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El Duro wrote:

See I grew up with the mentality that el homber es de la caje y la mujer son de la casa, and that the rule I go by even my sisters go be that rule. Sorry but I know what goes in the mind off a boy



Duro will let the girls into his house and provide the condoms to the sons! biggrin.gif

 



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El Duro wrote:

When it comes to s career choices and chores both are going to get the same treatment, but I differ in the going out part



IF YOU were the girl being treated differently and given LESS rights (eralier curfew, not allowed to be in your room with your guy friends, while your brother was allowed to be with his female friends...etc)... How do you think you would feel? 

I was raised with similar views/beliefs... but I learned/realized it's just not fair - and it is sexist.  What I decided instead was TRY and treat them the same.

 



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When they get older then can stay out later but still need curfews and limits!

Plus remember that these boys will be going out with girls that have curfews and perhaps with stricts parents.  Just cause they can stay out until 6 am doesn't mean the girls can.




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When it comes to s career choices and chores both are going to get the same treatment, but I differ in the going out part

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I know exactly what you are saying trust me but but but.....I still object!

I feel both should be treated the same.  Given same curfews, chores, aspirations to have careers, learn to cook, clean, take out the garbage, etc.

If you start separating them that way, sometimes little girls resent it.


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I know that that IS the way that WE're raised; but it IS a sexist/prejudist/machista view. weirdfacehmm

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See I grew up with the mentality that el homber es de la caje y la mujer son de la casa, and that the rule I go by even my sisters go be that rule. Sorry but I know what goes in the mind off a boy

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I'll let them study with the door close. Man its good to have boys, but if I had a daughter in the living room. I know what you guys are going to say que soy machista. But I ain't



It IS treating boys differently than girls... if it's not machista, it's prejudist against the girls = same thing! biggrin.gif

 



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I'll let them study with the door close. Man its good to have boys, but if I had a daughter in the living room. I know what you guys are going to say que soy machista. But I ain't



If you're not machista then let your boys study in the living room too chew.gif



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I'll let them study with the door close. Man its good to have boys, but if I had a daughter in the living room. I know what you guys are going to say que soy machista. But I ain't

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specially cuz of the 'rememebr when u were a kid' saying is y I will make it extrememly comfortable for them to study en la sala with us.  Im not gonna be watchin my show con volumen alto or things that will give them an excuse to go somewhere quieter.   N if necessary i shall remove bedroom doors biggrin

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Hahahaha...funny.

I think you always have to remember the old saying "remember when you were a kid"  well that's what you're kids will be up to weirdface.gif

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In an open area: la mesa del comedor or en la living room!
Before leaving them alone, I'd be sure tu stick out my index and middle finger simultaneously, point them at my eyes, then point them at THEM kids (as in, "I'm watching you") and walk away!


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Suppose the kid says but Daddy "X" it's quieter this way and better to concentrate?  Then what?

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i would say the same no need to close the door if u r just going to "study" evileye.gif

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I was watching this show last night and it brought back memories LOL

If your kids wants to study with the opposite sex....will you let them be in their room with the door closed?  

I would say study in the living room or dining room LOL chew.gif




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