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I AGREE with LB!!!!!!!


The most I have lent was $100  and it was returned ...


I'm bad at this because I do my best to help out and then realize I made a mistake but oh well at least I LEARNED from it or have I


Family, AY DIO MIO!! that is another issue ... I lend with my eyes closed and don't expect it back but that too depends on the situation ...


 



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Depends on the friend.  If it is someone who always has the nicest, newest stuff, and is careless and selfish...I would say dont do it.


If it is someone close to you, who would likely do the same for you if you ever needed it, then of course I would lend them money.


I would say the limit would be $500.


 


 


 



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 A ALGUIEN NO LE HICIERON FELIZ.............................NO GOOD


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@ JAMIE CRUZ IT'S NOT ABOUT THAT ANYMORE...YOU THINK YOUR DOING SOMETHING RIGHT TO HELP A FRIEND OUT...THEN YOU GET $HIT ON LIKE THIS...I'M NOT ABOUT REVENGE...I'M ALL ABOUT KARMA...SO I JUST HAVE TO SIT BACK AND SMILE... @ DURO I'M BITTER TODAY...

A ALGUIEN NO LE HICIERON FELIZ.............................NO GOOD

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@ JAMIE CRUZ IT'S NOT ABOUT THAT ANYMORE...YOU THINK YOUR DOING SOMETHING RIGHT TO HELP A FRIEND OUT...THEN YOU GET $HIT ON LIKE THIS...I'M NOT ABOUT REVENGE...I'M ALL ABOUT KARMA...SO I JUST HAVE TO SIT BACK AND SMILE... @ DURO I'M BITTER TODAY...


 


I can tell.. must be that time eh



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@ PRECIOSA


YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW WELL I UNDERSTAND YOUR SITUATION......AND SOMEHOW REVENGE MAKES NO SENSE BECUASE YOU WOULD END UP BE-LITTLE-ING YOURSELF.....PEOPLE WHO CONSCIENCELY DONT PAY BACK LOANS....BAD THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO THEM.....MAYBE NOT FINANCIALLY BUT THINGS WONT GO RIGHT FOR THEM.....



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@ JAMIE CRUZ


IT'S NOT ABOUT THAT ANYMORE...YOU THINK YOUR DOING SOMETHING RIGHT TO HELP A FRIEND OUT...THEN YOU GET $HIT ON LIKE THIS...I'M NOT ABOUT REVENGE...I'M ALL ABOUT KARMA...SO I JUST HAVE TO SIT BACK AND SMILE...


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HOW FUNNY THIS TOPIC WAS CREATED... I AM EXPERIENCING IT AS WE SPEAK...LAST YEAR A FRIEND AND I DECIDED TO TAKE A TRIP TOGETHER FOR A WEEK DOWN SOUTH...NOW...SHE WAS INSISTING SHE HAD TO GO...SHE WAS FEELING DEPRESSED AND NEEDED A BREAK SO I SAID I WOULD JOIN HER... THE THING WAS THAT SHE DIDN'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY...SO SHE ASKED ME IF I CAN LEND HER SOME...WE WERE CLOSE AT THE TIME SO I THOUGHT "WHY NOT"...I MADE IT CLEAR TO HER THAT I WAS LENDING HER THE MONEY...SO THAT MEANS SHE HAD TO PAY IT BACK...AND SHE AGREED...VERBALLY...(WORST MISTAKE)... I DIDN'T LEND HER A FEW BUCKS HERE AND THERE...I LEND HER A COUPLE HUNDREDS...SO...WHEN WE GOT BACK SHE DID GIVE ME 50 DOLLARS...(WOOPIE)...BUT DID I SEE THE REST...NOOOOOOO... I AM NOT ONE TO ASK...BUT AT THE TIME I WAS GOING THREW A LITTLE ROUGH TIME MYSELF...SO I NEEDED THE MONEY...I CONFRONTED HER ABOUT IT AND WE HAD A LITTLE BEEF OUT..SO I DECIDED "FACK THIS".... SHE TRIED TO CONTACT ME...AND PLAYED IT OFF LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED...I CAN'T TOLERATE THAT...YOU TRY TO HELP A FRIEND OUT...AND YOU GET "FACKED" I LIVE AND I LEARN...TILL THIS DAY SHE TRIES TO CONTACT ME TO GET TOGETHER AND HANG OUT...BUT ONCE YOU DISRESPECT ME ONCE...I CAN'T LOOK AT YOU THE SAME... FRIEND OR NOT...!!! 

