I personally don't care if my man checks out other women even if he is with me.....as long as he is DISCREET about it. I can't stand a man that makes it soo obvious that he is checking out another girl, not because of jelousy or insecurity, but because i feel it makes ME look stupid. Hey, i look at other guys and girls too, it is a natural thing.....but don't friggin chase them with your gaze and wait for her approval! that pisses me off!
Chilenita wrote: Insecure/Jealous people turn me off BIG TIME!!! Men like that get on my nerves....everyone needs space and time with their friends. Relationships work so well when two people trust eachother enough to not have to be attached at the hips 24/7!! I don't mind if I am with a man and they appreciate how another woman looks....it doesn't bother me. If you are secure in who you are other people wont affect your relationship...unless of course your man is banging another woman.....then it won't work....unless you like to swing!!!
Well said...same here....
I can stand the "Do you Love me" or the 300 calls "What are you doing".....
Im like way too open, I enjoy my freedom and my space, I HATE to be accountable for my personal life.....like "where you were" "with who" "doing what" WTF ?
Insecure/Jealous people turn me off BIG TIME!!! Men like that get on my nerves....everyone needs space and time with their friends. Relationships work so well when two people trust eachother enough to not have to be attached at the hips 24/7!! I don't mind if I am with a man and they appreciate how another woman looks....it doesn't bother me. If you are secure in who you are other people wont affect your relationship...unless of course your man is banging another woman.....then it won't work....unless you like to swing!!!
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Insecurity? Jealousy? How insecure could your partner be? Does it have to do with being jealous? How may times have this issued caused problems in marriage/relationships? "I hate when my b/f-husband checks out other women/men" "I don't trust her/him"...... "do they look better than me"?.... "is she/him flirting behind my back"? ..."i ma get ya suckkkaaa"