I don't think one NEEDS to find "the one" and settle down. Single life can be a good thing at any age and has many benefits. As long as you are happy with your single life, keep busy/occupied, still have fun with friends, maybe have a lover to relieve your needs, and you're fine with that... it may be enough... Nothing wrong with a happy single life.
U mean special friends" with benefits -- convenient!
I don't think one NEEDS to find "the one" and settle down. Single life can be a good thing at any age and has many benefits. As long as you are happy with your single life, keep busy/occupied, still have fun with friends, maybe have a lover to relieve your needs, and you're fine with that... it may be enough... Nothing wrong with a happy single life.
U mean special friends" with benefits -- convenient!
I don't think one NEEDS to find "the one" and settle down. Single life can be a good thing at any age and has many benefits. As long as you are happy with your single life, keep busy/occupied, still have fun with friends, maybe have a lover to relieve your needs, and you're fine with that... it may be enough... Nothing wrong with a happy single life.
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I'm pushin' 40's and after few years of being single....I've not found the "right" person....in fact I don't think the perfect person exist, If we are lucky enough we can find a good mate but the perfect person do no exist.
The more years I stay single it gets harder to find the "right" one.with the time you become more selective and you learn to pick and choose.
I date and I have my ocassional lovers but to say she is the right one..naaahhh. Age doesn't scare me , I'm not in a rush and I think girls like that....I don;'t want to settle right now I'm having way too much fun to give it up....No way jose
I'm at that point of my life where I can date a 22 yrs or a 35 yrs with no problem...so...no rush gotta enjoy it.
-- Edited by God at 11:41, 2008-07-17
props to you for thinking like that but in all honesty as you get older your not going to wanna settle down? wouldnt it suck when u reach the age of 50 or more and to have never felt the feeling of love or have a companion for the remaining years of your life ?......if u dont care than ill flat out take off my hat to you godo!
Nope...not all, If I want companion I can get a Dog...But after the years pass by you learn that there is nothing worst than being with the wrong person...Sometimes the person of your dreams can be your worst nightmare...Only with the years you leanr to know yourself and what you want...
So today at work im looking at a couple of co-workers who are in their late 30's and early 40's and single no kids nada they aint even dating no one....like geeez how boring can sonmeone feel at that age when alot of other people r already getting married or at least in long term relationships...living in common law etc etc.....are u at that point? or has it come across your mind? that u r at a certain high peak in your age and ur scared that if it hasent happened it wont most likely wont happen anymore......
It will happen, mistakes happen ALL the time. lol jokes aside, if you are commited to someone a piece of paper or extravagant party wont make it any better. and if they're 40's and single, are you sure they aren't gay? (gay is a word i've noticed you like to use A LOT)
no they aint gay they talk about the ladies in the office always lol....
I'm pushin' 40's and after few years of being single....I've not found the "right" person....in fact I don't think the perfect person exist, If we are lucky enough we can find a good mate but the perfect person do no exist.
The more years I stay single it gets harder to find the "right" one.with the time you become more selective and you learn to pick and choose.
I date and I have my ocassional lovers but to say she is the right one..naaahhh. Age doesn't scare me , I'm not in a rush and I think girls like that....I don;'t want to settle right now I'm having way too much fun to give it up....No way jose
I'm at that point of my life where I can date a 22 yrs or a 35 yrs with no problem...so...no rush gotta enjoy it.
-- Edited by God at 11:41, 2008-07-17
props to you for thinking like that but in all honesty as you get older your not going to wanna settle down? wouldnt it suck when u reach the age of 50 or more and to have never felt the feeling of love or have a companion for the remaining years of your life ?......if u dont care than ill flat out take off my hat to you godo!
I'm pushin' 40's and after few years of being single....I've not found the "right" person....in fact I don't think the perfect person exist, If we are lucky enough we can find a good mate but the perfect person do no exist.
The more years I stay single it gets harder to find the "right" one.with the time you become more selective and you learn to pick and choose.
I date and I have my ocassional lovers but to say she is the right one..naaahhh. Age doesn't scare me , I'm not in a rush and I think girls like that....I don;'t want to settle right now I'm having way too much fun to give it up....No way jose
I'm at that point of my life where I can date a 22 yrs or a 35 yrs with no problem...so...no rush gotta enjoy it.
So today at work im looking at a couple of co-workers who are in their late 30's and early 40's and single no kids nada they aint even dating no one....like geeez how boring can sonmeone feel at that age when alot of other people r already getting married or at least in long term relationships...living in common law etc etc.....are u at that point? or has it come across your mind? that u r at a certain high peak in your age and ur scared that if it hasent happened it wont most likely wont happen anymore......
It will happen, mistakes happen ALL the time. lol jokes aside, if you are commited to someone a piece of paper or extravagant party wont make it any better. and if they're 40's and single, are you sure they aren't gay? (gay is a word i've noticed you like to use A LOT)
So today at work im looking at a couple of co-workers who are in their late 30's and early 40's and single no kids nada they aint even dating no one....like geeez how boring can sonmeone feel at that age when alot of other people r already getting married or at least in long term relationships...living in common law etc etc.....are u at that point? or has it come across your mind? that u r at a certain high peak in your age and ur scared that if it hasent happened it wont most likely happen anymore......
but in all honesty as you get older your not going to wanna settle down? wouldnt it suck when u reach the age of 50 or more and to have never felt the feeling of love or have a companion for the remaining years of your life ?......if u dont care than ill flat out take off my hat to you godo! 
