that saying: "Ojos que no ven, corazon que no siente" it does come true for some, but personally if you are going to be sleeping around then don't have a g/f or b/f or a "relationship", and whoever does this type of thing... just have either low self respect/dignity or nothing at all...
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@ El mismo - cause girls take sex sooo easy, likes it's nada. I think mothers have to get tougher & teach them a bit more. I'm not sayin that sex is wrong, but to go around puttin out to any1 just cause u got hot/horny or watever is PATHETIC of any girl. sorri.
BTW I couldn't either cuase it's wrong all around & why should I give any guy a piece of me, just cause. No way, girls need to get standards, self -respect, etc. So sad.
Its getting harder and harder to find girls like you say..
BTW I couldn't either cuase it's wrong all around & why should I give any guy a piece of me, just cause. No way, girls need to get standards, self -respect, etc. So sad.
BTW I couldn't either cuase it's wrong all around & why should I give any guy a piece of me, just cause. No way, girls need to get standards, self -respect, etc. So sad.
MJ- girls like these are the ones that make the good ones like us look bad. This girl has a good guy that loves her, who worships the ground she walks on. And what does she think? oh, well that it would be a good idea to have sex with someone else. I mean, it makes total sense
Why do women, who have it good, rather look for a prick that could potentially make their life miserable?
I don't get it.
I hope for that guy's sake, that he finds a girl worth his caring.
Perhaps she is bored with him or not really in love with him.
She should just break up with him and play the field.
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RMCA! (rio mi culo afuera?) nvm \lol...i so didnt check the date on ur thread..i was at work on Sabado adn felt like not doin work.
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GinoLatino wrote:
Just an opinion, Probably too late, but the topic is Ojos que no ven corazon que no siente right? If he/she NEVER finds out then no they wont be hurt. theres no way of not understanding that.
BUT.......I was a believer that Karma is just hocus pocus bologni until very recently. It may take a while..it may seem like U can control your guilt/consiencia...but eventually it does bite u in the butt..sometime a bit too hard!
My current partner has no clue....but after 5 years with her, I am now feelin the pain inside...im cryin inside, and nobody knows it but me. Just my opinion, but tell her that even though she may not think that wa now, eventually she will understand it isnt good to play with peoples naiveness, specially when they are in love with her and think she would never do that, only to find out she did.
Wow!!!
Thanks!!!!
That must be your conscience kicking in which I totally believe in. I, myself, am not a believer in karma but I know if I were to do anything, I'd have a devil and an angel on each shoulder driving me insane!!!!
By the way, it's NEVER too late to answer a thread. Hell, sometimes we bring up threads from December 2005!!!!
-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 18:44, 2007-08-12
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MJ- girls like these are the ones that make the good ones like us look bad. This girl has a good guy that loves her, who worships the ground she walks on. And what does she think? oh, well that it would be a good idea to have sex with someone else. I mean, it makes total sense
Why do women, who have it good, rather look for a prick that could potentially make their life miserable?
I don't get it.
I hope for that guy's sake, that he finds a girl worth his caring.
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Just an opinion, Probably too late, but the topic is Ojos que no ven corazon que no siente right? If he/she NEVER finds out then no they wont be hurt. theres no way of not understanding that.
BUT.......I was a believer that Karma is just hocus pocus bologni until very recently. It may take a while..it may seem like U can control your guilt/consiencia...but eventually it does bite u in the butt..sometime a bit too hard!
My current partner has no clue....but after 5 years with her, I am now feelin the pain inside...im cryin inside, and nobody knows it but me. Just my opinion, but tell her that even though she may not think that wa now, eventually she will understand it isnt good to play with peoples naiveness, specially when they are in love with her and think she would never do that, only to find out she did.
Wow!!!
Thanks!!!!
That must be your conscience kicking in which I totally believe in. I, myself, am not a believer in karma but I know if I were to do anything, I'd have a devil and an angel on each shoulder driving me insane!!!!
By the way, it's NEVER too late to answer a thread. Hell, sometimes we bring up threads from December 2005!!!!
-- Edited by Motown Junkie at 18:44, 2007-08-12
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Just an opinion, Probably too late, but the topic is Ojos que no ven corazon que no siente right? If he/she NEVER finds out then no they wont be hurt. theres no way of not understanding that.
BUT.......I was a believer that Karma is just hocus pocus bologni until very recently. It may take a while..it may seem like U can control your guilt/consiencia...but eventually it does bite u in the butt..sometime a bit too hard!
My current partner has no clue....but after 5 years with her, I am now feelin the pain inside...im cryin inside, and nobody knows it but me. Just my opinion, but tell her that even though she may not think that wa now, eventually she will understand it isnt good to play with peoples naiveness, specially when they are in love with her and think she would never do that, only to find out she did.