If I were you I'd go to her house and break some furniture or take something from her house that's close to the value of what you gave her. You can put her items up for bid here on el Foro

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@ PRECIOSA GIRL CAN YOU LEND ME MONEY FOR MY LUNCH, GAS AND TIMMY'S??? I PROMISE I'LL PAY YOU BACK!!!!!


 




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HOW FUNNY THIS TOPIC WAS CREATED... I AM EXPERIENCING IT AS WE SPEAK...LAST YEAR A FRIEND AND I DECIDED TO TAKE A TRIP TOGETHER FOR A WEEK DOWN SOUTH...NOW...SHE WAS INSISTING SHE HAD TO GO...SHE WAS FEELING DEPRESSED AND NEEDED A BREAK SO I SAID I WOULD JOIN HER... THE THING WAS THAT SHE DIDN'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY...SO SHE ASKED ME IF I CAN LEND HER SOME...WE WERE CLOSE AT THE TIME SO I THOUGHT "WHY NOT"...I MADE IT CLEAR TO HER THAT I WAS LENDING HER THE MONEY...SO THAT MEANS SHE HAD TO PAY IT BACK...AND SHE AGREED...VERBALLY...(WORST MISTAKE)... I DIDN'T LEND HER A FEW BUCKS HERE AND THERE...I LEND HER A COUPLE HUNDREDS...SO...WHEN WE GOT BACK SHE DID GIVE ME 50 DOLLARS...(WOOPIE)...BUT DID I SEE THE REST...NOOOOOOO... I AM NOT ONE TO ASK...BUT AT THE TIME I WAS GOING THREW A LITTLE ROUGH TIME MYSELF...SO I NEEDED THE MONEY...I CONFRONTED HER ABOUT IT AND WE HAD A LITTLE BEEF OUT..SO I DECIDED "FACK THIS".... SHE TRIED TO CONTACT ME...AND PLAYED IT OFF LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED...I CAN'T TOLERATE THAT...YOU TRY TO HELP A FRIEND OUT...AND YOU GET "FACKED" I LIVE AND I LEARN...TILL THIS DAY SHE TRIES TO CONTACT ME TO GET TOGETHER AND HANG OUT...BUT ONCE YOU DISRESPECT ME ONCE...I CAN'T LOOK AT YOU THE SAME... FRIEND OR NOT...!!! 


 


Wow.. who pissed on your corn flakes this morning..


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


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@ PRECIOSA


GIRL CAN YOU LEND ME MONEY FOR MY LUNCH, GAS AND TIMMY'S???


I PROMISE I'LL PAY YOU BACK!!!!!



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HOW FUNNY THIS TOPIC WAS CREATED...


I AM EXPERIENCING IT AS WE SPEAK...LAST YEAR A FRIEND AND I DECIDED TO TAKE A TRIP TOGETHER FOR A WEEK DOWN SOUTH...NOW...SHE WAS INSISTING SHE HAD TO GO...SHE WAS FEELING DEPRESSED AND NEEDED A BREAK SO I SAID I WOULD JOIN HER...


THE THING WAS THAT SHE DIDN'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY...SO SHE ASKED ME IF I CAN LEND HER SOME...WE WERE CLOSE AT THE TIME SO I THOUGHT "WHY NOT"...I MADE IT CLEAR TO HER THAT I WAS LENDING HER THE MONEY...SO THAT MEANS SHE HAD TO PAY IT BACK...AND SHE AGREED...VERBALLY...(WORST MISTAKE)...


I DIDN'T LEND HER A FEW BUCKS HERE AND THERE...I LEND HER A COUPLE HUNDREDS...SO...WHEN WE GOT BACK SHE DID GIVE ME 50 DOLLARS...(WOOPIE)...BUT DID I SEE THE REST...NOOOOOOO...


I AM NOT ONE TO ASK...BUT AT THE TIME I WAS GOING THREW A LITTLE ROUGH TIME MYSELF...SO I NEEDED THE MONEY...I CONFRONTED HER ABOUT IT AND WE HAD A LITTLE BEEF OUT..SO I DECIDED "FACK THIS"....


