Ok, I know we can't change anyone ... everyone is an individual and should be respected ... everyone should be accepted as they are and not as what they can be ... everyone has their values, morals, and opinions ... and we should all be open minded I guess
BUT if how they see something, how they think, or how they react ... well affects you what does one do????????????
I know you can't CHANGE a person ... but if you could, would you?? If so, what would you change??
** If I could change my parents mindset on gender differences I sooooooooooo would!!! I'm getting tired of hearing the "el es varon blah blah blah stories"
Yeap, sounds like the traditional Ecua or latino-in-general type of parents... She has to be home by 9 or 10; but he can come much later cause he's "macho" / boy. ...
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Mi hijo tiene 3 novias que galan y baron que es... pero si la hija is simply "dating / checking out" more than one at a time, she's a gran Putchika!!!
UNFAIR - yes. Glad I was born with that extra piece of meat.
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I think that onlything I would change in me is to be a bit more caring & loving to others or ppl. in desgracia. I tend to not care, which I know it's not nice, but I cant fake it either.
My parents I'm with you DG totally the mentality of boys & girls.
As to my X...well maybe for him to listen more to me. & not be sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo mother teresa with ppl. or situations.
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If I could change something in other people I would like to change:
- Envy and closed-minded senior’s co-workers who don't accept innovation from new-generations
- Authoritarian Professors who don’t know how to teach
- People who kill others based in extreme ideologies coming from religion, politics and massified thinking
- Boyfriends/friends with rights/men who don't listen to you and ignore you when are you talking about important topics for you(including girly stuff)
.............and the list continues but I am aware that you can't change people if they don't want to change themselves or they don't think that it is needed, so the best thing that I can't do is change my attitude towards them.
"Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." Tolstoy
Ok, I know we can't change anyone ... everyone is an individual and should be respected ... everyone should be accepted as they are and not as what they can be ... everyone has their values, morals, and opinions ... and we should all be open minded I guess
BUT if how they see something, how they think, or how they react ... well affects you what does one do????????????
I know you can't CHANGE a person ... but if you could, would you?? If so, what would you change??
** If I could change my parents mindset on gender differences I sooooooooooo would!!! I'm getting tired of hearing the "el es varon blah blah blah stories"
-- Edited by DulceGalletita at 19:46, 2006-07-31
Well I guess,.. you can not change a person,. because we are the result of how we were raised + the values we have gathered through our life,. coming from , family, friends,. and other sources sourround us,... but as persons we can improve the way we are,. and we can help others improve too,. but also I think we shouldn't hide the way we feel,..
DulceGalletita wrote: Ok, I know we can't change anyone ... everyone is an individual and should be respected ... everyone should be accepted as they are and not as what they can be ... everyone has their values, morals, and opinions ... and we should all be open minded I guess BUT if how they see something, how they think, or how they react ... well affects you what does one do???????????? I know you can't CHANGE a person ... but if you could, would you?? If so, what would you change??** If I could change my parents mindset on gender differences I sooooooooooo would!!! I'm getting tired of hearing the "el es varon blah blah blah stories" -- Edited by DulceGalletita at 19:46, 2006-07-31
Varon como Simon....el gran varon?????
LMAO!!!! Awwwwww McZuperDuper .. you make me laugh
Pero no, no como simon ... then their really would be no gender difference
DulceGalletita wrote: Ok, I know we can't change anyone ... everyone is an individual and should be respected ... everyone should be accepted as they are and not as what they can be ... everyone has their values, morals, and opinions ... and we should all be open minded I guess BUT if how they see something, how they think, or how they react ... well affects you what does one do???????????? I know you can't CHANGE a person ... but if you could, would you?? If so, what would you change??** If I could change my parents mindset on gender differences I sooooooooooo would!!! I'm getting tired of hearing the "el es varon blah blah blah stories" -- Edited by DulceGalletita at 19:46, 2006-07-31
Varon como Simon....el gran varon?????
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Ok, I know we can't change anyone ... everyone is an individual and should be respected ... everyone should be accepted as they are and not as what they can be ... everyone has their values, morals, and opinions ... and we should all be open minded I guess
BUT if how they see something, how they think, or how they react ... well affects you what does one do????????????
I know you can't CHANGE a person ... but if you could, would you?? If so, what would you change??
** If I could change my parents mindset on gender differences I sooooooooooo would!!! I'm getting tired of hearing the "el es varon blah blah blah stories"