Do NICE GUYS finish last???

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

RE: Do NICE GUYS finish last???

Danny416 · TOP Guru

torontotrucho wrote:

I think that when a woman likes a guy they just wanna go for it, I mean if the guy is attractive women don't care less how the guy is going to treat them, I've seen woman who should know better going after good looking men or even thug looking men leaving nice guys with their flowers in their hands. Sad and true. Unless the nice guy is a very good looking guy, but that's usually not the case.hahaha.

a sad truth in todays reality and modern world;( :p

torontotrucho · Guru

I think that when a woman likes a guy they just wanna go for it, I mean if the guy is attractive women don't care less how the guy is going to treat them, I've seen woman who should know better going after good looking men or even thug looking men leaving nice guys with their flowers in their hands. Sad and true. Unless the nice guy is a very good looking guy, but that's usually not the case.hahaha.

Mara_Candela · Senior Member

FEA wrote:

I said B4 that i prefer nice guys which is true but there much more to take into consideration. I've met nice guys where there was no chemistry. So I guess it depends on the personality and what interests you. I like nice guys that are down to earth with a head on their shoulders & still know how to have fun. My real list is like 10000 points long lol

to paraphrase Fea:

"I like trouble-makers"

Fea....tisk tisk tisk...le voy a decir a tu mama....y se va a enojar...like 10 years ago...when we went to promenade..."to watch a movie"

She still thinks I'm an angelic child

I can do no wrong!

Soy la ahijada perfecta!!!!

FEA · Guru

I said B4 that i prefer nice guys which is true but there much more to take into consideration. I've met nice guys where there was no chemistry. So I guess it depends on the personality and what interests you.

I like nice guys that are down to earth with a head on their shoulders & still know how to have fun.

My real list is like 10000 points long lol

chica wow · Guru

Ok..here is my opinion about nice guys finishing last....

It all depends on what I consider to be nice and what I'm looking for. I have turned down alot of nice guys just because I didn't feel a connection.

If the nice guys are finishing last it's because they don't know how to pick the women that they are trying to hook up with.....we don't all have the same taste, there is always somebody out there for everyone, you just have to know how to choose and be chosen...do I make sense??? probably not, but it makes sense in my head..

Dogo · Comandante

I don't think it's a "guy or girl" thing I think we all start appreciating different, more important things as we get older

What was taken for granted before are the qualities we look for in a person the older we get, that's why I think (now!!!lol!!) we also become less tolerant. The minute we see something that's going to create a problem in the long we take off. I think it also has to do with our biological clock ticking, we can't waste any time!!!!! so we want to make sure we spend our time in a meaningful way, it's all instictive, I think

Before I used to like "bad" girls, party girls, hot girls, slutty girls etc... Now I look for different qualities, I now tend to look for "good" girls that are hot, slutty and like to party!!!! LOL!!! J/K!!!

Julie · Comandante

Alex Bello wrote:

FEA wrote: I would take a nice guy over a too cool for the world A$$ in a second. Like Gitana said nice guys actually finish lol Nice guys are the only ones we can take seriously. The others might be ok at first but they always F*ck up at the end.-- Edited by FEA at 12:32, 2005-11-02 Well all i can say is that i am a nice guy and always finish last. Ab.......

jajajaja, Claro

Julie · Comandante

Chilenita, Sweetness, Genie, you definitively nailed it.

Julie · Comandante

Chilenita wrote:

Not in my books they don't!!! I'll take a nice guy over a DICK who thinks he is the SHIT any day!! I hate guys with attitude and I hate guys that think they are gods gift to women!! What a turn off! Personality is key and the "I am cool" thing is okay when you are 16 but when you get older you want a guy with a brain and someone who is going to treat you right!

You read my mind Chilenita

confundida · Foro Master

miguel wrote:

this one time.. at band camp..

LOL ONLY U MIGUE ONLY U......

I PERSONALLY DONT THINK THAT GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST.....I THINK IT HAS TO DO WITH WAT UR LOOKING FOR .......PLUS WAT IS UR DEFINITION OF A GOOD GUY????

miguel · TOP Guru

this one time.. at band camp..

