I havent even been here n a long time and didn't you go under another nick before? And you talk about fakes? I don't even wanna ruin my day by getting into it or talking about how you hurt my friend.
i have changed my foro name from time to time but its always Dannyboy
and whose ur friend???? from? name?.....really this must have been a long time if it even happened.....i dont believe u cuz too many fake peeps here have been up on my a$$ for sometime now..and most of what they said was a bunch of BS......
I havent even been here n a long time and didn't you go under another nick before? And you talk about fakes? I don't even wanna ruin my day by getting into it or talking about how you hurt my friend.
geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
You were right. I found "evidence" that he had someone on the side and decided to move on and this made it easier to do so. Now he's been crying begging for forgiveness and wanting to get back with me. No way, Jose. Once a cheater always a cheater.
i think the evidence was already there since day 1 te hiciste la boba en no creerlo nomas .......
i always wanted to ask u something ....u say u "know" me or seen me around aparentemente dijiste que "jugue" con los sentimientos de tu amiga ..riiiiiiiiiiiiiight
i have to recollection if any of that ........i think ur just a fake trying to put others down haaa
geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
You were right. I found "evidence" that he had someone on the side and decided to move on and this made it easier to do so. Now he's been crying begging for forgiveness and wanting to get back with me. No way, Jose. Once a cheater always a cheater.
good for u, so i guess u r single now....... can we see a pic?
geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
You were right. I found "evidence" that he had someone on the side and decided to move on and this made it easier to do so. Now he's been crying begging for forgiveness and wanting to get back with me. No way, Jose. Once a cheater always a cheater.
good for u, so i guess u r single now....... can we see a pic?
geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
You were right. I found "evidence" that he had someone on the side and decided to move on and this made it easier to do so. Now he's been crying begging for forgiveness and wanting to get back with me. No way, Jose. Once a cheater always a cheater.
How you doing?
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geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
You were right. I found "evidence" that he had someone on the side and decided to move on and this made it easier to do so. Now he's been crying begging for forgiveness and wanting to get back with me. No way, Jose. Once a cheater always a cheater.
good for u, so i guess u r single now....... can we see a pic?
geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
You were right. I found "evidence" that he had someone on the side and decided to move on and this made it easier to do so. Now he's been crying begging for forgiveness and wanting to get back with me. No way, Jose. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Quixote wrote:If I may say something... he has been pretty up front with his thoughts and what he wants. I don't see where he is 'playing' you. As they say, you are playing yourself. It is up to you to decide what happens with both of you going forward. All it takes is to say no, never talk to him again and stop complicating the situation.
I agree - it sounds like he is being upfront about what he wants - - - as opposed to leading you on and/or cheating behind your back. Gotta give a guy credit for that... It is up to YOU, Sabrosita, what you do with this relationship.
I say if you do decide to go along with taking a "break" - ensure the break includes breaking off intimacy while the break lasts as well... so the two of you don't continue having sex/making love, while on break and get your feelings further confused.
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I stopped talking to my boyfriend for about a week and a half, because we had our problems and I felt like he had no consideration for my feelings. He is always too busy for me, and I don't feel like I am a priority in his life. We have been together fo about 1 year, and when I try to talk to him about this and tell him it doesn't make me feel loved, he says I'm crazy and he doesn't want to listen to it. I feel like relationships require work, and he thinks that they don't.
A week has gone by with no talking except for fighting through emails/msn. We finally talked last night, and he told me this is hard for him because he is still in love with me. He thinks we need to take a break for a couple months, so we don't fight, but says we should still have sex. He says he can't even think about being with someone else right now because he is so sexually addicted to me. He believes that we need this break. I'm confused. I know we've been fighting a lot but I don't see the purpose of being separated for monthssssss. Is he just trying to get out without hurting me more, or do you think he really wants this time to evaluate what he feels in his heart?
He came over last night. He wanted to have sex but didn't know if it would be a good idea because he didn't want me to get sad. So I pretended it was just sex. Afterward he kept telling me he loved me over and over and wouldn't let me go. He kept hugging and kissing me.
I feel like if this is how it's going to be, I'm just going to try and live like we aren't getting back together. I'm not going to let him think I need him even though I told him I loved him back last night. I'm just going to be independent, finish school, go out with my friends, etc. I never thought it would come to this. Any advice? Can one have felings for another and just have "sex" and forget about the feelings and become emotionally detached?
-- Edited by Sabrosita_Paty at 11:21, 2008-02-12
If I may say something... he has been pretty up front with his thoughts and what he wants. I don't see where he is 'playing' you. As they say, you are playing yourself. It is up to you to decide what happens with both of you going forward. All it takes is to say no, never talk to him again and stop complicating the situation.
geez girl, stop seeing the guy/talking etc... cut him off, the guy knows you still have feelings for him and he is manipulating you for the safe sex you are offering him. I don't want to sound cruel, but he's probably f*cking other ****es and whenever he feels bored or lonely he calls you.
So be strong go out with the girls and make him suffer!
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Never settle to be a booty call, degrating, give ur self respect first & always.
lol What the heck!! how does that make a guy a looser? men r men we crave /hunt for sex ...any oppourtunity we get to get laid we will take it...its a mans nature....one thing women find it hard to understand...
they r the ones who get fooled....and instead of admitting their mistakes they typically vent out their frustrations by blaming and degrading the guy totaly..when in fact they degraded themselves from the get go!!!.....
I stopped talking to my boyfriend for about a week and a half, because we had our problems and I felt like he had no consideration for my feelings. He is always too busy for me, and I don't feel like I am a priority in his life. We have been together fo about 1 year, and when I try to talk to him about this and tell him it doesn't make me feel loved, he says I'm crazy and he doesn't want to listen to it. I feel like relationships require work, and he thinks that they don't.
