Anonny i feel your pain I knew J since he was 10yrs I assisted his soccer coach, I still remember his laugh and when he hit puberty even the day he told us he wasnt a virgin! I seen him grow from a small scronny little kid to a big man with an afro and tattoos! His Grill made me laugh and no matter when he was he always ran over to say hi! with a hug and a kiss! Its sad to also realize the reason he died was because a 15yr old kid had nothing better to do then to "PRETEND HE WAS A MAN". Its sad and unfortunetly Miel I agree but do u expect the parents to be there 24/7 i mean we are all taught wrong and right from day one! and its just a matter of hanging around a bad crowd, as for spending more time some parent work two jobs and other work more then that this lowlife (yes he is a lowlife to kill someone in cold blood thats what u are) could of done better things but choose to take a life for what reason?? no reason at all.
I understand ur point,. and I agree,. but i m not saying 24/7,. I am saying quality time,.no quantity,.I come from a single mom who works 12+ hrs.,..and believe me even 5 minutes can make a huge difference in a kid's life,..We are sad for the loss of a great kid as you have described him,. and as i told u before I know how this is,. here or back home is the same,. gans and all what this brings to the ppl is really bad,... there is not any excuse to kill someone but we don't know what this kid is going through,. and then why is he hanging out with the bad crowd??,...and why is he doing this??,.. why other kids are doing this???,.. and what can we do to help them???,.. Really I feel the pain of his family , friends and community,..
Anonymous wrote: It's Pretty sad how Toronto is becoming a city were pretty soon we all are going to have to walk around with bullet proof vest, Because if a gun has become children favorite toy, ex. that 15 year old that killed my elementary and hichschool friend. what's going on with parents in these days? they can't control there kids....... R.I.P. J It s true that parents are the ones responsibles to teach their children how to behave and the differences of what is good and bad,. before they learn it from the streets,.. also that has to start since the child is in the mom's belly,.. Parents should give them more activities to do after school,.quality time ,.. sometimes they look for attention and the only way for a tenager is with that type of behavior,.. In Ecuador,. I went through the same situation as u,. i lost a close friend, .. and another one is on wheelchair since he was 15 years old,. very sad,.. ,.. we need to start from home,. and give example to our community ,. it seems imposible,. but any type of action against the violence will help,..
Anonny i feel your pain I knew J since he was 10yrs I assisted his soccer coach, I still remember his laugh and when he hit puberty even the day he told us he wasnt a virgin! I seen him grow from a small scronny little kid to a big man with an afro and tattoos! His Grill made me laugh and no matter when he was he always ran over to say hi! with a hug and a kiss!
Its sad to also realize the reason he died was because a 15yr old kid had nothing better to do then to "PRETEND HE WAS A MAN". Its sad and unfortunetly Miel I agree but do u expect the parents to be there 24/7 i mean we are all taught wrong and right from day one! and its just a matter of hanging around a bad crowd, as for spending more time some parent work two jobs and other work more then that this lowlife (yes he is a lowlife to kill someone in cold blood thats what u are) could of done better things but choose to take a life for what reason?? no reason at all.
It's Pretty sad how Toronto is becoming a city were pretty soon we all are going to have to walk around with bullet proof vest, Because if a gun has become children favorite toy, ex. that 15 year old that killed my elementary and hichschool friend. what's going on with parents in these days? they can't control there kids....... R.I.P. J
It s true that parents are the ones responsibles to teach their children how to behave and the differences of what is good and bad,. before they learn it from the streets,.. also that has to start since the child is in the mom's belly,.. Parents should give them more activities to do after school,.quality time ,.. sometimes they look for attention and the only way for a tenager is with that type of behavior,.. In Ecuador,. I went through the same situation as u,. i lost a close friend, .. and another one is on wheelchair since he was 15 years old,. very sad,.. ,.. we need to start from home,. and give example to our community ,. it seems imposible,. but any type of action against the violence will help,..
I'm sorry to hear the person that got killed was your friend.
Your very right, our world has become awar zone and not even the cops can help! All we can do is pray and try to teach children that things like this are wrong and hopefully this violence will end.
But, I hate to say, I think this is only the beginning. We need to be very careful and hope that this sort of crime doesn't affect our (my) community.
It's Pretty sad how Toronto is becoming a city were pretty soon we all are going to have to walk around with bullet proof vest, Because if a gun has become children favorite toy, ex. that 15 year old that killed my elementary and hichschool friend. what's going on with parents in these days? they can't control there kids.......
