quote: Originally posted by: lilchinita "I just don't know what to say or do to convince her???? I couldn't sleep last night thinking what if he comes to my house looking for her!!!! I just hope that he leaves her alone."
I think all you can do is be there for her when she needs you and have strong shoulders to help her along the way when and if she does decide to leave him
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I just don't know what to say or do to convince her???? I couldn't sleep last night thinking what if he comes to my house looking for her!!!! I just hope that he leaves her alone.
WWWOOOOWWW NUTTY CRAZY story!!! Como dice el dicho: mejor solo que mal acompañado... One has to find the strenght/way to leave freaky people like that!
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quote: Originally posted by: lilchinita "I am really stressed out - because she said she wants to think about it. To get a restraining order the cop told us that she has to give all his information so that they can pick him up and charge him. She also has to be willing to testify against him in court The cop saw that she was hesitant and said that she has to be willing to go all the way."
yes she really does need to think about it. If she does go through with it, it will be a long and even more stressful process.
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quote: Originally posted by: lilchinita "I am really stressed out - because she said she wants to think about it. To get a restraining order the cop told us that she has to give all his information so that they can pick him up and charge him. She also has to be willing to testify against him in court The cop saw that she was hesitant and said that she has to be willing to go all the way."
Look I hate cops, but ahora que miro que tanta mujer las estan mantando estos locos pendejos just because they don't nothing 2 do with them, la verda es algo que ella tiene que pensar y bien no quiero exsagerar but now u never know.........
I am really stressed out - because she said she wants to think about it. To get a restraining order the cop told us that she has to give all his information so that they can pick him up and charge him. She also has to be willing to testify against him in court
The cop saw that she was hesitant and said that she has to be willing to go all the way.
quote: Originally posted by: lilchinita " My little sister is going through alot of $#@^ with her boyfriend. He is very controling and possesive. He is really LOCO!!!. My sister left him - it's been about 3 weeks. She is staying with me now. I just want people to know that these type of people should be taken very seriously (you just don't know what will make a person snap) She has been with this guy for four years. He has been acting strange (out of character) he doesn't come home or comes home really late. All of sudden he is acting like this. I told her he has someone else!!! Anyways 3 weeks ago me and my sisters were going to go out - My sister went home to get changed and he came home (after several weeks of coming and going) he saw that she all dressed up, he asks her "where are you going"? She said out. He started saying that she is with someone else (they say that when they are cheating) 1 hour goes by me and my other sister were waiting for her at my house. We call her phone and we can hear them screaming, of course me and my other sister jump into a cab to her house. We get there and he slams the door on us I go NUTZ I almost broke the door down. When we got in he took off - He trashed the apartment and would not let my little sister go. He keeps on calling and saying why are you not at home? - Yesterday he went to her work - got on the floor (she works in a call cntr) we don't understand how he got in because they need a swipe card - he began banging on the glass walls for her to come out she did and grabbed her and put her in the elevator - they end up outside and he is shouting and acting all crazy. This old lady came and helped her and told him to get away from her (she was 70 and she was screaming at him) even these construction workers were telling him to leave or they will call the copys. I am just frustated because she doesn't want to get a retraining order against him. All I keep on thinking about is that 23 year old woman that got shot and the guy kidnapped his son. I am trying to tell her how unpredictable he his - I am just glad yesterday she was protected. "
That is so fu** up, I can't understand why a guy can't take a no for an answer, y como dise miguel restraining orders is needed.....
My little sister is going through alot of $#@^ with her boyfriend. He is very controling and possesive. He is really LOCO!!!. My sister left him - it's been about 3 weeks. She is staying with me now. I just want people to know that these type of people should be taken very seriously (you just don't know what will make a person snap) She has been with this guy for four years. He has been acting strange (out of character) he doesn't come home or comes home really late. All of sudden he is acting like this. I told her he has someone else!!! Anyways 3 weeks ago me and my sisters were going to go out - My sister went home to get changed and he came home (after several weeks of coming and going) he saw that she all dressed up, he asks her "where are you going"? She said out. He started saying that she is with someone else (they say that when they are cheating) 1 hour goes by me and my other sister were waiting for her at my house. We call her phone and we can hear them screaming, of course me and my other sister jump into a cab to her house. We get there and he slams the door on us I go NUTZ I almost broke the door down. When we got in he took off - He trashed the apartment and would not let my little sister go. He keeps on calling and saying why are you not at home? - Yesterday he went to her work - got on the floor (she works in a call cntr) we don't understand how he got in because they need a swipe card - he began banging on the glass walls for her to come out she did and grabbed her and put her in the elevator - they end up outside and he is shouting and acting all crazy. This old lady came and helped her and told him to get away from her (she was 70 and she was screaming at him) even these construction workers were telling him to leave or they will call the copys. I am just frustated because she doesn't want to get a retraining order against him.
