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Originally posted by: Jessica
"Bueno lo siento si no me entienden  solo ke no me gusta escribir en ingles ademas ke mi ingles es muy malo   asi ke los ke no entienden perdonen y para los ke entienden la q y la ch no me gusta tp asi ke naa lo siento un beso xao"

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yo te entiendo jessica y mi español es peor que mi ingles! so how do you people not understand?

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Originally posted by: Yesi
"OMG, no sabia que el español fuera tan complicado Yesi"

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I stopped reading after the fourth line... it gave me a headache... I would say to Jessica stick to English, but what if that's worse?

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Originally posted by: Jessica
"Hola de  nuevo y gracia spro el rescivimiento espeor ke entiendan mi epsanol yo la verda dke no me gusta escribir en ingles asi ke naa y acerca de la infidelidad para mi infidelidad es  tener sexo con una persona ke no es tuppareja un beso sno significs muxo aunke si es un comienzo y ke se yo acerca del amor a lo mejor si no me haya enamorado   nunca y no lo haya sentido pero sigo creyendpo ke es una ilucion  es algo ke no dura muxo ke se vuelve monotano con el tiempo por eso creo ke no existe ke es ilucion ke dura poko ke se tome carino es diferente a amor yo podria decir ke el amor es algo ke no se puede describri si es ke existe la verdad ke no se  un saludo gente cuidensen xao besitos"

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ESPAÑOL POR FAVOR....

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Originally posted by: Jessica
"Hola de  nuevo y gracia spro el rescivimiento espeor ke entiendan mi epsanol yo la verda dke no me gusta escribir en ingles asi ke naa y acerca de la infidelidad para mi infidelidad es  tener sexo con una persona ke no es tuppareja un beso sno significs muxo aunke si es un comienzo y ke se yo acerca del amor a lo mejor si no me haya enamorado   nunca y no lo haya sentido pero sigo creyendpo ke es una ilucion  es algo ke no dura muxo ke se vuelve monotano con el tiempo por eso creo ke no existe ke es ilucion ke dura poko
ke se tome carino es diferente a amor yo podria decir ke el amor es algo ke no se puede describri si es ke existe la verdad ke no se  un saludo gente cuidensen xao besitos"

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Oh Jessica I need close caption to understand you....say it Again pls....

OK GOOD CUZ IVE BEEN TOLD THAT I CORRUPT PPL......
 
SO BE AWARE!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by: confundida
"@FEA AND PRINCESSA??   KE UDS DOS SON SANTAS???   I DONT THINK WE CAN HANG OUT ANYMORE   "

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Confundida........se te olvida que yo dije que era Mother Teresa....lol. Y fea mi ayudante.

No just kidding........we'r Santas pero con exceptions.

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Originally posted by: FEA
" @X@vier i meant males and females don't get defensive now jaja when you're writing in spanish and refering to both sexes don't you just use the male term? if i'm wrong then i mean......."pobre todos los/las cheaters" "

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@ Fea..........well i guess that me & you will be the only ones without this detector.

Also ............imaginate alll my guys are going to be saltando....empesando con el BUG. hahahahah

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Originally posted by: X4v13r
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lol
FEA that would be gr8 if u invent something like that but y do u only refer to guys as being cheaters when girls do it too? FEA: "pobre todos los cheaters"

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@X@vier i meant males and females don't get defensive now jaja

when you're writing in spanish and refering to both sexes don't you just use the male term?
if i'm wrong then i mean......."pobre todos los/las cheaters"

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Originally posted by: FEA
"that's it, i'm gonna invent a cheating detector so we don't have to
stress about it any more. it's gonna be one of those that shock you
with electricity! pobre todos los cheaters, they're gonna be walking
down the street saltando jajaja "

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lol
FEA that would be gr8 if u invent something like that but y do u only refer to guys as being cheaters when girls do it too? FEA: "pobre todos los cheaters"

UNA PREGUNTA...........
 
A QUE LLAMAN LA INFIDELIDAD????
 
UN BESO, HABLAR CON OTRA PERSONA, ACOSTARSE CON OTRA........
 

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Originally posted by: X4v13r
"hey jessica and welcome to ur little community I agree with u on ur definition of infidelidad but i have to disagree with u on ur concept about love. I believe that love does existe y no es un acto de ilucion because if it was that way you would feel the same way about every1. Every1 se iluciona when u meet some1 new but not all of them will get to that level where they get separated from the rest. Todos te pueden aser ilucionar, pero muy pocos seran los que te agan sentir ese amor que es muy especial "

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Ya.........cheating is horrible, unfortunatly we gotta live with it....becuase we never know if could happen to any of us. But to say that love doesn't exsist or its an ilusion.....then who said this has issues.

La infidelidad .... ke se puede decir es un  deseo de la carne ke los humanos no puede evitar  el amor por otro lado para mi no existe es solo  un acto de ilucion y alucinacion por eso no creo ke se puede confiar en alguien ke diga ke ama  podria confiar mas en alguien ke diga relamente lo ke piensa y kiere en alguien ke diga ke ama la infidelidad esta ahi porke es carnal es sexo y eso a todo el mundo le gusta un saludo es muy poko encontrar a alguien ke sea totalmente fuerte en decir ke no a la infidelidad  ok chikillos un saludo cuidarse adios

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Originally posted by: Yesi
"Definatelly, I agree with everyone here. @TV BUFF, no thank god is not me.  But is a very close friend and she keeps asking for my opinion honestly I do not know what to say. I mean I think that if someone loves you, they will not cheat on you right???

