I don't know cause i have never been in that situation!! Plus i know i'm not adopted!!!
They still have not sat you down and unfolded the “truth”!
Adopted / Not Adopted… Whatever, I would still be me, still would continue to love the ones I already love… YES, would want to meet the ones who did the deed and passed me on; but would feel no bad feelings towards them… Just continue to live the way I live.
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Not everything I post or say on foro are necesarily true facts. <- THAT is a fact! :blankstare:
my cuzin is semi adopted long story she was my tios daughter born out of wedlock and my aunt adopted but she doesnt know! which sucks!
but i think i would not ask questions i mean if they gave me up it was to a better place so whatever! i would be even more greatful to my mother for having the courage to take me in and raise me!
CHALEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I missed you WELCOMEEEEEEEE WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!! LMAOOO el lechero ay dio mio!!! Me dijieron el cartero ... he's cute at least the one that drops of my mail
sup baby gurl... lol
thanks chicky, i missed you too... but Im back and badder than ever! (Someone cue my mase theme song please)
Ummm, I would always LOVE the family that raised me but como soy curiosa I would like to know where I came from and who my real parents are. With that said I would like to know I wouldn't judge them for having left me porque no soy quien para juzgar a nadie pero like GM said your FAMILY & PARENTS are the ones that raise you whether te enjendraron (asi se dice ) o te adoptaron ....
But this is just me and the way I feel about the situation REALITY is being in the situation and gracias al Jefito del Cielo I know I am not ... even if my brother has told me when we were younger that I was and I believed him
FINDING OUT YOU'RE ADOPTED, I GUESS WOULD BE HARD ON ANYONE! IF I WERE IN THAT SITUATION AND FOUND OUT THAT I WAS ADOPTED.... DESPITE ALL THE QUESTIONS I WOULD HAVE.... I WOULD FEEL A MUCH DEEPER AFFECTION TO THAT FAMILY WHO TOOK ME, RAISED ME AND PROVIDED ME WITH ALL MY NECESSITIES..... I WOULD NOT EVEN WANT TO KNOW WHO MY REAL PARENTS ARE....
A PARENT IS THE ONE WHO RAISES YOU, NOT THE ONE THAT GIVES BIRTH TO YOU AND LEAVES YOU OR THE ONE THAT ONLY PROVIDES YOU WITH A LAST NAME AS A CONSTANT REMINDER OF WHO YOU CAME FROM!!
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TO SOLVE THE HUMAN EQUATION, WE NEED TO ADD LOVE, SUBTRACT HATE, MULTIPLY GOOD, AND DIVIDE BETWEEN TRUTH AND ERROR!!
I do know of someone who was adopted but she doesn't know!! She's my age and lives in T.O. But she kind of has a feeling! I wonder how she would feel ifand when she finds out!
See, that's a bad thing. I personally believe that the kids need to know because one day or another, they'll find out and the parents won't have a good excuse/reason to explain the fact they have hidden the fact during so many years.
It is never to late to say it.
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I do know of someone who was adopted but she doesn't know!! She's my age and lives in T.O. But she kind of has a feeling! I wonder how she would feel ifand when she finds out!
This is a topic very close to home for me. Both ofr my cousins, I was raised with are adopted, 1 girl and 1 boy.
They've been told by their parents from a very young age that they were adopted. They are both very happy and never had any issue with that. For them, their parents are the one that aopted them, loved them since the very first day and took care of them till today....
Maďa never tried to look for her biological parents and is not even closed to be interesed in it.
But Nicolas is a bit "weaker" sort of speak, he always need answers and needs to feel extra love and attention all the time so the thought of looking for them went through his mine a few times and his parents were ok with it and even offer their help but he never did it and probably never will. Noadays when he talked about it, he just say that it was a stage in his life when he thought that this will be the anser to his problems because he went trough a rough sentimental time (pfff, he was just 20 back them, kiddo, I tell you)
As for me, I am very curious so if that would have happened to me, I probably would like to meet them but will never refer to them as my parents.
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A person who doesn't make mistakes is unlikely to make anything.
If my adoptive parents are the only family I know....and have given me their love and raised me as one of their own.........I would gravitate to them more than anyone else....
I don't know if I'd like to meet my real parents if that were the case......
But again......hard to answer not actually being in that situation...
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"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
WELCOMEEEEEEEE WOO HOO!!!!!!!!!! LMAOOO el lechero ay dio mio!!! Me dijieron el cartero 
) o te adoptaron ....
"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
Roses are red violets are korny, when I think of you Ohh baby I get horny...
