Julie wrote: Prenups is a MUST Not only because you might divorce the person you married, that is not the plan but what if, he or she owns a bizz and go bankrupt or felt into a scam, etc.... You have to be protected, specially if you have children. And in case you divorced that person, at least things are cleared and you won't fight for seally things
I'm with u 100%, sometimes u never know and its better to be safe than sorry.
OMG ..this reminds me of my moms boyfriend, not financially stable at all...doesnt have a steady job (he does trade shows here and there)....no car...pays rent in a tiny little basement..he is 45 yrs old and has nothing to show....My mom has tried to leave him varies times because he doesnt make any effort to change and better himself...but they are both very much in love....He even lived with my mom and i for about 6 months...(which i thought was totally crazy because when he moved in with us she had only known him for about 2 months...!!!!)....The whole family disagrees on their relationship so my mom feels like she has to keep him a secret...I dont even think she is planning on bringing him to our family christmas dinner...which i think is rude....and would be very offended if i was him. I know he is very much in love with her...so i just tell my mom who cares if he doesnt have money...as long as you both love each other...thats all that matters.
The thread about the guy staying home jobless got me thinking... DO YOU BELIEVE IN PRENUPTUAL AGREEMENTS??!????
NO I DONT I KINDA AGREE WITH U ITS LIKE SETTING UR SELF UP FOR A FAILED MARRIAGE! i think that NOT ALL DIVORCES ARE NASTY AND TO BE HONEST IF SOME ONE ASKED ME FOR A PRENUP I WOULDNT MARRRY THEM IM BEING HONEST!
Sweetness wrote: Bainaman wrote: What ever happened to "Lo que es mio...Es tuyo!" I think that if you want a prenup.....You're setting yourself up for a failed marriage.....and if you go into a marriage with that attitude.....then it will fail. I agree. Also by doing this I think that you're clearly showing that you don't trust your partner. is not about the Partner....it's about the Law....unless your partner is willing to waive it All
No sweetie you don't need to be rich or Own a Yatch is so simple, to protect what you have worked for. For instance you have a pension plan right... when it come to divorce you HAVE to split it, RSPS, House, etc , etc, and when you go thru divorce things get nasty, so I believe that from the very first momment is good to outline your belongins regardless your Networth.
Ummm I ain't your sweetie and I am not five
I know what a prenup is God.....I know I am a woman but I get it
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Chilenita wrote: miguel wrote: i want one, at least to define my assets going into the marriage to make sure she can't claim i obtained them during the marriage for whatever reason (then get a piece of them).
Hopefully you will meet a woman that will be more important than your assets! Who knows you may meet someone that you are convinced will not be interested in anything material that you may have or you may meet someone that has much more than you.
sorry babe.. i own **** with other family members. i wouldn't want my ex to have claims over stuff that's in my family. i don't really think that's unreasonable. i wouldn't lay any claim over my ex's assets previous to marriage either.
i just want things to get documented so that it's crystal clear that's all . seen too many people get burned.
Sweetness wrote: Bainaman wrote: What ever happened to "Lo que es mio...Es tuyo!" I think that if you want a prenup.....You're setting yourself up for a failed marriage.....and if you go into a marriage with that attitude.....then it will fail. I agree. Also by doing this I think that you're clearly showing that you don't trust your partner.
is not about the Partner....it's about the Law....unless your partner is willing to waive it All
Chilenita wrote: I think that if you are making crazy money and have crazy money before entering a marriage than it's understandable to want a pre nup! I don't understand men/women who are NOT making crazy amounts of cash that think they need a prenup. In other words if you are not the owner of a bunch of properties and you don't make LOTS AND LOTS of money than you do not need one!
No sweetie you don't need to be rich or Own a Yatch is so simple, to protect what you have worked for.
For instance you have a pension plan right... when it come to divorce you HAVE to split it, RSPS, House, etc , etc, and when you go thru divorce things get nasty, so I believe that from the very first momment is good to outline your belongins regardless your Networth.
i want one, at least to define my assets going into the marriage to make sure she can't claim i obtained them during the marriage for whatever reason (then get a piece of them).
Hopefully you will meet a woman that will be more important than your assets!
Who knows you may meet someone that you are convinced will not be interested in anything material that you may have or you may meet someone that has much more than you.
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CHI CHI CHI LE LE LE VIVA CHILE!!!!
Proud memeber and supporter of Delta Gamma B i t c h - orama Copyright 2008 All Rights Reserved
What ever happened to "Lo que es mio...Es tuyo!" I think that if you want a prenup.....You're setting yourself up for a failed marriage.....and if you go into a marriage with that attitude.....then it will fail.
I agree. Also by doing this I think that you're clearly showing that you don't trust your partner.
Not only because you might divorce the person you married, that is not the plan but what if, he or she owns a bizz and go bankrupt or felt into a scam, etc....
You have to be protected, specially if you have children.
And in case you divorced that person, at least things are cleared and you won't fight for seally things
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I think that if you want a prenup.....You're setting yourself up for a failed marriage.....and if you go into a marriage with that attitude.....then it will fail.
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i want one, at least to define my assets going into the marriage to make sure she can't claim i obtained them during the marriage for whatever reason (then get a piece of them).
I think that if you are making crazy money and have crazy money before entering a marriage than it's understandable to want a pre nup! I don't understand men/women who are NOT making crazy amounts of cash that think they need a prenup. In other words if you are not the owner of a bunch of properties and you don't make LOTS AND LOTS of money than you do not need one!
Ha Ha...y el negrito es el unico tuyo..LOL. 
"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
