A GRANDPARENT'S LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL!!! I DON'T THINK IT'S POSSIBLE TO LOVE ONE MORE THAN THE OTHER JUST CAUSE IT CAME FIRST OR LAST!! MY PARENTS SPOIL AND LOVE MY KIDS EQUALLY!!!
see i'm the favorite in my family, because i'm the first born in my moms side, but im also the favorite on my dad's side because i'm one of the last, see on my moms side, i haven't seen my grandfather in 3years and he live here in canada,and i gave him his first great gandchild
What I have noticed is that grandparents are more consentidores with their granchildren than they were with their own children,.. Por ejemplo,...mi abuelita no dejaba a mi mama estar hasta muy tarde de la noche fuera de casa,. pero a mi hermana (who she raised) no le decia nada,.. ,.. My grandparents were tougher with my mom and uncles than with us,.. ypor de diferencia de amor entre un nieto y otro,. no creo,...they looovee to all their grandchildren the same way,..
I totally agree with Miel about grandparents being more consentidores and lenient ...
I don't feel that they truly love one grandchild more than the other but I can say there actions may say different so itz possible to feel that way ... I was the third granddaughter and was la mas consentida until my brother came LOL!! por ser el primer nieto pues me quito el trono LOL LOL ...
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I DO THINK THAT PARENTS LOVE ALL THERE KIDS THE SAME! BUT THEY TEND TO NURTURE SOME MORE THEN OTHERS! FOR EXAMPLE ME AND MY BROTHERS! I WAS FIRST BORN GIRL TOO!! SO U WOULD THINK THAT I WAS SPOILED! I WAS MATERIALISTIC WISE I HAD EVERYTHING A GIRL COULD WANT!!! BUT NOT MY MOTHERS ATTENTION! NOPE MY BROTHERS HAD THAT AND STILL DO! I WAS MORE TO FEND FOR MYSELF BUT I WAS DADDYS PRINCESS! SO THEY ALL LOVE US THE SAME I THINK THEY JUST PAY MORE ATTENTION TO CERTAIN SIBLINGS CUZ THEY ARE IN NEED OF IT! LMAO AND MY GRANDPARENTS IM THE FAVORITE AND I KNOW CUZ IM THE ONLY GRAND CHILD IN ALL THE WILLS!! AND IM NOT EVEN THE FIRST ON EITHER SIDE!
NeNa wrote: but don't u think parents love the first child a bit more than the others....???? No! Not MORE.....the first one is I guess...."special"....'cause it was the first.......but is no more love then the next.......I would like to think.........Again....I don't have kids.....So I can't say........ Where are the parents with multiple kids??? They would be able to answer more accurately...
I DO THINK THAT PARENTS LOVE ALL THERE KIDS THE SAME! BUT THEY TEND TO NURTURE SOME MORE THEN OTHERS! FOR EXAMPLE ME AND MY BROTHERS! I WAS FIRST BORN GIRL TOO!! SO U WOULD THINK THAT I WAS SPOILED! I WAS MATERIALISTIC WISE I HAD EVERYTHING A GIRL COULD WANT!!! BUT NOT MY MOTHERS ATTENTION! NOPE MY BROTHERS HAD THAT AND STILL DO! I WAS MORE TO FEND FOR MYSELF BUT I WAS DADDYS PRINCESS!
SO THEY ALL LOVE US THE SAME I THINK THEY JUST PAY MORE ATTENTION TO CERTAIN SIBLINGS CUZ THEY ARE IN NEED OF IT! LMAO
AND MY GRANDPARENTS IM THE FAVORITE AND I KNOW CUZ IM THE ONLY GRAND CHILD IN ALL THE WILLS!! AND IM NOT EVEN THE FIRST ON EITHER SIDE!
What I have noticed is that grandparents are more consentidores with their granchildren than they were with their own children,.. Por ejemplo,...mi abuelita no dejaba a mi mama estar hasta muy tarde de la noche fuera de casa,. pero a mi hermana (who she raised) no le decia nada,.. ,.. My grandparents were tougher with my mom and uncles than with us,.. ypor de diferencia de amor entre un nieto y otro,. no creo,...they looovee to all their grandchildren the same way,..
