one of my best friends is a girl (Ale aka FuNkY PeNeLoPe) and the last girl i dated hated this. she would get on my case about it all the time and get so worked up over it... she seriously thought i was either cheating on her or about to, with this girl
Respect for your partner, yes But also, if I knew that my best friend, of the opposite sex, is in a relationship, I would certainly not call them on a daily basis... out of respect for her BF
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In that case they wouldn't stay my BEST friend for very long I'd like to think that my "best friend" has the sense to respect the person that I'm in love with or involved with If she can't, then, Adios!
I also feel that there is nothing wrong with an oppiste sex friend ship as long as the two of you are honest about? and it all comes down to limitation, and knowing where to draw the line, and how far can you flirt with your friend.
I agree with Buzzlightyear680. There has to be limitations. Nothing should happen beyond foreplay and you should not flirt with your friend in front of your partner or his/her friends.
Ummm, now you people got me thinking ... :takingabiteoutofmyfirstbbqhamburguersigh:
Ok, I have a question:
Now let's say your opposite sex good friend's bf/gf takes you aside and tells you not to call or speak to their now bf/gf ... Do you let your "friend" know what was asked of you or just pull away???
I also feel that there is nothing wrong with an oppiste sex friend ship as long as the two of you are honest about? and it all comes down to limitation, and knowing where to draw the line, and how far can you flirt with your friend.
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Respect for your partner, yes But also, if I knew that my best friend, of the opposite sex, is in a relationship, I would certainly not call them on a daily basis... out of respect for her BF
OFCOURSE... BUT IN SOME CASES NOT EVERYONE THINKS LIKE THAT....
In that case they wouldn't stay my BEST friend for very long I'd like to think that my "best friend" has the sense to respect the person that I'm in love with or involved with If she can't, then, Adios!
Everything in moderation
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What if the guys definition of respesct towards you was to keep his mouth shut about his relationship with this friend so it wouldn't hurt your feelings? You know cause some people believe in the theory of "what he/she doesn't know won't hurt em"
THEN IN REALITY THERE WAS NO RESPECT
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Respect for your partner, yes But also, if I knew that my best friend, of the opposite sex, is in a relationship, I would certainly not call them on a daily basis... out of respect for her BF
OFCOURSE... BUT IN SOME CASES NOT EVERYONE THINKS LIKE THAT....
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If you are in a relationship what crosses the line as far as opposite sex friendships? Daily phone conversations? Secrets? Attraction?
What signs would be a no-no for you if your man/woman had a close friend of the opposite sex?
I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH OPPOSITE SEX FRIENDSHIPS IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE.... AIN'T NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING DAILY PHONE CALL CONVERSATIONS EITHER.... JUST AS LONG AS IT AIN'T FOR EXTENDED HOURS IN WHICH YOU WILL COMPLETELY IGNORE YOUR OTHER HALF!!
IT ALL COMES DOWN TO RESPECT....
Respect for your partner, yes But also, if I knew that my best friend, of the opposite sex, is in a relationship, I would certainly not call them on a daily basis... out of respect for her BF
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I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH OPPOSITE SEX FRIENDSHIPS IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE.... AIN'T NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING DAILY PHONE CALL CONVERSATIONS EITHER.... JUST AS LONG AS IT AIN'T FOR EXTENDED HOURS IN WHICH YOU WILL COMPLETELY IGNORE YOUR OTHER HALF!!
IT ALL COMES DOWN TO RESPECT....
What if the guys definition of respesct towards you was to keep his mouth shut about his relationship with this friend so it wouldn't hurt your feelings? You know cause some people believe in the theory of "what he/she doesn't know won't hurt em"
If you are in a relationship what crosses the line as far as opposite sex friendships? Daily phone conversations? Secrets? Attraction?
What signs would be a no-no for you if your man/woman had a close friend of the opposite sex?
I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH OPPOSITE SEX FRIENDSHIPS IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE.... AIN'T NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING DAILY PHONE CALL CONVERSATIONS EITHER.... JUST AS LONG AS IT AIN'T FOR EXTENDED HOURS IN WHICH YOU WILL COMPLETELY IGNORE YOUR OTHER HALF!!
IT ALL COMES DOWN TO RESPECT....
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Once you start wanting to sex your friend.... then you know that you've crossed the line.
Its natural to be attracted to the opposite sex, especially if you find their personality is amazing and they are physically attractive to you. Obviously if they are youre friend, it is because you have things in common and share things together.
But once you start wanting to get with them, then youre in the danger zone.
Wow I can totally picture it now (on going thread, but good topic).
Q: If you are in a relationship what crosses the line as far as opposite sex friendships? Anywhere from grabbing more then 1 time a night (arse, rack, or more arse).
Q: Daily phone conversations? Only if she/he's calling more then your gf/bf. That's definitely a problem.
Q:Secrets? I guess those are ok as long as it's not a daily habit and is far too personal and left better in secret which isn't told.
Q: Attraction? If there's an attraction be really careful if your partner picks that up...women pick up quick has happened to me in the past and isn't health for ya relationship. Avoid thinking of the person when it comes to this...cause all you gonna be thinking about is her.
i would say when u start being attracted to that person but then they were never truly a friend there was always something more there!
I talk to my bestfriend guy almost on a daily basis we email call and visit when either or is in the area but do we cross a line nope never have and never did!! we have a great love and respect for eachother!! plus we see eachother like brother and sister!!
NONE of JC are an option that I find aceptable or reasonable for my b/f. 
her.
