quote: Originally posted by: Chilenita " Please dont take this post the wrong way Princessa cause you know I usually agree with you. I have some advice. If you don't want to live paycheck to paycheck than make something wonderful out of YOURSELF. Dont look to a man for financial stability! You can do it on your own! You don't need a man to live a wonderful lavish life. You might want a man to add on to your life but don't look for one to bring your money....get your own...TRUST ME it's sooooo much nicer......"
Couldn't have said it better myself. Agree 100%.
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quote: Originally posted by: NeNa "You're right! There's nothing wrong with wanting a financially stable man! HOWEVER, money comes and goes!!! You can have all the luxury things you want and dreamed of having, but would that make you happy if the man of your dreams is treating you like sh^t????? I don't think so!! I rather have a man in my life who I love and loves me back and has a nice stable job!!!! Amalo por el corazon no por el bolsillo!!!! "
Same here NENA...I'll take love over money any day!
Dont get me wrong I won't let a man live off me either.....
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You're right! There's nothing wrong with wanting a financially stable man! HOWEVER, money comes and goes!!!
You can have all the luxury things you want and dreamed of having, but would that make you happy if the man of your dreams is treating you like sh^t????? I don't think so!!
I rather have a man in my life who I love and loves me back and has a nice stable job!!!!
quote: Originally posted by: Chilenita " Please dont take this post the wrong way Princessa cause you know I usually agree with you. I have some advice. If you don't want to live paycheck to paycheck than make something wonderful out of YOURSELF. Dont look to a man for financial stability! You can do it on your own! You don't need a man to live a wonderful lavish life. You might want a man to add on to your life but don't look for one to bring your money....get your own...TRUST ME it's sooooo much nicer......"
First NO WORRIES I really DON'T take ur reply wrong or bad or even offended by it. I actually AGREE with you that its much better to get ur own money & succesed in life by yourself. Of course it's MORE rewarding.
I guess what I should of mentioned was that a guy with nothing to offer can be a BURDEN to me & my Family. If I came from cash cause of family or I was really successful in my career.....then the minimum I would like or expect is that at least the guy has the same or more then me or at least a good career to back himself up. So that this way we BOTH grow together to a better life & future.
That's all.......hopefully this is more clear & sounding a little less shallow.
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quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous " Would you go out with a guy who not the same race ??????????? "
I think I would. Perhaps not every race (I am not racist, please don't hate). But LAtin men are more fun (most of them know how to dance) & I love to dance, so I kina value that (there are other things in a realationship, this is just my example)
quote: Originally posted by: PRINCESSA " I TOTALLY see your point & to an extent agree with it......however I've also met guys with money & I've CHOOSE not to be with them becuase I'm NOT for sale. Don't get me wrong it's NOT the MOST important thing....but for SURE a must to a certain extent. It's one thing that MONEY is important (very) to me, cause I refuse to live pay cheque to pay cheque & tight in money. It's a chioce & all I want is someone with something GOOD to offer. Now that can be looked bad upon, but it's my chioce in how I want to live my life & a choice In how I want to have a family. I don't think it hurst anyone, if anything it's great for me & my to-be family. Thanks for your advice & believe me I do see ur point. "
Please dont take this post the wrong way Princessa cause you know I usually agree with you.
I have some advice. If you don't want to live paycheck to paycheck than make something wonderful out of YOURSELF. Dont look to a man for financial stability! You can do it on your own! You don't need a man to live a wonderful lavish life. You might want a man to add on to your life but don't look for one to bring your money....get your own...TRUST ME it's sooooo much nicer......
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From a guys perspective. Yes I would definately date someone is not my race. I have in the past and what I realized is that makes me a lot comprehensive towards woman. I get to see the culture thru their eyes and believe me you learn to be more understanding even towards your own race. not to mention when you mix you get beautiful kids.
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "PRINCESSA , LET ME GIVE YOU AN ADVICE DON'T THINK MONEY IS EVERYTHING , I HAD EVERYTHING AT ONE POINT OF M LIFE ,HOWEVER THIS MAN GAVE EVERYTHING MONEY CAN GET ,HOWEVER HE NEVER GAVE ME HIS TIME ,LOVE OR RESPECT . I WOULD TAKE A MAN OF ANY RACE OR WITH NO MONEY AS LONG AS HE LOVES ME AND RESPECT ME . "
I TOTALLY see your point & to an extent agree with it......however I've also met guys with money & I've CHOOSE not to be with them becuase I'm NOT for sale. Don't get me wrong it's NOT the MOST important thing....but for SURE a must to a certain extent.
It's one thing that MONEY is important (very) to me, cause I refuse to live pay cheque to pay cheque & tight in money. It's a chioce & all I want is someone with something GOOD to offer. Now that can be looked bad upon, but it's my chioce in how I want to live my life & a choice In how I want to have a family. I don't think it hurst anyone, if anything it's great for me & my to-be family.
Thanks for your advice & believe me I do see ur point.
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LET ME GIVE YOU AN ADVICE DON'T THINK MONEY IS EVERYTHING , I HAD EVERYTHING AT ONE POINT OF M LIFE ,HOWEVER THIS MAN GAVE EVERYTHING MONEY CAN GET ,HOWEVER HE NEVER GAVE ME HIS TIME ,LOVE OR RESPECT . I WOULD TAKE A MAN OF ANY RACE OR WITH NO MONEY AS LONG AS HE LOVES ME AND RESPECT ME .
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous " Would you go out with a guy who not the same race ??????????? "
I would go out with a guy from another race....NOT all the races but some I can make an excuse for & I have gone out with them. I've also come to a Clear conclusion that Spanish Guys are the best ones for me & that I like a lot, but at the same time WHO knows if someone else from another race is awsemoe.....maybe I will pick them.
I just hope I meet the right guy & if Not spanish....then I'll live with it.
Although if I settle for non spanish......the Guy from whatever race MUST have money or it's not a deal. LOL, LOL.
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