quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "YOU GUYS WANTED A TRUE ANSWER AND I GAVE YOU LADIES ONE. THE TRUTH IS THAT I LOVE MY BABE AND EVEN THOUGH I DATED OTHER GIRLS BETTER LOOKING AND EVEN FINANCIALLY STABLE WILLING TO GIVE ME ANYTHING I WANT I STILL GO BACK TO HER. I THINK THIS IS LOVE. OTHER GIRLS THAT I CHEATED ON IF I FOUND SOMETHING BETTER WITH NO REMORSE I WOULD REPLACE THEM. I WANT TO BE FAITHFUL I'VE TRIED I JUST CAN'T. YOU KNOW WHAT, WOMEN ARE WORSE BECAUSE I EVEN SLEPT WITH HER FRIENDS AND THEY KNOW ME AS HER BOYFRIEND BUT THEY STILL DID IT. MAYBE THAT'S HAVING NO REMORSE. THEY BETRAYED HER OWN FRIEND. WHOSE THE S.L.U.T. HERE. "
So if you cant just be faithful then why stay with her and hurt her that way? And you call her friends sluts yeah they are but it takes two so your just as much of a slut.. and if you respected and loved her half as much as you say you do you wouldn't put her through that.. does your girlfriend know you cheat on her?
YOU GUYS WANTED A TRUE ANSWER AND I GAVE YOU LADIES ONE. THE TRUTH IS THAT I LOVE MY BABE AND EVEN THOUGH I DATED OTHER GIRLS BETTER LOOKING AND EVEN FINANCIALLY STABLE WILLING TO GIVE ME ANYTHING I WANT I STILL GO BACK TO HER. I THINK THIS IS LOVE. OTHER GIRLS THAT I CHEATED ON IF I FOUND SOMETHING BETTER WITH NO REMORSE I WOULD REPLACE THEM. I WANT TO BE FAITHFUL I'VE TRIED I JUST CAN'T. YOU KNOW WHAT, WOMEN ARE WORSE BECAUSE I EVEN SLEPT WITH HER FRIENDS AND THEY KNOW ME AS HER BOYFRIEND BUT THEY STILL DID IT. MAYBE THAT'S HAVING NO REMORSE. THEY BETRAYED HER OWN FRIEND. WHOSE THE S.L.U.T. HERE.
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "Hey men and women I was just wondering as to why you decide to cheat? Is it because you are not happy with the person you are with? Is it to make yourself feel better about yourself because you can get more than one person to sleep with you? I dont exactly get why people cheat? Why dont you just leave the person your with if you feel you need to cheat? I hope someone can help me understand this..."
It's lust . Some people are just greedy and selfish! It is in human nature to have these urges or hormons to cheat and go with someone else. I don;t approve of it, but some people can't control themselves and have to do it. It is not always that you are not happy with the person you are with.
quote: Originally posted by: PRINCESSA " I guess if you say so....you can call it in your eyes "LOVE". I'm sure that if ur babe knew about it she would cut u short, but since she is clueless she's fine. I think your so called excuse to cheat is lame & full of crap, if not then tell her & see what happens. Good luck until you burn in your own game. "
LOL good one Princessa!!!
who do women/men cheat?
because they are not truly in love. if this annonymous guy was then he wouldn't cheat. trust me, there is something missing for him to go else where. yes he might care for her but love is much more then that.
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "I cheat because I have the need to do so. I've fallen in love but I still have the urge to be with other girls. People might say is not love but no matter how many girls I cheat on her with I still return to my babe. I can't have a commitment to only one person. I feel empty if I do. "
I guess if you say so....you can call it in your eyes "LOVE". I'm sure that if ur babe knew about it she would cut u short, but since she is clueless she's fine.
I think your so called excuse to cheat is lame & full of crap, if not then tell her & see what happens.
Good luck until you burn in your own game.
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quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "I cheat because I have the need to do so. I've fallen in love but I still have the urge to be with other girls. People might say is not love but no matter how many girls I cheat on her with I still return to my babe. I can't have a commitment to only one person. I feel empty if I do. "
Your Defenition is..........."YOUR JUST A PIG!!!" Full of sh_t.
Give ur love crap to ur poor g/f who is such a fool.
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "I cheat because I have the need to do so. I've fallen in love but I still have the urge to be with other girls. People might say is not love but no matter how many girls I cheat on her with I still return to my babe. I can't have a commitment to only one person. I feel empty if I do. "
So why be with her... if you need to be with so many girls to feel as though your not empty then dont hurt your "babe"... leave her and be with as many girls as u want to be with and you wont feel empty... did u ever think that cheating on her might make her feel empty.... It's not love its a convenience.. you have someone who loves you back and u like the idea of having someone who cares... dont lead her on and make her think you love her... if you cant committ and you need to be with ther girls to not feel empty than dont bother being with your "babe". how long have you been with her and how long have you been cheating?
I cheat because I have the need to do so. I've fallen in love but I still have the urge to be with other girls. People might say is not love but no matter how many girls I cheat on her with I still return to my babe. I can't have a commitment to only one person. I feel empty if I do.
quote: Originally posted by: Chilenita "I think it's human nature! It may not be right but is it realistic to think we are meant to be with the same person for the rest of our lives? I have seen men that are totally in love cheat on their girlfriends and then CRY and beg to have them back.....how do you explain this?? I am not saying it's right I am just saying that it's VERY VERY common! "
Yeah and my questions is why is it so common? I expect cheaters to answer this question to help me better understand.. its not human nature not everyone does it!
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous "How is it easier said then done? Obviously if you feel the need to cheat you dont care about the person your with so you may as well leave them..."
WHATEVER.........then this world wouldn't have cheaters !!
I agree with you...........just leave if you feel the need to be with someone else. I don't get it myself. Alot of cheaters just want to have their cake and eat it too. They are very selfish and only think of themselves. It's disgusting, but they all learn. When they actually find someone they really care about, they usually get burnt......"karma".
quote: Originally posted by: Anonymous Why dont you just leave the person your with if you feel you need to cheat? I hope someone can help me understand this..."