its the little things that count...that make relationships last...
and im not just talking about the person you're dating, or married to...I'm talking about all your relationships...
Its putting in that extra effort...to show someone you care...
Writing letters..instead on an email...buying flowers or a rose for no reason...even flowers from your garden...its about surprising someone with a card...just because...its calling someone just to say "hi i was thinking about you and wanted to say hi"
I have a friend thats a muscian and tours non stop...but he calls me every time he gets home...just to say hello...and i may not see him for months on end...but we;re the closest of friends...because the little things we do have made us tight...
I buy my mom flowers for ****s and giggles...because she loves flowers....
I buy my sisters little things...or clothes...because I know they'll like it...
I'm there for my friends...for hard things...and simple things...Like going with someone to get a tattoo...because the person that was supposed to go with her cancelled...and at the end of the day...we both got tattooed...and now we will always remember getting out tattoos together...and its small things like that,...that keep relationships strong...
its making sure that even the non alcohol drinkers get a drink...(I think we all learned a lesson from that post Lady Bug, thank you)...
It's not something you consciously think about......you just do it automatically because you feel it. For me.....I tend to worry a lot. I'll ask things like...."Did you eat?", "Did you sleep well?", "Are you ok?", "Do you need something?", "Can I get you anything?".......Stuff like that.......and I'll ask it too much sometimes......but just 'cause I wanna make sure that my partner is taken care of. I buy little things......cute things....with some meaning.....like something might be related to some inside joke that you share........or just something that you know they'll like. Sometimes ALL these things get taken for granted though by your partner.....but like I said before....you just do it 'cause you feel it.
Bainaman you and I are the same when it comes to showing Love. It is true that it's taken for granted by your partner, they realize this when the next person that they are with doesn't do this things...and then they want you back.....
@ PANCHO YOU SAID: "I've been told "you're the coldest person" I guess quieren arrumacos! " WHAT DOES THIS MEAN??? Y QUIEN TE DIJO THAT I AM A COLD PERSON??
Yo le dije!!!! y ke?..............j/k
(sorry, no coffee yet, LOL!)
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FOR ME.... LITTLE THINGS MEAN THE MOST!!!! SWEET NOTHINGS WHEN HE LEAST EXPECTS IT....CUDDLING.....HUGS....ETC..... I'M VERY AFFECTIONATE....SO I HAVE NO PROBLEM EXPRESSING HOW I FEEL!!!!
I am same as Gitana. I love to show how I feel. And its the little things that matter the most for me too. I always like to be there for the special someone, always there for suport or anything. ...along with cuddling, hugs and kisses (but that is given).
Im jus like Gitana....im also a very affectionate person...but only when the other person is affectionate bak....ive been with guys that havent been very affectionate at all...guys that have been very into themselves...but the littlest things say alot
What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . .
If I will have that special someone, I will probably cook for him, sometimes prepare his lunch to take to work, always call him at least once a day to see how his day is going and probably some other stuff.
I show in many different ways. I will pamper him!!! I will cook for him, do laundry, cuddle with him, send him little notes in his lunch bag, buy him meaningful things that come from my heart etc..... Those are some of my ways of showing love!!
El Representante wrote: What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . . I give her a full plate of Whiskas and I put fresh water beside it.... I also clean her litter box....
LMAO!!! OMG...................... that's too funny!!!!!!!
What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . .
I like to show a bit of thong... that usually shows him I care.....
What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . .
I give her a full plate of Whiskas and I put fresh water beside it....
I also clean her litter box....
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It's not something you consciously think about......you just do it automatically because you feel it.
For me.....I tend to worry a lot. I'll ask things like...."Did you eat?", "Did you sleep well?", "Are you ok?", "Do you need something?", "Can I get you anything?".......Stuff like that.......and I'll ask it too much sometimes......but just 'cause I wanna make sure that my partner is taken care of.
I buy little things......cute things....with some meaning.....like something might be related to some inside joke that you share........or just something that you know they'll like.
Sometimes ALL these things get taken for granted though by your partner.....but like I said before....you just do it 'cause you feel it.
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What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . .
I COOK DINNER OR WATCH ALL HIS CAR SHOWS WITH HIM AND JUST GET HIS STUFF READY FOR WORK!!
Special, My boyfrien and I see each other only on the weekend, but we call each other daily and just talk about our day and how much we miss each other. I don't know if this is special, I guess it is Yesi
LaDyBuG wrote: That's a really good question..... Most people (myself included) don't do anything out of the ordinary.I guess.... This is where all the "detalles" in a relationship come to play.....I personally don't do anything special.....and I probably should.
I've been told "you're the coldest person" I guess quieren arrumacos !
El Representante wrote: What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . .
My boyfrien and I see each other only on the weekend, but we call each other daily and just talk about our day and how much we miss each other. I don't know if this is special, I guess it is
What Do You Do To Make That Special Someone In Your Life Feel Special On A Regular Basis ? I’m More Interested In Hearing About Your Casual Day To Day Examples . . .
We Fu... Er... we cuddle... a lot. Yeah, cuddling. We're at the peak of our cuddling drives, so we cuddle. Did I mention we cuddle? Every day... Yeah, mmm, cuddling.
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That's a really good question..... Most people (myself included) don't do anything out of the ordinary.I guess.... This is where all the "detalles" in a relationship come to play.....I personally don't do anything special.....and I probably should.
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