Hola. Por lo general es mas comun que el padre sea el que termine pagando la manutencion que por ley esta fijada para los hijos en caso de separacion o divorcio, basandose por supuesto en muchos factores, un de ellos, el salario neto del padre, pero si tambien el padre puede apelar a aplicar para obtener una manutension economica a la madre, uno de los casos mas especificos es el caso de abandono de hogar por parte de la madre y adulterio comprobado de la misma, abuso infantil de parte de la madre , estos son uno de los tantos casos por los que una mujer puede ser privada a obtener la custodia de los hijos. y por tanto sentenciada a pagar lo que se llama CHILD SUPPORT , de igual manera que el padre. Pero es aconsejable que la persona interesada en este punto visite a un profecional en la rrama en este caso puede ser un abogado especialisado en todo lo concerniente a los intereses de los ninos.Espero que esta informacion sea util para ti.
Jaime Cruz wrote:Do you guys think there should be a cap/maximum amount for child support? I mean I know some people may have to be subsidized if their income is too low, but for average people or rich people should there be a cap? I've met people before who have been paying upwards of $1100 a month just for child support(2kids) I think that is alot considering the mom should have her own income, and may eventually re-marry or be with someone else.
even if a mother re-marrieds someone, that has nothing to do with the child support, It is not the partners responsability to take care of the kid, and I think a father should give child support until the kid finishes school, if the kids stops going to schoold then is a different story.
Julie wrote:@ JC, i think that a parent will stop receiving child support as soon as they remarry no ? Not sure about that one though. I think that per cap. is a good thing bc why would you get the kids, used to a certain standing to go to a lower one if in between both parents they can still maintain it ? Plus 1100 might seems a lot but it is only 550 each per month. how much cost a day care , plus food, extra activities, clothes, etc.... and it's only when the child is young, now imagine with university and all that.
Actually 1100 is not alot... wanna know I much I pay.....
Let's put it this way.....you have to give up to your 30% (+/-) of your Income
-- Edited by God at 13:45, 2007-01-24
30% is alot!!! I hope I don't ever get into a situation like this.
Plus 50% of babysitter, clothing,sports, dentist, bla bla bla....Also you have to consider when you split up you have to give away 50% of your investments (house, stocks, pension plan, rrsp's, ect , etc)
We has guys, we always get the shorter end of the stick...
Julie wrote:@ JC, i think that a parent will stop receiving child support as soon as they remarry no ? Not sure about that one though. I think that per cap. is a good thing bc why would you get the kids, used to a certain standing to go to a lower one if in between both parents they can still maintain it ? Plus 1100 might seems a lot but it is only 550 each per month. how much cost a day care , plus food, extra activities, clothes, etc.... and it's only when the child is young, now imagine with university and all that.
Actually 1100 is not alot... wanna know I much I pay.....
Let's put it this way.....you have to give up to your 30% (+/-) of your Income
-- Edited by God at 13:45, 2007-01-24
30% is alot!!! I hope I don't ever get into a situation like this.
Julie wrote:@ JC, i think that a parent will stop receiving child support as soon as they remarry no ? Not sure about that one though. I think that per cap. is a good thing bc why would you get the kids, used to a certain standing to go to a lower one if in between both parents they can still maintain it ? Plus 1100 might seems a lot but it is only 550 each per month. how much cost a day care , plus food, extra activities, clothes, etc.... and it's only when the child is young, now imagine with university and all that.
Actually 1100 is not alot... wanna know I much I pay.....
Let's put it this way.....you have to give up to your 30% (+/-) of your Income
ok peeps, let's not confuse alimony (money to the spouse) with child support. Child support does not or should not stop if the other parent gets re-married. Just 'cause you marry someone else doesn't mean you are no longer responsible for your kid. It's your kid!
As for child support "caps", as angelita mentioned, it depends on how much the other parent makes. There is a financial chart that both parents have to fill out, detailing all monthly expenses, taking that into consideration, there is a chart or table that judges and lawyers use as a guideline to set child support. Although $1100 a month for 3 kids seems like a lot of money (which it is) it also isn't unreasonable because there are regulations in place that set a "cap" so to speak.
@ JC, i think that a parent will stop receiving child support as soon as they remarry no ? Not sure about that one though.
I think that per cap. is a good thing bc why would you get the kids, used to a certain standing to go to a lower one if in between both parents they can still maintain it ?
Plus 1100 might seems a lot but it is only 550 each per month. how much cost a day care , plus food, extra activities, clothes, etc.... and it's only when the child is young, now imagine with university and all that.
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Jaime Cruz wrote: Do you guys think there should be a cap/maximum amount for child support? I mean I know some people may have to be subsidized if their income is too low, but for average people or rich people should there be a cap? I've met people before who have been paying upwards of $1100 a month just for child support(2kids) I think that is alot considering the mom should have her own income, and may eventually re-marry or be with someone else.
