Bad Boys

MARILYN MONROE · Guru

RE: RE: Bad Boys

MARILYN MONROE · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: torontotrucho
"Thank you Marilyn, you made my day. "

UR WELCOME!!!!!

torontotrucho · Guru

Thank you Marilyn, you made my day.

MARILYN MONROE · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" Me strong like bee. I wouldn't fight you ! i'd hurt you man! esque la genie lo que empisa Geezz!"

STOP IT YA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can kick both of ur asses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Vamps · Regular

Well, I thank you all for your insight. Very interesting answers and points of view. But I think a "Bad Boy", is a little more than just bravado an tough looks. I think being a bad boy; is not comforming to pre-stablished norms or codes of conduct. Is being free to take wathever things in life you choose to take without worrying about what people may say or do; furthermore, is being a free spirit with self confidence and courage; but at the same time, well aware of other persons feelings and views. Well, I think that will be a "good" bad boy.

Some of you guys are so funny and witty. It is so nice to read the way you debate and argue without being nasty or mean. I think I am starting to love you ...

miguel · TOP Guru

^^^^^^^^^

but we reach a certain age where our careers and building for the future become very important to us and we tend to mature......

i know i don't have time to be playing games with someone.

Gitana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga
"but not 'PUSH OVER" nice... i cant stand those... yah, older guys are much better!!! pero tampoco no TAN viejos right??"

I AGREE WITH YOU CHALE.

I THINK THAT OLDER MEN ARE MATURE AND KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. YOUNGER GUYS TEND TO WANNA PLAY GAMES AND NOT TAKE THINGS SERIOUSLY (SOME, NOT ALL)

lilchinita · Guru

@chale - How old is older?????

Phantasma · TOP Guru

Some girls are insecure and they actually believe they dont deserve better than some jerkoff that mistreats them and cheats on them... sad but true.

-- Edited by Phantasma at 12:20, 2005-05-18

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" Me strong like bee. I wouldn't fight you ! i'd hurt you man! esque la genie lo que empisa Geezz!"

YO NO ISE NADA!!! I was just stating what it looked like!! Ya vas hechando me la culpa!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Afrodita
"
LOL........... Callate Bruce Lee!!!!!!!!!!
Why would you fight me anyways...............

"

Me strong like bee.
I wouldn't fight you ! i'd hurt you man!
esque la genie lo que empisa Geezz!

Afrodita · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" nah i wouldn't fight her...i'd kick her a$$ really bad...es tan delicada ella, parese.....algo delicado ? "

LOL........... Callate Bruce Lee!!!!!!!!!!

Why would you fight me anyways...............

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: GENIE
" WOW CAN WE SAY CAT FIGHT!! LMAO"

nah i wouldn't fight her...i'd kick her a$$ really bad...es tan delicada ella, parese.....algo delicado ?

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" mira afro....te lo digo one last time so pay attention ok? WHATEVER!!! "

WOW CAN WE SAY CAT FIGHT!! LMAO

Afrodita · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" mira afro....te lo digo one last time so pay attention ok? WHATEVER!!! "

LMAO................You always want to say the last word.

Gotta love you!!!

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Afrodita
"

LOL,,,,,I don't see the word respect in what I wrote and I never meant that.
Whatever Guada. Just whatever.
"

mira afro....te lo digo one last time so pay attention ok?

WHATEVER!!!

Afrodita · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" That's me! @ afro--- what ever you say man. first of all i didn't say que respeto entre ambos wasn't needed, so stop taking the dog out si no quiere hacer pipi! and honestly, when i'm sick i kick my hubby out, why would i want him to get sick for? it has to be 50/50 in everything...asta cuando you go to the toilet! voz haces solo pipi , you ago pupu! i'm kidding! But really, i don't see my hubby as my 'care giver' si no mi partner. Because we don't depend on each other, but are there because we want to be, just in case one day we do. ah it's complicated fea. "

LOL,,,,,I don't see the word respect in what I wrote and I never meant that.

