Lahtina wrote: It only bothers me when I can't orgasm. yes i agree with u on that one
That's good but... I changed my mind now. I now think orgasms are overrated. It's kind of like dessert after a good meal - it's sweet, but it´s not what nourishes you. I gotta agree with bistor now: sex shouldn't have to be goal-oriented. Too often there is the sense of failure if everyone involved doesn't have an earth-quaking, mind-blowing, spine numbing, toe curling, breathtaking orgasm. It isn't realistic and it prevents people from just enjoying what feels good.
bistor wrote: DulceGalletita wrote: bistor wrote: I don't care if I do or don't. It's more important my partner does. Are you serious??? I'm serious. Of course I usually do, but if for whatever reason she's had her fill, and I don't feel like continuing, that's ok too.
What if she feels the same way as you?
That's fine too.
I think there's sometimes so much emphasis on the big O that people forget to enjoy the process itself.
Lahtina wrote: bistor wrote: DulceGalletita wrote: bistor wrote: I don't care if I do or don't. It's more important my partner does. Are you serious??? I'm serious. Of course I usually do, but if for whatever reason she's had her fill, and I don't feel like continuing, that's ok too. What if she feels the same way as you? That's fine too. I think there's sometimes so much emphasis on the big O that people forget to enjoy the process itself. Nookie shouldn't be a chore.
I agree !
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Lahtina wrote: bistor wrote: DulceGalletita wrote: bistor wrote: I don't care if I do or don't. It's more important my partner does. Are you serious??? I'm serious. Of course I usually do, but if for whatever reason she's had her fill, and I don't feel like continuing, that's ok too.
What if she feels the same way as you?
That's fine too.
I think there's sometimes so much emphasis on the big O that people forget to enjoy the process itself.
DulceGalletita wrote: bistor wrote: I don't care if I do or don't. It's more important my partner does. Are you serious??? I'm serious. Of course I usually do, but if for whatever reason she's had her fill, and I don't feel like continuing, that's ok too.
NeNa wrote: Jinx wrote: when your partner takes forever to reach an orgasm??? NOOOOOOO the longer the better!!!!!!! Humm I disagree. Long sessions every once in a while are great but for the most part I really don't need to be there for very long.
Gives a new meaning to “easy to please”!
LOL
Or was that always the meaning?
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bistor wrote: NeNa wrote: Jinx wrote: when your partner takes forever to reach an orgasm??? NOOOOOOO the longer the better!!!!!!! Is longer better than thicker? why is it always a choice.... can we have both... long and thick!!!
JAJAJAJA
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NeNa wrote: Jinx wrote: when your partner takes forever to reach an orgasm??? NOOOOOOO the longer the better!!!!!!! Humm I disagree. Long sessions every once in a while are great but for the most part I really don't need to be there for very long.
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....
nuh-uh!!!!!
like I said...
The longer the better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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