Why some women go back

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

RE: Why some women go back

Chuck · Guru

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1164918/Secret-weapon-Rihanna-unveils-controversial-new-gun-tattoo.html

Given her recent domestic assault, one might think Rihanna would be the last person who'd want to glamourise violence.

But the 21-year-old made the unusual decision to have a handgun tattooed on her body this week.

The singer, who has often been seen wearing a miniature gun pendant necklace, had the weapon etched across her ribcage.

Rihanna

-- Edited by Chuck on Thursday 26th of March 2009 07:19:17 AM

Chuck · Guru

take a bow!

God · Foro Master

God · Foro Master

So Rihanna was beaten up by her fella, ella, ella biggrin

God · Foro Master

The real reason is I think sher is trying to confirm the ol sayin' "once you go black..."

Chuck · Guru

God wrote:

Chuck wrote:

she got back with him because he has weed.

lMAO

or a big tool

because she smokes his tool?

God · Foro Master

Chuck wrote:

she got back with him because he has weed.

lMAO

or a big tool

Chuck · Guru

she got back with him because he has weed.

biggrin

Dogo · Comandante

El_Alex wrote:

Dogo wrote:

El_Alex wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black...*from the waist up*

Hmmm....
That's the thing with most people, eh? They jump on the band wagon of political correctness for fear of being deemed a racist/intolerant a$$.hole or having prejudice, when in fact no matter how much you try to fight it or how "political correct" you try to be/appear, deep down you'll always have some sort of prejudice towards some race, ethnicity or culture
In my post, for example, I never said "BLACK Jamaicans like raggae". I said "JAMAICANS like raggae". YOU in your I'm-politically-correct-so-I'm-better-than-you mind, assumed -in your post- that ALL Jamaicans are black, when I never mentioned skin colour. Which means you're not less prejudist (?) than me or the next guy. You just try harder to not get caught

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:39, 2009-03-11

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:44, 2009-03-11
dude fact is there are way more black jamaicans than white jamaicans in jamaica, and who said im tryin to hide my prejudism? im whichever way i wanna be i dont care what others say RACIST!

Huh?
You should really know the meaning of that word before you use it.
YOU are the one who made an asssumption based on race ("i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black" = blacks like reggae) with your post, not me.

Lahtina · Regular Plus

A mi me gusta el agua de Jamaica. Very yummy and refreshing. smile

LGigolo · Comandante

NOT ALL Jamaican's are black?

El_Alex · Senior Member

Dogo wrote:

El_Alex wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black...*from the waist up*

Hmmm....
That's the thing with most people, eh? They jump on the band wagon of political correctness for fear of being deemed a racist/intolerant a$$.hole or having prejudice, when in fact no matter how much you try to fight it or how "political correct" you try to be/appear, deep down you'll always have some sort of prejudice towards some race, ethnicity or culture
In my post, for example, I never said "BLACK Jamaicans like raggae". I said "JAMAICANS like raggae". YOU in your I'm-politically-correct-so-I'm-better-than-you mind, assumed -in your post- that ALL Jamaicans are black, when I never mentioned skin colour. Which means you're not less prejudist (?) than me or the next guy. You just try harder to not get caught

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:39, 2009-03-11

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:44, 2009-03-11

dude fact is there are way more black jamaicans than white jamaicans in jamaica, and who said im tryin to hide my prejudism? im whichever way i wanna be i dont care what others say RACIST!

Lahtina · Regular Plus

Daeveed wrote:

Because he's got weed.

Ooooooooor...

Daeveed · Foro Master

Because he's got weed.

Guadalupana · Foro Master

They're just not strong or brave enough to leave the abusive partner.