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Of course what he doesn't know won't hurt him. She is right about that. If she cheats and protects herself against STDs and does it on the down low then how on earth can it hurt him. If he doesn't know about it then it can't possibly hurt him.
Is it right? Who knows it depends on soooooooooo many factors. Is she in love with him? How does SHE define love? Who are we to judge? What are we judging her actions on...... religion - bah!
There are many people who don't associate love with sex it's just unacceptable when it's a woman. Men do this type of thing ALL THE TIME and it's not that big of a deal!!!
Are men and women meant to live together forever and never ever ever sleep with anyone else again?
NOT ONLY DO I HAVE A.D.D today but I have asked more questions and not answered any
Hmmmm...........
Isn't that what marriage is about though???
they AREN'T married yet!
Chi makes some good points though - specially about the double-standard. I still say no one should do it behinds someone else's back - if you want to have more than one partner, go for an "open relationship" where both partners have agreed to it.
Everyone should just swing and then there would be NO CHEATING
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Of course what he doesn't know won't hurt him. She is right about that. If she cheats and protects herself against STDs and does it on the down low then how on earth can it hurt him. If he doesn't know about it then it can't possibly hurt him.
Is it right? Who knows it depends on soooooooooo many factors. Is she in love with him? How does SHE define love? Who are we to judge? What are we judging her actions on...... religion - bah!
There are many people who don't associate love with sex it's just unacceptable when it's a woman. Men do this type of thing ALL THE TIME and it's not that big of a deal!!!
Are men and women meant to live together forever and never ever ever sleep with anyone else again?
NOT ONLY DO I HAVE A.D.D today but I have asked more questions and not answered any
Hmmmm...........
Isn't that what marriage is about though???
they AREN'T married yet!
Chi makes some good points though - specially about the double-standard. I still say no one should do it behinds someone else's back - if you want to have more than one partner, go for an "open relationship" where both partners have agreed to it.
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Are men and women meant to live together forever and never ever ever sleep with anyone else again?
NOT ONLY DO I HAVE A.D.D today but I have asked more questions and not answered any
Hmmmm...........
Isn't that what marriage is about though???
NO way!!! Marriage is about MANY things not just having sex with the same person till you die in fact many people complain about sex life in their marriage. Marriage is certainly not all about sex.
For the record I wouldn't cheat on my husband I just don't judge people who do.
Are they even married?
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Of course what he doesn't know won't hurt him. She is right about that. If she cheats and protects herself against STDs and does it on the down low then how on earth can it hurt him. If he doesn't know about it then it can't possibly hurt him.
Is it right? Who knows it depends on soooooooooo many factors. Is she in love with him? How does SHE define love? Who are we to judge? What are we judging her actions on...... religion - bah!
There are many people who don't associate love with sex it's just unacceptable when it's a woman. Men do this type of thing ALL THE TIME and it's not that big of a deal!!!
Are men and women meant to live together forever and never ever ever sleep with anyone else again?
NOT ONLY DO I HAVE A.D.D today but I have asked more questions and not answered any
Hmmmm...........
Isn't that what marriage is about though???
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Of course what he doesn't know won't hurt him. She is right about that. If she cheats and protects herself against STDs and does it on the down low then how on earth can it hurt him. If he doesn't know about it then it can't possibly hurt him.
Is it right? Who knows it depends on soooooooooo many factors. Is she in love with him? How does SHE define love? Who are we to judge? What are we judging her actions on...... religion - bah!
There are many people who don't associate love with sex it's just unacceptable when it's a woman. Men do this type of thing ALL THE TIME and it's not that big of a deal!!!
Are men and women meant to live together forever and never ever ever sleep with anyone else again?
NOT ONLY DO I HAVE A.D.D today but I have asked more questions and not answered any
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Never cheated. And wouldn't be able to either. Maybe it would help her to know that what she does today, will come back to her in another way. As in, when she does fall in love (as it's obvious she isn't with the currect guy..poor sucker ) she will get hurt byt that guy probably by the same way.
I'm not sure if it's a European thing, hubby is european, his family too, and they are totally AGAINST this behaviour.
Why is she wasting that poor guy's time? has she no soul?
SEE!!! Just like you and Danny said, I brought up the whole karma thing and she rolled her eyes so hard that I started cracking up!!!!
She's a very stubborn girl and could care less about that hocus pocus stuff but I kept telling her that she's got a great guy. She knows that and she "loves" him but she said, "I make love to ******. I'm not going to be making love with this guy."
I really had to think about what she was saying.
