Guadalupana wrote: If my hubby EVER hit me (not play fighting), i'll hit him back first y lo dejo incapacitado, then llamo a la policia, y then i leave him for ever!
AND he knows this already so there will not even be a first time.
Dogo once said I'd beat the living **** out of him, which I kinda agree however when family gets involved you try to pitch in but just doesn't work especially if there not your "true blood" family. I'm in this case and actually know someone like this
It's a sad thing and just disguses me knowing that I know such a person. To this day I don't talk to him even tho he tries to greet me at family events. His wife goes against her children and bows down to his hubby. She "lives for him" and only him. Por que es mas mujer que madre She's committed suicide popping pills because apparently that's the only man that will ever feed her or even look at her in life. It's pretty fawked up. I hate her arse too....que la verguea from my part. I might sound rude but it's just not worth it. Too many issues which isn't worth it in my book.
Well I don't agree with man hitting women, el hombre que hace eso no es hombre, es un maricay la mujer que aguanta especialmente en este pais es por que le gusta el golpe, I am sorry but here in Canada no women should take that crap from nobody.
Asi es mujer. Maybe like you said she probably likes it who knows? I just hate being tied up in a situation like this when I have nothing to do with it. Yup in Canada no one should have problems like that. Que la turk3a y luego que no venga a pedirme ayuda.
Dogo once said I'd beat the living **** out of him, which I kinda agree however when family gets involved you try to pitch in but just doesn't work especially if there not your "true blood" family. I'm in this case and actually know someone like this
It's a sad thing and just disguses me knowing that I know such a person. To this day I don't talk to him even tho he tries to greet me at family events. His wife goes against her children and bows down to his hubby. She "lives for him" and only him. Por que es mas mujer que madre She's committed suicide popping pills because apparently that's the only man that will ever feed her or even look at her in life. It's pretty fawked up. I hate her arse too....que la verguea from my part. I might sound rude but it's just not worth it. Too many issues which isn't worth it in my book.
Well I don't agree with man hitting women, el hombre que hace eso no es hombre, es un maricay la mujer que aguanta especialmente en este pais es por que le gusta el golpe, I am sorry but here in Canada no women should take that crap from nobody.
Dogo once said I'd beat the living **** out of him, which I kinda agree however when family gets involved you try to pitch in but just doesn't work especially if there not your "true blood" family. I'm in this case and actually know someone like this
It's a sad thing and just disguses me knowing that I know such a person. To this day I don't talk to him even tho he tries to greet me at family events. His wife goes against her children and bows down to his hubby. She "lives for him" and only him. She's committed suicide popping pills because apparently that's the only man that will ever feed her or even look at her in life. It's pretty fawked up. I hate her arse too....que la verguea from my part. I might sound rude but it's just not worth it. Too many issues which isn't worth it in my book.
BELLINI wrote: I agree! There are women who will never leave the relationship. It's more sad when there are children in the relationship.I know of a relationship where there is abuse, but she won't leave him simply because she loves him! No matter how much i love the man, i would never stick around and keep getting abused. Too bad not many women out there have the same mentality as i do!
Maybe because we've never been in that situation, and hopefully never will.
I think that fora woman to support that is for the most of the reason that Preci mentioned above. I think that once you've lost all dignity and respect for yourself, you willl endure anything and everything, believing all the crap that is said about you.
I think that from the start, the women that unfortunately fall into this are weack and that the men they are with dectect it right away and start their vicious work.
I hope that you will be able to help your friend because she won't be able to o it for and by herself even if she knows deep down that something is wrong.
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Guadalupana wrote: If my hubby EVER hit me (not play fighting), i'll hit him back first y lo dejo incapacitado, then llamo a la policia, y then i leave him for ever!
AND he knows this already so there will not even be a first time.
A GREAT DEAL OF WOMAN THINK LIKE YOU...AND I'M ONE OF THEM...