SHE TRIED TO CONTACT ME...AND PLAYED IT OFF LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED...I CAN'T TOLERATE THAT...YOU TRY TO HELP A FRIEND OUT...AND YOU GET "FACKED"


I LIVE AND I LEARN...TILL THIS DAY SHE TRIES TO CONTACT ME TO GET TOGETHER AND HANG OUT...BUT ONCE YOU DISRESPECT ME...I CAN'T LOOK AT YOU THE SAME...


FRIEND OR NOT...!!! 



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I think we're on to something here.






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Jaime Cruz wrote: Bainaman wrote: Mi moto with my friends is.... SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES! I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back. I never ask for it. Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are. I've never lost a friendship because of money. I think I found a new friend.This will be the start of a beutiful friendship If you're friends with those girls in your avatar..... like you said.... ....THIS COULD BE THE START OF A BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP!!!!

I think we're on to something here.

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@bainaman.. i think we found a new best friend




For Realz!!!!



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Jaime Cruz wrote: Bainaman wrote: Mi moto with my friends is.... SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES! I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back. I never ask for it. Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are. I've never lost a friendship because of money. I think I found a new friend.This will be the start of a beutiful friendship If you're friends with those girls in your avatar..... like you said.... ....THIS COULD BE THE START OF A BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP!!!!


 


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Bainaman wrote:
Mi moto with my friends is.... SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES! I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back. I never ask for it. Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are. I've never lost a friendship because of money.
I think I found a new friend.This will be the start of a beutiful friendship




If you're friends with those girls in your avatar.....

like you said....

....THIS COULD BE THE START OF A BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP!!!!



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Bainaman wrote: Mi moto with my friends is.... SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES! I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back. I never ask for it. Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are. I've never lost a friendship because of money. I think I found a new friend.This will be the start of a beutiful friendship


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El Duro wrote: dj_nash wrote: NeNa wrote: I have lend money to friends... even to family members.. of course without sacrificing myself too..... Have I got this money back...... mmmmmm  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... But I learned.... THATS NOOOOOOOOO GOOD..........................   ... u and your NO.......... GOOD STOP HATING ....................."SUAVE"


 


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Mi moto with my friends is.... SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES! I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back. I never ask for it. Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are. I've never lost a friendship because of money.

I think I found a new friend.
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Mi moto with my friends is.... SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES! I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back. I never ask for it. Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are. I've never lost a friendship because of money.

I like your moto!!!! and it shows what kind of people u have as friends..

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WHAT IF SHE NEVER PAID YOU BACK.....AND LET'S SAY IT WAS $900 LIKE IN THE CASE OF EL DURO..... WOULD YOU ASK HER FOR THE MONEY....AND HOW MANY TIMES BEFORE GIVING UP.....(ASSUMING YOU NEEDED THIS MONEY TO BUY YOUR LIL' CHINITOS SOMETHING)......AND SHE NEVER PAID YOU BACK.....WOULD SHE STILL REMAIN A "BEST" FRIEND....

I GUESS EVENTUALLY I WOULD HAVE TO GIVE UP!

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Mi moto with my friends is....

SI YO TENGO....TU TIENES!

I've lent money to friends in many occassions......But very few times have I gotten the money back.

I never ask for it.

Kinda sucks when people don't pay you back.......but like LB....it shows you a lot about a person and how they are.

I've never lost a friendship because of money.



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Gitana wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? IF MY BEST FRIEND WAS IN NEED OF MONEY I WOULD DEFINITELY LEND IT TO HER.... SUM NOT BEING AN ISSUE, AS LONG AS I HAVE IT, CAUSE I KNOW I WOULD GET IT BACK!   WHAT IF SHE NEVER PAID YOU BACK.....AND LET'S SAY IT WAS $900 LIKE IN THE CASE OF EL DURO..... WOULD YOU ASK HER FOR THE MONEY....AND HOW MANY TIMES BEFORE GIVING UP.....(ASSUMING YOU NEEDED THIS MONEY TO BUY YOUR LIL' CHINITOS SOMETHING)......AND SHE NEVER PAID YOU BACK.....WOULD SHE STILL REMAIN A "BEST" FRIEND....

If she never paid me and I needed the money to buy something for my own children than I would say it's time to go to her house and break some furniture.

