I was talking to a friend yesterday about how much talk about sex one does with one's girlfriend/boyfriend/partner (in Danny's case, he can't talk to his hand, so he can stay away from this topic!).

I assume that we ALL talk to our partners about sex - even before we actually get intimate for the very first time.  What they like/dislike, what they enjoy most/least, fantasies, no-no's, etc.  Or is talk just a waste of time and we should just concentrate on doing the deed and getting the job done?

I say it's good to talk the talk, then walk the walk... ask questions, see what is/isn't working and continue improving the encounters with each other and make them more enjoyable every time.