Whatever Guada. Just whatever.

miguel · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Chilenita
"I would bitch slap you right now if I didn't think you would enjoy it"

LOL

probably as we get older are priorities end up changing a bit and what we are looking for changes accordingly

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: God
"

Testa Dura !"

That's me!

@ afro--- what ever you say man. first of all i didn't say que respeto entre ambos wasn't needed, so stop taking the dog out si no quiere hacer pipi!
and honestly, when i'm sick i kick my hubby out, why would i want him to get sick for?

it has to be 50/50 in everything...asta cuando you go to the toilet! voz haces solo pipi , you ago pupu!

i'm kidding!

But really, i don't see my hubby as my 'care giver' si no mi partner. Because we don't depend on each other, but are there because we want to be, just in case one day we do. ah it's complicated

fea.

God · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Chilenita
"I would bitch slap you right now if I didn't think you would enjoy it"

BDSM ?

Miel · Guru

The difference here is not if boys are good or bad,.. they are BOYS,.. each person is a different world ,.. and u don't want to get bored in a relationship ,. sometimes u need some excitment in your life, todo depende de la persona con quien estes,. Pero hay que tener cuidado porque muchas veces esos que parecen angelitos con caras de yo no fui son los peores,. y a veces los que parecen malos no son del todo,. todos tenemos defectos y virtudes,..

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Chilenita
" YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEe for GENIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God girl I love this comment!!!! Glad to see a strong woman that is not looking for a man to bring stability to her life @Miguel......pushover eh? You think so? Hummmmm I'll have you saying YES DEAR in a week!"

its only true Chile! I mean im sorry but when girls are like i need a man to take of me im like ke no tienes papa??? cuz to me the only man that could ever 'TAKE CARE OF ME" ERA mi tata!! The man i find for life will be my PARTNER no my care taker never and that was one reason for the divorce u know u get married and he was like ok i want a house wife and nothing wrong with that but im like HELL NO SORRY!! I work! and i love to work! eventhough im on el foro half the time!

Chilenita · Comandante

quote:
Originally posted by: miguel
" i'm not scared of you, chump"

I would bitch slap you right now if I didn't think you would enjoy it

miguel · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Chilenita
"
YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEe for GENIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God girl I love this comment!!!! Glad to see a strong woman that is not looking for a man to bring stability to her life
@Miguel......pushover eh? You think so? Hummmmm I'll have you saying YES DEAR in a week!"

i'm not scared of you, chump

God · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
"

you'll find muchas necias here! "

Testa Dura !

Chilenita · Comandante

quote:
Originally posted by: GENIE
" SORRY GOD! But at the end of it just someone to keep me company to hold me in the hard times, and laugh in the good times! You forget i was raised by a single mother so for me a man is not important for me to feel secure or protected. as for taking care of kids not really just help me raise them be a good man to my boys (cuz i dont think i want girls way to many problems lol i know cuz i was a headache and a half) and be there for when they need there father! "

YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEe for GENIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God girl I love this comment!!!! Glad to see a strong woman that is not looking for a man to bring stability to her life

@Miguel......pushover eh? You think so? Hummmmm I'll have you saying YES DEAR in a week!

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: miguel
" you're a pushover!!!!! "

oh migue ur so gonna get it now!! lmao

Chale_Tanga · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: MARILYN MONROE
"I used to luv the thug look too. But man all they bring, is trouble. Now, being the old person that I am...hahahahahh I'm so over that. NICE guys rule!!!!! (& the older the better) I find older man are much sexier and they can sure take care of their women!!-- Edited by MARILYN MONROE at 10:28, 2005-05-18"

but not 'PUSH OVER" nice... i cant stand those...

yah, older guys are much better!!!

pero tampoco no TAN viejos right??

