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What I find funny about this thread is that the men are the ones being called dogs and what not.

But if you look closely to the topic at hand, it goes both ways. Women cheat as much as men, maybe even more. They just know how to hide it better than men because most men don't think their woman would do that to them. I know how it feels to do cheat and be cheated on, so to me, women are as bad as men, maybe worse. but i wouldnt think of expecting foro to call women names for cheating.. oh no.. men are dogs.

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PRINCESSA wrote:

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@ LG & X - i don't get it & I hate u both.

I dont care anymore

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X4v13r wrote:

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@ X - don't get it!

But if ur being nice - tks baby

If ur being mean - I Hate u too.

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get it now?

~X

 

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PRINCESSA wrote:

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@ X - don't get it!

But if ur being nice - tks baby

If ur being mean - I Hate u too.

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I don't think it's necesarily that anyone puts on a show or tries too hard before marriage . . . I think it has more to do with what actually living under the same roof and seeing each other daily and the stresses of married/couple life bring as well... even more so if there is kids involved where they suck the energy out of you and at times make it more stressful in some ways... and leave less time/energy for the romance and intimacy.

Wait till you live with someone and experience it all fisrt hand.

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I agree LGIG...living with someone is just so different. I guess you have to go through it to understand. It works for some....for others not so much. I just think it's unrealistic to assume it will be a bed of roses. Don't know anyone living like that and I know TONS of couples.

 

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Cama de rosas? Maybe al principio, pero de vez en cuando, ni te das cuenta y sale de por ahi una espina que te pincha el chulo!

 

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I don't think it's necesarily that anyone puts on a show or tries too hard before marriage . . . I think it has more to do with what actually living under the same roof and seeing each other daily and the stresses of married/couple life bring as well... even more so if there is kids involved where they suck the energy out of you and at times make it more stressful in some ways... and leave less time/energy for the romance and intimacy.

Wait till you live with someone and experience it all fisrt hand.

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PRINCESSA wrote:

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.....boy I'm WOW to read some stuff. I just can't comprehend.

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keep your handy dandy dictionary by your side!

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Chilenita wrote:

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Look at Jennifer Aniston for example.  Many women would LOVE to look like her and many men would LOVE to have her.  Brad got bored and went with Angelina Jolie.  I am sure it was HOT animal sex with Jolie and that is why he left....now after forming a family with her and seeing her EVERY single day....eating...burping etc....he is probably getting to the bored stage.  If not now then soon enough.

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WHAT???... If you get bored of ANGELINA.. you might as well go gay

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ok this is too long to read......

can u pls stop quoting eachother so much...makes the thread ten times harder to read!!!

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 That's what i'm sayin'

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@ Danny - no worries i won't.

@ Chilenita - yeah I hear ya, but for my brothers & X I would put my hands in fire. I KNOW they never would. It's just not there thing. There soooo good!

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Never say never girl.  Not trying to put any doubts in your mind.  You have a good perception of these men that are in your life, and that's great.  But girl, take it from me, never say never.  Un perro callado come por dos.

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I agree never say never u never know what might go in their minds, the other girls might do thinks to them that the wife or girlfriends wont do, that is why people cheat cause their spouse wont do what other girls do to them

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I don't think that is the only reason.  Men just get bored of the same women over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. 

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good point! reasons why i always aim at the hot looking chics all the time mehh at least someone that i will always be attracted too..

i hate the feeling u get when u walk around the mall with ur significant other and u spot another better attractive person looking at u then u say "geez i could have done better" lol

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Doesn't matter how good looking she is.  You see any hot women walking around and I bet SOMEONE is bored of her.  It's about having something different too not just better.

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thats y relationships should not be based on looks but on how well u guys work together and can solve problems without killing each other first......... y do u think I'm still with Princessa i know she is not the best looking girl around but we get along most of the time

~X



-- Edited by X4v13r at 14:43, 2008-02-08

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but people cheat on people they get along with all the time.  it's not about that.  It's about sex and boredom.

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i get what u r saying

but u have to ask urself "am I ever going to be happy if i cheat every time i get bored?" yes it will bring u happiness, pleasure, whatever u are looking for for that moment but what about the rest of ur life?, thats y i say if i need to cheat to be happy y be with that person? obviously u r not happy and staying with that person is not gonna make it any better........... I don't know maybe just me.....but thats the way i feel about it.