X4v13r · Comandante

I was a nice guy before.........now I'm just NICE.

Things that make u go hmmmmmmm........

X@vier

CrazyBeautiful · Guru

Is it true? Do Nice Guys finish last all the time? Why is that?

iTS CAUSE alot of gurls like BAD boys...

Alex Bello · Guru

FEA wrote:

Gitana wrote: FEA wrote: I would take a nice guy over a too cool for the world A$$ in a second. Like Gitana said nice guys actually finish lol Nice guys are the only ones we can take seriously. The others might be ok at first but they always F*ck up at the end.-- Edited by FEA at 12:32, 2005-11-02 FEA I HAVEN'T POSTED ON THIS THREAD OOPS i meant preciosa

jejeje ten cuidado con lo que dices aqui feita, si no te cuelgan jejejee

FEA · Guru

Gitana wrote:

FEA wrote:
I would take a nice guy over a too cool for the world A$$ in a second. Like Gitana said nice guys actually finish lol Nice guys are the only ones we can take seriously. The others might be ok at first but they always F*ck up at the end.-- Edited by FEA at 12:32, 2005-11-02
FEA I HAVEN'T POSTED ON THIS THREAD

OOPS i meant preciosa

Gitana · Foro Master

FEA wrote:

I would take a nice guy over a too cool for the world A$$ in a second. Like Gitana said nice guys actually finish lol Nice guys are the only ones we can take seriously. The others might be ok at first but they always F*ck up at the end.-- Edited by FEA at 12:32, 2005-11-02

FEA I HAVEN'T POSTED ON THIS THREAD

Alex Bello · Guru

FEA wrote:

I would take a nice guy over a too cool for the world A$$ in a second. Like Gitana said nice guys actually finish lol Nice guys are the only ones we can take seriously. The others might be ok at first but they always F*ck up at the end.-- Edited by FEA at 12:32, 2005-11-02

Well all i can say is that i am a nice guy and always finish last.

Ab.......

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

I am a nice guy... a nice quite guy...

FEA · Guru

I would take a nice guy over a too cool for the world A$$ in a second. Like Gitana said nice guys actually finish lol

Nice guys are the only ones we can take seriously.

The others might be ok at first but they always F*ck up at the end.

-- Edited by FEA at 12:32, 2005-11-02

Alex Bello · Guru

GENIE wrote:

Alex Bello wrote: LaDyBuG wrote: This question was influenced by DANNY416, who made this comment on another thread.....and it got me thinking..... Is it true? Do Nice Guys finish last all the time? Why is that? I personally don't think so......what do you guys say..... Does it have to do with lack of passion in any way? most girls these days love bad boys, the more mest up the guys is the more they end up liking them. I mean look at me i am a nice guy y nadie se fija en mi. Pobresito Yooooooo. AB.................... WATEVER PLAYBOY!!!! LMAO I CHOKED ON MY FOOD WHEN I READ THIS!!!!

jejeje why? ohh come on you know me. Me confieso nadie se fija en mi. Creo que tendre que cambiar mi actitud un poco, ponerme aretes, pintarme el pelo y sacar la lengua mas a menudo lol.

AB.........

GENIE · Foro Master

Alex Bello wrote:

LaDyBuG wrote: This question was influenced by DANNY416, who made this comment on another thread.....and it got me thinking..... Is it true? Do Nice Guys finish last all the time? Why is that? I personally don't think so......what do you guys say..... Does it have to do with lack of passion in any way? most girls these days love bad boys, the more mest up the guys is the more they end up liking them. I mean look at me i am a nice guy y nadie se fija en mi. Pobresito Yooooooo. AB....................

WATEVER PLAYBOY!!!! LMAO I CHOKED ON MY FOOD WHEN I READ THIS!!!!