All I keep on thinking about is that 23 year old woman that got shot and the guy kidnapped his son. I am trying to tell her how unpredictable he his - I am just glad yesterday she was protected.
quote: Originally posted by: Phantasma " cant go into too much detail... who knows maybe the X is a member here yo! besides ni se mato ni nada, mas fue toda la bulla! "
what? what?? WHAT!! a member?? who who whoooooooooooo??!! lol
quote: Originally posted by: miguel " damn! what a chump!!!!!"
not only that.... he even said this to her "i love you more than i love my son"...
jeez!! i told her to leave him....the guys doesn't have a good job... (he is a part time somewhere downtown) no goals in life but wants to spend his life w/her... i said it to her "leave him!! ...you guys don't deserve each other!!" whatever........lol
quote: Originally posted by: Phantasma " They just say that to get attention, I had the same type of thing happen to me and to this day no one killed themselves... promises promises!"
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones "she doesn't love him, treats him like sh1t!!!....he knows that!!....she says it many many times...."i don't love you, just like you because you treat me good"he pays HER BILLS!! and gives her money anytime, takes her shopping...he'd come over, cook for her, clean, wash.... spoils he dog.... buys groceries for the entire family....(her family)friggin guys has it bad for her!!during those 3days he didn't even eat a piece of bread!! can you belive this??? let me tell you.... the guy is jamaican!! weird!!"
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones "she doesn't love him, treats him like sh1t!!!....he knows that!!....she says it many many times...."i don't love you, just like you because you treat me good"he pays HER BILLS!! and gives her money anytime, takes her shopping...he'd come over, cook for her, clean, wash.... spoils he dog.... buys groceries for the entire family....(her family)friggin guys has it bad for her!!during those 3days he didn't even eat a piece of bread!! can you belive this??? let me tell you.... the guy is jamaican!! weird!!"
so the one that needs help is the guy,.. but ur friend should leave him because it s bad for her and for him,.. life goes on,.. y como Phantasm said no se matan,.. son solo promesas j/k,.. but if she wants to use him,.. go ahead with the game,...todo esta en ella ,..
quote: Originally posted by: Miel "Confesiones dile a tu amiga,.. que no se deje manipular y que trate de encontrar refugio en la familia y amigos,.. par que asi pueda salir adelante. El Loco del novio mas que posesivo es un manipulador,.. y no se va a matar,.. ese tipo de gente solo quieren obtener todo con base en mentiras,.."
she doesn't love him, treats him like sh1t!!!....he knows that!!....she says it many many times...."i don't love you, just like you because you treat me good"
he pays HER BILLS!! and gives her money anytime, takes her shopping...he'd come over, cook for her, clean, wash.... spoils he dog.... buys groceries for the entire family....(her family) friggin guys has it bad for her!! during those 3days he didn't even eat a piece of bread!! can you belive this??? let me tell you.... the guy is jamaican!! weird!!
quote: Originally posted by: Miel "Confesiones dile a tu amiga,.. que no se deje manipular y que trate de encontrar refugio en la familia y amigos,.. par que asi pueda salir adelante. El Loco del novio mas que posesivo es un manipulador,.. y no se va a matar,.. ese tipo de gente solo quieren obtener todo con base en mentiras,.."
They just say that to get attention, I had the same type of thing happen to me and to this day no one killed themselves... promises promises!
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " lo pregunto por que una trini' friend of mine is going out with a loco!!! literally a LOCO....she broke up w/him friday....and she took him back 3day after... you know why??el maje se iba a matar!!!"
Confesiones dile a tu amiga,.. que no se deje manipular y que trate de encontrar refugio en la familia y amigos,.. par que asi pueda salir adelante. El Loco del novio mas que posesivo es un manipulador,.. y no se va a matar,.. ese tipo de gente solo quieren obtener todo con base en mentiras,..
lo pregunto por que una trini' friend of mine is going out with a loco!!! literally a LOCO....she broke up w/him friday....and she took him back 3day after...
dammmmmmmmmm you all i was with a someone for over a period of 2years I even moved in with her.........I knew what I was getting into, and of course as domm as I was I tought I can make her change...........she was super super celosa y posesiva unfortunatly with the type of attitude that I have it wasn't a match for me. it took me a while to see it but I did.
celos are not good ina relationship.
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quote: Originally posted by: Guadalupana " geez, are we with the same guy?!!! j/k. pero my hubby es asi tanbien...i guess he figured que me haria monja after marriage or something! no way soy rebelde 4 ever!! aww, he's my everything "
Sounds like you are in love......AWWWWWW!