~X

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Bahhhhhh okay let's put it this way.  You are with someone (let's not use poor Prinny's name) for a long time.  You love them.  They love you.  You are married and have kids.  No problem with sex or anything.  Same old...same old year after year.  One day some random lady comes along and is really into you.  She is super hot with a body to kill and has a great personality.  She is sexy.  Meanwhile you go home and there is your wife breast feeding your child...talking to you about bills....so busy with the kids and other things that you are not top priority.  You still love her but here is MIss hot pants wanting to get it on.  You can totally have sex with her and your wife will NEVER EVER in a million years find out.  Marriage will still be normal...once it's done...back to normal.  You are going to say no?  FOREVER...until the day you die?

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u see is not about getting away with something is about living with urself, I guess it all comes to how the person is, I know i would not be able to live with myself knowing that that was done, and karma is a b i t ch. Let me tell u a story, I know a guy that cheated on his wife with her best friend, anyways time has gone by and now he has a new wife but ask him if he is happy or sure of his relationship, well let me tell u the guy sometimes wont go to work because he is scare that she would cheat on him, he doesn't let her go out because of the same reason..........anyways she is about to leave the guy..........so this is what i mean the person would never be happy what goes around comes around.

~X

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@ Danny - no worries i won't.

@ Chilenita - yeah I hear ya, but for my brothers & X I would put my hands in fire. I KNOW they never would. It's just not there thing. There soooo good!

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Never say never girl.  Not trying to put any doubts in your mind.  You have a good perception of these men that are in your life, and that's great.  But girl, take it from me, never say never.  Un perro callado come por dos.

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I agree never say never u never know what might go in their minds, the other girls might do thinks to them that the wife or girlfriends wont do, that is why people cheat cause their spouse wont do what other girls do to them

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I don't think that is the only reason.  Men just get bored of the same women over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. 

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good point! reasons why i always aim at the hot looking chics all the time mehh at least someone that i will always be attracted too..

i hate the feeling u get when u walk around the mall with ur significant other and u spot another better attractive person looking at u then u say "geez i could have done better" lol

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Doesn't matter how good looking she is.  You see any hot women walking around and I bet SOMEONE is bored of her.  It's about having something different too not just better.

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thats y relationships should not be based on looks but on how well u guys work together and can solve problems without killing each other first......... y do u think I'm still with Princessa i know she is not the best looking girl around but we get along most of the time

~X



-- Edited by X4v13r at 14:43, 2008-02-08

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but people cheat on people they get along with all the time.  it's not about that.  It's about sex and boredom.

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i get what u r saying

but u have to ask urself "am I ever going to be happy if i cheat every time i get bored?" yes it will bring u happiness, pleasure, whatever u are looking for for that moment but what about the rest of ur life?, thats y i say if i need to cheat to be happy y be with that person? obviously u r not happy and staying with that person is not gonna make it any better........... I don't know maybe just me.....but thats the way i feel about it.

~X

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Bahhhhhh okay let's put it this way.  You are with someone (let's not use poor Prinny's name) for a long time.  You love them.  They love you.  You are married and have kids.  No problem with sex or anything.  Same old...same old year after year.  One day some random lady comes along and is really into you.  She is super hot with a body to kill and has a great personality.  She is sexy.  Meanwhile you go home and there is your wife breast feeding your child...talking to you about bills....so busy with the kids and other things that you are not top priority.  You still love her but here is MIss hot pants wanting to get it on.  You can totally have sex with her and your wife will NEVER EVER in a million years find out.  Marriage will still be normal...once it's done...back to normal.  You are going to say no?  FOREVER...until the day you die?

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Colombiana4Life wrote:

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X4v13r wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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X4v13r wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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PRINCESSA wrote:

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@ Danny - no worries i won't.

@ Chilenita - yeah I hear ya, but for my brothers & X I would put my hands in fire. I KNOW they never would. It's just not there thing. There soooo good!

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Never say never girl.  Not trying to put any doubts in your mind.  You have a good perception of these men that are in your life, and that's great.  But girl, take it from me, never say never.  Un perro callado come por dos.

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I agree never say never u never know what might go in their minds, the other girls might do thinks to them that the wife or girlfriends wont do, that is why people cheat cause their spouse wont do what other girls do to them

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I don't think that is the only reason.  Men just get bored of the same women over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. 

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good point! reasons why i always aim at the hot looking chics all the time mehh at least someone that i will always be attracted too..

i hate the feeling u get when u walk around the mall with ur significant other and u spot another better attractive person looking at u then u say "geez i could have done better" lol

-- Edited by Danny_C at 14:24, 2008-02-08

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Doesn't matter how good looking she is.  You see any hot women walking around and I bet SOMEONE is bored of her.  It's about having something different too not just better.

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thats y relationships should not be based on looks but on how well u guys work together and can solve problems without killing each other first......... y do u think I'm still with Princessa i know she is not the best looking girl around but we get along most of the time

~X



-- Edited by X4v13r at 14:43, 2008-02-08

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but people cheat on people they get along with all the time.  it's not about that.  It's about sex and boredom.

