Can 2 Ex's be Friends??

GENIE · Foro Master

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Can 2 Ex's be Friends??

X4v13r · Comandante

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Originally posted by: FEA
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i know tell me about it! jajaja"

hey, we are still learning, we are allowed to make mistakes

FEA · Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: X4v13r
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funny how one experience can change ur whole way of thinking
thats y GENIE and TV Buff are correct, it all depends, many factors can affect a decision "

i know tell me about it! jajaja

X4v13r · Comandante

quote:
Originally posted by: FEA
"i changed my mind, exes can only be friends if the relationship ended in good terms.
if not then forget it."

funny how one experience can change ur whole way of thinking

thats y GENIE and TV Buff are correct, it all depends, many factors can affect a decision

FEA · Guru

i changed my mind, exes can only be friends if the relationship ended in good terms.
if not then forget it.

Yesi · Guru

@ Princesa, Yo pienso que depende de cuanto tiempo saliste con la persona, si fue algo rapido y la verdad no llegaron a sentir amor then it is possible, pero si paso mucho de por medio, you know what I mean, then I think that it is impossible.

I mean I agree with everyone here, if you still have feelings for that person it is impossible to be friends.

Yesi

Confesiones · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Anonymous
" i know i'm funny..... sometimes way too funny!! whatever! lolbut this another one guys!!check this out!...............ta ta ta TAAAAAAAAA@N!!!!********************************************how many of you have your "EXs" in el foro?? COME ON!! share w/US!! hehey HAGAN UNA BULLA!!! *** **********************************"

DOH!!
OOPSs! THAT WAS ME AGAIN....

GENIE · Foro Master

quote:
Originally posted by: Confesiones
"NICE TOPIC GUYS!!NOW MY QUESTION IS...TA TA TA TAANNNNN....>>> ????What if you EX' is married ??would that be an impediment or obstacle to be friends (At least!)because her/his "long term partner" gets ****ed off (or F..k..g jealous)when they see "him/her" around??that HAD happened to most of my buddies...so i'd say IT IS AN OBSTACLE to be friends then.But the funny thing is, BOTH sides agree on being good friends..."

CONFESIONES CONFESIONES GOOD QUESTION!!

Coming from someone who is in that situation i can tell u this if its just friendship the other person should not worry at all!! My Ex boyfriend is married and there is so much history there that i mean it would be sad for us not to talk but At first she was jelous couldnt even see me in picture but now she says hi we are respectfull toward each other. So i mean if you truly want to remain friends and ur partners are GROWN UPS then i dont see a problem.

Date: Jan 19 3:00 PM, 2005

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Originally posted by: PRINCESSA
" @ Confessions........ur too funny....., when you go to marriage, it's a whole new topic. I think if thier is kids in the middle, then you both parents should be with other mature partners that will actually understand that ur past partner & urself will always have a huge bond & that communication & respect is the only way it will work for the kids sake. Now if thier is no kids, well it will be up to you & ur Ex. "

i know i'm funny..... sometimes way too funny!! whatever! lol

but this another one guys!!
check this out!
...............

ta ta ta TAAAAAAAAA@N!!!!

*****

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how many of you have your "EXs" in el foro??

COME ON!! share w/US!! hehe

y HAGAN UNA BULLA!!!

*** ******
****************************

TV Buff · TOP Guru

quote:
Originally posted by: Confesiones
"NICE TOPIC GUYS!!NOW MY QUESTION IS...TA TA TA TAANNNNN....>>> ????What if you EX' is married ??would that be an impediment or obstacle to be friends (At least!)because her/his "long term partner" gets ****ed off (or F..k..g jealous)when they see "him/her" around??that HAD happened to most of my buddies...so i'd say IT IS AN OBSTACLE to be friends then.But the funny thing is, BOTH sides agree on being good friends..."

In this case, it's a whole new ball game... spouses are not as disposable as boyfriends/girlfriends, and you do have to consider a lot more carefully how they feel having you be friends with your ex or the other way around. It might get a little uncomfortable and weird.
But like I said, if there's absolutely no feelings left, and they have an open, mature relationship, it is possible, depending on how secure and comfortable the other person is having an ex around? En lo personal, I don't want any exes around my guy and I'm ABSOLUTELY SURE he wouldn't want any of my exes around either.