Is it possible to have sex without any emotional connection???!!!!
Sure it is possible. But it is usually easier for men than women to keep emotions separate from long term (ongoing) sex / intimacy.
Your friend should weight the fun she will have at "banging" the trainer vs. how she would feel if/when bf finds out and dumps her.
But that's HER point, HE'S NOT going to find out!!!
There's no winning with this woman.
Eventually, HE MIGHT. Especially the way she's not being very discreet about it and she has already shared this with at least one person. If she's willing to take a chance, she obviously don't care much for the bf. If anything, maybe she should be thinking about spicing things up in the bedroom with the bf to keep it exciting... Take the bf to a sex shop and try some new things or something!
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and those r the reasons why im still single.... poor dude shes with is probably some guy that thinks hes on cloud nine with some hot chic that luves him ..
if she does cheat on him...then the nice guy she was once with will probably turn into a prick..trust me lol thats the niceguy/dirtbag cycle..
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Never cheated. And wouldn't be able to either. Maybe it would help her to know that what she does today, will come back to her in another way. As in, when she does fall in love (as it's obvious she isn't with the currect guy..poor sucker ) she will get hurt byt that guy probably by the same way.
I'm not sure if it's a European thing, hubby is european, his family too, and they are totally AGAINST this behaviour.
Why is she wasting that poor guy's time? has she no soul?
SEE!!! Just like you and Danny said, I brought up the whole karma thing and she rolled her eyes so hard that I started cracking up!!!!
She's a very stubborn girl and could care less about that hocus pocus stuff but I kept telling her that she's got a great guy. She knows that and she "loves" him but she said, "I make love to ******. I'm not going to be making love with this guy."
I really had to think about what she was saying.
Is it possible to have sex without any emotional connection???!!!!
Sure it is possible. But it is usually easier for men than women to keep emotions separate from long term (ongoing) sex / intimacy.
Your friend should weight the fun she will have at "banging" the trainer vs. how she would feel if/when bf finds out and dumps her.
But that's HER point, HE'S NOT going to find out!!!
There's no winning with this woman.
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Never cheated. And wouldn't be able to either. Maybe it would help her to know that what she does today, will come back to her in another way. As in, when she does fall in love (as it's obvious she isn't with the currect guy..poor sucker ) she will get hurt byt that guy probably by the same way.
I'm not sure if it's a European thing, hubby is european, his family too, and they are totally AGAINST this behaviour.
Why is she wasting that poor guy's time? has she no soul?
SEE!!! Just like you and Danny said, I brought up the whole karma thing and she rolled her eyes so hard that I started cracking up!!!!
She's a very stubborn girl and could care less about that hocus pocus stuff but I kept telling her that she's got a great guy. She knows that and she "loves" him but she said, "I make love to ******. I'm not going to be making love with this guy."
I really had to think about what she was saying.
Is it possible to have sex without any emotional connection???!!!!
Sure it is possible. But it is usually easier for men than women to keep emotions separate from long term (ongoing) sex / intimacy.
Your friend should weight the fun she will have at "banging" the trainer vs. how she would feel if/when bf finds out and dumps her.
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LGigolo AKA HOMO wrote: I DO NOT DISCRIMINATE!!!: I like both men and women actually men more!since im full infatuated with danny i have to mention his name on each and every single one of my posts.
Of course it's possible to have sex just because. It's pure LUST, which doesn't last very long. All carnal desires.
But still, it's stupid to me the way she thinks. Does she even think about how the guy she's with would feel if he ever found out? What if he went out and did another girl just because? would she say 'oh that's ok, he makes love to me, and it's jusr sex with her' ?
Honestly, it's the same penis, so i don't see the difference. Unless he's got Mr.Potatoe head capabilities.
That's what I SAID which led her to say, "What I don't know and what he doesn't know, won't kill us, right!!!" You see??!!!!
So I did this "Yeah but..........what about your conscience?"
and she laughed at me.
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Guadalupana wrote:. Does she even think about how the guy she's with would feel if he ever found out?
thats why she should flat out say what she feels ASAP
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LGigolo AKA HOMO wrote: I DO NOT DISCRIMINATE!!!: I like both men and women actually men more!since im full infatuated with danny i have to mention his name on each and every single one of my posts.
Of course it's possible to have sex just because. It's pure LUST, which doesn't last very long. All carnal desires.
But still, it's stupid to me the way she thinks. Does she even think about how the guy she's with would feel if he ever found out? What if he went out and did another girl just because? would she say 'oh that's ok, he makes love to me, and it's jusr sex with her' ?
Honestly, it's the same penis, so i don't see the difference. Unless he's got Mr.Potatoe head capabilities.