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i get what u r saying

but u have to ask urself "am I ever going to be happy if i cheat every time i get bored?" yes it will bring u happiness, pleasure, whatever u are looking for for that moment but what about the rest of ur life?, thats y i say if i need to cheat to be happy y be with that person? obviously u r not happy and staying with that person is not gonna make it any better........... I don't know maybe just me.....but thats the way i feel about it.

~X

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I totally agree with you.  I have always had that mentality that if someone wants to go around messing with others, then WHY BOTHER BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. Better to not get involved, that way you do whatever da **** you want without repercussions, no strings attached.

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Colombiana4Life wrote:

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X4v13r wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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X4v13r wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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Danny_C wrote:

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Chilenita wrote:

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El Duro wrote:

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PRINCESSA wrote:

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@ Danny - no worries i won't.

@ Chilenita - yeah I hear ya, but for my brothers & X I would put my hands in fire. I KNOW they never would. It's just not there thing. There soooo good!

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Never say never girl.  Not trying to put any doubts in your mind.  You have a good perception of these men that are in your life, and that's great.  But girl, take it from me, never say never.  Un perro callado come por dos.

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I agree never say never u never know what might go in their minds, the other girls might do thinks to them that the wife or girlfriends wont do, that is why people cheat cause their spouse wont do what other girls do to them

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I don't think that is the only reason.  Men just get bored of the same women over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. 

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good point! reasons why i always aim at the hot looking chics all the time mehh at least someone that i will always be attracted too..

i hate the feeling u get when u walk around the mall with ur significant other and u spot another better attractive person looking at u then u say "geez i could have done better" lol

-- Edited by Danny_C at 14:24, 2008-02-08

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Doesn't matter how good looking she is.  You see any hot women walking around and I bet SOMEONE is bored of her.  It's about having something different too not just better.

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thats y relationships should not be based on looks but on how well u guys work together and can solve problems without killing each other first......... y do u think I'm still with Princessa i know she is not the best looking girl around but we get along most of the time

~X



-- Edited by X4v13r at 14:43, 2008-02-08

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but people cheat on people they get along with all the time.  it's not about that.  It's about sex and boredom.

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i get what u r saying

but u have to ask urself "am I ever going to be happy if i cheat every time i get bored?" yes it will bring u happiness, pleasure, whatever u are looking for for that moment but what about the rest of ur life?, thats y i say if i need to cheat to be happy y be with that person? obviously u r not happy and staying with that person is not gonna make it any better........... I don't know maybe just me.....but thats the way i feel about it.

~X

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I totally agree with you.  I have always had that mentality that if someone wants to go around messing with others, then WHY BOTHER BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP. Better to not get involved, that way you do whatever da **** you want without repercussions, no strings attached.

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Chilenita wrote:

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@ Danny - no worries i won't.

@ Chilenita - yeah I hear ya, but for my brothers & X I would put my hands in fire. I KNOW they never would. It's just not there thing. There soooo good!

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Never say never girl.  Not trying to put any doubts in your mind.  You have a good perception of these men that are in your life, and that's great.  But girl, take it from me, never say never.  Un perro callado come por dos.

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I agree never say never u never know what might go in their minds, the other girls might do thinks to them that the wife or girlfriends wont do, that is why people cheat cause their spouse wont do what other girls do to them

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I don't think that is the only reason.  Men just get bored of the same women over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. 

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good point! reasons why i always aim at the hot looking chics all the time mehh at least someone that i will always be attracted too..

i hate the feeling u get when u walk around the mall with ur significant other and u spot another better attractive person looking at u then u say "geez i could have done better" lol

-- Edited by Danny_C at 14:24, 2008-02-08

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Doesn't matter how good looking she is.  You see any hot women walking around and I bet SOMEONE is bored of her.  It's about having something different too not just better.

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thats y relationships should not be based on looks but on how well u guys work together and can solve problems without killing each other first......... y do u think I'm still with Princessa i know she is not the best looking girl around but we get along most of the time

~X



-- Edited by X4v13r at 14:43, 2008-02-08

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but people cheat on people they get along with all the time.  it's not about that.  It's about sex and boredom.

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i get what u r saying

but u have to ask urself "am I ever going to be happy if i cheat every time i get bored?" yes it will bring u happiness, pleasure, whatever u are looking for for that moment but what about the rest of ur life?, thats y i say if i need to cheat to be happy y be with that person? obviously u r not happy and staying with that person is not gonna make it any better........... I don't know maybe just me.....but thats the way i feel about it.

~X

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