It all depends on how much the other parents income is. The higher they get paid, the higher the child support goes. I have a friend who receives over $1500 for her three kids. Mind you, for three kids you do need a lot of help, money wise. The older they get, the more expensive they get. Unfortunately some woman don't use the money wisely, but others do. My friend uses it for the childrens necessities and puts some aside for college. With three kids, you need a lot of $$ to send them to College. Although, it doesn't matter how much the mohter makes.
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Do you guys think there should be a cap/maximum amount for child support? I mean I know some people may have to be subsidized if their income is too low, but for average people or rich people should there be a cap? I've met people before who have been paying upwards of $1100 a month just for child support(2kids) I think that is alot considering the mom should have her own income, and may eventually re-marry or be with someone else.
Jaime Cruz wrote: I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody?
For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself?
Discuss
Yes. Same rules apply. Reason why you don't see this often is because:
1) Almost 100% of the time the mother is left with the child/children. 2) Historically, men earn more money than women (even for same work, women get less pay) 3) Men are ass holes.
Does that answer the question?
I am sorry but I disagree with that, even if woman are getting money from the man they don't let some man see their kids, cause they feel they are hurting the man that way, n do u think only man are ass holes??? If I am saying this is cause I have a few PPL really close 2 me going through this right now..
Jaime Cruz wrote: I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody?
For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself?
Discuss
Yes. Same rules apply. Reason why you don't see this often is because:
1) Almost 100% of the time the mother is left with the child/children. 2) Historically, men earn more money than women (even for same work, women get less pay) 3) Men are ass holes.
Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
But it's EXTREMELY rare...isn't ?
I think men have a hard time ACCEPTING money from women but there are those that actually request it so who knows? It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!!
I wouldn't have aproblem getting some money from my ex..I would love it !
The only downside of being a single dad...is that you become almost Un-dateable
That's cause you hate your ex!!! I would date a single dad.......why not? As long as his child's mother isn't a nutcase!!!! That's like saying single mothers are undateable!!!
noooo Single moms are HOOOOTTT
Good answer!!!
Plus it is easier for a Single mon to date than a Single dad...
Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
But it's EXTREMELY rare...isn't ?
I think men have a hard time ACCEPTING money from women but there are those that actually request it so who knows? It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!!
I wouldn't have aproblem getting some money from my ex..I would love it !
The only downside of being a single dad...is that you become almost Un-dateable
That's cause you hate your ex!!! I would date a single dad.......why not? As long as his child's mother isn't a nutcase!!!! That's like saying single mothers are undateable!!!
noooo Single moms are HOOOOTTT
Good answer!!!
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Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
But it's EXTREMELY rare...isn't ?
I think men have a hard time ACCEPTING money from women but there are those that actually request it so who knows? It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!!
I wouldn't have aproblem getting some money from my ex..I would love it !
The only downside of being a single dad...is that you become almost Un-dateable
That's cause you hate your ex!!! I would date a single dad.......why not? As long as his child's mother isn't a nutcase!!!! That's like saying single mothers are undateable!!!
Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
But it's EXTREMELY rare...isn't ?
I think men have a hard time ACCEPTING money from women but there are those that actually request it so who knows? It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!!
I wouldn't have aproblem getting some money from my ex..I would love it !
The only downside of being a single dad...is that you become almost Un-dateable
That's cause you hate your ex!!!
I would date a single dad.......why not? As long as his child's mother isn't a nutcase!!!!
That's like saying single mothers are undateable!!!
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Knock people down at their own expense, they'll take it as a compliment!!!!
Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
But it's EXTREMELY rare...isn't ?
I think men have a hard time ACCEPTING money from women but there are those that actually request it so who knows? It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!!
I wouldn't have aproblem getting some money from my ex..I would love it !
The only downside of being a single dad...is that you become almost Un-dateable
Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
But it's EXTREMELY rare...isn't ?
I think men have a hard time ACCEPTING money from women but there are those that actually request it so who knows? It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!!
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Knock people down at their own expense, they'll take it as a compliment!!!!
Jaime Cruz wrote:I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody? For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself? Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody. k bye
Jaime Cruz wrote: I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody?
For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself?
Discuss
Yes, a father can seek child support and yes if he shares custody.
k bye
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Knock people down at their own expense, they'll take it as a compliment!!!!
I have always heard about mothers seeking child support for their kid/kids from the father. My question is can a father seek child support from a woman/ex-wife if he is left with the child or shares custody?
For the fellas: If so would you seek child support or just financially take care of the child yourself?
30% is alot!!! 
I don't ever get into a situation like this.
It's just nice to know that there are some great men out there who are willing to step up and be a single parent!!! 
Good answer!!! 