No es que el primero tenga MAS amor....but it has a certain "special" thing for being the first kid.... I was the first girl in the family and the first child from my mom's side....so of course I was specialer than my bro and other cousins.....but for my mom, her son is the favorite....and im totally ok with this because he can never be FIRST.....LOL As for my grandparents....they love us equally....i know they do.....we are the only grandkids they have and we are 1 year apart.....so they loved us from the get go.....so it all depends on the situation.....
No es que el primero tenga MAS amor....but it has a certain "special" thing for being the first kid....
I was the first girl in the family and the first child from my mom's side....so of course I was specialer than my bro and other cousins.....but for my mom, her son is the favorite....and im totally ok with this because he can never be FIRST.....LOL
As for my grandparents....they love us equally....i know they do.....we are the only grandkids they have and we are 1 year apart.....so they loved us from the get go.....so it all depends on the situation.....
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Nothing wrong with being the only one. In fact, that's the whole principle behind loving the first child more. Now that there's two of us that think the same, you won't be loved as much.
NeNa wrote: but don't u think parents love the first child a bit more than the others....????
No!
Not MORE.....the first one is I guess...."special"....'cause it was the first.......but is no more love then the next.......I would like to think.........Again....I don't have kids.....So I can't say........
Where are the parents with multiple kids??? They would be able to answer more accurately...
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I don't have any kids.....but from what I've heard parents say.......You don't love one more than the other.....just love them all just the same....... So I don't see how a grandparents love for their grandchildren would differ....
yeah u could be right... but don't u think parents love the first child a bit more than the others....????
I think that you're looking at this the wrong way.
It's like asking parents which one of their kids they love more.
I don't have any kids.....but from what I've heard parents say.......You don't love one more than the other.....just love them all just the same.......
So I don't see how a grandparents love for their grandchildren would differ....
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NeNa wrote: I've been having a discussion between co-workers, friends, even family members about this topic, I just want to know what everybody else thinks??? A man gets married and have a kid--- First grandkid for his parents, a joy to them--they spoiled him to the end.. even his dad.... they love the little one and he grows very close to them ... he gets married again and he and his wife are expecting their first baby as a couple... Now, my question to you... are the grandparents going to love the same way to this little one as they love the first grandkid???? Personally, I think they are going to love this baby too.. of course is their grandkid.. BUT, they are not going to love the same way as they love the first one... El primero es el consentido de la familia... y aunque venga mas nietos, los abuelos nunca van a cambiar la forma de como quieren al primero..esto incluye al padre tambien.... they will love the baby but is not the same... U mean like....sexually?? you're disguisting
I've been having a discussion between co-workers, friends, even family members about this topic, I just want to know what everybody else thinks??? A man gets married and have a kid--- First grandkid for his parents, a joy to them--they spoiled him to the end.. even his dad.... they love the little one and he grows very close to them ... he gets married again and he and his wife are expecting their first baby as a couple... Now, my question to you... are the grandparents going to love the same way to this little one as they love the first grandkid???? Personally, I think they are going to love this baby too.. of course is their grandkid.. BUT, they are not going to love the same way as they love the first one... El primero es el consentido de la familia... y aunque venga mas nietos, los abuelos nunca van a cambiar la forma de como quieren al primero..esto incluye al padre tambien.... they will love the baby but is not the same...
Sometimes i think that my child will always be their consentido, but who knows. My son is my parents only grandchild! I guess i'll wait and see when the next grandchild comes along!
I've been having a discussion between co-workers, friends, even family members about this topic, I just want to know what everybody else thinks???
A man gets married and have a kid--- First grandkid for his parents, a joy to them--they spoiled him to the end.. even his dad.... they love the little one and he grows very close to them ... he gets married again and he and his wife are expecting their first baby as a couple... Now, my question to you... are the grandparents going to love the same way to this little one as they love the first grandkid????
Personally, I think they are going to love this baby too.. of course is their grandkid.. BUT, they are not going to love the same way as they love the first one... El primero es el consentido de la familia... y aunque venga mas nietos, los abuelos nunca van a cambiar la forma de como quieren al primero..esto incluye al padre tambien.... they will love the baby but is not the same...
,.. My grandparents were tougher with my mom and uncles than with us,.. ypor de diferencia de amor entre un nieto y otro,. no creo,...they looovee to all their grandchildren the same way,.. 
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"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
U mean like....sexually?? you're disguisting
