XXX wrote: Miel wrote: it could be she is ur priority NOW,. but you have to see who are the important persons in ur life,. not in the last few months,..
yeah your right with that but she will always be one of my top priorities
XXX wrote: DulceGalletita wrote: you gotta get with my friends .... LoL ... uh huh I'm bored ... But here goes: Has anyone ditched their friends for their bf/gf?? Would anyone ditch their friends if asked by their bf/gf? If so, did you regret it or are you better then ever!! *** Nope, I haven't ... but I have had friends who have done this , BUT all the best to them ***
i guess all depends on what your priorities are if you love your gf/bf youll do anything ive ditch my friends fo my girl and i dont regret nothing cause i always have a wonderfull time with her but like i said is all about what are you priorities
Como dicen escoba nueva barre bien,. it could be she is ur priority NOW,. but you have to see who are the important persons in ur life,. not in the last few months,..
I agree with LB,. but somehimes ppl standards are that becasue u r "dating" (just to put a tag on it,even though i really don't like putting tags to a realationships) ,.. it means that you have to introduce him/her to your family,. circle of friends,. etc,.. and when you want to meet those standars (when it is ur fam standards) then you are confused between what is right for u and what is for others,. but still as LB said DO NOT MIX,. bf/gf/ friends and family,..
IM 100% WITH YOU ON THAT ONE I DONT MIND FO MA GIRL TO GO OUT WITH HER FRIENDS I UNDERST AND IF THEY MAKE PLANS A HEAD OF TIME COOL BUT LETS SAY THIS FOREXAMPLE YOU HAVE TO GO SEE YOUR GF/BF AND THEN SHE /HE TELL YOU THAT SHE/HE'S NOT GONNA SEE YOU CAUSE SHE/HE JUST MADE PLANS WITH HER/HIS FRIENDS IS THAT RIGHT? -- Edited by XXX at 13:06, 2006-05-27
Well, I think it's ok ... I mean your bf/gf didn't know that you were gonna go see them BUT if you have already made plans then that is anothe story
DulceGalletita wrote: but does that show falta de confiancia entre la pareja o curiosidad en saber lo que estara haciendo Ohhh yes yes yes.....and YES..... One call is ok if it's regarding something important.....but not cheesiness......let your partner BE for that day..... 2 or more senseless phonecalls smell like falta de confianza.
LaDyBuG wrote: You said "you HAVE TO go see her".......is it an emergency.....did you have plans....did she know you were coming over..... If you just surprised her....and she had previous plans....then let her go do her thing..... Ditching someone last minute is not nice in any relationship.....whether over friends or partners.... WE HAD PLANS
Then she totally disrespected you!
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You said "you HAVE TO go see her".......is it an emergency.....did you have plans....did she know you were coming over..... If you just surprised her....and she had previous plans....then let her go do her thing..... Ditching someone last minute is not nice in any relationship.....whether over friends or partners....
IM 100% WITH YOU ON THAT ONE I DONT MIND FO MA GIRL TO GO OUT WITH HER FRIENDS I UNDERST AND IF THEY MAKE PLANS A HEAD OF TIME COOL BUT LETS SAY THIS FOREXAMPLE YOU HAVE TO GO SEE YOUR GF/BF AND THEN SHE /HE TELL YOU THAT SHE/HE'S NOT GONNA SEE YOU CAUSE SHE/HE JUST MADE PLANS WITH HER/HIS FRIENDS IS THAT RIGHT? -- Edited by XXX at 13:06, 2006-05-27
You said "you HAVE TO go see her".......is it an emergency.....did you have plans....did she know you were coming over.....
If you just surprised her....and she had previous plans....then let her go do her thing.....
Ditching someone last minute is not nice in any relationship.....whether over friends or partners....
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@ XXX.....what you say makes a lot of sense.....but not ALL the time.....like making time for your friends once a year.....while you spend 364 days with her.....is not understandable.... It's like suddenly finding a new found friend and ditching everyone who has ever been there for you for some new chick you're in love with.....true friends will be happy for your happiness, but if you don't make time for them they will feel neglected and disrespected.....cada quien merece su lugar!
