error/glitch kinda thing because when you asked me if confiding your problems in me wasn’t enough proof that you liked me, I had to say no, it wasn’t. You are the type of person who keeps no secrets from anyone, you make your dirty laundry everyone’s business. The fact that you were sharing personal stuff with me was no indication whatsoever that you trusted me more than you did any other weirdo on TH.

 

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Again I have to say, simply to remind myself, that I am only to care about the opinions of those who know me personally. How much you know me is equal to how much I care about your perception of me. To those with whom I’m on a “hello-nice weather we’re having-goodbye” basis and I hope that your opinion of me is not based the constant use of my favourite emoticon: but if it is then I say screw you (I can't stress it enough) because then you don’t know me at all... I would never say “nice weather”, you fool! *insane laughter*

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I don't think I'm THAT bad with "dirty laundry".  So everyone knows about me and Prieto!  Big deal!!!    Some people here knew the deal WAY before I came on foro (ie. Genie, Gamboa, LaDyBuG).  So all of you know my dad died, all of you know I suck at interviews.  Really and truly, I don't find that incredibly personal but maybe that's just me.  If I were to be incredibly open as to what goes on behind closed doors between El Pibe and I, then absolutely tell me that I'm airing my dirty laundry!!!  Once again, I just don't understand.  I think I'm Confu's protegee.

For you to say that I don't really TRUST you if whatever I say I post on foro, is somewhat hurtful.  I don't talk to you the way I talk to others, ya know?  And YES, I will fully admit that I'm the worst person when it comes to foro gatherings.  I am ALWAYS late, , and I have a horrible habit of not being able to look at people in the eye.  Also, I hate interrupting people when they're in conversation thus my reason for not running to you at Don Chelos.  You were in the middle of a conversation and although I know I could've said hi, I can't tell you how incredibly rude I feel interrupting.  Now I know! 

What I gathered from this thread is this.......whether I meet a man or a woman, I'm the same way.  Men find me cool and women find me a snob so it's a win-lose situation! 

I KNOW it's not me because in the past 2 weeks, I've met 3 women and RIGHT AWAY we just bonded.  They didn't see me as a snob, immature, or vain, they saw me as the "TRUE" person that I am and I saw them as the good natured person that they are.  I think it all depends on the woman.  Meeting these 3 women made me see that, as this thread made me believe that I'm a total b*tch where in all actuality, it was the other way around.

I HATE THIS THREAD!!!!! 

@Colombiana:  Thank you 

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 i don't know why girls feel intimidated by other girls, guys dont have this problem.  guys are jelous, but we don't feel threatend by other guys.

you women are complicated....

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Hahahaha, that's not true. Yesterday Gastone and I were chatting about this and he said it might be just like when guys see a good looking guy and they immediately label them as being gay.

It's not a woman thing exclusively. Anyway, about Dogo's alpha male theory... there is some truth to that. I know I'm contradicting myself now forget what I posted before. I was forgetting about the fact that our behaviour is still governed a lot by our instincts. Collectively we act differently than we do when we're alone. There's no denying this.

yeah yeah, the title says women, but im still gonna put my 2 cents in this thread....

Let's see here....    met her as ColobianQT, then she moved to Motown Chunkie...  chilled w her and Pibe few times, both seem preety chilled and laid back... shes kind of weird w her dancing though... either she thinks she's the reincarnation of James Brown or she got some flesh eating fungus on her feet..  she's a wicked driver , I'd hire her to be my get-a-way driver if i ever become a criminal... overall she's cool.... i don't know why girls feel intimidated by other girls, guys dont have this problem.  guys are jelous, but we don't feel threatend by other guys.

you women are complicated....

Marky Mark wrote:

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Daeveed wrote:

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Stoner question:

Who the hell is BELLINI?

thanks.

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Bellini = Dogo's secret alias

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LMAO NO ITS ANGELITA DULCE

 

Stoner question:

Who the hell is BELLINI?

thanks.

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  Why don't we all meet up at the pupusa festival???

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when is everyone going?  chale and i were thinking about going on Sunday...

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El Pibe and I are going on Sunday too!!! 

Ok, so why don't you set it up at the last place you guys went?

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  Why don't we all meet up at the pupusa festival???

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Motown Junkie wrote:

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  Why don't we all meet up at the pupusa festival???

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Great Idea.....if it's on SUNDAY afternoon.....

I won't set that up though......people are too complicated that way with outdoor events......

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REALLY??? WR AND WHEN???

WHO WR U???

WR WS I???

WR WR U???

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 I think Julie introduced us outside of Magnate one night! (i think we enjoyed the outside more then the inside Heehee)

Julie was that him??

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No, I'm sorry.  I didn't know who was who.  I didn't even know Joker was there!!!    I just remember seeing Julie, Lahtina, Confu, Y2J, erm.......SexyChilenita, and ummm.....oh, I believe I met DG that night AND when I was introduced to Chale, she screamed, "BRAZILIAN WAX GIRL!!!!"  She left a memorabe impression! 

So yeah, that was a bad night for me as my ex was there and his psycho #1 fan was there so I was pretty much hiding in a corner!!!    But I was wearing black leather pants that everyone felt compelled to slap!!!! 

And yup, that's me and El Pibe on my avatar!!! 

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 Nope! It was not my b-day party you came to! Chale was not at my b-day party and neither was Chilenita!

Ok, so we still need to meet!

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I don't know which thread it is.  It's from yesterday or something.  I believe it was for your birthday and you were tipsy introducing everyone to your cousin.  Well, one thing I remember is that someone mentioned MM wasn't there because he was sick.  I remember going to Vida and seeing Lahtina without MM because of the same reason.  Was that the same night? 

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 Oh really!! So YOU were at my B-DAY? Oh man, i have to go check my pictures and see if i notice unfamiliar faces! I assume that is you on you avatar!  And YES i was Tipsy! These foro members didn't allow me to walk around with an empty hand. They kept putting drinks in my hand! I remeber JOKER had his hands full, and handed me one over and then went back and got another drink for his empty hand!

Did you introduce yourself to me

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No, I'm sorry.  I didn't know who was who.  I didn't even know Joker was there!!!    I just remember seeing Julie, Lahtina, Confu, Y2J, erm.......SexyChilenita, and ummm.....oh, I believe I met DG that night AND when I was introduced to Chale, she screamed, "BRAZILIAN WAX GIRL!!!!"  She left a memorabe impression! 

So yeah, that was a bad night for me as my ex was there and his psycho #1 fan was there so I was pretty much hiding in a corner!!!    But I was wearing black leather pants that everyone felt compelled to slap!!!! 

And yup, that's me and El Pibe on my avatar!!! 

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Bah!!  Think whatever you'd like to think.  I have a feeling some people talk and talk about someone and then by the time you actually meet that person, you already have an impression of them without them even saying a word.  Oh well.  What can you do?  Can't please everyone?!

I could've sworn I met you already though??!!! 

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 Really Where? I've met all of the old/original members. But none of the new ones! Altough i think i've met Don Chelo. But not sure if it was him.

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REALLY??? WR AND WHEN???

WHO WR U???

WR WS I???

WR WR U???