Dogo · Comandante

Chilenita wrote:

Dogo wrote:

El_Alex wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black...*from the waist up*

Hmmm....
That's the thing with most people, eh? They jump on the band wagon of political correctness for fear of being deemed a racist/intolerant a$$.hole or having prejudice, when in fact no matter how much you try to fight it or how "political correct" you try to be/appear, deep down you'll always have some sort of prejudice towards some race, ethnicity or culture
In my post, for example, I never said "BLACK Jamaicans like raggae". I said "JAMAICANS like raggae". YOU in your I'm-politically-correct-so-I'm-better-than-you mind, assumed -in your post- that ALL Jamaicans are black, when I never mentioned skin colour. Which means you're not less prejudist (?) than me or the next guy. You just try harder to not get caught

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:39, 2009-03-11

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:44, 2009-03-11
The issue is abuse isn't it? I think she is a total idiot for taking him back. He is a total idiot for what he did.

Argentinos...well...they are just all idiots

Esos Argentinos

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Yes the issue is abuse. And it sucks, and they are both idiots, etc, etc... You won't get an argument from me there.

I just saw where the thread was heading and posted what I posted on purpose, knowing that someone would try to call me out on it
I was just trying to make a point that everyone has some prjudice in them wheather they like/admit it or not, and that by me saying "Jamaicans like reggae" someone would automatically think: Jamaicans = Black. Which is no less prejudice than me saying Jamaicans like reggae.

As for blacks beating their spouses more than non-blacks.... I don't know. I haven't payed much attention to it, but if that were a fact, it likely has to do more with many other aspects/factors than just the colour of their skin

God · Foro Master

Chuck wrote:

God wrote:

I'm not surprised of CB actions, after you see his past that explain his action what I find disturbing is Riahnna desicion to go back with him after all the support she was offered, what shows is that this chick is not well equipped in the grey matter department.

She is going to enable CB and prolly become another Nicole Brown

tyson's ex?

OJ's Ex Wife

Pancho del Rancho · Regular

Cuando va la gente a aprender a no meterse en lo que no les importa. Especialmente tratandose de parejas..... el que se mete pierde hmm

DannyC · Regular

some ****es deserve t get a beatin' once in a while

Chuck · Guru

God wrote:

I'm not surprised of CB actions, after you see his past that explain his action what I find disturbing is Riahnna desicion to go back with him after all the support she was offered, what shows is that this chick is not well equipped in the grey matter department.

She is going to enable CB and prolly become another Nicole Brown

tyson's ex?

Chilenita · Comandante

Dogo wrote:

El_Alex wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black...*from the waist up*

Hmmm....
That's the thing with most people, eh? They jump on the band wagon of political correctness for fear of being deemed a racist/intolerant a$$.hole or having prejudice, when in fact no matter how much you try to fight it or how "political correct" you try to be/appear, deep down you'll always have some sort of prejudice towards some race, ethnicity or culture
In my post, for example, I never said "BLACK Jamaicans like raggae". I said "JAMAICANS like raggae". YOU in your I'm-politically-correct-so-I'm-better-than-you mind, assumed -in your post- that ALL Jamaicans are black, when I never mentioned skin colour. Which means you're not less prejudist (?) than me or the next guy. You just try harder to not get caught

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:39, 2009-03-11

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:44, 2009-03-11

The issue is abuse isn't it? I think she is a total idiot for taking him back. He is a total idiot for what he did.

Argentinos...well...they are just all idiots smile

Dogo · Comandante

El_Alex wrote:

Dogo wrote:

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black...*from the waist up*

Hmmm....
That's the thing with most people, eh? They jump on the band wagon of political correctness for fear of being deemed a racist/intolerant a$$.hole or having prejudice, when in fact no matter how much you try to fight it or how "political correct" you try to be/appear, deep down you'll always have some sort of prejudice towards some race, ethnicity or culture
In my post, for example, I never said "BLACK Jamaicans like raggae". I said "JAMAICANS like raggae". YOU in your I'm-politically-correct-so-I'm-better-than-you mind, assumed -in your post- that ALL Jamaicans are black, when I never mentioned skin colour. Which means you're not less prejudist (?) than me or the next guy. You just try harder to not get caught

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:39, 2009-03-11

-- Edited by Dogo at 13:44, 2009-03-11

God · Foro Master

I'm not surprised of CB actions, after you see his past that explain his action what I find disturbing is Riahnna desicion to go back with him after all the support she was offered, what shows is that this chick is not well equipped in the grey matter department.

