yEAH, i got so used to making my friends happy b/c they made me happy in return, but then I forgot to make myself happy first, or take care of myself. After a recent lesson, I know now that once i'm a third wheel I'll always be the third wheel. sooooo, don't be afraid to move on, closure or no closure.
It happens to me all the damn time and I get pissed that's pretty much it. I get mad as hell. I usually just like make everyone life miserable after that.
Have you even gone wwwwaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy out of your way to help out a friend in need.....and the one day you ask them for the smallest favor.....they don't wanna do it....or they just don't put the effort??!?!?!
How do you feel about that?!?!?
Well it's happen to me, but you know what, I don't do favours to get something in return,If they don't want to help me or they don't put the effort, what can I do, I leave it up to them.
When you don't get what you hoped for, or expected, you get mad.
And because not everyone is built responsably equal....you just have to learn, admit and adjust to the idea that certain people you can never count on (friends OR family), cuz if you do, you are risking being disappointed.....when in the meantime, they don't care.....and not because they are bad, but because they are not built reliable or responsable....(these are usually selfish people)
So avoid the headache by realizing que nadie es indespensable en esta vida......if that person doesn't do you the favour within your time frame, move on to another person who can.....In the long run, it's you that needs the favour to get YOUR job done....so depending on others and not achieving it may result in your irresponsability as well......NOT WORTH THE RISK....
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I've gone waaaaaaayyy out of my way many times and would do it again and again...it's just how I'm, but many good friends have let me down a couple of times when I asked for a few favors, well sometimes a few. family members too, but when they come knocking on my door again after they failed me...well...I'm always there...Just cant'n say no...
NEXT TIME JUST TELL THEM KE TE....................
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I've gone waaaaaaayyy out of my way many times and would do it again and again...it's just how I'm, but many good friends have let me down a couple of times when I asked for a few favors, well sometimes a few. family members too, but when they come knocking on my door again after they failed me...well...I'm always there...Just cant'n say no...
Have you even gone wwwwaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy out of your way to help out a friend in need.....and the one day you ask them for the smallest favor.....they don't wanna do it....or they just don't put the effort??!?!?!
How do you feel about that?!?!?
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"Live the life that you love, so you can love the life that you live"
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"Most of us fall short much more by omission than by commission."
