Unfortunatly the lawyer is right, she is entitled to half bc of what the papers are showing both of there names.
But I don't know, see, you never lived with that person before and you decide to buy a hose together ? I mean I will never do that. First try it out see if it works and the n buy the damn house. Putting aside that both had cheated on each other is not even the reason why that is the way it should be done but more to see if under the same roof you are compatible.
But to go back to your questions :
1- I don't go through he phone....doing a pretty good job in resisting the tentation...sorry i am a girl after all !!! Plus it is a question of trust. If no trust, no relationship.
2- No, not my style...I don't need either pple's cash to get on with my life but you have to understand that event if she wasn't a blanca paloma either, he for sure put himself in a bad situation and she is just trying to get back @ him. I am not even sure she is making it for the money.
3- More than an advice, I would first tell him/her what I eally think about it and what are the facts and that most likely he/she will have to live with the consequences.
HOSES are cheap... let her keep the hose! After all, how often does one water the garden!
(Sorry Julz - I just couldn't resist!)
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Unfortunatly the lawyer is right, she is entitled to half bc of what the papers are showing both of there names.
But I don't know, see, you never lived with that person before and you decide to buy a hose together ? I mean I will never do that. First try it out see if it works and the n buy the damn house. Putting aside that both had cheated on each other is not even the reason why that is the way it should be done but more to see if under the same roof you are compatible.
But to go back to your questions :
1- I don't go through he phone....doing a pretty good job in resisting the tentation...sorry i am a girl after all !!! Plus it is a question of trust. If no trust, no relationship.
2- No, not my style...I don't need either pple's cash to get on with my life but you have to understand that event if she wasn't a blanca paloma either, he for sure put himself in a bad situation and she is just trying to get back @ him. I am not even sure she is making it for the money.
3- More than an advice, I would first tell him/her what I eally think about it and what are the facts and that most likely he/she will have to live with the consequences.
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1. You found a text from another on your significant others phone??? Depends what the text message actually says ("hi old lost friend" would seem harmless in comparison to something that says "if your bf/hubby isn't home call me tonite") A simple explanation may be ok for the first; and a "Get your sheit and leave right now" may better fit the second. 2. Would you try to take more than is rightfully yours??? I am not very materialistic. I take what I need, she can keep the rest - Goodbye! 3. As a close friend, what advice would you give him or her??? again - depends on the nature of the txt. IF there is signs there's cheating. I would just tell him to really think twice about his current relationship and to evaluate for himself whether he should stay or move on.
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Where they living together? Because if they were just GF and BF, why is she expecting to get anything at all?
They lived together for 3 weeks until it all blew up. They were just gf and bf, however they had purchased the house well over a year ago. His lawyer told him that since they purchased a lot together, and both names appear on all documents, they technically became common law of a property (or something along those lines) so that is why she entitled to pursue for half, because they owned the property for over a year and a half.
She only put in 5%. He's the one with the $$$, so that is why she is being a B!tch, because she is going after something that is not rightfully hers.
damm yoo .....i think ur boy is making a whole issue out of all this. they were both at fault before.....so he should jus drop the whole thing and move on.....whats done is done...
i was in a similar situation b4...so i didnt feel too much of an ass when i found out the girl i was seeing was cheating on me to
Its not him that is making the issue here. If it were up to him, he would just give her the money she put in and would happily walk away.
She is going after him, she wants half of his assets.
Where they living together? Because if they were just GF and BF, why is she expecting to get anything at all?
They bought a house together and a month into living with each other, she moved out.
The thing is she put down about 20% and he put the rest. She's going through her lawyer demanding that she get 50% back.
well she wont get it, she will only get the 20% of what she put in... now if she was there for longer then she would get the 50% or they would sell the house and get half and half that is how the law works. her lawyer is just taking money from her.. and he is probaly telling her that she will get half which is bull sh it
damm yoo .....i think ur boy is making a whole issue out of all this. they were both at fault before.....so he should jus drop the whole thing and move on.....whats done is done...
i was in a similar situation b4...so i didnt feel too much of an ass when i found out the girl i was seeing was cheating on me to
damm yoo .....i think ur boy is making a whole issue out of all this. they were both at fault before.....so he should jus drop the whole thing and move on.....whats done is done...
i was in a similar situation b4...so i didnt feel too much of an ass when i found out the girl i was seeing was cheating on me to
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So a while back, my friend received a text from someone he had on the side. His gf at the time saw the text, and to make a long story short they are no longer together. But, he later finds out that she was also cheating on him. And is now living with that same guy she was cheating with. Now she's being a total b!tch, and is trying to screw him over, and she is going for more that what she rightfully deserves.
So, what would you do if ...
1. You found a text from another on your significant others phone??? 2. Would you try to take more than is rightfully yours??? 3. As a close friend, what advice would you give him or her???
1. If I found a text on my beloved MJ's phone, I would immediately say WTF???
2. Being a guy, I don't think the courts would give me anything more, however, I would never try to take something from someone that is not rightfully mine.
3. I told him to be patient, and to not talk to her directly to go through the lawyers. I know if he talks to her, it would just get him into more trouble.
