Well I think that she should tell him about it, de todas maneras el tambien esta imvolucrado en esto, and let him decide too, he might tell her, you know what is up too you whatever it is you want to do, but at least he knows what is going on, I don't think she should keep quite.
Well, protection was not even concider here But know it's a bit to late right ! So, she or they need to take some actions. The final decision is hers and if she decide to keep the baby or not with our without him being aware is her business. Finally, they are not in a commited relationship and as per what you wrote, he might not be ready to be in one, maybe none of them. I got same scary delayed when I was younger and I know for a fact that back then, I would not have kept the baby and that I wouldn't have even bother telling him. Now, with some more years, well, I do anything in my power not to find myself in this situation but it still can happen and really, I don't know what I will do about it. I think I will discuss about it with the father to be, not to form a couple but to get each other opinion on the matter and take the correct decision. I hope you friend will take the best decision for her ! Really.
That's the thing supuestamente protection was used but it happened ... now it's dealing with the situation and considering what's best for the baby ...
NeNa wrote: What should she tell her baby... que mas que la verdad!!!!!... Si la verdad Nena ... pero eso seria como decirle that they were a mistake! ... Girl, i wouldn't have the heart to tell a child that I rather make up a white lie ... but that is me, and I say that now 'cause I'm not in that situation ... But any child in pain or crying in my presence just breaks my heart
So this means.. that the girl also sees this baby as a mistake???? ....
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But know it's a bit to late right ! So, she or they need to take some actions. The final decision is hers and if she decide to keep the baby or not with our without him being aware is her business. Finally, they are not in a commited relationship and as per what you wrote, he might not be ready to be in one, maybe none of them.
I got same scary delayed when I was younger and I know for a fact that back then, I would not have kept the baby and that I wouldn't have even bother telling him. Now, with some more years, well, I do anything in my power not to find myself in this situation but it still can happen and really, I don't know what I will do about it.
I think I will discuss about it with the father to be, not to form a couple but to get each other opinion on the matter and take the correct decision.
I hope you friend will take the best decision for her ! Really.
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DulceGalletita wrote: see good point girly! BUT the baby would need to know or would you keep it a secret from him/her too I personally wouldnt... I think that I would be enough of a parent to raise him/her on my own. I would be both mother and father to him/her.
What should she tell her baby... que mas que la verdad!!!!!...
Si la verdad Nena ... pero eso seria como decirle that they were a mistake! ... Girl, i wouldn't have the heart to tell a child that I rather make up a white lie ... but that is me, and I say that now 'cause I'm not in that situation ...
But any child in pain or crying in my presence just breaks my heart
if he's your friend (not ur friend) he's not gonna tell you to get rid of it...and if he does, fak him.... usually is the girl's call...and whatever she decides the guy should follow and take responsability... asi como le gusto meterlo....
No in this case, he will say it but like I said b4 he probably won't mean it ... pero con nomas decirlo o mencionarlo ...
LaDyBuG wrote: That is a really good point Cookie.... I think that if both parties are "adults".....whether it was a 1 time fling or not.....they would have to take into consideration the 3rd party (the baby)..... Will the kid be raised not knowing his daddy? Will she decide to abort without telling him? Should he know? Girl, when your in any type of relationship your adults or maybe pretending to be ... See, and that is my concern the baby ... I know abortion is out of the question on her part, but on his it would probably be the first thing that comes out of his mouth although I know he wouldn't truly mean it ... I hope But yes, I mean if she decides to stay quiet then what will she tell the child later on about the daddy ... I mean she doesn't have to continue a relationship with him but she does need to forsee what could happen in the long run ... I hate being on the sidelines ...
What should she tell her baby... que mas que la verdad!!!!!...
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yikes! Thats a sticky situation mang.If it were me, there would be no way in hellaroo that I would tell buddy.... espcecially if he were just a 'wanna get your kicks - call me' type of boy. I'd keep it a secret... no need for him to know.
see good point girly! BUT the baby would need to know or would you keep it a secret from him/her too
That is a really good point Cookie.... I think that if both parties are "adults".....whether it was a 1 time fling or not.....they would have to take into consideration the 3rd party (the baby)..... Will the kid be raised not knowing his daddy? Will she decide to abort without telling him? Should he know?
Girl, when your in any type of relationship your adults or maybe pretending to be ...
See, and that is my concern the baby ... I know abortion is out of the question on her part, but on his it would probably be the first thing that comes out of his mouth although I know he wouldn't truly mean it ... I hope
But yes, I mean if she decides to stay quiet then what will she tell the child later on about the daddy ... I mean she doesn't have to continue a relationship with him but she does need to forsee what could happen in the long run ...
McOSIRIS wrote: It takes two to tango.... so I think you should tell your friend about it... right but what if you know that this friend (not my friend) will come out and tell you to get rid of it just 'cause you know how this person is ... so in a way I agree with the decision of keeping quiet ... but I also feel that he should be told but I don't know I just listen and stay
if he's your friend (not ur friend) he's not gonna tell you to get rid of it...and if he does, fak him....
usually is the girl's call...and whatever she decides the guy should follow and take responsability... asi como le gusto meterlo....
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If it were me, there would be no way in hellaroo that I would tell buddy.... espcecially if he were just a 'wanna get your kicks - call me' type of boy. I'd keep it a secret... no need for him to know.
That is a really good point Cookie.... I think that if both parties are "adults".....whether it was a 1 time fling or not.....they would have to take into consideration the 3rd party (the baby)..... Will the kid be raised not knowing his daddy? Will she decide to abort without telling him? Should he know?
Abortion.. another HUGE topic...
I personally disagree on this.. like I said before, a child is a GIFT from God
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I don't think pregnacy is a good reason to get a man, if someone gets pregnant just to be in a relationship or to get someone, then that person should think twice about being a mother. A child is a gift from God and it should no be a reason to keep/get a man. About sharing the info, I would say yes... after all he is the father of the baby. But if the girl doesn't want to disclose that information then is up-to her...
I think that if both parties are "adults".....whether it was a 1 time fling or not.....they would have to take into consideration the 3rd party (the baby).....
Will the kid be raised not knowing his daddy?
Will she decide to abort without telling him? Should he know?
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I don't think pregnacy is a good reason to get a man, if someone gets pregnant just to be in a relationship or to get someone, then that person should think twice about being a mother. A child is a gift from God and it should no be a reason to keep/get a man.
About sharing the info, I would say yes... after all he is the father of the baby. But if the girl doesn't want to disclose that information then is up-to her...
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It takes two to tango.... so I think you should tell your friend about it...
right but what if you know that this friend (not my friend) will come out and tell you to get rid of it just 'cause you know how this person is ... so in a way I agree with the decision of keeping quiet ... but I also feel that he should be told but I don't know I just listen and stay
Ok, I'm just curious to know what you all think ....
If in a one-night stand or friends with benefit or casual dating or well you get my point ... anything but a stable relationship ...
I'm under the assumption that one is in the above relationship because nothing stable is wanted or possible at the moment with the other party ... However, if pregnancy were to occur, you will have this person in your life forever ....
It's up to the girl to let the guy know this info, now is she doing wrong if she decided to keep quiet????????????
... but that is me, and I say that now 'cause I'm not in that situation ... But any child in pain or crying in my presence just breaks my heart 
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... See, and that is my concern the baby ... I know abortion is out of the question on her part, but on his it would probably be the first thing that comes out of his mouth 
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
... I totally agree with the above .... 
