Chemistry is the key MAra Candela said, and I agree. Well, I have to feel atraction for a girl to date her as a couple; but I've gone out with women as friends, well it was really hard to be just a friend with a chick who looked like Kournikova but I was just a friend to her and it was fine, better a good friendship than a bad romance. On the other hand, I've known women who I know wanted to be more than friends with me, but I really have to be attracted to them to date them as a couple. Some of my friends go out and have sex even with women who they don't find attractive, and I just can't do that, perhaps when I get older I'll just close my eyes ,hahaha.
@ Lahtina....I think like you in a way.....they have to have something that makes them special....other than just ugly and nice..... @ Baina.....at least you're honest....... ....but I wanna know why would a guy NOT approach an ugly girl? I mean....she could be nice, smart, good in bed, great mother....etc So how will you know if you're judging her let's say by the way she looks.....and not approaching her.... Is presentation EVERYTHING? Would you buy something for the nice wrapper it comes in? I just wanna see how many people can honestly admit to being superficial, hypocrate and shallow?
I think you have to be attracted to someone in a "combination" of ways, and physical is one of them!!!! ....... woman you're driving me nuts!!!! LOL!!!
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@ Lahtina....I think like you in a way.....they have to have something that makes them special....other than just ugly and nice.....
@ Baina.....at least you're honest.......
....but I wanna know why would a guy NOT approach an ugly girl? I mean....she could be nice, smart, good in bed, great mother....etc So how will you know if you're judging her let's say by the way she looks.....and not approaching her....
Is presentation EVERYTHING?
Would you buy something for the nice wrapper it comes in?
I just wanna see how many people can honestly admit to being superficial, hypocrate and shallow?
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Anyway, for me ugly but nice doesn't cut it. He's gotta have another plus. Is ugly, nice guy rich? I don't think so, otherwise he wouldn't need to be nice. So you've got ugly but rich. Would I date him? No.
Is he ugly, nice and funny? I'd date him.
Is he ugly, nice and intelligent? I'd date him.
But wait. How ugly is ugly? Because if ugly is FUGLY, forget it!
@ DOGO Necesitas cafe de noche tambien???? I know the drive thru is open................que esperas? LOL (get me one too pls) Don't tempt me girl!!! my previous is wearing off LOL!
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LaDyBuG wrote: @ colombiana.....you said it very well... I'm looking for realisitc answers........where's chilenita when I need her LOL Huh?? OK why don't you tell us what you want us to say!!??? LOL!!
LOL You took "Understanding Women 101", didn't you?
WOULD YOU DATE AN UGLY PERSON JUST BECUASE THEY WERE NICE TO YOU? i would only date someone if i could be just as nice to them
HOW MANY OF YOU ARE SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW LIKE THAT? i'm too shy around people i'm very attracted but yeah, i can be superguilty of that....
ARE MEN MORE SHALLOW THAN WOMEN? it's a tie, i know one girl who's called several adorable average guys Ugly!
IS BEAUTY REALLY IN THE EYE OF THE BE-HOLDER? yes............the eye that looks back at you when you look in the mirror.....then everyone sees that beauty toooooooooooooo
SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST BORN INTERNATIONALLY UGLY......SO WHAT DO YOU DO THEN?
Attraction is attraction physical or otherwise, and one complements the other, so... no, I can’t be with some one that I have no physical attraction to. Friends is good though
(That the answer you looking for?)
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SO LIKE WE ALL KNOW WHEN WE SEE AN UGLY PERSON......
YES BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.....BUT.....
WHEN SOMEONE IS UGLY......THEY'RE INTERNATIONALLY UGLY.....SO LET'S NOT PRETEND LIKE YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I MEAN.......
ALL COMMENTS MADE ARE VALID......ATTRACTION IS IMPORTANT, NO COCKY GUYS....ETC
BUT....
IF A REALLY UGLY GUY/GIRL HITS ON YOU.......AND YOU DON'T GIVE HIM/HER THE CHANCE FROM THE GET GO......HOW WILL YOU KNOW WHAT KIND OF PERSONALITY HE HAS?
YES, PEOPLE NEED TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES.....ETC.....BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST BORN INTERNATIONALLY UGLY......SO WHAT DO YOU DO THEN?
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WOULD YOU DATE AN UGLY PERSON JUST BECUASE THEY WERE NICE TO YOU? I don't think so, but once again, it depends of your definition of ugly, porque como dicen : Hay para todos los gustos. Plus most of us first check out the phisyc of the other person before starting th flirting game.