She is going to enable CB and prolly become another Nicole Brown

Chuck · Guru

rumour has it, Brown's mother was also abused by ex-husband.

El_Alex · Senior Member

Dogo wrote:

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

i ilke reggae more than anythin n i aint black...*from the waist up*

Dogo · Comandante

Jamaicans like reggae more than any other ethnic group

El_Alex · Senior Member

violence against woman no matter what the colour, should be the issue, not the colour of the skin.
Abusive people (yes both men n woman) arent created cuz of skin colour.

Chilenita · Comandante

God wrote:

Chilenita wrote:

Colombiana4Life wrote:

Chilenita wrote:

Too bad there isn't a KKK icon for GOD.

God hasn't replied...hopefully it's because he sees how disgusting his stupid comment it.

lol...

Look it's well known and documented that domestic violence is more prevalent among certain races, cultures and ethnical groups.

Also studies has shown that domestic violence is higer in families with lower socioeconomic status and once their income level improves the violence decreses.

Unfortunatly violence (in general) has higer rate with afroamericans and another minority groups.

Now if you apply these well documented facts on Chris brown/Rihana case may help you to understand. The fact they are famous and well off doesn't exclude them.

BLAH BLAH BLAH your new avatar suits you biggrin

God · Foro Master

Chilenita wrote:

Colombiana4Life wrote:

Chilenita wrote:

Too bad there isn't a KKK icon for GOD.

God hasn't replied...hopefully it's because he sees how disgusting his stupid comment it.

lol...

Look it's well known and documented that domestic violence is more prevalent among certain races, cultures and ethnical groups.

Also studies has shown that domestic violence is higer in families with lower socioeconomic status and once their income level improves the violence decreses.

Unfortunatly violence (in general) has higer rate with afroamericans and another minority groups.

Now if you apply these well documented facts on Chris brown/Rihana case may help you to understand. The fact they are famous and well off doesn't exclude them.

Chilenita · Comandante

Colombiana4Life wrote:

Chilenita wrote:

Too bad there isn't a KKK icon for GOD.

God hasn't replied...hopefully it's because he sees how disgusting his stupid comment it.

Vanilla · Senior Member

Colombiana4Life wrote:

Chilenita wrote:

*grillos*....

Colombiana4Life · Foro Master

Chilenita wrote:

confuse blankstare

Chilenita · Comandante

Chuck · Guru

Chilenita wrote:

God wrote:

She is black right ??? that might explain alot.....I know sounds racy but como diria mi padre

Aunque la mona se vista de seda....mona se queda

Meaning that because she is black she is stupid and went back?

Chilenita · Comandante

God wrote:

She is black right ??? that might explain alot.....I know sounds racy but como diria mi padre

Aunque la mona se vista de seda....mona se queda

Meaning that because she is black she is stupid and went back? confuse

God · Foro Master

She is black right ??? that might explain alot.....I know sounds racy but como diria mi padre

Aunque la mona se vista de seda....mona se queda

Chuck · Guru

Why some women go back to their abusers

CNN) -- A middle-of-the-night fight, a surprise pullout from the Grammy Awards, leaked photos, a police investigation -- new pieces of the puzzle of the alleged assault of pop singer Rihanna by her boyfriend Chris Brown have been emerging since early February.

Singers Rihanna and Chris Brown, shown performing in December, are rumored to be back together.

Then, nearly three weeks after the alleged battery, the couple was reportedly together again. The reconciliation was reported just days before Brown's arraignment, which is expected Thursday in Los Angeles, California. Update: Chris Brown charged with two felonies

Brown, 19, has issued an apology for "what transpired" but neither he nor Rihanna, who just turned 21, has directly addressed the allegations.

Many would ask why anyone would return to an abusive partner after leaving, but therapists who treat both abusers and victims say it's common.

The effect is like a "pendulum of pain," said Steven Stosny, counselor and founder of the anger and violence management program CompassionPower, which treats people convicted of abuse in the home.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/03/04/rihanna.domestic.violence/index.html