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dj_nash wrote: NeNa wrote: I have lend money to friends... even to family members.. of course without sacrificing myself too..... Have I got this money back...... mmmmmm  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... But I learned.... THATS NOOOOOOOOO GOOD..........................   ... u and your NO.......... GOOD

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NeNa wrote: I have lend money to friends... even to family members.. of course without sacrificing myself too..... Have I got this money back...... mmmmmm  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... But I learned.... THATS NOOOOOOOOO GOOD..........................


 


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NeNa wrote: I have lend money to friends... even to family members.. of course without sacrificing myself too..... Have I got this money back...... mmmmmm  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... But I learned.... THATS NOOOOOOOOO GOOD..........................


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I have lend money to friends... even to family members.. of course without sacrificing myself too..... Have I got this money back...... mmmmmm  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... But I learned....


THATS NOOOOOOOOO GOOD..........................



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I have lend money to friends... even to family members.. of course without sacrificing myself too.....


Have I got this money back...... mmmmmm  NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.....


But I learned....



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Jaime Cruz wrote: If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? IF MY BEST FRIEND WAS IN NEED OF MONEY I WOULD DEFINITELY LEND IT TO HER.... SUM NOT BEING AN ISSUE, AS LONG AS I HAVE IT, CAUSE I KNOW I WOULD GET IT BACK!  


WHAT IF SHE NEVER PAID YOU BACK.....AND LET'S SAY IT WAS $900 LIKE IN THE CASE OF EL DURO.....


WOULD YOU ASK HER FOR THE MONEY....AND HOW MANY TIMES BEFORE GIVING UP.....(ASSUMING YOU NEEDED THIS MONEY TO BUY YOUR LIL' CHINITOS SOMETHING)......AND SHE NEVER PAID YOU BACK.....WOULD SHE STILL REMAIN A "BEST" FRIEND....



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I once lend a friend of mine 900 bucks, only because she need to pay her rent and she had got robbed that day.. i got it back in two weeks.. i only did this beacuse she has a child, but i would never lend money just like that not even to family menbers.. it becomes to complicated


Children would be a softspot for me too. If a friend of mine needed money for his or her childs prescriptions or some clothes I would not hesitate to lend them the money.



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If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit?

IF MY BEST FRIEND WAS IN NEED OF MONEY I WOULD DEFINITELY LEND IT TO HER.... SUM NOT BEING AN ISSUE, AS LONG AS I HAVE IT, CAUSE I KNOW I WOULD GET IT BACK!


 



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I once lend a friend of mine 900 bucks, only because she need to pay her rent and she had got robbed that day.. i got it back in two weeks.. i only did this beacuse she has a child, but i would never lend money just like that not even to family menbers.. it becomes to complicated

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Give ??? nahhh I've earned everything in my life I don't think I can just give like that.


well....yes....I have too earned everything in my life but we're taking about a LOAN to a FRIEND....not just a give-away......


 



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IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT THE PERSON'S SITUATION IS.....I HAVE EVEN LENT MONEY TO PEOPLE I DONT CONSIDER TRUE FRIENDS AND THEY ARE THE ONES TO PAY ME BACK FIRST, ASAP AND BE VERY GRATEFUL ABOUT IT LOL AS FOR "LIMIT" IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH I CAN GIVE THEM AT THAT TIME WITHOUT SACRIFICING MY OWN BUDGET DRASTICALLY....I DONT HAVE TO THINK TWICE ABOUT THIS IF IT'S A FRIEND WHO NEEDS IT DESPERATELY.....IT'S AN ON THE SPOT DECISION......AND IF I DONT HAVE THE FUNDS, I FIND HOW TO GET IT.....AND MOST OF MY GOOD FRIENDS ARE THE SAME WAY I AM..... AS FOR PEOPLE PAYING BACK....MOST PEOPLE FOR ONE REASON OR OTHER (NOT ENOUGH FUNDS, THEY FORGOT...ETC) DONT PAY BACK.....AND THATS OK....IT'S NOT WORTH RUINING A RELATIONSHIP OVER.....BUT IT ALSO SHOWS ME A LOT ABOUT THEIR CHARACTER...."TRUSTWORTHYNESS AND RELIABLITY"....AND THIS GOES FOR EVERYTHING BEING LENT....NOT JUST MONEY!  THE ONE THING I HAVE NOTICED THOUGH OVER THE YEARS IS THAT PEOPLE "ASSUME" THAT WHEN A PERSON HAS MONEY TO LEND YOU.....IT ALSO "ASSUMINGLY" MEANS THAT THEY WILL BE OK FINANCIALLY SO THEY CHOOSE TO PAY BACK WHENEVER THEY FEEL LIKE IT....THINKING "OH WELL...HE/SHE DOESNT NEED THE MONEY RIGHT NOW" .....AND THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME PERSONALLY WITH EVEN MY BESTEST FRIENDS.....I THINK IT'S A LEVEL OF COMFORT.....AND WHAT ENDS UP HAPPENING IS THAT THEY NEVER PAY BACK...... THE WORSE SITUATION AND I KNOW MANY OF YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS...IS WHEN SOMEONE GIVES YOU AN EXACT DATE WHEN THEY WILL PAY YOU BACK Y NADA.....AND YOU COUNT ON THAT MONEY FOR THAT DAY.....I'M TOO MUCH OF A LADY TO GO HUNT THEM DOWN.....(SORI AH.....I DONT HAVE TONY SOPRANO HOOK UPS)....LOL LENDING MONEY TO PEOPLE IS A LIFE LESSON EVERYONE GOES THROUGH AND LEARNS.....SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE NEVER TO LEARN IT AND THEY KEEP DOING IT.   HAVE YOU EVER LOST FRIENDS & FOUGHT OVER MONEY LENDING?


