Colombiana4Life wrote: That's pretty much my life. Im friends with everyone who doesent get along. At first it used to be really difficult, especially when I would have parties or events, cause I was always analyzing who to invite who not to. And then where to sit people so they are as far away from each other as possible. But after a while I said to myself that if these people are really my friends they will respect my event and keep their beefs for another time. So now I just invite everyone and if they want to show up or not, that's up to them. Thatz so true Colo ... that is all one can do ... that way you actually appreciate your TRUE friendz more and realize who they real are ...
Exactly. I dont like taking on other people's beefs, unless it's something really horrible. I also dont expect my friends to take on my beefs either.
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That's pretty much my life. Im friends with everyone who doesent get along. At first it used to be really difficult, especially when I would have parties or events, cause I was always analyzing who to invite who not to. And then where to sit people so they are as far away from each other as possible. But after a while I said to myself that if these people are really my friends they will respect my event and keep their beefs for another time. So now I just invite everyone and if they want to show up or not, that's up to them.
Thatz so true Colo ... that is all one can do ... that way you actually appreciate your TRUE friendz more and realize who they real are ...
Just wondering if this has happened to anyone. Have you or are you friends with 2 people who hate eachother? If so does either of your friends care? I know this has happened to me but with two female friends. I would say hi to one and the other one would be in the same room or whatever and I could feel the tension.
That's pretty much my life. Im friends with everyone who doesent get along. At first it used to be really difficult, especially when I would have parties or events, cause I was always analyzing who to invite who not to. And then where to sit people so they are as far away from each other as possible. But after a while I said to myself that if these people are really my friends they will respect my event and keep their beefs for another time. So now I just invite everyone and if they want to show up or not, that's up to them.
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DulceGalletita wrote: All the time LOL!!!!! But as long as they respect me and the other person while they are with me or talk to me then itz all cool BUT if I start being placed in the middle of this battle then buh bye to both parties ... That only happened once ... most of the time I'm cool and respect them more because they don't get me involved in their situation ... And yes it tends to happen more with girls unfortunately what happens off foro, stays off foro!!!Just playing!Ive been in circumstances where ive become friends with one of my girls boyfriends, and when they break up, they expect you to automatically drop the guy friend b/c they didnt work out. Stupid really.
Nope tell them No ... I had that happen too ... sorry I won't drop anyone unless they wanna be dropped ..
LMAO!!!!! LOQUITAAAAAAAA I didn't say nothing ... I did say i respect them more and I luv them more too BUT I don't wanna marry them ...
Psst Chale but if I turn 40 and nutin happens then you know the deal LMAOOOOO!!!!
All the time LOL!!!!! But as long as they respect me and the other person while they are with me or talk to me then itz all cool BUT if I start being placed in the middle of this battle then buh bye to both parties ... That only happened once ... most of the time I'm cool and respect them more because they don't get me involved in their situation ... And yes it tends to happen more with girls unfortunately
what happens off foro, stays off foro!!! Just playing!
Ive been in circumstances where ive become friends with one of my girls boyfriends, and when they break up, they expect you to automatically drop the guy friend b/c they didnt work out. Stupid really.
Just wondering if this has happened to anyone. Have you or are you friends with 2 people who hate eachother? If so does either of your friends care? I know this has happened to me but with two female friends. I would say hi to one and the other one would be in the same room or whatever and I could feel the tension.
All the time LOL!!!!!
But as long as they respect me and the other person while they are with me or talk to me then itz all cool
BUT if I start being placed in the middle of this battle then buh bye to both parties ...
That only happened once ... most of the time I'm cool and respect them more because they don't get me involved in their situation ...
And yes it tends to happen more with girls unfortunately
I agree with you Daeveed ! At least it happened to me.
3 of us were very good friends, the other 2 had been friends for the past 15 years and for something that shouldn't have been taking such proportion, now, they just don't talk to ech other anymore.
I was able to handle it for a while but one of them was always trying to put me in the middle and get some information from me. She was "reclamandome" and reproching me the fact that I was still in contact with the other, after all that had happened, bla bla bla, do I took my distance.
Very sad indeed, it really hurt me seeing such a long friendship vanished like that.
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Just wondering if this has happened to anyone. Have you or are you friends with 2 people who hate eachother? If so does either of your friends care? I know this has happened to me but with two female friends. I would say hi to one and the other one would be in the same room or whatever and I could feel the tension.
Just wondering if this has happened to anyone. Have you or are you friends with 2 people who hate eachother? If so does either of your friends care?
I know this has happened to me but with two female friends. I would say hi to one and the other one would be in the same room or whatever and I could feel the tension.
BUT if I start being placed in the middle of this battle then buh bye to both parties ... That only happened once ... most of the time I'm cool and respect them more because they don't get me involved in their situation ... And yes it tends to happen more with girls unfortunately 
what happens off foro, stays off foro!!!
... I did say i respect them more and I luv them more too BUT I don't wanna marry them 