I can't stand clingy, jealous, obsessive men.....ICKY! My ex was like that and I don't know how I put up with him for so long! I felt like I was suffocating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As soon as I see signs of a cling on now I just get out real quick.
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Nunca he tenido una relacion con una persona posesiva,.. y yo no lo soy,.. no soy celosa,.. y no me gusta que mi pareja lo sea ,.. por que eso de estar dando explicaciones,.. y que te pregunten o yo preguntar,.. a donde estas ??,. con quien??,.. y a que hora??,.. NO NO NO,.. si yo acepto a alguien to be my boyfriend,.. es porque siento algo por el,.. y por ese sentimiento lo respeto y me siento segura de mi misma y tengo confianza en el,.. pero cuando se pierde la confianza por X motivo ,.. es mejor que la relacion se acabe,.. y como mi abuelita decia ,.. los celos son las ganas de joder, y el que te cela es porque te lo esta haciendo ( cheating).
quote: Originally posted by: TV Buff "You sound exactly like me, but the thing is, now I'm changing and he's not... I used to be super celosa and extremely insecure, and now that I'm not, and he's becoming a little more possessive and jealous-- not extremely, but just a little more than he used to."
geez, are we with the same guy?!!! j/k. pero my hubby es asi tanbien...i guess he figured que me haria monja after marriage or something! no way soy rebelde 4 ever!!
aww, he's my everything
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Yo tube una girlfriend que era demasiado selosa I care so much about her but los selos mataron la relacion, yo no tengo problema que mis novias tengan amigos males, but ella ni eso queria que tubiera amigas, tambien le caian mal mis amigos cause desia que ellos eran unos mujeriegos y me hiban a conseguir otra, I left her cause eso para mi es una inseguridad y no nos dejaba ser happy....
quote: Originally posted by: Guadalupana " my hubby and i are equally sicoticos...so i guess it balances out "
You sound exactly like me, but the thing is, now I'm changing and he's not... I used to be super celosa and extremely insecure, and now that I'm not, and he's becoming a little more possessive and jealous-- not extremely, but just a little more than he used to.
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " don't tell anybody but a year ago I almost left my b/f for being a little too controlling and jealous type...now we're fine,..he is under control! lolya que existen mujeres sicoticas, celosas, posecivas, controladoras....bla bla bla....que opinan de los hombres que LO SON!!any stories??share, share!!"
i like celos to a certain extent... shows me he cares..
quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " don't tell anybody but a year ago I almost left my b/f for being a little too controlling and jealous type...now we're fine,..he is under control! lolya que existen mujeres sicoticas, celosas, posecivas, controladoras....bla bla bla....que opinan de los hombres que LO SON!!any stories??share, share!!"
ok i had an ex who i was so possesive over (ahora ni se porke) but at that time he was the world to me i was "IN LOVE" lol y lo celava con todo mundo! but i got over that when i found out that no matter what i did he cheated anyways so i left! and havent been like that since (broken heart) ni con mi ex marido i was like that! I realized to many fish in the sea to control one. But every now and then one crosses your path y los celos son natural pero tampoco para pasarse!!
I can not stand a controlling woman....Period.... the ones calling you all the time..... the ones asking you....do you love me ? Do I look good ?
The kind of women that fish for complements..make me puke !"
can i call you now, then in 5 minuted after that? Do you love me? how much? that's it?! do i look good? do you like my hair? my eye? my lip color? do you think my tanga look funny?
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " don't tell anybody but a year ago I almost left my b/f for being a little too controlling and jealous type...now we're fine,..he is under control! lolya que existen mujeres sicoticas, celosas, posecivas, controladoras....bla bla bla....que opinan de los hombres que LO SON!!any stories??share, share!!"
my hubby and i are equally sicoticos...so i guess it balances out
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quote: Originally posted by: Confesiones " don't tell anybody but a year ago I almost left my b/f for being a little too controlling and jealous type...now we're fine,..he is under control! lolya que existen mujeres sicoticas, celosas, posecivas, controladoras....bla bla bla....que opinan de los hombres que LO SON!!any stories??share, share!!"
I can not stand a controlling woman....Period.... the ones calling you all the time..... the ones asking you....do you love me ? Do I look good ?
The kind of women that fish for complements..make me puke !
don't tell anybody but a year ago I almost left my b/f for being a little too controlling and jealous type...now we're fine,..he is under control! lol
ya que existen mujeres sicoticas, celosas, posecivas, controladoras....bla bla bla.... que opinan de los hombres que LO SON!! any stories?? share, share!!
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aww, he's my everything 
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