McOSIRIS · Comandante

Daeveed wrote:

I don't think that's the definition of nice. I think you are confusing terms. Nice does not necessarily mean that he gets walked over by everybody. Nice is just a guy that is not looking for trouble, not engaging in irracional arguments, not playing childlike mind games, etc. I think a nice guy can be assertive and confident. No need to be a badboy to be confident, thats rubbish.

MIERRRRR...... looks like you've been possessed by Neruda!!!! (esa es mi patria pué)

Alex Bello · Guru

LaDyBuG wrote:

This question was influenced by DANNY416, who made this comment on another thread.....and it got me thinking..... Is it true? Do Nice Guys finish last all the time? Why is that? I personally don't think so......what do you guys say..... Does it have to do with lack of passion in any way?

most girls these days love bad boys, the more mest up the guys is the more they end up liking them. I mean look at me i am a nice guy y nadie se fija en mi.

Pobresito Yooooooo.

AB....................

Daeveed · Foro Master

latrez wrote:

. .. it's not about mind games.......and no we do not need a spanking...let's be serious here....women don't like to play games either nor do we have time for it......do man like women that they can have at a snap of a finger, from what I heard, I don't think so.....women don't like that either

I don't think that's the definition of nice. I think you are confusing terms.

Nice does not necessarily mean that he gets walked over by everybody. Nice is just a guy that is not looking for trouble, not engaging in irracional arguments, not playing childlike mind games, etc.

I think a nice guy can be assertive and confident. No need to be a badboy to be confident, thats rubbish.

latrez · Regular Plus

Danny416 wrote:

latrez wrote: Ok here is the deal guys.........whether women admit or not......we like a challenge sometimes......we don't want someone that lets us walk all over them and tell them what to do all the time........Sometimes we want someone to put us in our place......now this doesn't mean that we don't like nice guys because who wants to date an A$$......anyways you get treated on how you allow yourself to get treated. screw the challenge, i dont got time for mind games and putting women in their place. Thats wack if you girls expect that from a man , like what the hell r u lil children that need a spanking when you behave bad ?LoL..oh please . ..

it's not about mind games.......and no we do not need a spanking...let's be serious here....women don't like to play games either nor do we have time for it......do man like women that they can have at a snap of a finger, from what I heard, I don't think so.....women don't like that either

PRECIOSA · Guru

latrez wrote:

Ok here is the deal guys.........whether women admit or not......we like a challenge sometimes......we don't want someone that lets us walk all over them and tell them what to do all the time........Sometimes we want someone to put us in our place......now this doesn't mean that we don't like nice guys because who wants to date an A$$......anyways you get treated on how you allow yourself to get treated.

BASICALLY...

A MAN WILL DO WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO...!!!

Danny416 · TOP Guru

latrez wrote:

Ok here is the deal guys.........whether women admit or not......we like a challenge sometimes......we don't want someone that lets us walk all over them and tell them what to do all the time........Sometimes we want someone to put us in our place......now this doesn't mean that we don't like nice guys because who wants to date an A$$......anyways you get treated on how you allow yourself to get treated.

screw the challenge, i dont got time for mind games and putting women in their place. Thats wack if you girls expect that from a man , like what the hell r u lil children that need a spanking when you behave bad ?LoL

..oh please . ..

latrez · Regular Plus

Ok here is the deal guys.........whether women admit or not......we like a challenge sometimes......we don't want someone that lets us walk all over them and tell them what to do all the time........Sometimes we want someone to put us in our place......now this doesn't mean that we don't like nice guys because who wants to date an A$$......anyways you get treated on how you allow yourself to get treated.