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You would hope that if someone loves you, they wouldn't cheat, but to tell you the truth, I am so desconfiada, que no pongo mi mano en el fuego to guarantee that I'm not being cheated on. Until I see it, then I won't do anything about it, though, but you never know... You hope the person sees the value in you and if they don't then it's their loss, right? All you can do is be yourself and give what you can give in the relationship, and if then don't care for it, then too bad. Tell your friend not to worry too much, pero siempre estar un poquito alerta, eh?

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Originally posted by: Chilenita
"Is anyone meant to be with ONLY one person for the rest of their lives???????  I think that women used to not be able to seperate sex from emotion but that has CHANGED.  Women are just as bad. It's all about what you find out and what you are willing to put up with.  If I catch you .....It was nice knowing you...."

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Hi Chilenita.......well I don't agree with cheating, but ur right....."what you don't know, won't hurt" But if you do find out....it's not pretty.

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Originally posted by: Chilenita
"Is anyone meant to be with ONLY one person for the rest of their lives??????? 
I think that women used to not be able to seperate sex from emotion but that has CHANGED.  Women are just as bad.
It's all about what you find out and what you are willing to put up with.  If I catch you .....It was nice knowing you...."

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so what u r trying to say is, that if u don't catch the person is okay

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Originally posted by: Confesiones
"that new pic, suits you "guru"...lol"

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LOL!!! thnx Confesiones but u r taking ANOTHER thread off topic again

back on topic PLZ!!!



P.S.

thats really me

well, if u really love that person there is no need to be infiel with that person
and i know this from experience.
like i said in my other post is about respect and the way u feel about it, not all guys are the same, just like girls are not always good girls.

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Originally posted by: Yesi
"Definatelly, I agree with everyone here.
@TV BUFF, no thank god is not me.  But is a very close friend and she keeps asking for my opinion honestly I do not know what to say. I mean I think that if someone loves you, they will not cheat on you right???
Anyway, after I read everyones comment I guess there is only one conclusion, I will never understand the people who cheat no matter if it is a girl or a guy.
Yesi"

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@Yesi:
Sweety, there is nothing to understand with this one. Simplemente si el hombre/mujer es infiel siempre lo sera si decides aguantarlo. A person cheats when they don't respect nor love the other person. It's simple as that. The best solution is to get the hell out of the relationship. It may not be the easiest solution, but it is the best, especially if the cheater is a repeat offender. No woman/man deserves to be put second best. Trust me, once you leave you may feel lonely, empty, depressed, but it can only last so long. Just make sure that your friends are there in moments of weakness (i.e. calling the ex "to chat"). Don't do anything destructive, alcohol, drugs or suicide - not worth it. Just stupid. Like the old saying goes :
"If you are going through hell, keep going!"
Once you get back to your old self again, then start looking - if you want - for somebody deserving of you love and time.

Cheating hurts, it is demeaning and most of all it's nasty, think STDs!

Definatelly, I agree with everyone here.

@TV BUFF, no thank god is not me.  But is a very close friend and she keeps asking for my opinion honestly I do not know what to say. I mean I think that if someone loves you, they will not cheat on you right???

Anyway, after I read everyones comment I guess there is only one conclusion, I will never understand the people who cheat no matter if it is a girl or a guy.

Yesi

who said that we were talking about the ladies in the show?????????

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Originally posted by: GENIE
"     Coming from a person who has seen her parents marrige fall apart yeah it does but its the women who puts up with it! i have a half sister who is 5 mths older then me u go figure!! But also from someone who is divorcing becasue of that you can put a stop to it cuz no matter how u feel for the person if they cheat its cuz theres something wrong not with them or the other person but in the relationship!!! Difference is no children involved now if there is thats harder!! "

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so that why u mentioned that "desperate housewifes" is so popular why u were one of them??????

 

I HAVE TO AGREE WITH GOD....

SEX OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP IS GOOD PERIOD...

HEY I HAVE CHEATED AND IM PROUD OF IT.....

SO IM NOT CONDEMING MEN SINCE I DO IT TOO....

THAT WHY I RATHER BE SINGLE AND DO WHAVETER I WANT TO DO NO COMMITMENTS.......

.......what sucks the most is when you hear about "infidelity" in marriage.
damn!! that's gotta hurt too!!

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Originally posted by: Yesi
"Bueno pregunta para todos chicas y chicos. Mas para los chicos Por que si aman a alguien engañan??? Is it a Macho thing?? Conosco una amiga que a estado con su novio por un buen rato y se acaba de dar cuenta que la engaña no solo una ves pero varias. Pero el le jura que la ama, que nunca mas va a encontrar a alguen como ella?? Es esto posible?, puede alguien amar y engañar al mismo tiempo?? In my opinion this is impossible, what about your??? yesi"

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Esta muy buena la inquietud, pero creo que no hay respuesta segura... es una de esas "what's the meaning of life" kind of questions. Yo creo que es parte how men are raised and socialized; parte insecurity, parte immaturity, parte egoismo y desconsideracion, parte seeing if they can get away with it (oh, yeah, we women ALLOW them to get away with it!!!) y parte just pure stupidity... and that goes for us women too. We cheat too, you know...   And by the way, I really hope it's not you... it hurts to see 8 years go down the drain...