I said before, I haven't had to find a job, me. Wold love to get some cash jobs, but that's proving to be harder than I expected.
But, just out of common sense, when money is tight, is good to be tight with your money. And never sleep over a debt you won't be able to pay next day. At least, try really, reaaaally hard not to. It's ADDICTIVE.
(A reason why I would love to see, at least, the churches, arguing against the entire credit-interests system
Jesus of Nazareth kicked the merchants out of the temple, not because they were selling stuff -without which you couldn't do much at the Temple, really- but because they were charging interests over both the coins exchange AND sacrifice animals purchasing. Which means, even GOD (RGNFG) looks down angrily over credit card companies)
Jade wrote: I believe a few days back someone posted about how long people had gone without a fulltime job... Now I wondering.... I know that it is depressing to not have a job and specially if you know your running outta loot. Do you think depression plays a great part of someone not able to find a job??? or is it more of a lazy thing?? I mean cuz if I were someone who hadnt had a fulltime job in like 6 months and I am now having to borrow money constantly ..I could no longer be depressed and I d be freaking worried, therefore that would drive me to get a job fast so that i dont end up on the street!!. I know people for a fact..who continue to borrow money and dont have a ****ing job and dont seem to be looking urgently enough for a job because they feel "DEPRESSED". How would you deal wit these kinds of people?? Easy. Just don't lend them the money. It's a win-win situation: you don't lose any more money and they will be pressured enough to look for a job. Just say no.
Sure..but what if the LENDER needs that money back from the LENDEE fast because the LENDER is now suffering financially because they lent money out?!?!?!! What do you do then...and the question is...how the hell do you get this mofos to get off their asses!? I think being depressed is just a stupid excuse!!!! Obviosly the Lender has learned His/Her lesson and will never lend out a pennie unless they know the LENDEE is responsable!!
I've been in that situation and I can totally relate to you. Once I lost my job there was a chain reaction and all my nightmares came at the same time.
Don't let depression take over, cuz you transmit that pessimism to others and you start isolating yourself.
During that time I started experimenting with yoga and meditation. I'm glad to say that it really worked.
Don't loose faith and good luck....
-- Edited by McOSIRIS at 08:56, 2006-03-27
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I believe a few days back someone posted about how long people had gone without a fulltime job... Now I wondering.... I know that it is depressing to not have a job and specially if you know your running outta loot. Do you think depression plays a great part of someone not able to find a job??? or is it more of a lazy thing?? I mean cuz if I were someone who hadnt had a fulltime job in like 6 months and I am now having to borrow money constantly ..I could no longer be depressed and I d be freaking worried, therefore that would drive me to get a job fast so that i dont end up on the street!!. I know people for a fact..who continue to borrow money and dont have a ****ing job and dont seem to be looking urgently enough for a job because they feel "DEPRESSED". How would you deal wit these kinds of people??
Easy. Just don't lend them the money. It's a win-win situation: you don't lose any more money and they will be pressured enough to look for a job. Just say no.
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I believe a few days back someone posted about how long people had gone without a fulltime job...
Now I wondering.... I know that it is depressing to not have a job and specially if you know your running outta loot. Do you think depression plays a great part of someone not able to find a job??? or is it more of a lazy thing?? I mean cuz if I were someone who hadnt had a fulltime job in like 6 months and I am now having to borrow money constantly ..I could no longer be depressed and I d be freaking worried, therefore that would drive me to get a job fast so that i dont end up on the street!!. I know people for a fact..who continue to borrow money and dont have a ****ing job and dont seem to be looking urgently enough for a job because they feel "DEPRESSED". How would you deal wit these kinds of people??
I know that it is depressing to not have a job and specially if you know your running outta loot. Do you think depression plays a great part of someone not able to find a job??? or is it more of a lazy thing?? I mean cuz if I were someone who hadnt had a fulltime job in like 6 months and I am now having to borrow money constantly ..I could no longer be depressed and I d be freaking worried, therefore that would drive me to get a job fast so that i dont end up on the street!!. I know people for a fact..who continue to borrow money and dont have a ****ing job and dont seem to be looking urgently enough for a job because they feel "DEPRESSED". How would you deal wit these kinds of people??
Easy. Just don't lend them the money. It's a win-win situation: you don't lose any more money and they will be pressured enough to look for a job. Just say no. 
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
