hey mara, my mother in law is difunta. And I live in the basement with three kids. One of which was conceived here. Relax your in laws probably have a kinkier sex life then you do, with whips and chains. I don't think their holding up a glass to hear you two going at it
I SUGGEST YOU SPEAK TO HIM, IF HE REALLY WANTS THINGS TO WORK OUT, THEN HE WILL UNDERSTAND THAT ALL YOU REALLY WANT IS PRIVACY, A HOME IN WHICH YOU WILL DO AS YOU PLEASE WITHOUT HAVING TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE ELSE WILL SAY, IN THIS CASE HIS PARENTS....
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hey mara, my mother in law is difunta. And I live in the basement with three kids. One of which was conceived here. Relax your in laws probably have a kinkier sex life then you do, with whips and chains. I don't think their holding up a glass to hear you two going at it
I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well just put your thoughts together what you want and talk to him>>>if he cares he will try to compromise your demands,,,,,i'm sure he is a good guy and maybe he just needs to hear it from you,,,,don't feel desperate about it it will get better!!!
I could see how this would be frustrating. I would not want to live with my in laws. Why not talk it over with him and give him a get out of your parents house deadline? Like let's say you give him 6 months. Think of it as saving some serious down payment money.....you can save a lot of money in 6 months and if you look at it that way then it might be a little less frustrating.
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well i think u both r old enough to talk n fix the situacion....plus you knew what you were gonna get yourself into before you moved in...
just talk to him n let him know how you feel about this and if he doesn't want to do anything about it then you know what???you know what to do unless you want to spend the rest of you life living with you in-laws
Salsera de Corazon wrote: God wrote: mara wrote: I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May I ask how old is the "Man" 30 Wow 30 and living with mom ...niceeeeeeeeee
I want to believe you'v being sarcastic right ?
Let's say, if if was a Bachelor, why not but he does have a partner and that's where it doens't click for me.
Only for a few months ????? Don't think so ! Mara, push him to move out and let him know how you think and feel about the situation. I am sure the issue is not only the sex but the freedom and intimacy in general that you don't really have.
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Salsera de Corazon wrote: God wrote: mara wrote: I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May I ask how old is the "Man" 30 Wow 30 and living with mom ...niceeeeeeeeee
Salsera de Corazon wrote: God wrote: mara wrote: I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May I ask how old is the "Man" 30
mara wrote: I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May I ask how old is the "Man"
mara wrote: I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!
But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe......
Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GIRL RELAX!!! HOW LONG IS A FEW MONTHS?? NEXT THING JUST MAKE SURE U TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT TELL HIM HOW U FEEL!!! AND IF ITS THE SEX THING DO THIS WHEN UR IN LAWS ARE NOT HOME TEST IT OUT!!! U GO UP STAIRS AND MAKE SURE ITS SOUND PROOF!! ANOTHER THING
IF U AHVE BEEN TOGETHER LONG ENOUGHT IM SURE HE WILL UNDERSTAND HOW U FEEL!!!
OMG Mara, I would have never accepted to move and leave with "my in-laws" specially if you were already leaving by your own when you've met. Mamitis y cnchudo ? oughhhhh, that's bad ! Are you sure you need our help ? Or do you need to be conforted in the decision you're about to take/make ? Out of curiosity, how old is he ?-- Edited by Julie at 12:19, 2006-04-04
I did it cuz i thought it was just going to be temporary. But now he's installed there and won't do anything to get out. Worst thing is, HE'S IN HIS 30'S.
mara wrote: I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG Mara, I would have never accepted to move and leave with "my in-laws" specially if you were already leaving by your own when you've met. Mamitis y cnchudo ? oughhhhh, that's bad ! Out of curiosity, how old is he ?
so true...
if you were leaving by yourself.. why didn't he moved in with you?????
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I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG Mara, I would have never accepted to move and leave with "my in-laws" specially if you were already leaving by your own when you've met.
Mamitis y cnchudo ? oughhhhh, that's bad !
Are you sure you need our help ? Or do you need to be conforted in the decision you're about to take/make ?
Out of curiosity, how old is he ?
-- Edited by Julie at 12:19, 2006-04-04
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I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!! But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe...... Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think you know what you need to do.
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I've been living with my boyfriend for a few months now...we live in his parent's basement...and it's sooo getting to me. I used to live on my own before the move and I agreed to move in there just to make him happy. BUT Now....I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! To me a couple needs their privacy, their own things, their own rules......I CAN'T even have sex without thinking that my in-laws are going to hear me........I NEED TO GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!
But he won't.....he's soo freaking attached....and a cheap ass i believe......
Does anybody here go through this? how do you handle it? do u feel like a loser cuz you are still with mommy and daddy?....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
Wow 30 and living with mom ...niceeeeeeeeee 