A week has gone by with no talking except for fighting through emails/msn. We finally talked last night, and he told me this is hard for him because he is still in love with me. He thinks we need to take a break for a couple months, so we don't fight, but says we should still have sex. He says he can't even think about being with someone else right now because he is so sexually addicted to me. He believes that we need this break. I'm confused. I know we've been fighting a lot but I don't see the purpose of being separated for monthssssss. Is he just trying to get out without hurting me more, or do you think he really wants this time to evaluate what he feels in his heart?
He came over last night. He wanted to have sex but didn't know if it would be a good idea because he didn't want me to get sad. So I pretended it was just sex. Afterward he kept telling me he loved me over and over and wouldn't let me go. He kept hugging and kissing me.
I feel like if this is how it's going to be, I'm just going to try and live like we aren't getting back together. I'm not going to let him think I need him even though I told him I loved him back last night. I'm just going to be independent, finish school, go out with my friends, etc. I never thought it would come to this. Any advice? Can one have felings for another and just have "sex" and forget about the feelings and become emotionally detached?
-- Edited by Sabrosita_Paty at 11:21, 2008-02-12
lol!!!!!!! another example of innocent chicken head ladies getting played by bad boys nowadays
a lil advice ....men will say anything just to get some
Thanks for your input guys - I think I know what is right. To just let go of the relationship and move on. It is just doing it that is not so easy. Or at least it appears so much harder than it actually is.
yup is very hard specially when u care for that person but at the same time u have to realized that the other person doesn't feel the same way and if u stay with him in his terms he is going to see u como una idiota/boba and trust me that would hurt a lot more.
Thanks for your input guys - I think I know what is right. To just let go of the relationship and move on. It is just doing it that is not so easy. Or at least it appears so much harder than it actually is.
Can one have felings for another and just have "sex" and forget about the feelings and become emotionally detached?
I think it is generally much easier for a man to have sex without getting his feelings involved, while for the majority of women, sex and feelings/emotions go hand in hand... or maybe that's the way it used to be - maybe now more and more women can just have sex without getting emotionally involved.
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sorry girl but if u let him just have sex whenever he wants, u have basically sold ur soul to the devil, and become just a booty call.
If he wants a break let him have his break but also let him know that u will also be out and about, what he wants is for him to go out and do whatever he wants and at the same time come back to u "a safe place"....... don't be stupid girl and kick him to the curve, if he can't work things out being with u what makes u think he will be able to work things out without u?
is all an act/play for him to get sex without any commitment.
~X
That is more or less how I was thinking. I don't want to be JUST his booty call. I want it all or nothing. It feels that this is not just a temporary break but it is actually a permanent break up.
u know better than all of us put together so....... follow ur heart and do what is best for u and not him.
Sabrosita_Paty wrote: That is more or less how I was thinking. I don't want to be JUST his booty call. I want it all or nothing. It feels that this is not just a temporary break but it is actually a permanent break up.
when guys say they need a break, they're just looking for a nice way to tell you they want to play the field.
and they MIGHT come back to you, if they can't find anything better.
sorry to give it to you harshly, but it's best that you are clear about what's going on.
sorry girl but if u let him just have sex whenever he wants, u have basically sold ur soul to the devil, and become just a booty call.
If he wants a break let him have his break but also let him know that u will also be out and about, what he wants is for him to go out and do whatever he wants and at the same time come back to u "a safe place"....... don't be stupid girl and kick him to the curve, if he can't work things out being with u what makes u think he will be able to work things out without u?
is all an act/play for him to get sex without any commitment.
~X
That is more or less how I was thinking. I don't want to be JUST his booty call. I want it all or nothing. It feels that this is not just a temporary break but it is actually a permanent break up.
sorry girl but if u let him just have sex whenever he wants, u have basically sold ur soul to the devil, and become just a booty call.
If he wants a break let him have his break but also let him know that u will also be out and about, what he wants is for him to go out and do whatever he wants and at the same time come back to u "a safe place"....... don't be stupid girl and kick him to the curve, if he can't work things out being with u what makes u think he will be able to work things out without u?
is all an act/play for him to get sex without any commitment.
I stopped talking to my boyfriend for about a week and a half, because we had our problems and I felt like he had no consideration for my feelings. He is always too busy for me, and I don't feel like I am a priority in his life. We have been together fo about 1 year, and when I try to talk to him about this and tell him it doesn't make me feel loved, he says I'm crazy and he doesn't want to listen to it. I feel like relationships require work, and he thinks that they don't.
A week has gone by with no talking except for fighting through emails/msn. We finally talked last night, and he told me this is hard for him because he is still in love with me. He thinks we need to take a break for a couple months, so we don't fight, but says we should still have sex. He says he can't even think about being with someone else right now because he is so sexually addicted to me. He believes that we need this break. I'm confused. I know we've been fighting a lot but I don't see the purpose of being separated for monthssssss. Is he just trying to get out without hurting me more, or do you think he really wants this time to evaluate what he feels in his heart?
He came over last night. He wanted to have sex but didn't know if it would be a good idea because he didn't want me to get sad. So I pretended it was just sex. Afterward he kept telling me he loved me over and over and wouldn't let me go. He kept hugging and kissing me.
I feel like if this is how it's going to be, I'm just going to try and live like we aren't getting back together. I'm not going to let him think I need him even though I told him I loved him back last night. I'm just going to be independent, finish school, go out with my friends, etc. I never thought it would come to this. Any advice? Can one have felings for another and just have "sex" and forget about the feelings and become emotionally detached?
haaa
how does that make a guy a looser? men r men we crave /hunt for sex ...any oppourtunity we get to get laid we will take it...its a mans nature....one thing women find it hard to understand...