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

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Originally posted by: DJ Gamboa
" This sounds like my type of subject hehehehe Be carefull princessa stuff like this is tough to be around and at the same time you miss them but do what your heart desires and dont listen to no ones advice but your heart that never lies. DJ Gamboa"

Hey.....glad you enjoy my topic...hahaha

It's nice what you wrote...tks. I agree, ur heart can't be too off.

@ Confessions........ur too funny....., when you go to marriage, it's a whole new topic. I think if thier is kids in the middle, then you both parents should be with other mature partners that will actually understand that ur past partner & urself will always have a huge bond & that communication & respect is the only way it will work for the kids sake. Now if thier is no kids, well it will be up to you & ur Ex.

Confesiones · TOP Guru

NICE TOPIC GUYS!!
NOW MY QUESTION IS...

TA TA TA TAANNNNN

....
>>>

????

What if you EX' is married ??
would that be an impediment or obstacle to be friends (At least!)
because her/his "long term partner" gets ****ed off (or F..k..g jealous)
when they see "him/her" around??
that HAD happened to most of my buddies...
so i'd say IT IS AN OBSTACLE to be friends then.
But the funny thing is, BOTH sides agree on being good friends...

DJ Gamboa · Senior Member

quote:
Originally posted by: PRINCESSA
"Just a Question??? If you start seeing, dating or going out with someone & everything is so good & perfect, but for whatever reasons....something unexpected happens & that person gets hurt or changes how they feel towards you, but claims that we can stay friends?? Can that really be TRUE???? Or is this Un-realistic??? Now keep in mind you still care about this person...but they Don't. Can you be friends & just that??? "

This sounds like my type of subject hehehehe

Be carefull princessa stuff like this is tough to be around and at the same time you miss them but do what your heart desires and dont listen to no ones advice but your heart that never lies.

DJ Gamboa

X4v13r · Comandante

I agree with GENIE and TV Buff, i couldn't have said it better myself.

TV Buff · TOP Guru

Can two exes be friends? NOOOO! Well, depende. Si todavia hay cenizas donde hubo fuego, no way, but if either one still has feelings for the other one, then maybe you shouldn't. Mind you, I see people that I've dated and that I was CRAZY about, and I think to myself, man, was I nuts? And I could totally be friends with them.
But if you're friends and you still have feelings for him, and maybe he doesn't, then you're just setting yourself up for some major heartbreak.

-- Edited by TV Buff at 12:17, 2005-01-19

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

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Originally posted by: GENIE
"I Disagree with u Confundida -- i think it all depends one the terms u both broke up on you see if he says just friends cuz he doesnt feel for u then yeah but let time pass before u start being friends cuz if there are feelings on ur side its gonna hurt!! BUT if cuz of cheating helll no!! But i dont see why not i mean he/she meant so much too u at one point then why not just friends maybe he/she will realize what they have truly missed out on!!"

Ya....i guess you have a good point on being friends and then that other person realizing....what they truly missed out......too bad i didn't think of it.

GENIE · Foro Master

I Disagree with u Confundida -- i think it all depends one the terms u both broke up on you see if he says just friends cuz he doesnt feel for u then yeah but let time pass before u start being friends cuz if there are feelings on ur side its gonna hurt!! BUT if cuz of cheating helll no!! But i dont see why not i mean he/she meant so much too u at one point then why not just friends maybe he/she will realize what they have truly missed out on!!

confundida · Foro Master

NO! NO! NO!

I MEAN FOR WHAT??
U KNOW THAT UR EVENTUALLY GOING TO GET INTO A FIGHT ABOUT IT??
IM TALKING ABOUT IT CUZ IM GOING THRU IT
PORKE SIEMPRE ESE DIA KE LO TE ECHAN EN CARA
SO FORGET THE HEADACHE!!!!

FEA · Guru

i think it's possible if there are no feeling involved. i'm in good terms with all
my exes but it's not like we hand out.

God · TOP Guru

Yes...... you can.....it is hard but you can do it......My Ex Fiance is my best friend.....all depends if you can get rid of the "feelings"

PRINCESSA · TOP Guru

Just a Question???

If you start seeing, dating or going out with someone & everything is so good & perfect, but for whatever reasons....something unexpected happens & that person gets hurt or changes how they feel towards you, but claims that we can stay friends??

Can that really be TRUE???? Or is this Un-realistic???

Now keep in mind you still care about this person...but they Don't. Can you be friends & just that???