I do agree 100% with you ! It, for sure, depend on the situation and yes, pple tend to think that if you lent them some money, there is no hurry to pay you back, o nada mas se hacen "pendejos".


I am still waiting for 500 - 1000 $ and know I can seat on them. Well I guess I've learn my lesson. At least, with that person that I thought was a very good friend and FAR from having money issue. It is just that at that time, she was away and I had to take care of some of her bills.


And no, I never lost friends or fought over money, but I sure try to be more cautious now.



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If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? What's the most you would give and where do you draw the line?I personally have never been asked for a large sum of money. The most as friend asked for was $500, but I got it back the next day. I think in alot of cases I would give upto $200 at the most. $500 was an exception because I knew he had the money but it was just blocked for 24 hours. Asides from that I wouldn't really do it on a regular basis. Thats what family is for in my opinion.



Give ??? nahhh I've earned everything in my life I don't think I can just give like that.

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If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? What's the most you would give and where do you draw the line?I personally have never been asked for a large sum of money. The most as friend asked for was $500, but I got it back the next day. I think in alot of cases I would give upto $200 at the most. $500 was an exception because I knew he had the money but it was just blocked for 24 hours. Asides from that I wouldn't really do it on a regular basis. Thats what family is for in my opinion.


IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT THE PERSON'S SITUATION IS.....I HAVE EVEN LENT MONEY TO PEOPLE I DONT CONSIDER TRUE FRIENDS AND THEY ARE THE ONES TO PAY ME BACK FIRST, ASAP AND BE VERY GRATEFUL ABOUT IT LOL


AS FOR "LIMIT" IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH I CAN GIVE THEM AT THAT TIME WITHOUT SACRIFICING MY OWN BUDGET DRASTICALLY....I DONT HAVE TO THINK TWICE ABOUT THIS IF IT'S A FRIEND WHO NEEDS IT DESPERATELY.....IT'S AN ON THE SPOT DECISION......AND IF I DONT HAVE THE FUNDS, I FIND HOW TO GET IT.....AND MOST OF MY GOOD FRIENDS ARE THE SAME WAY I AM.....


AS FOR PEOPLE PAYING BACK....MOST PEOPLE FOR ONE REASON OR OTHER (NOT ENOUGH FUNDS, THEY FORGOT...ETC) DONT PAY BACK.....AND THATS OK....IT'S NOT WORTH RUINING A RELATIONSHIP OVER.....BUT IT ALSO SHOWS ME A LOT ABOUT THEIR CHARACTER...."TRUSTWORTHYNESS AND RELIABLITY"....AND THIS GOES FOR EVERYTHING BEING LENT....NOT JUST MONEY! 