GENIE · Foro Master

Chilenita wrote:

Sweetness wrote: Chilenita wrote: I think many women go through a BAD BOY phase!! OMG I have dated the typical "bad boy" over and over again but I was young and stupid! There was a time that I only worried about what the guy looked like and how "cool" he was but that came along with MANY MANY BIG problems! NOW I look for other things in a man...someone "cool" in a different way....nice....fun....sweet...someone you know would be a good father or husband! Of course if you are single you can still have "fun" with a bad boy but they are not the marrying type just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife! Once again you have taken the words right out of my mouth. lol I think that the bad boy thing is more of a young girl thing. The older you get the more a woman wants to have that nice guy who she can settle down with. Someone who she can have a serious conversation with, and is going to understand her, and I think that bad boys can't and won't offer this to any woman, because they think that they are to manly to talk about their feelings and sh*t like that. A real man is going to be a mixture of both. Meaning he is able to be the macho man that he is, but at the same time be able to have a heart to heart conversation with their partner or loved ones. That's a real man, but too bad there aren't many of these men out there, but lucky for me I already have one. lol Yeah we often agree sweetness racism bugs the shiat out of me like it bugs you too! Bad boys....I look back sometimes when I run into a blast from the past at a club and think to myself...ewwwwwwwwwwwww what the FACK was I thinking.....most times they still look good but you talk to them and think what the hell did I ever talk to this guy about? Some of them actually make me laugh when I see them PHEW glad those days are gone! I have friends who are still stuck in that phase and I look at them and thank god that it's over for me!!!

I AGREE WITH YOU BOTH HERE ITS ALL A PHASE OR STAGE WE GO THRU AND WE DO GET A NICE GUY (WHEN UR YOUNGER) UR LIKE NOPE NOT FOR ME THEN U GET AN ASSHOLE AND U CRY AND CRY ALL THE TIME! BUT WHEN UR YOUNGER ITS THE THRILL THE FACT THAT YEAH U GOT HIM LETS SEE IF I CAN GET HIM TO SETTLE DOWN! I CAN TELL U ALL R WAS THE BIGGEST PLAYER WHEN WE FRIST MET LIKE 6YRS AGO WE WERE FRIENDS AND HE TREATED GIRLS LIKE SHIT! AND NOW HES DONE A 360 NOT CUZ HES MY MAN PERO NOW HE WANTS THINGS DIFFERENTLY TREATS ME WITH RESPECT (NOT THAT IF HE DIDNT I WOULD PUT UP WITH IT) BUT ITS A THING PPL GO THRU THATS HOW U GROW AS A PERSON!

AND GUYS U ALL HAVE UR MOMENTS TOO ITS NOT ONLY THE LADIES JUST FOR THE RECORD!! U GUYS ARE JUST SLOWER SOMETIMES!

Chilenita · Comandante

Sweetness wrote:

Chilenita wrote: I think many women go through a BAD BOY phase!! OMG I have dated the typical "bad boy" over and over again but I was young and stupid! There was a time that I only worried about what the guy looked like and how "cool" he was but that came along with MANY MANY BIG problems! NOW I look for other things in a man...someone "cool" in a different way....nice....fun....sweet...someone you know would be a good father or husband! Of course if you are single you can still have "fun" with a bad boy but they are not the marrying type just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife! Once again you have taken the words right out of my mouth. lol I think that the bad boy thing is more of a young girl thing. The older you get the more a woman wants to have that nice guy who she can settle down with. Someone who she can have a serious conversation with, and is going to understand her, and I think that bad boys can't and won't offer this to any woman, because they think that they are to manly to talk about their feelings and sh*t like that. A real man is going to be a mixture of both. Meaning he is able to be the macho man that he is, but at the same time be able to have a heart to heart conversation with their partner or loved ones. That's a real man, but too bad there aren't many of these men out there, but lucky for me I already have one. lol

Yeah we often agree sweetness racism bugs the shiat out of me like it bugs you too!

Bad boys....I look back sometimes when I run into a blast from the past at a club and think to myself...ewwwwwwwwwwwww what the FACK was I thinking.....most times they still look good but you talk to them and think what the hell did I ever talk to this guy about? Some of them actually make me laugh when I see them PHEW glad those days are gone! I have friends who are still stuck in that phase and I look at them and thank god that it's over for me!!!