IM 100% WITH YOU ON THAT ONE
I DONT MIND FO MA GIRL TO GO OUT WITH HER FRIENDS
I UNDERST AND IF THEY MAKE PLANS A HEAD OF TIME COOL
BUT LETS SAY THIS FOREXAMPLE
YOU HAVE TO GO SEE YOUR GF/BF
AND THEN SHE /HE TELL YOU THAT SHE/HE'S NOT GONNA SEE YOU
When you're hanging out with your friends.....and your man keeps calling you or texting you messages.....and then you call him and stay on the phone with him.....and make him part of the girls night out kinda thing...... That's disrespectful to your girls..... (and vice versa when a girl does that to her man) @ XXX.....what you say makes a lot of sense.....but not ALL the time.....like making time for your friends once a year.....while you spend 364 days with her.....is not understandable.... It's like suddenly finding a new found friend and ditching everyone who has ever been there for you for some new chick you're in love with.....true friends will be happy for your happiness, but if you don't make time for them they will feel neglected and disrespected.....cada quien merece su lugar!
Ahhhhhhhh, yes yes!!!! That is sooooooo true .... I didn't RBTL
But yes, I don't like that at all ... but does that show falta de confiancia entre la pareja o curiosidad en saber lo que estara haciendo
Umm, but how is the call or text rude and disrespectful to whom your friends or partner
When you're hanging out with your friends.....and your man keeps calling you or texting you messages.....and then you call him and stay on the phone with him.....and make him part of the girls night out kinda thing......
That's disrespectful to your girls.....
(and vice versa when a girl does that to her man)
@ XXX.....what you say makes a lot of sense.....but not ALL the time.....like making time for your friends once a year.....while you spend 364 days with her.....is not understandable....
It's like suddenly finding a new found friend and ditching everyone who has ever been there for you for some new chick you're in love with.....true friends will be happy for your happiness, but if you don't make time for them they will feel neglected and disrespected.....cada quien merece su lugar!
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It's understandable though.....TO A POINT.....a the start of relationships and especially when people are in love.....sure, it's normal to spend so much time with that person..... But some people get whipped or get a leash put on them....so they ditch their friends and family just to spend 100% of their time with their lover..... Only one friend did this to me in highschool....and sure enough, when he dumped her she had NO ONE around her....at least not as close as before.... Putting all your eggs in 1 basket is no good.....IF you think those friends will be there for you when you have problems with your partner after you ditched them....you're gonna get BURNED! BALANCE: Make time for friends, your partner, your family....and DO NOT MIX THEM ALL UP.....meaning....when you are hanging out with friends do NOT bring your girl or man over.....and don't call them or text them....etc ....that's rude and disrespectful.
Yeap, that is what happened ... I think that is wrong but that is just me ...
Umm, but how is the call or text rude and disrespectful to whom your friends or partner
you gotta get with my friends .... LoL ... uh huh I'm bored ... But here goes: Has anyone ditched their friends for their bf/gf?? Would anyone ditch their friends if asked by their bf/gf? If so, did you regret it or are you better then ever!! *** Nope, I haven't ... but I have had friends who have done this , BUT all the best to them ***
i guess all depends on what your priorities are
if you love your gf/bf youll do anything
ive ditch my friends fo my girl
and i dont regret nothing
cause i always have a wonderfull time with her
but like i said is all about what are you priorities
It's understandable though.....TO A POINT.....a the start of relationships and especially when people are in love.....sure, it's normal to spend so much time with that person.....
But some people get whipped or get a leash put on them....so they ditch their friends and family just to spend 100% of their time with their lover.....
Only one friend did this to me in highschool....and sure enough, when he dumped her she had NO ONE around her....at least not as close as before....
Putting all your eggs in 1 basket is no good.....IF you think those friends will be there for you when you have problems with your partner after you ditched them....you're gonna get BURNED!
BALANCE: Make time for friends, your partner, your family....and DO NOT MIX THEM ALL UP.....meaning....when you are hanging out with friends do NOT bring your girl or man over.....and don't call them or text them....etc ....that's rude and disrespectful.
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I never have... I hope I never do... and like you, I've had very close friends that have done it.......... I hope they rot in hell.. those bastards!!!!
Ay dio mio!! ummm, I just couldn't type that but yeah my sentiments as well LoL!!!
I never have... I hope I never do... and like you, I've had very close friends that have done it.......... I hope they rot in hell.. those bastards!!!!
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Has anyone ditched their friends for their bf/gf?? Would anyone ditch their friends if asked by their bf/gf? If so, did you regret it or are you better then ever!!
*** Nope, I haven't ... but I have had friends who have done this , BUT all the best to them ***
Ohhh yes yes yes.....and YES..... One call is ok if it's regarding something important.....but not cheesiness......let your partner BE for that day..... 2 or more senseless phonecalls smell like falta de confianza. 