HOWEVER, THERE ARE THOSE THAT DON'T DUE TO...INSECURITY, LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM, OR EVEN PLAIN DUMBNESS. THERE ARE ALSO THE ONES WHO ARE BRAIN WASHED TO BELIEVE THEY ARE WORTH NOTHING BEING TOLD HATEFUL STATMENTS THAT TRIGGER THE MIND AND WILL NEVER LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS ABUSE. I FEEL SORRY FOR THESE WOMAN, CAUSE I TRULY BELIEVE THAT IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT, BEING CONTROLED AND FEELING SUFFOCATED IS THE WORST FEELING TO ACTUALLY FEEL. AND TO NOT HAVE THE MIND FRAME TO PICK UP AND LEAVE IS ANOTHER FEELING ALL TOGETHER...
-- Edited by PRECIOSA at 14:48, 2006-08-31
I agree! There are women who will never leave the relationship. It's more sad when there are children in the relationship.I know of a relationship where there is abuse, but she won't leave him simply because she loves him! No matter how much i love the man, i would never stick around and keep getting abused. Too bad not many women out there have the same mentality as i do!
I don’t agree with hitting any woman n I never do it either, but some woman dare u to do it, it has happen to me with 2 different woman I been with, I don’t know why they do it but is mess up….
Guadalupana wrote: If my hubby EVER hit me (not play fighting), i'll hit him back first y lo dejo incapacitado, then llamo a la policia, y then i leave him for ever!
AND he knows this already so there will not even be a first time.
A GREAT DEAL OF WOMAN THINK LIKE YOU...AND I'M ONE OF THEM...
HOWEVER, THERE ARE THOSE THAT DON'T DUE TO...INSECURITY, LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM, OR EVEN PLAIN DUMBNESS. THERE ARE ALSO THE ONES WHO ARE BRAIN WASHED TO BELIEVE THEY ARE WORTH NOTHING BEING TOLD HATEFUL STATMENTS THAT TRIGGER THE MIND AND WILL NEVER LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS ABUSE. I FEEL SORRY FOR THESE WOMAN, CAUSE I TRULY BELIEVE THAT IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT, BEING CONTROLED AND FEELING SUFFOCATED IS THE WORST FEELING TO ACTUALLY FEEL. AND TO NOT HAVE THE MIND FRAME TO PICK UP AND LEAVE IS ANOTHER FEELING ALL TOGETHER...
-- Edited by PRECIOSA at 14:48, 2006-08-31
Totally agree Preciosa. A lot of women just see this as "this is the card that life dealt me, so I`ll stick with it". Again, they think this way due to insecurity and all the other things mentioned above. But trust me, the few women that actually over come stuff like this, when they wake up and smell the coffee they really wake up.
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Guadalupana wrote: If my hubby EVER hit me (not play fighting), i'll hit him back first y lo dejo incapacitado, then llamo a la policia, y then i leave him for ever!
AND he knows this already so there will not even be a first time.
A GREAT DEAL OF WOMAN THINK LIKE YOU...AND I'M ONE OF THEM...
HOWEVER, THERE ARE THOSE THAT DON'T DUE TO...INSECURITY, LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM, OR EVEN PLAIN DUMBNESS. THERE ARE ALSO THE ONES WHO ARE BRAIN WASHED TO BELIEVE THEY ARE WORTH NOTHING BEING TOLD HATEFUL STATMENTS THAT TRIGGER THE MIND AND WILL NEVER LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS ABUSE. I FEEL SORRY FOR THESE WOMAN, CAUSE I TRULY BELIEVE THAT IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT, BEING CONTROLED AND FEELING SUFFOCATED IS THE WORST FEELING TO ACTUALLY FEEL. AND TO NOT HAVE THE MIND FRAME TO PICK UP AND LEAVE IS ANOTHER FEELING ALL TOGETHER...
If my hubby EVER hit me (not play fighting), i'll hit him back first y lo dejo incapacitado, then llamo a la policia, y then i leave him for ever!
AND he knows this already so there will not even be a first time.
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Dogo wrote: All of the above And beat him, stomp on him, b*tch slap him and call the cops
my hero
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Most would agree that it is wrong for a man to hit a woman. Very few would say it is ok if she is the one who hit him first. I'm totally against it and I don't agree with having to hit a woman if she hits you first. I would only do so if my life was in danger and had a gun or knife pointing at me
My question is how would you treat a male friend of yours who you know beats his girlfriend/wife? Would you remain friends, distance yourself or avoid the person all together?
I myself would lose respect for the guy and if he told me I would advise him not to do so. If I found out he continued to hit his woman I would cut him off completely.