Sweetness · Guru

Chilenita wrote:

I think many women go through a BAD BOY phase!! OMG I have dated the typical "bad boy" over and over again but I was young and stupid! There was a time that I only worried about what the guy looked like and how "cool" he was but that came along with MANY MANY BIG problems! NOW I look for other things in a man...someone "cool" in a different way....nice....fun....sweet...someone you know would be a good father or husband! Of course if you are single you can still have "fun" with a bad boy but they are not the marrying type just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife!

Once again you have taken the words right out of my mouth. lol

I think that the bad boy thing is more of a young girl thing. The older you get the more a woman wants to have that nice guy who she can settle down with. Someone who she can have a serious conversation with, and is going to understand her, and I think that bad boys can't and won't offer this to any woman, because they think that they are to manly to talk about their feelings and sh*t like that. A real man is going to be a mixture of both. Meaning he is able to be the macho man that he is, but at the same time be able to have a heart to heart conversation with their partner or loved ones. That's a real man, but too bad there aren't many of these men out there, but lucky for me I already have one. lol

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Chale_Tanga wrote: just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife @ Chili: What do you mean? Guys dont marry slutty women?DAMN IT! Now Im going to have to change my ways... Well just like the bad boy ....men see slutty/hoochi mama's as fun to hang with, fun to sleep with but they are not looking for that type of woman to marry...in most cases....especailly latin men....they are sooooo not marrying the slut they picked up at the club and slept with the first night....they will bang her for a while perhaps but they usually look for something different when looking for marriage! @Danny I am 27 and I dated ASSHOLES up until a year ago so you have a few years to go before women appreciate your nice ways....at 23 I had the WORST man in the history of the UNIVERSE!!!!lamo

thanx for the info! i gotta put up with this for another 4 years ;(

single life will forever rule then!!!

-- Edited by Danny416 at 11:14, 2005-11-02

Chilenita · Comandante

Chale_Tanga wrote:

just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife @ Chili: What do you mean? Guys dont marry slutty women?DAMN IT! Now Im going to have to change my ways...

Well just like the bad boy ....men see slutty/hoochi mama's as fun to hang with, fun to sleep with but they are not looking for that type of woman to marry...in most cases....especailly latin men....they are sooooo not marrying the slut they picked up at the club and slept with the first night....they will bang her for a while perhaps but they usually look for something different when looking for marriage!

@Danny I am 27 and I dated ASSHOLES up until a year ago so you have a few years to go before women appreciate your nice ways....at 23 I had the WORST man in the history of the UNIVERSE!!!!lamo

Daeveed · Foro Master

Danny416 wrote:

jus out of curiosity how old are you? im 23 and i still see girls my age going through that stage.. b4 i thought it was a highscool thing, even when i was in college i seen the same thing. I guess its personal preference

No, I think it's an under 25 thing.

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

I think many women go through a BAD BOY phase!! OMG I have dated the typical "bad boy" over and over again but I was young and stupid! There was a time that I only worried about what the guy looked like and how "cool" he was but that came along with MANY MANY BIG problems! NOW I look for other things in a man...someone "cool" in a different way....nice....fun....sweet...someone you know would be a good father or husband! Of course if you are single you can still have "fun" with a bad boy but they are not the marrying type just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife!

jus out of curiosity how old are you?

im 23 and i still see girls my age going through that stage.. b4 i thought it was a highscool thing, even when i was in college i seen the same thing. I guess its personal preference

Chale_Tanga · TOP Guru

just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife

@ Chili: What do you mean? Guys dont marry slutty women?
DAMN IT! Now Im going to have to change my ways...

Chale_Tanga · TOP Guru

Danny416 wrote:

too cute!!!hun for u

Dannito you forgot to take off the price tag!

Chilenita · Comandante

I think many women go through a BAD BOY phase!! OMG I have dated the typical "bad boy" over and over again but I was young and stupid! There was a time that I only worried about what the guy looked like and how "cool" he was but that came along with MANY MANY BIG problems! NOW I look for other things in a man...someone "cool" in a different way....nice....fun....sweet...someone you know would be a good father or husband! Of course if you are single you can still have "fun" with a bad boy but they are not the marrying type just like slutty women are not the ones that you want as your wife!