HOW MANY OF YOU ARE SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW LIKE THAT? I won't date somebody just because he is nice to me if I don't feel attracted. So I guess, this is a no.
ARE MEN MORE SHALLOW THAN WOMEN? I think that were even here
IS BEAUTY REALLY IN THE EYE OF THE BE-HOLDER? Yes
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i think that it all depends on what you think ugly is. to some one a guy may look really hot and to another he may look like shat. so it all depends. there is some out there for everyone its just a matter of finding them.
both guys and girl are equally shallow........but i don't know why that is
WELL I HAVE TO BE PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVE TO THE PERSON...FIRST...HE HAS TO CATCH MY EYE....
THEN HIS PERSONALITY COMES INTO PLAY...I CAN'T STAND COCKY GUYS WHO THINK THERE GOD'S GIFT TO WOMAN...I LIKE GUYS WHO ARE SWEET...GENUINE...FUNNY (YOU HAVE TO MAKE ME LAUGH)...AND WHO HAS A GOOD HEAD ON THERE SHOULDERS WITH GOALS...
I'M NOT SUPERFICIAL OR SHALLOW...I HAVE TO BE INTO THEM IF I WANT TO BE WITH THEM...
I think women can fall for a guys personality over his looks..i've noticed this..even girls tell me..they have gone out with non attractive guys but they treated them like queens is this true? men on the other hand are much more shallow ..i think we usually go with what catches are eye first
I dated this one guy that treated me like a queen but there was no attraction there for me so it didn't really last but I did try it out.
I think women can fall for a guys personality over his looks..i've noticed this..even girls tell me..they have gone out with non attractive guys but they treated them like queens is this true?
men on the other hand are much more shallow ..i think we usually go with what catches are eye first
yes looks is what attracts you first..no doubt about it. If you think someones attractive, you then become intersested in her or him right. Then you get to know them and see if the physical beauty matches the personality
Well someones looks are usually the first thing that you would be attracted to. After you get past their looks then you get to know who they are as a person.
I don't think I can date someone that I didn't find somewhat attractive. He has to at least have some qualities that I find attractive, whether it's a nice smile, nice eyes, whatever. I think Women are just as bad as men when comes to looks, we just hide it better.
WOULD YOU DATE AN UGLY PERSON JUST BECUASE THEY WERE NICE TO YOU? It depends what is your definition of ugly is, also very attractive people may be stuck up, stubborn, selfish, egoistic people ...to me that is also ugly. No wouldn't date an "ugly" person.
HOW MANY OF YOU ARE SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW LIKE THAT? I think maybe we were all shallow at some point in our lives, in our younger/immature days.
I think whats on the outside isnt only what makes a person good looking. There are some people that are so good looking yet so ugly on the inside. So I wouldnt want to date a guy cause hes good looking mean while he doesnt have any to offer other than his looks.
I think you should get to know someone before saying there ugly.
WOULD YOU DATE AN UGLY PERSON JUST BECUASE THEY WERE NICE TO YOU? HOW MANY OF YOU ARE SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW LIKE THAT? ARE MEN MORE SHALLOW THAN WOMEN? IS BEAUTY REALLY IN THE EYE OF THE BE-HOLDER?
I could never date someone I didn't feel attracted to (not again)... I've tried to before, not because I was superficial, just because he really liked me and kept insisting. He was so nice to me and my son I decided to give it a try. I though may be I could fall for him, but it didn't work out and I decided to end it.
So yeah... if there is no attraction, just keep it as friendship...
WOULD YOU DATE AN UGLY PERSON JUST BECUASE THEY WERE NICE TO YOU? No never, they don't deserve that. If you are not attracted there is no point on dating them, they could be great friends.
ARE MEN MORE SHALLOW THAN WOMEN? I think their both equally shallow, I have some frineds that OMG
WOULD YOU DATE AN UGLY PERSON JUST BECUASE THEY WERE NICE TO YOU? No never, they don't deserve that. If you are not attracted there is no point on dating them, they could be great friends.
HOW MANY OF YOU ARE SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW LIKE THAT? I was superficial when I was younger but I am not anymore, everyone has something special.
ARE MEN MORE SHALLOW THAN WOMEN? I think their both equally shallow, I have some frineds that OMG.
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