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: miguel
"i don't think its about bad boys or bad girls people don't like people who say yes to you all the time... "yes people" get boring fast. hehe i like stubborn girls"

OH I SO AGREE HERE I love a good fight now and then i do like stubborn guys but not too stubborn!! you know compromise is good

miguel · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Chilenita
"Ummmm I used to love the "bad boy" thing! I dated ONLY "bad boys" from when I was 17 to well last year....ha ha ha. I am looking for different things now but I still do not want a pushover......"

you're a pushover!!!!!

Afrodita · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" you're so gay...never ever depend on a man, no matter how awsome of a bf, husband or toy he may be. only you can take care of yourself properly.... the day the man you're with realizes you can't go on without him, you're in trouble..."

I'm sorry but as single as I have been for some time now, I know how to take care of myself pretty well. However, when you are with a man you do want him to take care of you and treat you well, otherwise why are you with that person then??? I'm not saying my whole life is going to depend on him but you have to let yourself be well treated.

Or you are going to tell me that when you are sick you wouldn't want your husband to take care of you or get some nice treatment from him???

It's true a woman has to be strong and independent. But, if someone is there to take care of you too why wouldn't you let him?

Chilenita · Comandante

Ummmm I used to love the "bad boy" thing! I dated ONLY "bad boys" from when I was 17 to well last year....ha ha ha. I am looking for different things now but I still do not want a pushover......

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: miguel
"i don't think its about bad boys or bad girls

people don't like people who say yes to you all the time... "yes people" get boring fast.

hehe i like stubborn girls"

you'll find muchas necias here!

miguel · TOP Guru

i don't think its about bad boys or bad girls

people don't like people who say yes to you all the time... "yes people" get boring fast.

hehe i like stubborn girls

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: God
" But at the end you need somebody that makes you feel Secure, Protected, and a guy that is going to take care of kids......."

SORRY GOD! But at the end of it just someone to keep me company to hold me in the hard times, and laugh in the good times!

You forget i was raised by a single mother so for me a man is not important for me to feel secure or protected. as for taking care of kids not really just help me raise them be a good man to my boys (cuz i dont think i want girls way to many problems lol i know cuz i was a headache and a half) and be there for when they need there father!

God · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: GENIE
"OK i gotta be honest i for the longest time was attracked to the "Bad Boy" the "Thug" it was something sexy about them no se maybe young and nieve and growing up surrounded by "Gangsters" just made me head that way. However the man i married (divorced now) was nothing like a Bad Boy he was a good hard working man but things didnt work out! I guess now my taste has changed drastically i no longer like the bad boy image or even the "Provider" because i can handel my own. But you just a good 50/50 man!
But the "Bad Boy" image was a trill just thinking oh man he plays hard to get or how he just seemed bad (which now was not even the case of a bad boy) the thug because u know he was a reble he did what he wanted!! lmao now i look back and say wtf was i thinking!! But hey todo era una adventura and well at the end of it all just makes u open your eyes!!
"

But at the end you need somebody that makes you feel Secure, Protected, and a guy that is going to take care of kids.......

MARILYN MONROE · Guru

I used to luv the thug look too. But man all they bring, is trouble. Now, being the old person that I am...hahahahahh I'm so over that. NICE guys rule!!!!!

(& the older the better) I find older man are much sexier and they can sure take care of their women!!

-- Edited by MARILYN MONROE at 10:28, 2005-05-18

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Afrodita
"

Right! At the end we need un Papi Chulo q nos cuide. Hehehe!"

you're so gay...never ever depend on a man, no matter how awsome of a bf, husband or toy he may be.
only you can take care of yourself properly....
the day the man you're with realizes you can't go on without him, you're in trouble...

GENIE · Foro Master

OK i gotta be honest i for the longest time was attracked to the "Bad Boy" the "Thug" it was something sexy about them no se maybe young and nieve and growing up surrounded by "Gangsters" just made me head that way. However the man i married (divorced now) was nothing like a Bad Boy he was a good hard working man but things didnt work out! I guess now my taste has changed drastically i no longer like the bad boy image or even the "Provider" because i can handel my own. But you just a good 50/50 man!