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Lahtina wrote:

Danny416 wrote: Yes i said it!!!!! come get me!!!! im waiting lol! Edited by Danny416 at 10:42, 2005-11-02 First of all: you wish. Second of all: tell us something we don't know.

i jus did, refer to my previous post

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Chale_Tanga wrote:

I've come to the co conclussion that you women r as complicated as hell . Yes i said it!!!!! come get me!!!! im waiting lol! @ Danny: Where do you work? I want to send you some flowers... yah... some flowers....... To answer the thread... most nice guys do finish last, b/c some girls havent gotten over their love for the 'bad boy for life' type of persona. Once you realize that theyre nothing more than just mr. good for right now... you'll start to see all of the 'nice guys' as true potentials b/c they can offer you a whole lot more than would 'bad boy'

too cute!!!hun

for u

JOKER_ESCO · Foro Master

@ LB:

It all depends how shallow the girl is and what are her preferences, everybody is atracted 2 different things, some are atracted 2 bad looking guys not nesesary all the bad looking dudes are, other are atracted 2 nerds, other1 chubbys dudes like me LoL so it all depends in taste.......

Lahtina · Foro Master

Danny416 wrote:

Yes i said it!!!!! come get me!!!! im waiting lol!

Edited by Danny416 at 10:42, 2005-11-02

First of all: you wish. Second of all: tell us something we don't know.

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Sweetness wrote:

Says who Danny? Have you been with most girls to know this for a fact? I don't think so hun. lol. There's at least three girls in here that are like that, and I'm sure there are more girls in here that think that way, and all over the place aswell. -- Edited by Sweetness at 10:36, 2005-11-02

i know hun...i got a lil to hyper biased there lol

ma bad....

Chale_Tanga · TOP Guru

I've come to the co conclussion that you women r as complicated as hell . Yes i said it!!!!! come get me!!!! im waiting lol!

@ Danny: Where do you work? I want to send you some flowers... yah... some flowers.......

To answer the thread... most nice guys do finish last, b/c some girls havent gotten over their love for the 'bad boy for life' type of persona. Once you realize that theyre nothing more than just mr. good for right now... you'll start to see all of the 'nice guys' as true potentials b/c they can offer you a whole lot more than would 'bad boy'

Bainaman · Foro Master

I think there is a lot of truth to this....

Not only for guys though......with girls too.

Danny416 · TOP Guru

its 2005 nice guys dont really cut in anymore , at least from personal experience , alot of girls luv thugs, bad boys ..a challenge..i guess they think they can change the bad boy . I see this everywhere ..its soo inevitable ..festivals , clubs etc..

it aint only me , that can say its true. I've heard many many men say the same thing.

Like you girls whine ur asses off ohh i want a nice sweet guy bla bla bla a man that aint a player and when he comes around ..yall back out and end up rejecting him or getting scared that "its to good to be true" I've had enough women tell me this..why ??lol

I've come to the conclussion that you women r as complicated as hell . Yes i said it!!!!! come get me!!!! im waiting lol!

PS single life will forvever rule!!!;)

-- Edited by Danny416 at 10:42, 2005-11-02

-- Edited by Danny416 at 10:45, 2005-11-02

Sweetness · Guru

Says who Danny? Have you been with most girls to know this for a fact? I don't think so hun. lol. There's at least three girls in here that are like that, and I'm sure there are more girls in here that think that way, and all over the place aswell.

-- Edited by Sweetness at 10:36, 2005-11-02

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Chilenita wrote:

Not in my books they don't!!! I'll take a nice guy over a DICK who thinks he is the SHIT any day!! I hate guys with attitude and I hate guys that think they are gods gift to women!! What a turn off! Personality is key and the "I am cool" thing is okay when you are 16 but when you get older you want a guy with a brain and someone who is going to treat you right!

good comment girl, to bad most girls aint like that;)

Danny416 · TOP Guru

Lahtina wrote:

There's no such thing as nice guys. What we have here are good looking guys who are working it and ugly guys who are trying very hard.

i second that!!!