THE ONE THING I HAVE NOTICED THOUGH OVER THE YEARS IS THAT PEOPLE "ASSUME" THAT WHEN A PERSON HAS MONEY TO LEND YOU.....IT ALSO "ASSUMINGLY" MEANS THAT THEY WILL BE OK FINANCIALLY SO THEY CHOOSE TO PAY BACK WHENEVER THEY FEEL LIKE IT....THINKING "OH WELL...HE/SHE DOESNT NEED THE MONEY RIGHT NOW" .....AND THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME PERSONALLY WITH EVEN MY BESTEST FRIENDS.....I THINK IT'S A LEVEL OF COMFORT.....AND WHAT ENDS UP HAPPENING IS THAT THEY NEVER PAY BACK......


THE WORSE SITUATION AND I KNOW MANY OF YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS...IS WHEN SOMEONE GIVES YOU AN EXACT DATE WHEN THEY WILL PAY YOU BACK Y NADA.....AND YOU COUNT ON THAT MONEY FOR THAT DAY.....I'M TOO MUCH OF A LADY TO GO HUNT THEM DOWN.....(SORI AH.....I DONT HAVE TONY SOPRANO HOOK UPS)....LOL


LENDING MONEY TO PEOPLE IS A LIFE LESSON EVERYONE GOES THROUGH AND LEARNS.....SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE NEVER TO LEARN IT AND THEY KEEP DOING IT.


 


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i lend money to friends (max was 50 $) but still once u want ur money back , u have to chased them for it and they even get pissed at you for asking them to return the money... it s like they did a favour to you and u should be happy that u are not gettin ur money back... thats why i dont lend money to anyone (only family)


 


hey Rick...can I borrow 50 bucks?..come on say yes...be happy...Im doing you a favor...lol


if the answer is no...then how about 100?...



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i lend money to friends (max was 50 $) but still once u want ur money back , u have to chased them for it and they even get pissed at you for asking them to return the money... it s like they did a favour to you and u should be happy that u are not gettin ur money back... thats why i dont lend money to anyone (only family)

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I had a bad experience lending money to an a$$hole, so I only lend to family members (easy to track them dowm!)


 


I know what you mean Ponches...the kind of people you lend money and then you have to hire Tony Soprano to collect it right?...it sucks...



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I had a bad experience lending money to an a$$hole, so I only lend to family members (easy to track them dowm!)



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RICKYRICARDO wrote: Jaime Cruz wrote: If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? What's the most you would give and where do you draw the line?I personally have never been asked for a large sum of money. The most as friend asked for was $500, but I got it back the next day. I think in alot of cases I would give upto $200 at the most. $500 was an exception because I knew he had the money but it was just blocked for 24 hours. Asides from that I wouldn't really do it on a regular basis. Thats what family is for in my opinion. shiat...I was about to ask for 500 bucks from you Jaime...I mean 500 k...   wazup bro>?   the 500k is just a few hundred thousand over my budget. I'm just here doing the night shift on el Foro.


 


very good bro....keep the night crew inform...


Have you donated any sperms or not?...jejeje



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Jaime Cruz wrote: If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? What's the most you would give and where do you draw the line?I personally have never been asked for a large sum of money. The most as friend asked for was $500, but I got it back the next day. I think in alot of cases I would give upto $200 at the most. $500 was an exception because I knew he had the money but it was just blocked for 24 hours. Asides from that I wouldn't really do it on a regular basis. Thats what family is for in my opinion. shiat...I was about to ask for 500 bucks from you Jaime...I mean 500 k...   wazup bro>?


  the 500k is just a few hundred thousand over my budget.


I'm just here doing the night shift on el Foro.



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If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?If so what is your limit? What's the most you would give and where do you draw the line?I personally have never been asked for a large sum of money. The most as friend asked for was $500, but I got it back the next day. I think in alot of cases I would give upto $200 at the most. $500 was an exception because I knew he had the money but it was just blocked for 24 hours. Asides from that I wouldn't really do it on a regular basis. Thats what family is for in my opinion.


shiat...I was about to ask for 500 bucks from you Jaime...I mean 500 k...


 


wazup bro>?



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If a friend was in need of a large sum of money would you give it to them?
If so what is your limit? What's the most you would give and where do you draw the line?

I personally have never been asked for a large sum of money. The most as friend asked for was $500, but I got it back the next day. I think in alot of cases I would give upto $200 at the most. $500 was an exception because I knew he had the money but it was just blocked for 24 hours. Asides from that I wouldn't really do it on a regular basis. Thats what family is for in my opinion.



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