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yes i know^^ but i ment it more on a honesty view...without beating around the bush around...people should just say what they feel want they want out of the relationship b4 leading on the next person..
as for people with stds'f uffffffffffffff..u gots to just watch out who u have sex with...obviously who in the hell will have a 1 nighter with no condom??lol.....
-- Edited by Danny_Cordova at 15:31, 2007-08-10
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hmm me and ur friend think alike..with the "everyones cheating nowadays" tip lol....i think shes intittled to do what she wants but she should just be straight with her man and tell him..i aint feeling u totaly..at least she wont be going by a lie....that way she wont lead him on
the best thing is honesty ...and by the way shes already thniking lol looks like she can be fully honest...
nowadays we need more females like this...:)...no strings attached..and say what u r really feeling at the moment
...which is why the percentage of people infected with STDs is sky rocketing...
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Never cheated. And wouldn't be able to either. Maybe it would help her to know that what she does today, will come back to her in another way. As in, when she does fall in love (as it's obvious she isn't with the currect guy..poor sucker ) she will get hurt byt that guy probably by the same way.
I'm not sure if it's a European thing, hubby is european, his family too, and they are totally AGAINST this behaviour.
Why is she wasting that poor guy's time? has she no soul?
SEE!!! Just like you and Danny said, I brought up the whole karma thing and she rolled her eyes so hard that I started cracking up!!!!
She's a very stubborn girl and could care less about that hocus pocus stuff but I kept telling her that she's got a great guy. She knows that and she "loves" him but she said, "I make love to ******. I'm not going to be making love with this guy."
I really had to think about what she was saying.
Is it possible to have sex without any emotional connection???!!!!
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Speaking of sleeping aroung, in Montreal, the cases of Herpes and other STD's have risen!!! Eww!
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Motown Junkie wrote: See, she's my friend so I can't call her a whore but......I kind of told her that was $lutty and she said, "Sex is sex. Everyone's cheating nowadays!"
I'm SO interested in this topic. I don't know why, I guess it's just foreign to me.
I agree about the part, if you're not feelin' them then whatever but.........this is totally different.
She's from Europe too so I'm wondering if monogamy is no big deal there.
hmm me and ur friend think alike..with the "everyones cheating nowadays" tip lol....i think shes entittled to do what she wants but she should just be straight with her man and tell him..i aint feeling u totaly..at least she wont be going by a lie....that way she wont lead him on
the best thing is honesty ...and by the way shes already thinking lol looks like she has the potential to be fully honest...
nowadays we need more females like this...:)...no strings attached..and say what u r really feeling at the moment
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if u r not feeling the person y be with them in the first place?
u r just wasting ur time plus u can go around with no1 bothering u, it just makes no sense to me y get into a relationship if u r just going to sleep around
~X
Agree!!!
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Never cheated. And wouldn't be able to either. Maybe it would help her to know that what she does today, will come back to her in another way. As in, when she does fall in love (as it's obvious she isn't with the currect guy..poor sucker ) she will get hurt byt that guy probably by the same way.
I'm not sure if it's a European thing, hubby is european, his family too, and they are totally AGAINST this behaviour.
Why is she wasting that poor guy's time? has she no soul?
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Motown Junkie wrote: See, she's my friend so I can't call her a whore but......I kind of told her that was $lutty and she said, "Sex is sex. Everyone's cheating nowadays!"
I'm SO interested in this topic. I don't know why, I guess it's just foreign to me.
I agree about the part, if you're not feelin' them then whatever but.........this is totally different.
She's from Europe too so I'm wondering if monogamy is no big deal there.
hmm me and ur friend think alike..with the "everyones cheating nowadays" tip lol....i think shes intittled to do what she wants but she should just be straight with her man and tell him..i aint feeling u totaly..at least she wont be going by a lie....that way she wont lead him on
the best thing is honesty ...and by the way shes already thniking lol looks like she can be fully honest...
nowadays we need more females like this...:)...no strings attached..and say what u r really feeling at the moment
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LGigolo AKA HOMO wrote: I DO NOT DISCRIMINATE!!!: I like both men and women actually men more!since im full infatuated with danny i have to mention his name on each and every single one of my posts.
if u r not feeling the person y be with them in the first place?
u r just wasting ur time plus u can go around with no1 bothering u, it just makes no sense to me y get into a relationship if u r just going to sleep around
oh wait!!!!!.. i was no better b4...and ya if i wasent fully feeling the person i was dating at the time....cheating for me was like a mehhh to me...
anyhow what goes around comes around.. if he does cheat on him she will get the pay back.. no avoiding it ..thats the rule of life...and it sucks!!lol
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