But the "Bad Boy" image was a trill just thinking oh man he plays hard to get or how he just seemed bad (which now was not even the case of a bad boy) the thug because u know he was a reble he did what he wanted!! lmao now i look back and say wtf was i thinking!! But hey todo era una adventura and well at the end of it all just makes u open your eyes!!

Afrodita · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: God
" Right ! ...they look for the Paternal Figure......isn't Freud Awsome ?-- Edited by God at 10:15, 2005-05-18"

Right! At the end we need un Papi Chulo q nos cuide. Hehehe!

God · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Afrodita
"
I also believe some young girls want to be with a bad boy cuz they think that's fun and cool, it might be fun and cool for a little while but then things might get too crazy. I think that's just a stage, when you become older you look for somebody that will take care of you and you think about the future. How this guy is going to be as a husband and a father.
However, some dumb girls stay in the bad boy stage forever and that's just crazy."

Right ! ...they look for the Paternal Figure......isn't Freud Awsome ?

-- Edited by God at 10:15, 2005-05-18

Afrodita · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: God
"Young girls look for the Exciment for the adventure so that's why they like bad boys they know they are goin go have fun but as they grow they look for the protector.....very natural....."

I also believe some young girls want to be with a bad boy cuz they think that's fun and cool, it might be fun and cool for a little while but then things might get too crazy. I think that's just a stage, when you become older you look for somebody that will take care of you and you think about the future. How this guy is going to be as a husband and a father.

However, some dumb girls stay in the bad boy stage forever and that's just crazy.

Yesi · Guru

I definatelly hate bad boys, they always end up hurting you.

But my sister loves them, I am not sure why maybe she wants the adventure or something, but they are definatelly bad news, bad boys can only get you in trouble.

Yesi

buzzlightyear680 · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Guadalupana
" 1. guys that consider themselves to be bad a$$es are not exciting, they're stupid. and if the girl find him exciting, then there is something wrong with her head 2. Who's going to want to change them? not me, they'll end up in jail anyway...waste of time. 3. Locas de remate!!! I prefer nice guys. PUNTO! like my Buzz "

awwww mami so sweet.

God · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Chale_Tanga
"yah.. a lot of them do (just like my crush on the movie CRASH)@ God: is that the theory you posted before? the alpha male and such?@ Guada: to some girls its just the whole excitment factor. Bad boys have that danger appel to them. And its true, some women taken them on as 'projects' to see if they have what it takes to mold a man into what they want."

it is Based on it.....

Chale_Tanga · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: NeNa
"some of them do have that "attractive" side. "

yah.. a lot of them do

(just like my crush on the movie CRASH

)

@ God: is that the theory you posted before? the alpha male and such?

@ Guada: to some girls its just the whole excitment factor. Bad boys have that danger appel to them. And its true, some women taken them on as 'projects' to see if they have what it takes to mold a man into what they want.

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: God
"I don't know if somebody has read the Ladder Theory... The ladder theory is a theory of adult male/female interaction....very interesting...."

i haven't read it, but i'd probably disagree with it.

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: God
"Three reasons

1) they are attracted to the excitment

2) they think they can change them or he will change

3) phycological.

in short if you are a nice guy, expect to be put in the
friends category real fast."

1. guys that consider themselves to be bad a$$es are not exciting, they're stupid. and if the girl find him exciting, then there is something wrong with her head

2. Who's going to want to change them? not me, they'll end up in jail anyway...waste of time.

3. Locas de remate!!!

I prefer nice guys. PUNTO!

like my Buzz

Guadalupana · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: buzzlightyear680
"Thats right hun you tell whos the BOSS....can I go for a cup of cofee mami "

oh buzz, you can do what ever you please honey bunny

God · TOP Guru

I don't know if somebody has read the Ladder Theory... The ladder theory is a theory of adult male/female interaction....very interesting....